₦airaland Forum

pearlzy92:
I have been trying to figure out the kind of answer u want to hear because irrespective of what the woman does she should nt get hit. And yes women tend to push their husbands too far but I don't think anyone deserves such in this life

lilmax:
Don't hit a woman, any man that hits his wife or girlfriend is a beast

This is what we see everyday in this section, yet no woman has ever explained what transpired

ijechikky:
Anyman dt hits his wife/Gf is a Beast...

Luckygurl:
5minsmadness, come in and do the usual.

Tanchu

Mondisweets:
well neither are u getting sweet sex, otherwise you wouldn't be hear worrying yourself about what single ladies have to say in return

Misogynist2014:
There is a group of jobless women on Nl, some claim to live under the waters of Germany, some claim to live in shangisha, that's none of my business! [b]They move around doing and the same thing everyday without monotony having effects on them.
The prayer of any operator(op) is for them to focus on his thread, at least he is sure of 5 pages. [/b]They shout and shout daily about feminism. If you want the latest Rihanna news, they are there for you, they cry and cry daily yet the woe of women worsen daily. They cry yet those that matter in Nigeria, the Mercy Johnsons, Omotolas don't believe in equality. They must be a real burden for their spouse!

Mondisweets:
That's her opinion, just like everyone else she is entitled to her own. So must the world come to an end because Omotola is not in support of gender equality?

Stillfire:
Don't tell me you are using emotions to argue. This is logic. When you infer an inequality, there is an imbalance that places one at an esteemed edge over the other. If you cannot understand that, go dust your primary 1 exercise books.
So less is a better adjective to inferior? Buhahaha. You really must think you are talking to your ten ten girls and boys.

Stillfire:
Again logic!
You don't believe in gender equality, so you believe in a dynamism where one is unequal to another.
What does an inequality mean, something is greater than or less than something.
When something is greater than something it posits a sign of superiority over the other. So that leaves the other as inferior.
Again only unintelligent people will fall for this crap to continue the abuse of power by patriarchy.

Stillfire:
Buhaha. I don't know why you guys bother us. When there are millions of Nigerian girls desperate for marriage, busy
praying and waiting on their lords and masters to show up. Why is it the ones on NL you keep bothering yourselves about? Feminism is here to stay! Ain't going back, rotflmao!

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The future wives of Nairaland men, waiting on the Lord.

crackhaus:
......,[/i] or Emma Watson (the very impressionable young girl who you're probably older than).

lightoftruth:
If really u meant what you said, your type of girls is the reason why I don't want to marry and sadly 95% of present day girl on nairaland are like you. SMH

VickyyB:
Wait, till I tell a lie against you.

Stillfire:
You must really think you are talking to one of the Nigerian girls you used to played ten ten with in primary school where logic was pretty much nonexistent.

Please let's apply logic here. If you don't believe in gender equality, you have opened a host of ammunition to place you at an unequal balance scale, meaning a man is greater than the woman, and the woman lower than he is.

I believe that in every organised institution, there is always a head and an assistant. It doesn’t mean that one should take the other for granted, or disrespect the other

And yes Omotola did not do her research well to know the meaning of gender equality, otherwise she would never ever say such.

Weathering it down with psuedo-conclusions are just dismissive and deceitful acts to shy away from the depth of truth when you conclusively wade off gender equality that the woman is inferior to the man. Only unintelligent women would fall for this deceit.

VickyyB:
Even Lies is bitter.

TribalEAST:
Buys popcorn.....awaits nairaland's feminists aka paper tigers to come and eat omotola up.

Stillfire:
Stop being emotional. It was just a question.

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This crap has already been trashed. Omotola believes in gender inequality. I guess she was made in a lower degree to a man. Who am I to question what people choose to label themselves? In her defense, I think English was the problem

Meaning:
Gender equality, also known as sex equality, gender egalitarianism, sexual equality or equality of the genders, refers to the view that men and women should receive equal treatment, and should not be discriminated against based on gender, unless there is a sound biological reason for different treatment.

Gender equality is a human right. Any human being that fails to understand this should go petition the UN or preferably give up their rights to live in this century.
Feminism is here to stay, for the main fact that Patriarchy exists. It is highly important that these two systems check each other.

