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Tempted to wish women were less scheming, more plain about what mean when they speak; and logical in their thinking processes and reasonable in their expectations, women who are like this are little heavens on earth!

They keep huge secrets (if it was peace sake it would be understandable but as an edge in a relationship even marriage that's why when they "eye" you or scorn at you (God help you) it is precisely from this "edge" they keep for themselves!

The greatest edge women have is that they can observe excellently (what you say, the way you say it, how it sounded, your body language and more are all processed in a billionth of a second) know how to test you without you even knowing it: men players are men who are not only aware of what's up but play along, experts play the same game women play of faking affections, attention

Women are beings who complicate their lives all in the purpose of possessing game and further mystifying their already mysterious nature till they don't know themselves or what truly want!

One thing i find amusing about women is them hating a taste of their own medicine which is being snubbed, refused and rejected.

Every man who wants to be happy while married essentially has to come to an understanding of whom they are. Happy women are women who have found men who have made then know that their lives need not be that complicated, that life can be simple!

^ u r a real glo fan

yorke:
Bros, bros, where u copy am from?

will take that as a complement as i actually composed years back for a girl i was really attracted!

Love, the sound of your voice that I hear.

Love, the sparkle of your eyes so clear,

Love, the scent of your presence when you’re near

Your love, the scarcest thing I have found out there!



Love, the sweetness of your acceptance;

Love, the sourness of your distance;

Love, the security of your remembrance;

Your love, the sense of my existence!



Love, the sincerity that never tries to deceive;

Love, the sympathy that ceases not to forgive;

Love, the supreme gift one could ever receive;

Your love is my soul that I am willing to forever give!



This profession of affection emanated from the deepest recesses of my heart as i thought of You, the singular love of my youth!



Poem written 4:28 p.m, February 2006;

i dug it out from archives to share in the spirit of the celebration of pure Love!

Happy Valentine folks!

A day that is dedicated to love has been hijacked by all all else than love.

Few dare to ask themselves what love is really all about, they are the ones who may be reading this post from their boyfriend's apartment or with their minds already made up to fornicate in the name of Valentine!If you can just think again: happiness is what your heart really seek not pre marital sex no matter how mind blowing you expect it will be may.

Only love can satiate the human heart, but you will need to know what love is to experience to understand what is being said.

Happy Valentine to all who believe in Love

when telecoms elephants fight the "grass" enjoys.
got he text yesterday

farochron:
We will never walk alone. We faced the greatest crisis any team can ever face. from stakeholders' crisis to Manager's to players trying to leave. From the bottom 3 to 6th position. Liverpool remains the most resilient team in the premiership. That is why we are 5 time champion in Europe. We will be back in the champion's league and when we return Barca needs to be prepared. We  might not make it this season but the lesson today is for no team to never write us off because.   WE SHALL NEVER WALK ALONE

On Point! Liverpool has made me proud again

funkee laugh out loud now!

fstranger6:
The next time you respond to my post and you put GOD or Jesus anywhere in your reply, I will personally 'gbebo' because of you and i will add to that by cursing you out in the unclothed for seven days.

May you and your God perish in circle 8 of Dante's inferno!

Funny and sad that finite and created human beings can loathe the only thing that can bring happiness to their finite hearts, that is insatiable by infinite measure of finite things (bite this if you can). YOU are like the little bird (the size of the hummingbird the world's smallest bird) that Chinua achebe wrote of in one his classics, who challenged his chi(personal god) to a fight after a full belly. an ant daring an elephant does not even describe, what a human being does when he deliberately ignores his maker. GOD. now go and gebo and go unclothed for seven days. am too protected for your likes!

fstranger6:
Do you think God has time for shyyt like this

There is more than one million planes in the air throughout the world at any given time, more than a billion cars on the road, more than 100,000 houses burning, more than 500000 women trying to give birth, more than 100000 high risk surgeries, wars in Iraq, Afghanistan, protests in Tunisia, Egypt, asteroids coming our way and a host of other things requiring God attention, and you think God's would have time for her when she put herself in that men.

