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[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010330#msg2010330 date=1204317421]You think I'll marry someone without screening his ABA-made certificate? You must be joking [/quote]whether na onitsha the certificate come from, no be paper we go chop. Bloody get on with the marriage jare.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010330#msg2010330 date=1204317421]and whatever, don't paint it like he'll change because she never corrected him, he'll change because his presumptious dream of snow white will be shattered.[/quote]i wont be surprised . . . some guys seem to stick to a woman because it helps their ego to think they were the one to score the opening goal. But hey . . . OP's got a choice to make; tell him now and risk losing him or wait till the guy finds out when they have sex.

babs787:
@David


Did you make any sense at all?

i'm not even sure, it was very hard to make any sense of ur post.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010299#msg2010299 date=1204316768]Dafidi who are you yelling at? My friend sharrap over there I never claimed it wouldnt be a lie. Besides how is it a lie if she never said so. Who asked him to make lame assumptions [/quote]no be ur fault at all. Suppose you assumed that i was a graduate . . . and i never corrected u until we got married?
I'd fully expect you to bloody get on with it . . . besides i never lied, who asked you to make lame assumptions?

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010299#msg2010299 date=1204316768]As for you not being a stickler, such lies. I can quote you where you said you'd never marry someone you have had pre-martial with. Apparently some people are ok to have sex with but nort marriage material. Rubbish Look at your mouth like panla.[/quote]I'm not a stickler . . . you perhaps didnt get the essence of my point. Dont take what u read verbatim.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010299#msg2010299 date=1204316768]All the guys here are going to tell her to tell the truth because it "doesnt matter" when it couldnt be further from the truth. Only some don't let such bother them and hopefully the OP's boyfriend is part of those few[/quote]Whether it bothers the guy or not i suggest the OP comes clean . . . nothing better than a woman you can completely trust. i'll lay down my life for such a woman (well not literarily).

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010299#msg2010299 date=1204316768]Cos believe me if she were to come back later and tell he now doesnt treat her special anymore, I will not be surprised.[/quote]neither will i. i'd be upset if u hid such from me for so so long.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010299#msg2010299 date=1204316768]anyway what are you even saying, are you saying her relationship is over because she didnt correct him the first time? She shouldnt be forgiven if she does decide to tell him everything?[/quote]its not over, the OP should take this as a lesson. Never build a house on a foundation of lies, half truths and broken trust.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116589.msg2010269#msg2010269 date=1204315961]If he seems like the type that such things matter so much to, I'd let it go

if he's not so obsessed with that though and you get the idea he wont suddenly look downa nd treat you like trash, I say you lay the cards out on the table and see where it goes from there.

yea he might hbe kind of hurt because he was "lied to, well he assumed so whatever but if he liked you enough he'd bloody get over it.[/quote]playing the blackmail card here again are we?
Lying is lying period. It is a break of trust . . . it does not matter if the guy wants takes virginity so seriously or not. I'm not a stickler for the girl being a virgin at all costs but i will definitely think twice about sticking with a woman who lies and thinks i shld just bloody get over it.

The OP isnt forced to be in the relationship. If i kept the fact that i'd dated your cousin before u wont expect me to tell u 2yrs later and then expect u to bloody get on with it.
You can't have it both ways.

If i liked you enough i'd be very very worried that you dont trust me enough to keep such information from me. Its not a matter of being disappointed that i wont be ur first but the fact that you can hide such for so long. I'd be left wondering what else u've led me on to believe that isnt true.

There are some cases where just telling the guy to bloody get on with it doesnt and wont work.

babs787:
Do I need to answer you?

then neither do i need to answer you hypocrites.

babs787:
You digressed from all they pointed out to you and I had to reply you back the way you had wanted.

I didnt digress . . . i merely decided to respond to ur numerous "questions" EXACTLY the same way you hypocrites have deflected every single question u've been asked so far.

babs787:
If you think that you have nothing to say to all their posts and the next thing for you to do is to try to deflect the topic, I have nothing to do than to ask you to profer solution to your question yourself by using question to answer your question.

Same ol' same ol'.

