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How I wished I can be like him

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

Brendaniel:
No worry, no be abuse, I don't like abusing people, but it is like an Igbo saying, if you have an Igbo friend, he will tell you, google translate will give you errors...

even me a no dey abuse person unless u abuse me..

And I don't tink u re even Igbo, if u re igbo then u re not a core Igbo(maybe because u lives in yorubaland sha)

All the Igbos are know here are always quick to turn just little argument to insults, before u know they start insulting Ur parents, u will be amazed, you will be asking ursef who raised this kind of people..

I was expecting u to have turned it to insult, especially when I was talking about being happy that u re oppressed but u keep Ur calm, u re truly a bonafide omoluabi, yorubas will like to have people like u around...kudos


Pls don't go to Ur area ooh, and don't let Ur offsprings live there else they turn dem to elders-insulting-agents.

Brendaniel:
O ge me gi vuum Nanya...

Ahahahah

Asiri gbakute


A no understand WETIN u write sha

EgwunsoDOTcom:
Maybe you're really under the influence of some fake preacher that you're relying on. I had similar experience with a certain fellowship like that, God had to strict things up a bit for me to move away from them. I didn't waste my time, I ran as my legs can carry me and behold, things returned back to normal. Just adopt a very sensitive life, because sometimes Hardships is a way God speaks.
God is so mysterious, if I tell you I understand HIS ways totally, then I'm calling myself a liar. Sometimes I laugh when I see pastors who claims to understand every move about God , it's a spiritual sickness, and I wonder who can cure them.

I have never subjected myself to anybody..seems u don't know me, my hrt is like a stone.

Well, every Israelis will go to their tent anyways sha..

But WETIN I know be say..if life wan fvck person na two minutes

Ask Job, Samson, Solomon, David, Hosea wey marry ashewo, Judah, Elisha wey no get successor, Adam, Paul, Saul, Easy, Isaac wey carry him tribe go suffer for Egypt.


Life can be unpredictable, life circumstances doesn't respect faith, infact, life dey always happy to frustrate those who are faithful..

Brendaniel:
He who laughs last laughs best, each day I wake up and I see evil(Tinubu) going down and see good (Peter Obi) going up I feel excited that finally our efforts are yielding results ...

lol, effort wey Yoruba demons go frustrate

I will hug u laslas

Brendaniel:
You see why Tinubu will fail, read your statement again and see why...

lol, let him fail first

But I love the oppression

Brendaniel:
My happiness is that Tinubu's Political Journey ends in 2023 and an IGBO man will be your president by then, so all these hatred means nothing....

My happiness is that no Peter Obi will smell the seat

Its either yoruba or abokki as usual


Even if Peter wan near there dem go rig am out

U know what, if Peter Obi lose honourably e go pain me, I want him to win but rigged out

I want the continuity of the oppression

EgwunsoDOTcom:
I don't know about you but one thing I know is that 'life was f*ucking with me till I became Born-Again, I don't mean just going to church but totally staying away from SIN, (Maybe God himself needed to teach me something), sometimes hardship happens for a reason, maybe to make you find Love In Christ Jesus.
Right now in my life - Just like blind bartimaeus said "Before I was blind but now I can see" the same is my testimony about Christ, "Before I was damn poor but now I lack nothing", so I don't know about you.
I don't know how it happened but it happened, so I think you should do the same. There's nothing to lose, and it's very bad for a young to be forming before he goes to Church (I mean good Church that teaches of righteousness), I think ur unbelieve is why you're panicking about life.
For your notice: I was an anti-Christ for 7-good-years (I mean the staunch ones), I can't remember how many souls I convinced to fight Christ, but now seeing the tremendous changes in my life, sometimes I cry when I remember my past.
My brother stop wasting ur year in vain, maybe God has a package for you but you're still living in unbelieve (you're still forming hard to get , I pray you receive ur senses back and on time too.. I haven't seen old men returning to Christ when they have useless their youthful age in the world, it's a very shameful sight.