Why do you ask for God's help for something you can do yourself, do you think she is the only one with problems. Leave God out of this matter ok! Let her solve her own problem and if she cant, she doesn't deserve to live.

God operates like one hell of a supercomputer just that in his case he never gets tired watches us like we are the only thing for him to mind. Jesus said that not even a sparrow falls to the ground without his knowledge and that we are worth more than sparrows. Even if this were not in the scriptures its fathomable cos the being that put the universe even as scientist have discovered is capable of minding every thing he created at the the same atime.

Prayer is the response to the reality that we were made by someone else and the meaninglessness of life even with all its satisfactions we may be deriving from it.

How come you were not aware of his alcoholic problems this seven years you guys dated? marriage is menat to be a lifetime affair that's precisely where its beauty lies, when we stick through it all we become beautiful persons as we have lay down our life unconditionally for love. you DON'T HAVE TO MOVE OUT FOR HIM TO NOTICE YOU! HE WILL ONLY NOTICE YOUR physical ABSENCE. You may convert this period to verify the truth that you don't another human being to be fundamentally happy; i'd advise you take this time to draw closer to God, think on Him, Talk to Him let him be your Father and Friend in prayer and reading of the scriptures particularly the Gospels, leave all unto His hands and see healing and restoration happen. You will find your self having the strength and wholeness you need. God can change your husband in a split second but he will do it at his own pace not for an insufficiency of power but according to his wisdom and the sincerity and fervour with which you pray. H will definitely will wont to heal you you first cos you need it. Life is simple but not easy! God bless you!

Liverpool till i kpai! Torres or no Torres

I told her : " I might not be rich, I have no money or villa or cars or companies like my friend John, but I love you and adore you. She looked at me with tears in her eyes and hugged me like there is no tomorrow and whispered in my ear,  : If you love me introduce me to John, "

2buff:
but logic pushes me to ask:  isn't THAT the kind of person you'd want to spend your future with? Someone you know? Especially if you know them to be a great guy.
What makes you run out looking to get played by a stranger?

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=593447.msg7610739#msg7610739 date=1296093308][color=#0055bb]Absolutely, we all want someone we are compatible with however as I said before human bonding is nothing to underestimate. Some people have more of a relationship with strangers than their own family members because of this. With that having been said, someone I am close to and see as a SIBLING is not someone I can lie down with. For one if we break up the friendship that was long established and blossomed into something so wonderful can be ruined with just one single argument and a break up. Most people are afraid of that, I know I am. [/color][/quote]Both submissions appear logical but difference is that 2buf is talking lifetime and commitment with the use of existing solid friendship as its base while MzD@rkSkin is talking short time and casual with the preservation pf friendship but i think MzD@rkSkin need not be afraid of loosing friendship when relationship does not work cos dating in its functional and true use, compatibility test run of the possibility of a lifetime relationship which necessarily must be built on openness which is found in grounded friendship.

Got their text hours ago on my Airtel line.

First minute 50kobo/sec; other minutes 25kobo/sec! Its called Talk On.

I bet Glo will declare theirs very soon. Anyways Airtel still remains the king of Talk in 9ja!

BinghiNya:
Most of the people on these forum are just jesters. Christians are always advised by Their leaders to vote for GEJ and muslims also by their imams to vote for their muslim fellow. In a sane society, Both Atiku and Jonathan will be tied to the stake and shot. PDP is not a party that craves good for Nigerians. Most people here are religious/ethnic bigots. utomi, Buhari, Ribadu are more credible than Atiku and Jonathan.

I don't care who rules Nigeria.

One jester said the south needs nothing from the north, [b]how many tonnes of pepper, tomato, yam, grain are grown in the south. [/b]How many herds of cattle are developed in the south. No man is an island. Nigeria has never been one and even if Nigeria splits the yoruba man will never go with the igbos. The ijaw man won't go with the igbos because of tribalism.

let Nigerians vote for Credible people, Jonathan has nothing credible going for him , except his good luck name.

I am from the south and i am a muslim.

Nuff Said. Bob Marley said " never make  a politician grant you  a favour, cos they will wanna control you forever. for every almajiri in the north, there is  an area boy in the south.

