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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 25, 2015
starlingbawa:


You re kidding right? smiley

Nope.I don't "kid" when I'm serious.
The equation needs to be balanced. If he was hungry and got food, why can't she eat as well when she see a need to? smiley
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:52pm On Aug 25, 2015
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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:52pm On Aug 25, 2015
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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:52pm On Aug 25, 2015
Dotwillis1:
who left the cage opened? undecided

Who loosened your restraints? wink
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:53pm On Aug 25, 2015
Bobskylo, why?
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Larryjay4u: 2:53pm On Aug 25, 2015
I still believe it is not right to call off the relationship without hearing her out. Also nothing bad in discussing the issue with her mother especially and see the family's reaction from there. Guy, marriage is a completely different world and if some of you outside marriage hear what those happy looking couples manage behind the scene you will run. So learn to handle difficult issues now before you marry. I am not saying you must marry her but give her the benefit of doubt to explain herself so that you can learn from it.

I reƀlly wish I have the power to read minds,in the other sense of it!she might do the worst later and when u complain out people would abuse u that u were bn stupid for allowing her into your life again. bro thanks sha[/quote]

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:56pm On Aug 25, 2015
See Oga .Wife and husband material dey scarce for nigeria now.Hold the one wey you fit control. grin

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 2:57pm On Aug 25, 2015
mikketech:
doing the do like? Not there to satisfy her sexually? Please watch what you say. 90% of women can't desist them selves from sexual seduction. They all fall victim of such. Moreover who knows if the guy performs well at all in bed. I think it's part of doin the do you just mentioned

Lolz,no go there!even before It happened,I still had my 4 rounds of winning(through every nook and cranny of her arena) and am not bad,am cool and handsome too!weti she want again.
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:57pm On Aug 25, 2015
issylarry:


Its really the best!let's keep deceiving our selves.
take or leave it

i v dated close to 46 girls ( excluding nyt stand wich r numerously uncountable) so i tink am tired of dem n v bin on my own close to ova a yr n half nw

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:57pm On Aug 25, 2015
oreos:


Don't be a dummy undecided. Many women of those days cheated on their spouses. Cheating is not a new trend, it is as old as sex itself
I ONCE TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE JUST LIKE ME.

SO LET HIM ACCEPT IT LIKE NORMAL THING undecided

PLS ARGUING WITH YOU IS LIKE GOING AGAINST MYSELF.

JUST LET IT BE
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:57pm On Aug 25, 2015
But na wa to the babe oo.She know know how to delete messages? That's why I hate what app and bbm. Better to call.
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by timilehing(m): 2:58pm On Aug 25, 2015
oreos:

Biitches as in your mum and your female siblings, right?cheesy
Are you insane undecided
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by adjoviomole(m): 2:58pm On Aug 25, 2015
Its surprising seeing all this guys saying break up,when most of you are the major catalyst in issues like dis.@ op if you truly love her as in true love, then you will forgive her and move on. But its your choice anyway,decent guys and decent girls are hard to find. The ones left (decent) are already changing too. Goodluck mr

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:59pm On Aug 25, 2015
sonofananimal:
I ONCE TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE JUST LIKE ME.

SO LET HIM ACCEPT IT LIKE NORMAL THING undecided

PLS ARGUING WITH YOU IS LIKE GOING AGAINST MYSELF.

JUST LET IT BE

I hope you realise that's my monicker too? undecided
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 2:59pm On Aug 25, 2015
timilehing:
Are you insane undecided

Are you ma.d? cool
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by lawrenzojacuzzi(m): 2:59pm On Aug 25, 2015
The truth about the matter is that God loves you, that's why you found out. The greatest desease that can kill a man emotionally, psychologically and physically, is infidelity. Please do forgive her, let her family know the bitter TRUTH, then move on with your life. Don't even think of marrying her, to avoid developing high blood pressure

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Aug 25, 2015
EggovinMma:


I hope you realise that's my monicker too? undecided

grin
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Aug 25, 2015
timilehing:
Are you insane undecided

ANSWER THE QUESTION wink
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Aug 25, 2015
EggovinMma:


I hope you realise that's my monicker too? undecided
insidous.


