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Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Emu4u2c: 4:28pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Kingzeez10:Bringing up that information when she was clear he is neck deep is the bone of contention That's an act of deceit 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by TiglathPILESER: 4:28pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
PS573:Go ahead |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:29pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
OgbanjeProphet:some men aren't into MaRRiaGe. You know this. |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by kolade560: 4:29pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Emu4u2c: u right, I mean she will pretend to be for him to fall into d love trap. not DAT she is of good character as I wrote. u get? |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Emu4u2c: The big mistake many guys make is assuming a girl is submissive because you are dating her....d true nature is after marriage or even after common INTRODUCTION. Most girls feel they are wise and smart, most feel that out of shame you will want to call of the marriage or INTRO, believe me, gone are the days men should bear ( this is the reason 50% of men die first in marriage, because they are trying to bear, in the process develop high blood pressure and die away) Leave those girls with age is just a number ooh!! My brothers and friends if you want to leave long, avoid them oh By nature women are stubborn and not subordinate, if you marry a girl ranging your age pears, believe me you will never have peace of mind. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Emu4u2c: 4:32pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
kolade560:Okay I understand. |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Emu4u2c: 4:34pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
vonchulxy:Women matter tire me my brother I'm build on my dreams and aspirations instead. Women will disappoint you 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
PS573: Don’t complicate your life...... it’s hard to raise your kid, let alone another man’s kid.... Don’t let anybody tell you, she was truthful..or that single mothers are also good...that’s not ur business. Go and start your life with a young single person like yourself......don’t say we ddnt tell you.... if you marry this after2... it will end in tears.. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Testimony1988(m): 4:34pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Ask questions how comes the kids and where are their fathers, but if you still love her no problem. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:35pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Kimbrielle:These men can be very DelUSiOnal. They want to be excused from immoRality. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Emu4u2c: You will not die young...... 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Dangrace01: 4:38pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Heathrow44: Guy this is deep oh, even d comment you quoted is a food for thought. Is that why women can't give you something without expecting something bigger in return |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Emu4u2c: 4:40pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:Amen |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by tehilah92(f): 4:40pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
paul100:My dear, u don't judge, u were not in her past. OP if u love her, go ahead, she is sincere, u didn't discover from anyone, she opened up, she is a good woman 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by sunny1977: 4:42pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
If she can hide two children until when u propose, what else can she be hiding. I will advice you tread carefully. Also her having two children from two different fathers means that the children and their fathers will be in contact with her and ur future family. Are you ready to cope with that. You sit and answer those questions and if you come up with a good answer for yourself. Carry on. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by karkinase(m): 4:44pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
As coach redpill will say, never be a stepfather... use ur head op, every game starts neutral and not 2 goals up. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
[quote author=Emu4u2c post=91878034] Women matter tire me my brother I'm build on my dreams and aspirations instead. Women will disappoint you[/quot I lost 7 solid year's of my life. Why? I was one of those who believe age is just a number..i got married to a girl I was in love with and senior her with only one year, believe me the moment after her intro, she changed...i foolishly assume is pressure from marriage preparation and blindly went on with d marriage. The moment after the marriage, she came out fully with her true self... I developed bp before at late 20ties I was heading toward death.. Who I go talk to, how will I say it that I am no more at peace will my self and live. Finally I took the old step and sent her out and stood my ground, divorced her and before I finally fought hard to get my life back and I married an far younger girl and and with loving home and kid. I will never wish my fellow man the mistake I made in marriage.....i can tell u d difference from age mate wife and far younger girl wife. Age mate wife SHE looks into your eyes and tell u nothing dey happen! Far younger wife HE looks into her eye and tell her nothing they happen! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by afilaka(f): 4:45pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Or11: This is the most insensitive reason i ve seen so far. Like how and when does being fertile or not start to be a criteria for successful marriage. Please educate ursef more on infertility before u dribble and say anytin abt it. Itz a serious issue and should never and not be used against any body either male or female. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Enemyofpeace: 4:52pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
God forbid I chop remnants or marry , not just one but two. Wetin dem dey take dead body do for mortuary. Vickyrotex abi kini mo wi? |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by JOACHINpedro: 4:52pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
My advice is for you to stop bleeping her for now until you decide to marry her. She fit use another pregnancy tie you down. |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:52pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Juliearth:you mean iud? |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Enemyofpeace: 4:53pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Or11:absolute trash |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by sylve11: 4:56pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by oshorstan(f): 4:57pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Thank God she opened to u.
watch her closely and see if she's loyal enough. If everybody ditch single mom, who go marry them? they're humans too u know. I respect them alot ooo |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Diffdeef(m): 4:58pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Never be a step father,Being a step father is like doing a crime you never committed,there's nothing more pathetic than trying to rescue a woman from her lifetime of bad decisions,Bros you deserve more than a single mother of two. Don't fall for her gimmicks,Hope you listen. |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Juliearth(f): 5:01pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by omooba969(m): 5:01pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Diffdeef: Chai , see analysis - wahala dey o! |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by RealEzee(m): 5:01pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
paul100:n a girl who open her leg for series of guys and countless of abortions nko? See ehn life no just straight |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Emu4u2c: 5:03pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
oshorstan:