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aisha2:
Shebi super sports no dey make men lazy hehehehehe. Hi kettle

Agrika:
How do u expect her to demand for it...where we live in a society in which every "decent" lady is expected to "hate" sex

Lolmoi:
All he cares about is his work, he places his frends nd family over her nd d attraction is no more dere nd he refused to let her work. I assume prince charming turned a beast

njokusboy:
So the fighting girls are not women shey, they are goats...

Lmao, @ the bolded...... you wish.... You'd count 20 women fighting over one dude before you'd see two dudes fighting for a girl...
Am surprised the op even considered it

I've tried to be matured about it and forget the matter but seriously anytime he walks by my desk I feel like giving him a serious beating. I'm wondering wether to confront him about it or let it slide. Seriously if it were somebody else I think I would have given good advise but now it's happened to me I'm severely confused.

eightsin:
Aight bro but don't result to fighting. Resolve this some other way.
Bless.

kandiikane:
it is his body and his choice to go put his pen!s inside another woman.

Can you see how stup!d comparing the two seem?

you must think popping out children is by just waving a wand and tada, babies!
With all the op posted, the wife is right to be using some form of birth control. If marriage is not working she shouldn't be having anymore babies.

Mygeez, take your wife for a proper family planning, stop having babies and sort your marriage out or divorce her if you don't want her anymore.

eightsin:
That's where it will shock you... remember the story of David and golliat?

newslife:
I always wonder how two people who loved themselves so much and so dearly before marriage but after marriage, or maybe after thier honeymoon or first child you will find out that they show no sign of love anymore as they used to before marriage, am just wanting to know what might be the course, does marriage affect love?

vanalero21:
how did he get her number?

spiralwedge:
@op, u be mumu. u no dey watch Hollywood?

the next time u see the guy, beat him up, give him a red eye and a swollen lip... preferably far from your workplace.

invite him or trick him to a place you can do this.


If after that, he doesn't feel remorseful..... record the phone call and eventually talk warning him for the last time.

Also, pick on him at work and set him up.

DWJOBScom:
Somehow I smell trouble - don't confront the fellow, smile/work as if nothing happened cos any form of talks/conversation can make a good story of "Jealous, over-bearing, are you sure she's even Ur babe, guy park well" headline

Don't dwell on it.......simply accept her assurance.

**actually I have lost a girlfriend to a friend that way#smile

She claim they were fellowship members , little did I know he has telling her to leave me and come with him

They are married now

DWJOBScom:
Somehow I smell trouble - don't confront the fellow, smile/work as if nothing happened cos any form of talks/conversation can make a good story of "Jealous, over-bearing, are you sure she's even Ur babe, guy park well" headline

Don't dwell on it.......simply accept her assurance.

**actually I have lost a girlfriend to a friend that way#smile

She claim they were fellowship members , little did I know he has telling her to leave me and come with him

They are married now

Sophyrocks:
As a Caveman that you are, you better find all those spears and rocks cavemen use in those days and beat the hell out of that guy. Cavemen prove their manhood that way.

Yomieluv:
Does he know the lady as your woman?

If yes,then confront him,if no,tell him.

tpia6:
gbam.

op you too find someone to call you and have your girlfriend pick the call.

amtheone:
Even with millions of girls all over the place guys are still fighting over girls. Im out.

coogar:
something isn't adding up here.....
how did your friend at work get your babe's number?

tpia6:
I wonder why he had to bring it to nairaland.

stereotype

1 A widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing

carefreewannabe:
What exactly is well said?

Which argument is good?

Men had a higher ability to feel, but also had the ability to suppress their emotions a trait that gives them the ability to connect with the logic part of their brain and while women did otherwise

Matthewbriggs:
Tunde is Man U fan, he can do anything for Man U. On this unfaithful day Man U was beaten mercilessly by Chelsea. That day was not a good day for Tunde, he was boiling in anger due his teams failure ... in period a chelsea fan was teasing him, something led to something that made him end up punching the guy on the face ... the guy died on the spot. Tunde was arrested and he is spending the rest of his life in Jail.

Fact 1. Tunde has emotions, Fact 2. Tunde can act on his emotions ... Fact 3 Tunde can be emotional

Martha is a business executive, on some days she happy and fun but on a certain period every month she is overbearing. Infact on one of such days she blew off a deal that would have made the company earn so much, because she over heard a lady delegates from the visiting company side gossiping with her colleagues as to how fat she had become.

Fact 1. Martha has emotion Fact 2. Martha can act on her emotion ... Fact 3. Martha can be emotional.

What I am trying to achieve by the above examples is to establish the fact that both sexes experience emotions, they have feelings [/b]they can experience intense range of emotions from love to anger, but most importantly NO gender has the monopoly of acting solely at a given point in time based on emotions.

[b] So the question is not do Men feel, or experience emotions ... the is question is Are Women are more emotional than men. They are two different questions ... It is important we note that.

It is also important we do not take this question out of context. What the research posted by the Op simply backed is the the fact that men feel, It does not back the fact whether they are emotional or not.

To answer the question Are Women are more emotional than men we need to understand what been emotional means in this context, especially from popular culture ... This term is used to depict the fact that Women base most of their decision on emotions rather than logic and men do the opposite.

The focus I believe of this thread should be either debunking this Statement by proving that women base most of their decision making process on logic instead of emotions and that men based theirs on emotions rather that logic.

Now I stand with the motion that Women act on emotions more than men for whatever reasons caused by culture or science.

What better way to back this premise than the OP's research findings that simply backs my assertions ... It simply showed that Men had a higher ability to feel, but also had the ability to suppress their emotions a trait that gives them the ability to connect with the logic part of their brain and while women did otherwise.


So what are we debating about again ? ...

CreamyBanana:
She is not just a mannequin, sis. Her name is Snow White. My Snow White.

EfemenaXY:
Why would you abandon that smoking, red-hot thread of yours? Biko, go back and tend to your garden man!

And ye shall enjoy the fruit of your nairaland labour...

Guitarlife:
Kinda fuuny how ladies are rallying round Ops wife....I feel for OP. DEciet always leaves a bad taste in the mouth especially when it involves spouses. Op please learn to deal with the issue as maturedly as possible. Thats why am so so scared of marriage. [s]You give others the power to hurt you once you love or get married[/s].

EfemenaXY:
That thread.

Remember?

EfemenaXY:
Awww...truth hurts, doesn't it?

Besides, haven't you got a thread to attend to? Last time I checked, you had World War III going down there.