I'm a baby daddy. And so are some of my friends. But the one thing we all are doing is that we are still fvcking our baby mamas. It won't stop anytime soon.
Bro When you love a single mother just know the baby daddy is still sleeping with her, unless he's dead or in prison. I'm just keeping it 100 with you. Cause you Nairaland boys are still living a fantasy.

You don’t hit a child, there are many ways to make them listen. All he needs is love and care. if you can’t give him those then you’re not in the best place to discipline him. Imagine if you birthed that child , how will you feel if someone was abusing him?

ubunja:
if people were not numbers who were predictable how will psychologists even be able to do their job? FYI Psychologists follow patterns and methods written down to follow. It's all predicted. Like maths.

1+1=2.
Traumatic childhood is the maths. All rapists, murderers etc have a form of childhood trauma. That's the maths I'm telling you. It's all predictable. Its all numbers.

Yet they take emotions into consideration. What made him snap?
Why is he aggressive to women? Or calm in the face of danger?
Aren't those emotions?
You add the numbers together after getting the pieces of the jigsaw.
If we were so simple to solve, why do we act differently in the same situation?
Ubunja, you are calm when trolled, but others aren't.
Why?
1+1 equals 2. In the case of humans, the answer can be 8 or 156 or unknown...

XhosaNostra:


No, he actually had a good upbringing- being raised by his grandparents. His issues developed after discovering that that his "sister" was actually his mother( he was raised to believe she was his sister because she had him at a young age) & also the fact that some girl he was engaged to, dumped him. I think the later is what really set him off because all the women he murdered had a resemblance to his former fiancee.

That's what i meant. His single mom pretended to be his sister. That would have been traumatic...
The fiancee set him off...

Chocolatte01:
That's what i meant. His single mom pretended to be his sister. That would have been traumatic...
The fiancee set him off...

And I thought you meant he had a shìtty childhood or something. He was also no longer a child when he found out either, he was in college, but you were not too far off, I guess.

ubunja:
I'm a baby daddy. And so are some of my friends. But the one thing we all are doing is that we are still fvcking our baby mamas. It won't stop anytime soon.
Bro When you love a single mother just know the baby daddy is still sleeping with her, unless he's dead or in prison. I'm just keeping it 100 with you. Cause you Nairaland boys are still living a fantasy.

After wasting all your youthful age in being an irresponsible baby daddy and losing so much energy in sex, and then andropause come knocking with nothing in your head or account to withstand frustrations of life.
Your mummy will surely be cursing the night she miscalculated her ovulation to birth you.

Chocolatte01:


i tried to tell Martinez39s this but his ego wouldn't let him accept that most single mom's aren't interested in young guys, like himself but more older and mature males. Like single dads and widowers

Durh! Do I know you? I have never argued that single mothers prefer young guys, prove me wrong. It's no surprise that women, being bold liars when it suits them, misrepresent people's arguments and opinions, manufacture people's opinions, and then argue with the figment of their imagination.

Trash.

So you can't handle a kid and you call yourself a man?how then can you handle a wife? Is a four year old kid enough to give you problem?

Men of today now fall my hands! You may choose to opt out for other reasons but claiming a 4 year old kid stubbornness is enough to back out makes me call you a weakling,you can't handle marriage then.

I have no problem with single moms since its a fellow man like myself that put them in such condition.


I don't support u.bunja on this, I suppose he has a daughter and will not like a man to refer to his baby mama and daughter as a leftover.

Grow some balls and mold that kid.

Op what u can't accept and adjust to, please don't go into it.

If u can't love and care for another man's son, please let the mom go.

For me, I cant date nor marry a single dad especially if he has a son. If it's a girl child, I can cope but a son? Nope I can't .

U can still see a well behaved young single lady without a kid to marry. There are still some numbers if u look well. Don't mortgage your peace of mind for anyone. It always backfires. I just wonder why people can't be single without having a Child hidden somewhere for someonelse.

Quietly cut off and start afresh with a single lady but please ask first before u date any lady again.

I always ask any guy wooing me on the first date, if he's single, dating, divorced, single dad, separated or searching. I don't like entangling myself with baby daddy issues, I just can't deal. It's always messy.

Anyways u know yourself better. Do what makes u happy. That's all I can say.