Well, I found the power of God when I lost my faith in Him(I am not saying it's good to lose faith in God)

I am not saying I was a saint (no one is without blemish, even u) but before I used to be fervent in my own little way. I pray, read bible, fast, and all,

Well, thins were in disorder, I didn't know why, unknown forces playing chess with me during sleep or day tym, started experiencing hardluck everywhere

In 2019 I lost everything in me, every damn faith I was having was lost, lost my belief in prayer and waking up, go to work and go back to sleep.

I later left my comfort zone and moved to an unknown area far away from my region...and boom.

Now today non of my mate can push me behind, I have my family here and my job, even as little as it is, millionaire is a millionaire... glory be to God for that.


So now, how can one pastor convince me that prayer answers, how can u tell me that vigil are effective??

When I was doing prayers and vigil, nothing show, was depressed. And when I became a freethinker..boom, God showed me that He's still the Master on the throne.

Brendaniel:
And why Abuja and not Ondo, it's pointless, it's clear you have nothing to support Tinubu's tyranny in Laos

Lol, Abuja is in the northern zone...

Lagos is in the SW zone abi

Now over Nigeria dead body will we have a SE national capital

Lagos had it for 77years, Abuja is currently on the throne.. and that is all for now, SE?? Forget, e no fit reach that side

Should I tell u the fact?? If truly u guys are marginalized, them I am happy at least we have a slave

Just pay Ur money to tinubu pocket in peace..pay ooh to avoid been hacked by a broken bottle



See the pics I put below eehn, in my own case I support the oppressor

Brendaniel:
you see, Lagos you guys are bragging with was state capital for 77 years, that is still older than Nigeria presently, just imagine Abuja development been claimed by Gbagyi people when the development was a contribution of all tribes and other state resources, Before Tinubu was governor, Lagos was already developed and I was living in Lagos...

so why Lagos and not Ur state

Oga no kill ursef ooh, pls don't change Ur moniker after February election ooh, cus we need to get close to u and give u word of motivation

Who God has blessed no man can curse

If u want to live in Lagos do so and make sure u keep paying Baba tinubu money, else u re in soup

Don't forget that Ur sons and daughters will still pay tinubu money, or even if he has died by den(e no go even die) his successor will keep collecting the money and u must pay

EgwunsoDOTcom:
You see ur level of maturity?
Does being a pastor makes someone a child of God? Or you think Jesus Christ know every pastor? I don't blame you, keep looking onto pastor and allow them wreck ur life.
You haven't seen pastor sleeping with people's wives and small children and you think they are serving God. The scripture says "In the end time many evil ones will enter the church and parade themselves as angels of light, and will deceive many," I think they have fooled you already.
"My people perish for lack of knowledge". I don't have a single time to waste with you. Go and keep serving ur pastors and at the end, you will join them in Hell Fire

Alaye calm down

Who have tym for pastor
Do I even believe they are superhumans?? Lol

Make I shock u, a no too dey go church. But God dey listen to my supplications (tho a no too believe)

A no dey go vigil, or pray, cus I have little faith in prayers..

Even my parent are praying to God to just touch my heart and be going to church every Sunday (just like I used to do when I was growing up)

See Oga, a no believe in this current dispensation churches not to talk about pastors wey no fit perform single miracle like we were told they used to do in the Bible.



What I am trying to tell u Is that no matter Ur fate, if life wan fvck u e go still fvck u, infact, e go r@pe u

christistruth01:
It costs over $50 Million to build a kilometer of Light Railway the line is 27 km long do your Calculations


If it costs only $182 Million how come your State Governor hasn't built you one to your Village?

He's not even in his state

His state is not livable

Brendaniel:
I have been to my state maybe 4 times max in my life till date, my dad was a FG worker and we lived in Lagos, I have little business with my state for now, I schooled in UNILAG and I run things from Lagos, Tinubu is too crooked and has so may cases both local and international hanged on him, Lagos is choking under him, my happiness is he will soon be retired from politics from 2023 and my joy is that I was part of the people ho joined in taking out a wicked, selfish and greedy politician who has suffered a lot of people in Nigeria because of his selfish ambition, everyday you can see that our work is not in vain, it is progressive everyday....