“I don’t believe in gender equality. I do not believe that God made man and woman to be equal in any way. I believe that in every organised institution, there is always a head and an assistant. It doesn’t mean that one should take the other for granted, or disrespect the other. I believe the husband is the head of the home and the wife is an assistant

justirich:
“I don’t believe in gender equality. I do not believe that God made man and woman to be equal in any way. I believe that in every organised institution, there is always a head and an assistant. It doesn’t mean that one should take the other for granted, or disrespect the other. I believe the husband is the head of the home and the wife is an assistant."

"My husband is a pilot, I have flown with him several times and I understood that here is a captain and a co-pilot. They are both responsible for the passengers’ lives. But when there is a final decision to make, it is up to the captain to make it. He is more experienced and the one with the responsibility.”

“When there is a quarrel, I usually apologise first. He doesn’t say sorry. Overtime, I have come to realise that it is an ego problem. Even when he knows he is wrong, he will rather do every other thing or buy things for me than say, ‘I’m sorry.’ Fortunately, the ‘sorrys’ are not too many. He is very responsible and more hardworking than me. By God’s grace, we have been able to understand our routine.”

TheNaijan:
Well--As I said it's my research-- and I do get attention from girls because of my body... so I know as I guy even when I get older -I should workout often(be in shape)...
And I never said pot belly is good and their is nothing like ''dad smell''--but there is something like a man not taking good care of himself [/b]because he is so tied up with work and family issues...No thanks to....
And I've met a couple of attractive girls(white ones) #Model standards #NoBragging or #ValidationSeeking ...All I had to do was [b]talk to them and....
But I am more focused on how to make money while I balance everything else...

Phema:
Which of my posts suggests that Sir?

obongproff:
I dont know if ur a bros or a sis. But I throw way cap for you oh. D bros way I even comment on in mata neva attack me like you sef, now u want become minister of wahala over a trivial issue abi?

No wahala! Oya enjoy ya ministry!

obongproff:
So bros ur saying ur wife is more sexually gingered dan u, as in she does more of d fuccking, right?

Hmm! Na wa oh! But dats kinda hilarious doe. Lolz!

gidjah:
ONLY MARRIED peeps o,for me ,i am a bit on d low side,my libido is low,though i wish i can increase my speed and gear so i can be tough and stay long, but for where? hubby is a kinda opp ,she is too much for bro,but i can say we are compatible on d average ,even though i seem not ever to meet up wit her power and speed.i hav never complained about that to her,since she is not weired,i kinda love her style

Recognise that not every westernised idea or norm is good for the longevity of an African relationship
·     Respect your man, respect his African values
·     Don’t rubbish African culture for the sake of feminism
·     Know or learn what being an African man is all about
·     Recognise that a woman living alone for a long concerted time reduces a woman’s compatibility with a proper African man
·     Don’t puncture his balloon just to get even or drag him down
·     Don’t be hateful, spiteful or seek revenge
·     Be forgiving, Don’t be mean and Don’t be wicked

aisha2:
Most of the men i know about 70 percent put thier families first and dont go acting like babies who need 24 hours watching.

Being a man in Africa especially Nigeria is not easy abeg. Traffic, work, and family i also hail those who keep it all together and their sanity. No light, no water, poor security etc. Yet they work hard to keep it all together. These men are different from those published on that list who are made to look like spoilt helpless babies, we are adults, we make choices and live with the consequences. Having a home is a choice, men have responsibility and women have responsibility, men should love their wives unconditionally and protect them just as Christ did for us.

Women should submit to that love and not take it for granted. Being a head is not just about benefits but about responsibility, if it goes well the head takes the glory if it goes bad head takes the blame but what we do these days ia just highlight benefits of headship then lay the responsibility of making a marriage work on the womans feet.

I have seen so many changes in recent years, African men moving from what has been the norm, before it was a taboo for a man to be seen near the kitchen these days its even a thing of pride as they show off on social media. I have so many male friends who now write wills as soon as they marry or have kids, i see men shopping for thier families and carrying kids which if it was years ago the men would be asked to go for deliverance from his wifes juju.

I gre up with a great father who supported my mom by raising us while she was at the peak of her career, i have seen my in laws sacrfice so much for their wives and kids even when their wives may be far from perfect and i have a husband who has literally laid his life down for me. Just After we met i feel ill, it wasnt moi moi sickness, one would expect a man just getting to know a woman to run after all we were not even that serious then but the level and extent he went to keep me healthy and alive still shocks me.

Hence i have a problem with a list that presents men to young impressionable young men and women as almost senseless babies to be waited on hands on foot before they can give you any love or respect.