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These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

pls where do you guys found out all men's mind is preoccupied with having numerous chicks and all sorts of ridiculous assumptions?

I haven't chased any lady this year as I'm preoccupied with my hustle and my current GF thinks I'm having side chicks just because I have less time for her these days.

that being said, I still haven't jammed a Nigerian girl buoyant with her money on me. all they all want to do is take take take from you. from the guy's shirts to money. ahn ahn, shey won fi sheyin ni

Michelle55:
Any amount he thinks is fit for the monthly allowance.. He works for the money, he can as well decides to squander it if he chooses but being a responsible husband and father that he is, he brings it home so whatever he gives me as allowance is highly welcome and appreciated.. If its not enough, I'll just add my widow's mite and keep the home front sailing.

There are alot of other things that needs his attention including utility bills, kids school fees, investments etc so it would be best if the woman understands and work to support the family rather than waiting for the man to shoulder all the responsibilities, in case anytime the man couldn't meet up with the family upkeep, the woman can comfortably support the household till he gets back on his feet again.
Its called a marriage/ union for a reason..
For you guys to work together as a complete unit and in partnership for the betterment of the family

you have done well.

your points are very good.

Easybela:
Oga sir, I feel your ignorance. Right from the days of Adam,its the man that suppose to struggle and cater for his family, (he is the provider) while woman struggles in labour room during child birth, those were punishments for Adam's disobedience. Na condition come later make crayfish bend,its condition that made women to hustle and support their husband(its not their duty). The way things are now,its good a woman supports her man but don't abuse her effort or make her feel useless because she's not doing anything.

which labour room?

see you bringing the words of God but couldn't practice what God directed you to do- stay chaste and keep yourself clean.

you mean after dashing your pussies, having your sacred hymens perforated by some random dude, turned a pure hole meant to accommodate clean children into impure filthy place where numerous pricks have swam, and you're here crying blue murder because he wasn't hypnotized by those -he's the provider BS??

lazy entitled oloshos wanting to eat their cake and have it.

nonsense.

Angelacruz:
She cooks,wash,sweep n even give u sex...she does not wat to lose

give sex?? what a load of BS.

isn't the enjoyment both ways? women loves sex as much as men so quit the shitty talk saying "women gives men sex"

I could recall years ago when my GF tried to seduce me after noticing I haven't made a move on her or requested for sex in the early moments of our relationship, i turned her down as she got desperate for prickin, she got mad at me one day and told me bluntly: shey you know I'm a lady? I have sexual needs fulfilled.
I just smiled and in my mind I was like- another olosho on the beat.


now back to the topic: like someone said, 10% of what she earns. and if she earns nothing, she gets nothing from me. simple! she didn't do any work for me and I don't pick money from the ground. for every 10k I give my siblings and mom, she gets 1k.


and all those mumu chores like- washing plates, taking care of the house is a piece of cake for me as I have been doing my thing myself without needing any help.

so if you want a high class man to take you serious, better get busy and show some hustling traits in you otherwise you'd only keep getting passed around from one nigga to another.

which Audio interstate ban? my bro sent a package to me in Minna yesterday through park in lagos, and you're telling me the ban is effective.

lol.. I literally laughed hard after seeing "installmentally"

yanabasee1:
But what are the measures put for prevention and spread of the virus...?


Should children resume school just like that?


Does the FG have enough medicine and hospital beds incase there is an outbreak?


With the growing number of this virus.... Allowing this kids into gathering is risky!!

tertiary institutions needs to open

buttlover:
The first day I had a hard dick was at age 8 to 10 thereabout. I woke up with a hard dick and felt aunty chiamaka touching it with her hand. She is married now with miserable children.

lol.. miserable?? why?

hmnnnnnnn egungun be careful.

Computer/ statistics is not for the faint hearted. you need to tighten your belt and give all you have especially in your first year in school. you need a very good grade in your first year. e get why!.

that being said, you can work as a data analyst in any organization you can think of. it's a good course.

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Naija246:
you guys should STFU abeg
It's only fools that agree to that no sex until marriage bullshit.

If a woman tells you that there won't be a premarital sex, you should also ensure that there is no premarital spending'':::::: Mugabe's quotes

pls don't label anyone a fool just because they're not in line with your point.

God said no sex before marriage, but if you say no and engage yourself in a fuçking spree cos you're looking for the perfect partner, na you Sabi but don't come here trying to make bad things look good.

the words of God should never be undermined.

donbabajay:
Nobody cares but 10k views. OK!

who cares if it's 10k or 1m views?. he was a porn actor according to the source so what? does that justify his killing like a rat?

so far he wasn't a criminal, who gives AF whether he a pörn actor or roadside mechanic?

wintersnow:
Graduated 2015 , studied Geography and environmental management. I didn't really encounter any difficulty with any course.. except
Geomorphology..still scaled through.

good day brother. I'm also currently studying geography in 2H and having a 4. already.

abeg how is the job prospects after graduation? do I need to add any skills before graduation? you know geography ain't a STEM course so I presume it's not gonna be quite easy getting juicy jobs in this line of field.

Oye4u:
I recharge my phone, I get paid, I buy data, I get paid, even subscribe to Dstv and Gotv, I still get bonuses. ASK ME HOW?

Fvck outta here bro

yeanka007:
Burna Boy was wrong to saying that, I think he should let the senseless post rest.

Guys, let's have real talk here.

Davido has a passion for music, no doubt about that but to be candid he should never even be among the top ten artist of all timt if we are talking about real music and talent.

Davido statement is like David Beckham saying he is one of the 5 greatest player of all time, that is childish.

Money really push Davido up there and I must say the guy is really good at spending wisely on media and fans even to the extent of doing philanthropic work publicly (this is method our Politicians used on us here in Nigeria, he is a real son of his father.