The problem of Nigeria is the elite versus the masses.

do you think the northerners fed your grandparents?

^^oil and coastal plains is not the greatest asset the southerners have is their people same goes for the northerners; natural endowments are only catalysts for societal development which in turn catalyzes human development.

@rotimy  I jumped straight to post this and here you are speaking my mind. Why all this ruse about zoning i feel extremely indignant every time i think of Nigeria as it has been structured; if the Northerners feel cheated let them simply opt out of the state called Nigeria and rule their own; why should a northerner be running things in the Ports Authority, LNG etc I remembered how i was edged out of entering my dream secondary school FGC back then simply because some northern boys were given concession because they were from  educationally disadvantaged states though i scored higher than all of them.

I wanted to settle for a Nigeria with resource controlled exclusively by each state but i think being completely separated is best for everybody, then Atiku can be chosen by the Northern elders to rule the North.

i DON'T HATE THE NORTHERNERS as persons but are our union has been a colossal mistake! and has also slowed and distracted everybody from true national forward motion

^^^which network is this?

Not starting Paperking (a small scale paper manufacturing and distibution company) earlier in the year; started it it in the last quarter of the year and it exceed my expectation in terms of market penetration

cool

Hurts me more cos i knew her personally sought of as she was a member of my Parish;

was a very selfless person; a brillaint lawyer who won cases for our parish without asking for a kobo; she is a very prettyeven at fifty; tears will flow like a river this thursday and friday when her waykeep and lying in state will be holding respectfully.

R.I.P

Am responding to this cos my mum died of it 2 years back; she was discovered late a the cancer has spread. i dont know the symptoms but post menopause bleeding should be one of them. hear their is a vaccine now for it now.

i have never used MTN line except in says of old to make occasional xtracool midnightcall strictly for friday nights. happy everybody has woken up to MTN robbery

Please keep away from this oli and gas facilatator work is a form of gamble, starting is so simple quittin is very hard, cos you think you r almost there to hitting it big. Even when you decide to quit and actually do your cronies will lure you out or you simply get calls from complete strangers who must have gotten your contacts from here and there.

I never like tension bussineses that i have little control of; i simply know this cos i live under the same roof with someone who has been on this fro close to two years and has spent lots of money, loss sleep and time and nothing to show; now he cant settle down to do a normal business as he feels its a slow way of making money, it is very very sad

just droppe to say hi andsay sorry for'diappearing' remain blessed[quote author=m_nwankwo link=topic=515335.msg6827426#msg6827426 date=1285541447]Hi Deep Sight. Thank your for your last post. I reply as follows.

There is no contradiction between what I said to Huxley in 2008 and what I am saying now. Yes, subsequent creation was brought into existence by the laws of God but the laws of God did not create imperfections in subsequent creation. You seem not to see the essential difference between the laws of God and the application or use of the laws of God. The source of imperfection in subsequent creation is the misapplication of the laws of God by creatures that bear free will within themselves. The ability of free will in a human spirit is a part of the laws of God and rightly one can say that free will is created by the laws of God. But when free will is applied, that is, when one uses his free will, then the use of the free will is the responsibility of man, not God and the evil or good that arises from its application is the responsibility of the creature that bear free will.

When subsequent creation came into existence, the building blocks or radiations were present and these building blocks or radiations can only bring good or evil by union. In other words, it is the union of the precursor radiations in subsequent creation that results in good or evil. If in coming into union, these radiations are brought together according to their essential nature, then good will emerge but if these building blocks are pressed into union in such a way that contradicts there intrinsic nature, then evil results. And it is the decision from the human spirit and other creatures with free will that presses these countless unformed building block radiations into a form. The low energy content of these radiations in subsequent creation permits union in a variety of ways, a situation that is not possible with high energy radiations in realms higher than the subsequent creation. I may expand on this when an opportunity presents itself. But in the meantime, I am sure you will be able to sense that since subsequent creation is a realm for development of the spirit germs, it is natural that the building blocks can be brought into union in several ways.