That means ur state is not even livable

It will never be well with the administration that made Ur state a non livable state to its natives


Lol, so who do u want in power??

EgwunsoDOTcom:
Did I say you won't see tribulations? I don't have time to argue.
You're free to live ur life the way you want and stop complaining.
Whether you wanna live right and accept HIM or not, it won't remove any dust off the earth, regards.

No one is interested in engaging in argument with you sir.

Here I am just talking about random life experiences na u carry Jesus enter the argument.

There are many pastors that are barren while the harlots with many abortions are shitting out babies like factory

There are many pastors living in penury while the freethinkers are doing legit work and wallowing in money

Many pastors children are turning to community harlots whereas daughters of the drunkard are well cultured..

Alaye gbagbe fucking..life no balance.

Brendaniel:
This one we are discussing about is one already, if it was not we will not be having this discussion in the first place...

den u don't have a concrete argument to begin with..

I sense hatred from Ur words.

How can u say because some people doesn't want someone to be president and because of that is a bad person??

Is everyone supporting Peter Obi? Can we now say because some people are critisizing him he's not fit to be among humans?? Lol.

If I may ask, when tinubu was the governor of Lagos state, who was Ur governor in ur state?? Can u compare their achievements??

Even beyond that, those that tinubu has installed as his successors, can u compare their achievements with the subsequent governors that has graced Ur state topmost seat??

Just sufree hate ok?? If God wan do am now make tinubu con go enter, WETIN u go do??


Well, I have one advice for u, I will advise u keep on paying the money to Lagos government to embezzle while u keep on prospering or u take the exit door to Ur region till tinubu leave the picture, so u can come back later.


I don't like people who are filled with hate. Tinubu this tinubu that, as if tinubu is holding u guys not to go about ur daily business.

EgwunsoDOTcom:
Having JESUS CHRIST Is a Spiritual affair and it's not visible to the physical eyes. One thing I will never forget in life is how my life was turned around by HIM.
What did I Do?
1. Started praying twice a day (12am-midnight compulsory). Spend 20mins of each prayer session, and take ur time to explain things to CHRIST - HE is your FATHER, just don't rush words.
2. Starting spending more time with the scripture (Half of the man's problems are written there, but we are too lazy to read)
3. Trying as much as you could to avoid SIN (Works like magic) .. When CHRIST sees your efforts on this, HE will know that for sure, you really need an answer.
4. Look for a good fellowship unit/Church (Most Churches are fake, so don't come back arguing why God allowed them to operate. I only attend Churches with sound teachings on RIGHTEOUSNESS, not just prosperity bullshit - when you depart from SIN, why won't God prosper you?) SO YOU SHALL KNOW THEM BY THEIR FRUITS - BEWARE
* These 4 tips brought my testimony and turned things around for me.

JESUS CHRIST IS ALIVE AND WILL FOREVER BE ... SEEK HIM NOW THAT YOU CAN.

So people wey follow Jesus no dey face wahala abi??

If person wey dey follow Jesus dey see shege na una go still come, come dey quote bible that..

"In the world yee shall see tribulations, but be happy cus He has conquered the world"

No be so?

ken6488:
if you can’t allow Igbo rule let them go

Sorry

They won't rule, and we won't let them go as well.. is that too hard to comprehend??

NaijaRoyalty:
You're the next president insha Allah

Princeoflagos don change to Muslim

Ok

Watch as calabar becomes a no man's land in the nearest future

God1000:
Why does Tinubu keep running away from such important engagement?

What is he telling us?

Is it Ur run??

The best u can do is not to vote for him..lobatan

Brendaniel:
Let him remove his hands from Politics, his intentions are selfish, If he does Nigeria and Lagos will breathe fresh air, but the truth is he will not and as long as he will not, I will not stop also, they say evil thrives when good people do nothing, I know I am not alone in this and as many as we are, we will continue till force him out, either through the ballot or media like I am doing...