RichyBlacK:

Message: Not even God can convince these two "Israel is always right and never wrong" duo about the evils of the state of Israel. See how they talked about the Most Reverend Desmond Tutu. What a shame!

show us this "evil" you so glibly lie about and it sufficeth us.

olabowale:
@4Him: Most does not mean all. Afterall, Women are more than men on earth, always. There will be men in Hell, too. You are a man, David. I fear for you. You need to think about these things and the dire consequences of disbelief. You are young, but you are not naive.

There are more women on earth is NOT THE SAME AS most people on earth are women.

Is this the hell alla'h promised you would have to go down into? the horror!

babs787:
Why not serve us the saying of Jesus himself and not of third party? Did the author of the above gospel meet Jesus?

i already did you hypocrite.

babs787:
Good, now in some versions, we have, 'all the nations". The nations here refer to the 12 twelve tribes of Jesus because he was sent to them and that is why he said that he would sit judging the 12 tribes of Israel.

that is the isl'amic definition. Did Jesus have any 12 tribes?

babs787:
All nations means all the 12 tribes of Israel. Please what goespel are you referring to?

Show me where this is clearly stated in your own injeel.

babs787:
Still the same issue, did Jesus make the above statement or by Luke that wrote letter to Theophilus and never met Jesus?

Jesus Christ said so . . . read the last two statements i quoted.

babs787:
@4Him

David


Have you asked yourself why Jesus called some people dogs and some pigs?

did you answer my own question on why all'ah called some people apes and pigs?

_{By the way . . . Christ never refered to anyone as a pig}

Kobojunkie:
Just throwing it back out there is all. I have seen thread upon thread of people calling for dividing Nigeria but when you ask them in to how many pieces, they come back with prepostrous ideas and claims for support.

no problem. we'll continue dancing on one spot forever.

tkb417:
@David
u be Idi-aba boi? mo gbe?
where for Idi-aba?
i didnt stay at Abeks for long but Debo Oshoba(Do you know him) was my dawg wey back at Abeks and some other guys like that.

I knew Oshoba only very briefly. I no too tey for Idi Aba . . . 1999 to be precise.
Asero to the core.

tRoOE:
That is different because litter the streets affect people and might put some people health in danger but you don’t see other country dictating to people what to wear

Try Iran.

na wa o. Fine girl passed me by.

pahtahkee:
You no sabi her jare. Na one of the most pretty babes for Egba we dey talk so.

na wa o . . . how i no take no am? What schools did she attend?

tRoOE:
You think that was funny , Nigeria is bleeped up i swear, who dictate what people should wear, we are not even free in my country

nigeria is not bleeped up . . . dress properly.
Your freedom ends where that of another man starts. You dont have the freedom to go naked.

you have the freedom to litter the streets of Lagos but you dont have that right here in the US. Does that mean the US is bleeped up?

tkb417:
i don't think so, were u at Egba also?
as in did u live der?

i was born and bred there.

Kobojunkie:
But wait, There are jews living today in Saudi arabia and even in Iran. There a Jews in Germany and even in Russia today, Please look at the reality of things.

that is no reality. It is one thing to be a tiny minority and another to be a large ethnic group in a nation. If Nigeria was 90% yoruba and only 1% hausa or igbo things would be markedly different.

no need to fear . . . Most of the inhabitants of Hell will be women. [Bukhari, Mus'lim].

pahtahkee:
My regards to Seun oh just in case you get in contact with her. I wish I could call her, but I no dey do those ex-thingy communication again.

who be this seun sef? i know am?
Ex-thingy communication can be fun 

Blatant:
I'm not crying foul. I only expect the black south africans to start controlling affairs politically and economically in their own country. What is the proportion of black economic shakers in Britain compared to the proportion white economic shakers in South Africa?

Make life difficult for the callous invaders just like they make it difficult for the average black man to rise in their own land.

If as i suspect the answer is very low then is it the fault of the British? Did they make a policy that deliberately kept blacks out of school?

I see blacks here busy working hard at mcdonalds while their white colleagues are slaving away in med school. In 10yrs time somebody will claim racism because there are not enough black doctors.

Kobojunkie:
For your question, I completely believe the nation would be successful if people would not make an issue out of their differences and accept it is there and focus more on other things. It is like a black man working in a company filled with some racists and a woman working in a company filled with sexists. We have seen case after case where these people have been able to overcome these problems to excel and do great even in the same place with the same group of people.