Chocolatte01:
Yet they take emotions into consideration. What made him snap?
Why is he aggressive to women? Or calm in the face of danger?
Aren't those emotions?
You add the numbers together after getting the pieces of the jigsaw.
If we were so simple to solve, why do we act differently in the same situation?
Ubunja, you are calm when trolled, but others aren't.
Why?
1+1 equals 2. In the case of humans, the answer can be 8 or 156 or unknown...

Emotions are unpredictable like the weather. But the weather though unpredictable, is controlled by unchanging and rigid sets of physics laws, so also emotions, unpredictable as they are, are controlled by a rigid set of rules that govern human thinking. Crack those rules and you can control any emotion in anyone.

hmm single mom
so what of the baby daddy?
is he still in the picture?
most baby daddies hardly let go of the single moms cos of the free lashing they get from them

Martinez39s:
Durh! Do I know you? I have never argued that single mothers prefer young guys, prove me wrong. It's no surprise that women, being bold liars when it suits them, misrepresent people's arguments and opinions, manufacture people's opinions, and then argue with the figment of their imagination.

Trash.

you couldn't add 1+1 to know who i am?
I'm shocked.
Nevermind. I exaggerated your intelligence.

lefulefu:
hmm single mom
so what of the baby daddy?
is he still in the picture?
most baby daddies hardly let go of the single moms cos of the free lashing they get from them

As in ehn? It's always messy. People like complicating their lives.

Anyways how u dey jare

ubunja:
I'm a baby daddy. And so are some of my friends. But the one thing we all are doing is that we are still fvcking our baby mamas. It won't stop anytime soon.
Bro When you love a single mother just know the baby daddy is still sleeping with her, unless he's dead or in prison. I'm just keeping it 100 with you. Cause you Nairaland boys are still living a fantasy.

That makes you unfit for marriage . we can ask ladies to avoid you likewise.

I think you and your pawns on this forums are the one's living a fantasy( a life revolving around success in staffing females)

Arthur21:
So you can't handle a kid and you call yourself a man?how then can you handle a wife? Is a four year old kid enough to give you problem?

Men of today now fall my hands! You may choose to opt out for other reasons but claiming a 4 year old kid stubbornness is enough to back out makes me call you a weakling,you can't handle marriage then.

I have no problem with single moms since its a fellow man like myself that put them in such condition.


I don't support u.bunja on this, I suppose he has a daughter and will not like a man to refer to his baby mama and daughter as a leftover.

Grow some balls and mold that kid.

actually I don't mind what anyone calls my baby mama. That lady is my intimacy gadget forever. Whoever marries her will have the luck of perpetually eating my sloppy seconds cause to this day we're still having sex. Lool. Alpha Fvcks Beta Bucks.

You need to learn to take the good with the bad, if you say you truly love her. Your love for her should be unconditional. Create mental space in your mind for her baggage. If you can't, end the relationship.

victorian:


I always ask any guy wooing me on the first date, if he's single, daeting, divorced, single dad, separated or searching. I don't like entangling myself with baby daddy issues, I just can't deal. It's always messy.

Anyways u know yourself better. Do what makes u happy. That's all I can say.

as if the guy will tell u the truth
a lady would rarely lie if u ask her but for we guys hmm
a married man already with five children and a wife will tell u he"s a bachelor and never married .its left for u to dig deep to check if he is lying or not .

kels2010:
She and the child is the complete package if you want the girl be ready to take the child too.. Beside what's there to take of an innocent child who only needs a good father figure in his life

easier said

ubunja:
Find your own girl to give a baby. Don't settle for left overs

No matter how well-behaved and loving a single mother is, remember she's well behaved and loving BECAUSE SHE WANTS YOU TO RAISE HER KID. Never forget.[/b] If she didn't have that kid she wouldn't be talking to you in the first place[b]. Just remember.

ALPHA FVCKS, BETA BUCKS

Bad Boys impregnate, Simps raise.

Correct guy with
Correct information

victorian:





As in ehn? It's always messy. People like complicating their lives.

Anyways how u dey jare

most single moms still connect sexually with the baby daddies of their child .its a fact .thats why i cant date a single mom.cant be competing with the baby daddy and the wahala he will bring my way .i am fine jor happy sunday .

ubunja:
actually I don't mind what anyone calls my baby mama. That lady is my intimacy gadget forever. Whoever marries her will have the luck of perpetually eating my sloppy seconds cause to this day we're still having sex. Lool. Alpha Fvcks Beta Bucks.