Something I've learnt is, if you do not stop a man, A man might not stop, Hitler would have wiped out the entire Jews if he was not stopped, same with Shekau killing people and so on, if people do not stop them, they will grow to become giant monsters that will become harder to stop, Imagine if Tinubu becomes president with this same attitude at the federal level...

Pls can u give me some scenarios to prove Ur allegation on him?

Just some of his undoings

Brendaniel:
Before Tinubu became governor I have been living in Lagos and it will not be because of him I will run away from Lagos, but I will continue to speak about the evil he has been doing in Lagos since he became governor and has become a god-father of governors because it concerns me, Lagos does not belong to him, it belongs to all of us, before he was governor I was in Lagos....

Hmm

U re right.. sorry for the harsh treatment by tinumbu bro, all these will pass away.

So if I may ask sir, what do u really want now?? Tinubu should vacate Lagos or should stop bn a politician, or what?

EgwunsoDOTcom:
If you don't have JESUS CHRIST in this life, bro you are just a big time LOSER.. I don't mean being a Church goer, I mean having a personal relationship with HIM outside church or any other circle (It must be personal).

U re right


Pls can u tell me the sign to look out for in those that have Jesus?? What are d signs sir

Brendaniel:
Because I live in Lagos and I pay taxes to Lagos, I am paying for something that some people have stolen, why should I not be concerned?

ooh, well, am sorry for Ur loss then

Maybe u should kuku vacate the state for them and relocate to somewhere better where ur money will be spent well by the government

Chiiamaka:
Have they fixed the roads ? Ordinary Berger to sango they haven’t done the road it’s railroad that’s the next halfway project they want to embark on.

Can u now rest, dey will fix it

Brendaniel:
It is not just about building it, but at what cost, Lagos lied about their cost of building the blue rail and stole over 1 billion dollars for a job of 182 million dollars, then they will tax the people to pay back over 1 biilion dollars loan with interest that was stolen by Tinubu and his cronies...

When will the people get the real benefits of good governance - OBIDATTI 2023

why do u want to kill ursef about how much Lagos spent on project??

Either dey lie or not how e take concern u

Do Ur campaign in peace and no kill yasef

Peery:
ok we don hear

sorry bro

marceeesty:
I won't want to say it is very easy even though it is, just concentrate on packing all that is needed in your head first and watch how work will be asking if there are indeed ppl out there to do it.

Aahh

I swear u raise my morale with this statement.. so which mean no matter how bad it is, if I understand what I am bn taught there is high probability that I will secure job.

marceeesty:
Hmmmm, ALX is very good bro. I didn't know I was learning something till I started on my own and also when I got my first contract. Try as much as you can to have peers in ur cohort you share ideas with.

ok bro

Pls how easy, or how soon it is to get a job, if peradventure I complete my learning??

marceeesty:
I was a Network Staff, I didn't have anything tech skill except for Network hub management which is almost out of the "tech" definition. I started with ALX and diverted to my own lesrning after 4 months.

bro pls how did ALX help u?? I am currently running their program but I am still having doubt about them

marceeesty:
I get, I just did justice to that. I first learnt C then python, but that wasn't my plan, as I just wanted to be "incharge of systems" finally Javascript.

ooh

This is the kind of success stories I want to be hearing..

Which means within a year if one know what he's doing he can learn and get a job in IT careers...

pacificom:
I am a lagosian and bear in mind that it is the public money that the government uses in building infrastructure. So stop reasoning like a dickhead.

lol, a scavenger turned lagosian..

No go back to Ur ugwulewi village.

Public money,lol, Ur money dey there?

The public money in ur region, pls how has the government justified it's usage??

Leave lagos to do their tin abeg, they are far ahead of every other state, no be u wet just come like five years back go tell them wat to do with public money.


Dem sabi use public money well for Ur region na hin u forget home?? Con dey claim another man's land?

Den sabi use public money for Ur region na hin u leave there turn Lagos to home??

Get sense ...