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History!

If you know this Guy well, you should know that he is capable of anything!

I don't think this guy is dead. Guys open your eyes. this is just to silence the scam news that is spreading fast. It just a way to make you guys shut up! This NAIJA!

DIE KO ,`OKU NI

It really is a sign of direspect but depending on certain conditions. let me use my experience as an example. In August 2009, I invited my ex-girl friend to Benin City, an she ask me to get her meat pie which I did but on my way back, she was with another guy. she did not tell me who the guy was but the way I saw them, I knew there was a connection between them, her ex. but what happened? the guy took her out before I could drop the meat pie and come back to the spot where I had left them. And this around 8 p.m. she did not come back until after 10. what can you make out of that?

That shows that she has no control. due to that and some other acts of hers, i had to end every thing.

As james1 said "it take's a woman with great mental capacity to unearth a guy with potential's."

This was what my ex could not get right. I am a very focus person but she was expecting me to tell her my plans. I never did. I wanted her to see it by herself. I don't like the idea of telling a girl my plans because she could only love me because she feels that I have got a bright future

Even though I had not made much money, I know where I was going and in the middle of this I tried to help as much as I could with money,yet the idiot felt I was a never-do-well. If I had told her my plans she would still be with me by now but I am glad that I did not tell her that I have a sister oversea who is planning my travel out of naija. I am glad I did not tell her that I was studying Petroleum Engineering, which means when I grad. I am made if I happen to get a job and so many other things.

Most girls,majorly very lazy naija chicks and can not work, expects guys to tell their plans and in which case, the BAD BOYS tell them bunch of lies which they fall for.

hisssss!

Up till now , if I ask the babe if we can date she will only say that we can be friends. but each time she is at her cousin's house which is not far from mine, she would flash me and expecting me to call her and then tell she is at her cousin's place.

Just yesterday, she said that she does not love me but she likes me in the presence of her cousin( my friend) and then she quickly held my hands in hers with a smile.

But as she was going back home she turn to look at me and said that I should call her.

I am still confused about all this, but her cousin said that he knows that she hers even accepted to date me but that I am not seeing it. Maybe its because I am got into this dating things late in my years because I started dating at 23 and at present I have only dated 2 girl( both were just after money that they got from me ,even though I was doing it because I knew that they needed help)

Guys what do you say that I do?

Well going by the attitude i got from them, the not too pretty chick listen to me when I talk and obeys me but the pretty one seem to know it all and can be very lousy most times. she does not really care about me. My major disappointment was that I did not realized this on time

guy what do you do in a case like this, if you have two girls

Frankly speaking, giving money to a girl is not my priority any more and if you are giving any girl money, do it wisely especially if you are not sure of marrying her.

A lot of guys who give girls money hardly give to their fellow man when he needs help. This is VERY, VERY WRONG! and this is the trend in Nigeria!

A lot of guys who give out money to their GF do not even know if the girl is in love with them or the money, which is another rounds of foolishness. The wise thing to do is to invest your money for the future. Most of my Nigerian brothers go broke because they want show off to their Gf--foolishness with bliss! Most of this guys do not even know one thing about INVESTMENT, yet they want to be rich. They dream of becoming the next big guy in town. but do they know that money given to GF (WHO IS JUST A PASSER-BY) is worth multiple ROI in the future? NO. BIG TIME DUMMIES! Hence, future wife and children suffer because the head of the family only planned for GF but not for future wife and children.

When you give money to a girl or lady that you are dating, why are you doing it? Is it because you are dating her or because you know she needs it ? There is a difference between this two.

I used to give my ex money because I was trying to understand her situation and because I knew she needed it. But at one point, she started acting as if it is a must that I give her money because I am dating her and to me, I dont like it that way. this was because it makes me feel as if she is selling herself to me. But like I said, this is the trend in Nigeria.

And to most people who may not know 2sexy, I dont follow crowd. I dont allow them influence my decision , hence I dont give girl money because I am dating her. I will only give to girl whom I know would do the same for me.

Bro, I had heartbreak that almost ruined me. She based her change of attitude on money. though I did for her when i could but some how along the line , i had s series of problem both financially and otherwise. there are many more things

Currently, I am not into any relationship but most people do not know why they are and therefore do not hope to get into something real for themselves.

Why are you into a relationship? It is best we define it now or get blown away

Don Xavi:
Women sometimes try to see how serious a guy is by pretending at the begining and at the same time trying to show the guy they're not the easy meat type, even though they feel for the guy. their real feelings begins to be evident when they start dicovering that the guy is a kind of retroceding, and for them not to lose the guy at that point in time they're forced to show all those reserved feelings at once which to the guy, he'll be like Gud damn what's going on? ,

That is what I thought.