God and the divine applies the laws of God in creation according to the will of God, that is radiations are mixed according to their intrinsic nature and thus only good and upward development results. But the human spirit misapplies the laws of God by bringing into being wrong unions, that is radiations are mixed in contradiction to there intrinsic nature and the outcome is evil, imperfections and retrogression. If an essence of God the Father enters creation, then there is a strengthing of forms such that the building blocks with wrong formed radiations liberate itself from such union with attendance disintegration of such unions. It is for this reason that the existence of evil is only temporal. As I mentioned in my penultimate mail, imperfection and evil were not in existence at the beginning and will also not be present in the end . If you divide the entrance of spirit germs into the earth plane into seven epochs comprising of about 600000 earth years, the first and second epochs were without sin and no trace of imperfection can be found in subsequent creation. Evil and imperfection happened with the fall man which occurred mid way in the third epoch. We are at the dawn of the fourth epoch which will signal the birth of the spiritual man or the birth of the man who lives solely according to the will of God. To ursher in this era in which the will of God will be done on earth as it is in heaven, many revolutionary changes will take place on earth. The fifth, sixth and seventh epochs will be paradisaical,

Now a crude analogy may suffice. Imagine subsequent creation to be a book with blank pages, ink and pencil. The book, the Pencil and the Ink were created by the laws of God. The book, ink and pencil cannot singly or jointly inscribe anything on the blank pages of their own accord. Now, imagine that God gave the human spirit the ability to inscribe on the pages of the book using the book, the pencil and the Ink. Imagine that after some time, the pages of this book are no more blank but the human spirits have written on it. Some of the pages have beautiful stories while others have ugly stories. Now the laws of God created the ink, the pencil, the book with blank pages and the human spirit germ but did not create the inscribed pages or the stories in the inscribed pages. The stories in the book is the work of man, that is, the human spirits are responsible for both the beautiful and ugly stories, not God.

As I already stated above, imperfection cannot come from the laws of God but imperfection can come from the misuse or misapplication of the laws of God. In a similar vain perfection can result from applying the laws of God according to their nature, that is, using the laws of God according to the will of God. No, the laws of God do not render imperfection necessary. Rather the laws of God permits the ability of free will and the the perfection or imperfection arising from the use or misuse of free will is the sole responsibility of the creature that bears free will. God gave the spirit germ the talent of free will so that it can develop. There can be no spiritual development without the ability of free will. The imperfections that results from its misapplication is an aberration and not a necessity.

Perfection in absolute terms is an attribute that is in God. Thus, just like one can say that God is Truth, Light, Love, Life etc, one can also say God is Perfection. Outside of God, what you have is a relativity in perfection. The same relativity applies to time, space, motion etc. What is timelessness for one creature is time for another. I may expand on this later. In a similar vain, I hope I will find time to make a detailed contribution on your thread on warfare in nature. As always stay blessed.[/quote]

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Views and opinioins of sex is relative and based on the state of the mind of the individual; i ahd asked a question about why incest could be wrong on nairaland and most of the reply was hazy and about the devil being behing it; now i dont believe that there is no such personalities as the devil but i think that it is our understanding of what sex is in human relationships.

These days it is OKAY to have sex once you are in a relationship; gone are the days when guilt preceded pre-marital sex i understand because the individual are carried away and are overpowered by the sex drive that have been ignited.

Sex like everything has its rules and regulations but we deny it, dont heed it and cant imagine tranquility of our person without sex. The time we all work on ourselves to discover that there are greater things that the instintive drive to have illicit sex then that will be a beiginning point.

When we dont admit that sex use has its rules base actions like incest and bestialy is very possible.

From your posts and replies i honestly think u need to start afresh with new principles regarding dating and relationship; fine you were so young when the relationship started to have mature principles regarding love; see my sister love is emotion with conviction that stems from the will and reason anything less is counterfeit;

take your work with God more seriously; don't hate him just begin again and talk to God about everything.

The only alternatives to a Nigeria break up is Resource Control and Drastic decentralisation of Power; else let everyone choose whom they choose to be with.