That hypothetical nation would NEVER have worked. The arabs will not sit at a table with the jews and nazi germany would have decimated the jews anywhere in a bloody long civil war.

Face it, you cant wish away differences. That is what makes us unique. Its like telling us not to focus on the fact that we cant see and focus more on the fact that we can at least hear.

Learnt to eat boiled carbages in college . . . excellent way of curbing ur hunger and nutritious to boot.
Raw lettuce on salads is a must.
Pawpaw . . . just ripening and still hard - i could eat a small whole one in those days.
Peas i like, never been a fan of green beans . . . just disgusting especially when inside fried rice. It disturbs the flow.

Tried boiled onions (the white one)? Superb!

The worst vegetable of the yr goes to the cucumber.

know when to apply both.

kobo dont decieve urself. Tribalism is not something we can wish away . . . it is a part of us forever.

Let me ask you a hypothetical question - assume there was a nation in Europe with 40% Jews, 35% German, 7% arab and 20% Russian - do you think that nation would be successful today?

they ate the stew because, sadly like so many of us, we will do anything a white man tells us to do without even thinking.
They ate the stew, allowed them to video-tape the event (it was not done in secret) and are now crying foul . . .

We blacks like to disgrace ourselves and then turn around and claim racism.

If a white chic gave me a sweet smelling stew of course i'd tuck in and enjoy myself as long as she's someone i know i can trust.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116583.msg2009727#msg2009727 date=1204305849]David, I made that sarcastic comment to reply Blatant's snide remark. Ok? Now let it go. Thanks. [/quote]Excellento!

Kobojunkie:
For a while we did well after the british left but then things went horribly wrong.

everything didnt go wrong . . . it went as planned. Contraptions never last, nations do . . . look at Iraq, USSR, Yogoslavia.

We had a skewed federation from day 1 . . . the army in the back pockets of the north, the north heavily disadvantaged in terms of education, resources and opportunities. It was only a matter of time before the "good ol days" ground to a halt.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116583.msg2009664#msg2009664 date=1204304966]I've already thanked them and they're going to reward me back with a nice tax refund in a few weeks. Woo!  [/quote]they are giving you a tax refund because as a US citizen you qualify for it out of the many millions of others. Its not because they want to reward you as an individual.

@ topic: we really dont need an appology from them . . . we live in times when blacks are so used to kowtowing to white supremacy (albeit unconsciously) that i wont be surprised that the bulk of the "dont appologise crowd" will be black.

The reason Nigeria is not developing is essentially the reason Iraq is today in tatters. When men with no knowledge of indigenous aspirations come around drawing arbitrary lines on the map . . . the result is Africa.

the day i will never forget - the first time i had an out of body experience . . . i was about 4yrs old but i still remain the details as sharply as if it were yesterday.

dont throw up. Reminiscing sometimes is good . . . its not about butt kissing . . you of all pple shld know me better than that.

pahtahkee:
Do you mean Macko Tosin? That guy was a stunner! However, he soon faded out after his knee injury. He never recovered from it, and thereafter, we took on the mantle

Yeah man. Mantle ko wrapper ni.  
No one ever danced as good as that boy.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=116583.msg2009664#msg2009664 date=1204304966]when they finally left, what happened to Nigeria, yea exactly[/quote]the question is what structures did they leave behind? Did they leave us with a viable nation that could develop or did they deliberately leave us with a skewed "federation" that ensures we always take 5 steps backward for every forward step?

pahtahkee:
You don waka from school jare Or maybe you don carry your head go Tolu room I no even remember again . But you were not around when Pastor Bimbo Odukoya came, thereafter I did a solo presentation.

Did Pastor Bim come twice? I remember she came one saturday and there was no dance that day. Cant really remember . . . yeah Tolu had me around her index finger those days . . . loved every minute.

pahtahkee:
Where you there when we did that GP thing infront of the female hostel? I would never forget that night when I danced to He Lives In Me!

Wow! that day was the bomb! You sabi dance i agree.

pahtahkee:
Who told you? I was actually an all-rounder in dance. There was no dance moves I could not do! Save except for some crazy stunts like that.

Makossa was a childs play back in the days.

Including the moonwalk?   Only Tosin could do it in the entire school.