Analysiscorner:

Are you the one OP is referring to?

0Brien:


No, I won't.

But I'm not him. It's his choice and decision to make and live with.

Emu4u2c:
Make dem Go marry who make dem single mom .

omooba969:


I will marry all of them - just refer them to my HQ.

On a serious note, it's unfair to put all baby mamaz in the same bracket coz NOT all of them made that life choice.

Thompsonchyd:
Please bro, I will advice u discontinue the relationship because single mothers are hard to please and lack respect, am talking from experience with one .

eneazi:
A man reached out to me via email three days ago. He has been married to his wife for 10years now. He got to discover a month ago that the wife's supposed younger sister who has been leaving with them for five years now (the girl is 20) is actually his wife's child she hid this fact from him for the past ten years and he got to know about this from an old friend 9f his wife.(though he is yet to confront her)
My point is for the fact this girl of yours is honest enough to come clean that should count. She knew what was at stake, she would have hid the truth from you and trust me you wont even know. She was ready to risk everything you share now to avoid problems in future. HONESTY is hard to come by these days.

uromii:
Please if you are reading this post do not just read and pass a sister and single mother is on her knees in dire need of your help.
I am a single mother of two working at private secondary school as secretary and teacher . For the past four months life has been unbearable for me and my two kids, no salary not even good food, you need to see how hungry looking the are now, a close mouth is a close destiny I have to drop shame aside.
This morning my landlord summoned me with so much anger in him threatened that he is going to throw out my properties this coming week that he wouldn't accept anymore pleas from me that he needs money to fix things. My yearly rent payment has been due since January which normally I pay twice a year (six months two room apartment). I learnt his wife has told him to kick me out and his serious about it.
Please am on my knees begging every kind hearted nairalander of this great forum, no matter how small it is, at the least let just present something to him then I will try my best for subsequent ones. I have no other option right if he should carry out his threat than to move to the village and that will derail the destiny of this promising kids God has giving to me. I am begging please. You can help me through this acct no access Bnk 0807 344 826. May the Almighty God shield,bless and favour you richly as the week proceeds.

crackhouse:
@Op I am sure her inbetween meals is what is making u confused and u are here saying u love her. Love kee you there. E be like say u no get sense bah? Keep thinking with your penis.

SweetCunt97:
So all d ladies you've slept with are irresponsible? Two different men at different time frame does not make one irresponsible. Having Sex, responsible sex does not make one irresponsible.

oyatz:
Hmn, I just dey gbadun your logic.



But be sincere, if you brother brings a madam wey don already get 2 piking home say he won marry her, you go like am?

0Brien:
Your choice. If it's a situation you can live with.

Even most of the childless ones have had series of sex and abortions in the past.

Heathrow44:





Stillbest ! Pls Can u confirm its actually ur mom that said that?? I know y I'm asking this!!! Can u confirm that? I don't want t believe u made that up or is a product of ur own imagination, pls if u tell us d truth it would help us all here! Thanks, waiting for ur mention!

PS573:
I'm in a relationship with a lady I love so much, she's so loving, caring and kind to me and after some months I asked her (Can you marry me?) She replied yes and she asked are you sure you can marry me? I replied YEs.

After Two weeks time she came to my house sadly, I asked what's wrong with her? She asked me again' are you sure you can marry me and I replied YES and YES, she said OK!

She opened up to me after some months, that she have "Tow kids from Two different men".... I felt so bad,speechless and confuse for a while, I just closed the conversation that day but till now I'm still confuse because I loved her before she opened up to me.

Please I need your advice what to do because I'm confuse and scared right now.

I appreciate all comments

KlausMichaelson:
Run away my Brother!
If not, na Express you dey go so and the motor wey go jam u don already dey for there dey wait you.
Run away Brother! Let her be.

uromii:
Actually lost my husband who traveled to Finland since 2016 , I have not heard from him since then. some people said he was implicated in a crime, its so complicated. please help me if you can. Acess 0807 344 826. I have to use my son's acct no, because mine have not been functional for long. God bless you

PS573:
I'm in a relationship with a lady I love so much, she's so loving, caring and kind to me and after some months I asked her (Can you marry me?) She replied yes and she asked are you sure you can marry me? I replied YEs.

After Two weeks time she came to my house sadly, I asked what's wrong with her? She asked me again' are you sure you can marry me and I replied YES and YES, she said OK!

She opened up to me after some months, that she have "Tow kids from Two different men".... I felt so bad,speechless and confuse for a while, I just closed the conversation that day but till now I'm still confuse because I loved her before she opened up to me.

Please I need your advice what to do because I'm confuse and scared right now.

I appreciate all comments


I'm sick of these beta males on nairaland. How are u going to start your life with a woman with 2 kids from different men with no prior marriage and history u know of. Raise another man's kid with no appreciation n she cheats on u with same baby daddies she left for u. you need some help bro[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][i][/i]