This post was made in 2009 but I never carried out the plans as lay out here. I have since not dated any girl uptill now and have made it to the point of building my future.

yeah that is right. I know she will give me a try but just want to be sure if I am serious

abi oooh

guys, stop making me laff

So many things in life have rules and if not abide, it hurt. I believe this is the major cause of problem in our dating life.

So guys, what are the rules and please give comment based on your experience

ceasyc:
dont know bout other gals but as 4 me if i hide my feelings according to your story then its because i got a bf n i dont wanna cheat so i'll put u/me off

if i dont have a bf then i aint gonna just pour everytin out immediately, i gats to check u out 1st = r u genuine/trust worthy/playa/wot r your true intentions, etc? dats not playing hard to get

it cud also b dat i wasnt feeling u at d beginning but then started having feelings 4 u later, so showing it later dont mean i was playing hard to get/i was hiding my feelings

anytin else? cant think of more right now - dis muzik is blazing jo

Well, thanks. I dont know why I said this to her. I said if she does not want to date me, she should just tell me and her reply was ,did I tell you I WAS GOING TO DATE YOU? I just keep loving her.

Inky, it has to do with education I just need you to help me get certain information and I dont know the requirement. I am talking about API. AMERICAN pETROLEUM INSTITUTE. I do have bro in U.S but he would not want to help. I will tell you more about him later. Why not mail me at doyen2fine@gmail.com . Please , I need this.

Inked nerd,I have been wanting to say for a long time,I love you,gabry and sisterwoman(she does not come around much) Your thoughtful contribution have been awesome. Just know that I ,jideofor Igbelina,love you. Keep the fire burning. But let me quickly say that this three wonderful ladies are not based in Nigeria and that is why they have a high acumen. You like to advice people ,which is good.

Before anybody would say anything, the reason I am saying all this is that I made a post some last month and the way I crafted the post was really confusing to people and as a result of that, people( My Nigerian Brothers) where posting wrong reply and calling me names. Why? They just dont understand the content of what I posted. If it were an exam, so many people could have failed woefully.

Inked nerd was the only person who understood what I wrote. This goes a long way to reveal how poorly our educational system have become. I am sorry to say this, but to me, that is what it is.

Side Note;Inked Nerd, I need your help on something but I dont know what medium would be appropriate for communication.

I just keep loving her, though she keeps acting as if she has not agreed to date me. i know she is just trying to know me better.

Inked_Nerd:
She seems like she might be playing hard to get. . . But ummm, why would you want her if you know she's with someone else? The same thing she's doing her boyfriend, what's to stop her from doing the same thing to you if you two get together?

Nope. she doesnt have. she was probably using that to test me. That is Naija babe for you

There is this girl who I met at a friends house,a cousin of his. On two occasion, we met by coincidence and after which, I traveled. when i came back she had travel to lagos. I had to collect her number from my friend and started work-wooing her on phone. she was acting as if she was not interested and she kept telling me that she has a guy,but she never stopped ringing me.

But along the line we had a little mis-understanding and I did not call her for about a month and that was as a result of her phone being stolen.

Starting from last 2 weeks, we started from where we stopped and then I asked her to come and see me at my house but she prefered her cousin's. She came but I could not see her due to time management.

Then this week she asked me to come to her house and I did but met her absence. I had to leave with my friend(her cousin)

On that same day, I called her on phone later in the day and she asked me to come and see,even when i had told her that it was getting dark. She insisted that I come to her house and the way she sounded on phone made me curious so I went to her house.

THE DRAMA,

On getting there, I waited at a corner just a few centimeter from the gate to her house. When she came out, our eyes met and we both smiled at the gaze. I turned my back to her and when I turned around to look,as she was approaching me, she started running towards me and before I knew what would happen, she grabbed me and gave me, a , warm hug and held me close so close. the forcae almost landed both of us on the ground. I was just wondering what was happening because I never expected her to act that way. then she looked at me in the eyes and held me again,

I then asked: Why you just jump for my body like that? I dey miss you was her reply.

Wow! Tina, miss me? I guess I must be dreaming
Though I liked it but I was really surprised because all along, before then, she was just acting as if she had no feelings for me.

Anyway, we both walked to her cousin's house and when we got there, both of them started having a kind of childish play and her face was just beaming with excitement. Not long afterward, I had to walk her back home.

I went back to her cousin's house and the cousin said: jide,i don see something oooh. I asked what is it? he said: Tina, like you.

Wow! a double confirmation.

Why do girls hide their feeling?