In Music today, if the fund is available massively, the work of an artist is cut by 40%, [b][/b]There are many talented artist out there, funds is what is keeping the talent hiding; they can't afford to do music sessions and also lack money for media publicity.

Media publicity is key for any artist that what to be popular, it will cost lots of money and the media controls almost all audience.

Davido statement is an insult to Music for real music listeners.

That been said, I must really commend Davido for his passion and hardwork for his career and Burna Boy should always try and keep shut sometimes if he kept going like this his songs will have less audience as it was 3 years ago though I will still keep listening if he still keep dishing out good music.

when all is said and done, most of your points were offpoint sir.

fact is: anyone can claim to be the biggest artist and I don't expect anyone to feel jealous of that statement.

Zlatan Ibrahimovic can claim to be the goat and heaven won't fall and that wouldn't make CR7 or Messi feel jealous either. everybody na King for him lane, everybody should respect that.

softplace:
well i do web and app dev, email marketing that am very good at

and am good in video animation

nice...

so which area specifically rakes in more money to you? is it the web and app development or the video animation?

cos I'm into graphics design which is currently paying my bills but I want to add to my skills.

I don't know Sha.. I was 5"11 @19 and still measured 5"11 recently. so I guess no.

TheArchangel:
You know nothing John Snow.
A man speaking for a woman is what I detest the most. Stick with your men point of view and preferences please.

In the modern world, being financially independent devoid of marital hassles is the greatest thing ever for women. With it, you have the choice of having kids without any man tagging along. Women can always juggle their careers and kids without the baggages and dramas a man brings.

Marriage has never favoured women from time immemorial. It has always been a man that seek out or ask a woman to marry him never the other way round. Have you ever asked why?

@last paragraph. because he wants kids which can be gotten thru baby mama these days. otherwise women are nothing to men.

I've stayed alone 5yrs without any lady and I noticed I never longed for companionship or got wrecked with loneliness.

I fawking hate it when women overestimate their importance in a man's life.

bluefilm:
Who carried out these studies, biko?
Your argument sounds not only biased but it makes you look stupid as well.
Take your _fucking studies and go _fuck yourself.

LMAO

Baileyz101:
Its like your brain is paining you and you can't comprehend simple English. U can pray keep praying to God to be unfortunate now since u feel fortunate and unfortunate are on par. Nonsense

I don't need a soothsayer to tell me you're an uncouth kid. Raving like a mad dog and replying me with abusive words that I never used on you.

I'm done replying stupid people on this forum.

Baileyz101:
While the wealth of some will also triple. In his infinite mercy God should always put us among the fortunate ones

and what makes you think you're better than the unfortunate ones??
are you forgetting it's same God that created all of us?

God cannot be mocked bro.. this your prayer get as e be.

josh123:
And i heard they want to open schools and religious centres

COVID isn't going anytime soon, so Schools should remain locked up? for what?

I commend him on these feats but phds in those Mickey mouse courses? let's not overbloat his intelligence.

thought I would see statistics, electrical engineering, Maths, computer science.

I thought the ND receives 13% derivation for cleanups. what are they doing with the money?

kneehighbootz:
Yet you had no issues taking money from a Nigerian girl.

The only thing worse than hypocrisy is being a shameless online beggar. Bambiala.

oga calm down.

the last paragraph below isn't true. the lady declared she wanted to do giveaway of some amount and he dropped aza.

there's nothing wrong in that as I don't see it as begging.

so if pesin wan dash me money make I reject am?

NnamdiN:
the part where he scolded the mum vex me ehn. Shame wont let me post something like this in public

lol.. as in. hope the first three pages of the thread make him grow sense and be a man.

he thought only paying bills is what makes a man. him never grow atall.

NnamdiN:
Wait. You're seriously considering marrying that girl? You cant even talk to me anyhow let alone my mother Men una dey try sha oga apologize to your mother and quit that toxic relationship

thank you very much sir.. I can't even allow you see me finish no matter what. I don't give room for unhealthy characters towards me talk more my family people.

@OP, I pray you get sense soon enough and start a new relationship with a new lady as this your current one is no fit at all. if I was your friend and all these happened in my presence, I'd rebuke you and your silly GF in your mom's presence. no sense at all.

thank God I always keep people with sense as friends.

Thomthom:
Bros ur poverty Na original one ooo.. school cloth take go work

lol.. that one even fair small. baba I don see poverty and it got to a point where shame no dey enta me again. imagine fine boy of a bricklayer hustling and everyone couldn't even believe my dad was the bricklayer cos I looked way too fresh . dad was fresh too in his younger years from the pictures I've seen but I figured the wahala he faced washed away his cuteness.

went to govt secondary sch cos no money, and my sec school was hell cos I was so ashamed to mingle with some guys cos Dem don see me for cement work before. girls? no even go there cos my crush caught me while working in the neighborhood and I just troway face .

I'm just 5"11 and lanky. but labouring work is not new to me since ive done it a million times years back while goin to sites with my dad till I turned 21.

I doubt I can still carry a bag of cement since its been at least 5 years I last hustled as a labourer.
but one thing I noticed back then was that it made me strong physically despite my lanky frame. Everytime I changed outfits to work in a new site, fellow labourers will always laugh at me saying what can you do? you no get power . I and my dad would just laugh.

when jungle mature finish and I displayed my dexterity with the shovel when mixing cement or transferring double blocks at a go to the top of the deck, Dem just keep kwayet .

now I'm very happy I went thru all those early hassles and suffering as life's burdens is no longer alien to me. Took me a while to understand that being a man is no child's play and it takes a lot of sacrifice and zeal to sail through the storms of life.