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Tai2 can I have your email please? cos this girl that dealt with me wants me back. i KNOW she has been with other guy who she finally realized that they just s3x with her and then she remembered that I never treated her that way and also hoping that we would settle down, FOR WHERE? That will never happen. Even if I go back it is just go back and eat what she initially refused to give me then I move on.

well said! tai2, you are a genius. I had a similar experience in 2009 and the girl got deflowered by another guy, She did another nasty thing in my present and I ended it all.

Today? I am learning to control my emotion in between this thing called LOVE,DATING,ROMANCE, I LOVE YOU AND WHAT HAVE YOU! It all irritates me now.

I wonder if any girl ever feel that thing called love from me. gosh! this girl KILLED everything inside me such that when i see girls this days, I smile, knowing that very soon they will be kissing my feet

LAZINESS ,LAZINESS, AND LIABILITY IS JUST WHAT NIGERIAN GIRLS HAVE TURNED TO BE. That is why they want quick money and would do anything to have the money,including s3x

It is obvious that we have had our share of heart break

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Dear Friends,
Dating is a wilderness of uncertainty and we have,at one point the other, made mistakes.
What were those mistake you made and what did you learn from it?
How did you over come them as well and what advice do you have for other folks?


my mistake was starting a relationship by spending money.
Involving in a long distant relationship
showing too much love on her
Acting as if I have no choice,

Never do any of the above, if you are to find true love

Dear Nairalander,
I am interested in writing but i dont know how to trade this skill. I understand that people get paid for writing but i dont know the steps to take.
I know how to research on topics but i want to trade this skill for cash offline.
Please i need advise so that i can raise money for my schooling before November.
How can i get people that i can write books for by gostwriting for them?

I need contacts of Nigerian publishers who will buy manuscripts of childrens books

I also want to write for Newspapers and Magazine,how do i contact them?

Lastly,how do i get people to buy movie scripts?
Help in any of this areas will be greatly appreciated
Thank You!

As others have said, go out and have fun,possibly weekends.
As Nigerian,always respect your man no matter your status ,if otherwise you may end up with no husband,even after marriage.I remember a case whereby a lady,just because she owns the house,when quarrel ensued ,she told her husband that its her house. The man left the and kids.
Dont be in a hurry and forget all this guys droping emails on NL so that you can hook up with them. They already know that you are desperate,trust naija guys,hearing you work in the aviation industry ,you might be the next maga! So go out where you can be spotted. But this those not mean you should start clubing. But you attend wedding,church service ,burial or any social gathering.
You seem to be like some one i love but i am not ready to settle down now because am not ready to settle down. Am just 26!
Having a husband is one thing and living in peace is anothing. Even your beauty cant give you this. I know of a lady,damn beautiful,humble,when she greets her knees touches the ground,a nurse in U.S,with 4kids she stil look like she is in her 20s. The husband stil flirt!

Am just curious because to me,they turn down the wrong guy more often than not.
What's your take in this issue? Please no insult, ACT MATURED

Thanks to those who have contributed positively.I will really appreciate additional tips.
190,learn to add value to people's life.

Thanks sweet doc 247
190,cant you b polite 4once? I know you well but dont make post often. I only read post made by other people and one thing i realised about you is that you rarely say anything reasonable or make you look matured. It is either you insulting sum1 or just making silly statements. I remember u saying u fell in luv with a lady in yakee just because of her accent, You this amensia DUMMY and probably a cross-bred agric chicken being over-fed with milk at age 60. Idiot, I just HATE YOU!

I dont know how to tell a girl i like That i want to date her. Do you just walk up and say it. Its really giving me sleepless night. Please help.

Is it possible for a girl who havent seen you to fall in love with you just by reading your love and romantic text messages ,and not some sort of copied junk?
I ask because there is a girl whom i got her phone number from a friend and we have been chatting for 2 weeks.
I asked if she doesnt mind my txt and she said its nice
i told her that i like to express myself via txt and she said its allowed
i asked if her silence and no reply to all my txt means that we can date but she did not reply a word

I got a girls phone number from a friend and we have been chatting on phone for a week ,though we have not seen each other.
She said is not into any relationship and i ask if we could date and she said its not possible. But what baffles me is that i keep sending her love text but she never complains or ask me to stop. She even said its allowed. Besides,she is willing to come and see me. Could this mean that we might end up dating?

The other part: She has decided to come and see me and problem is that she is a 'butty' and am not. Where to recieve her is my problem. I thought of a friend's house (though i will tell her) but the thought of it did not go down well,beside i hate to lie and claiming what am not. I just like being natural. I dont want to use a fast food joint on a first date cos i dont want to creat an impression of who am not.
Guys help me here cos as they say first impression last long. I no wan fall my hand,