A rapist like You, who can't withstand an emotionally intelligent lady with a very high IQ, but rather choses to be manipulating a 19year old is nothing but a street scallywag and rapist. Go outside your putrid cocoon and meet ladies your match, but your low self esteem and low worthless life won't let you cos you have nothing to offer. And by the way, y'all over there are sex object to each other. I wonder what happens to you when andropause comes calling, cos she will dump your lazy ass for a stronger and powerful Dìck.
You are her sex object for now, old cargo.
You have the audacity to call your self alpha, you are a street property Mr olosho.

Arthur21:

That makes you unfit for marriage . we can ask ladies to avoid you likewise.

I think you and your pawns on this forums are the one's living a fantasy( a life revolving around success in staffing females)

isn't sex what every guy wants at the end of the day? Even OP is choosing the single mother cause she's making everything easy for him. OP just wants easy sex.

ubunja:
Emotions are unpredictable like the weather. But the weather though unpredictable, is controlled by unchanging and rigid sets of physics laws, so also emotions, unpredictable as they are, are controlled by a rigid set of rules that govern human thinking. Crack those rules and you can control any emotion in anyone.

Without emotions, what code do you intend to crack?
You are with me that you have to take that into consideration...
I'm good

lefulefu:
most single moms still connect sexually with the baby daddies of their child .its a fact .thats why i cant date a single mom.cant be competing with the baby daddy and the wahala he will bring my way .i am fine jor happy sunday .

yes us baby daddies are still sexual with our baby mamas.

And its sweet sex because now we're just fvcking and not spending a cent. The simps in their lives are doing the financing.


And when our kids are grown they'll come looking for us. Blood is thicker than water. It's a sweet life.

lefulefu:
hmm single mom
so what of the baby daddy?
is he still in the picture?
most baby daddies hardly let go of the single moms cos of the free lashing they get from them

That is why I never delved into the NL version of red pill ,albeit I follow other mgtow and red pill pages. Till date they live on a wack definition of an alpha male(since a large number of them can't measure up to the real standards of being alpha). Follow other red pill pages on IG,Facebook et Al and you will be ashamed of the ones on this forum.

How can a masculine man who ought to be courageous bend to archaic/medieval psychologies?

I have no reason to hold some guys on this forum to esteem, no wonder ladies here call them dogs and western men are suffering from the lashes of feminism.
We mess up over here,and the sane men over there get scourged instead of black men.


That said,marrying a single mom is better than marrying some buffoons on this forum such as funmistiqueen, ri.ele,lillmissfavy et Al that are without kids.


Let no betnaija player chatting with free WIFI quote me!

ubunja:
if people were not numbers who were predictable how will psychologists even be able to do their job? FYI Psychologists follow patterns and methods written down to follow. It's all predicted. Like maths.

1+1=2.
Traumatic childhood is the maths. All rapists, murderers etc have a form of childhood trauma. That's the maths I'm telling you. It's all predictable. Its all numbers.

Human basics of human psychology is the same for everybody. That's why anywhere you go, capitalism always work while socialism fails.

ubunja:
yes us baby daddies are still sexual with our baby mamas.

And its sweet sex because now we're just fvcking and not spending a cent. The simps in their lives are doing the financing.


And when our kids are grown they'll come looking for us. Blood is thicker than water. It's a sweet life.

Bow your head and let's pray for the beta cucks.

Martinez39s:
Human basics of human psychology is the same for everybody. That's why anywhere you go, capitalism always work while socialism fails.

humans are more alike than unlike. That's why a politician can study politics in India then go be a politician in Uganda. Humans are the same generally.

ubunja:
actually I don't mind what anyone calls my baby mama. That lady is my intimacy gadget forever. Whoever marries her will have the luck of perpetually eating my sloppy seconds cause to this day we're still having sex. Lool. Alpha Fvcks Beta Bucks.

good luck on your path of life,albeit I see it as mediocrity...
If that gives you fulfilment,kudos on that

ubunja:
humans are more alike than unlike. That's why a politician can study politics in India then go be a politician in Uganda. Humans are the same generally.

True.

Arthur21:
good luck on your path of life,albeit I see it as mediocrity...
If that gives you fulfilment,kudos on that

How you see it doesn't matter. What matters is that people like you enable it.