I OBSERVE PEOPLE BASE ON THERE WRITTEN
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:01pm On Aug 25, 2015
oreos:


grin

A d I thought the battery is almost dead. Don't worry I will soon charge you wink
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 3:03pm On Aug 25, 2015
oreos:


Don't be a dummy undecided. Many women of those days cheated on their spouses. Cheating is not a new trend, it is as old as sex itself

So does that mean the ministry should keep moving?
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:03pm On Aug 25, 2015
248 Nairalanders reading n commenting (ghost readers inclusive) with 249 guests ( hidden ghost readers..


lolssss
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:03pm On Aug 25, 2015
sonofananimal:
insidous


You will never know...
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by hollowpot15684(m): 3:03pm On Aug 25, 2015
If I were u, I will impregnate her and disappear.
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Objonnas: 3:03pm On Aug 25, 2015
This is pretty touching but distance should never be blamed for the cracks in this relationship besides, Lagos and Ibadan is not much of a distance. I had a distance relationship for over 5 years and now i am married to the woman i love somuch. She works with UNN in Enugu and i work with an Ad agency in Lagos, yet we keep communication as a priority and always made sure we managed our issues maturedly. We just got married this year and we are expecting our first baby in a months time. The honest truth is that even if you were close to the lady (in Ibadan) she still would have cheated on you because what you had was not real. Distance is a true test to true love and ones you can manage it you can manage any issue in a relationship, distance is not an excuse to cheat. Whenever i feel like being close to my girl i would take a flight to Enugu that weekend and if i could not afford a flight, i would enter a night bus, my girl saw these sacrifices and willingly gave me her virginity. My advice to you is simple dont breakup with her becasue she cheated on you, if you still love her give her another chance. Build on your mistakes to create a great relationship, yes there would be issues of trust now, but if you can forgive her, i bet you that act would make her love you even more. But if you feel you will never be able to love again dont take it up on the next lady you get into a relationship with. True love can be found but you need to be able to sacrifise to make it strong. I intend to resign from my job here in Lagos and join my family in Enugu hopefully i get a good job there but, the distance my wife bared during our dating period is over and intend to give her the best love in the world as her husband.

Cheers,

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:04pm On Aug 25, 2015
issylarry:


So does that mean the ministry should keep moving?

Nope.it means what's good for the goose may be good for the ganja

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by kmagnifico(m): 3:04pm On Aug 25, 2015
Hmmmmm. This is serious I don't know what is in our girl mind... mine is better shea. am so happy to be in love
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:05pm On Aug 25, 2015
Do not dump this girl. She maybe the best thing that would happen to your life. The devil you know is better than angel u know not. One Kobo for u. Love bears all things.

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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by starlingbawa(m): 3:05pm On Aug 25, 2015
EggovinMma:


Nope.I don't "kid" when I'm serious.
The equation needs to be balanced. If he was hungry and got food, why can't she eat as well when she see a need to? smiley

I can only say character and attitude vary from one individual to another....

Enjoy the rest of your day friend!
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:05pm On Aug 25, 2015
EggovinMma:


You will never know...
SO YOU SAID
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 3:07pm On Aug 25, 2015
EggovinMma:

Nope.it means what's good for the goose may be good for the ganja
Hmmm,lolz
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Chelseafan1: 3:08pm On Aug 25, 2015
Keneking:
First and foremost, I need to highlight some of the misconstructions in your story.

1. In T(t)he course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction.

2. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, (i) have been so(not necessary) faithful to her(you all know what (i) am talking about).

3. On the 16th of a(A)ug(.), (delete), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on w(W)ednesday, I checked-in (in)delete a guest house closer to her house.

4. I was so happy been being around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn (what nonsense is this?), I thought I owned her.

Nonsense write-up!!! Too many grammatical errors undecided

Are you related to Faka Jonathan?

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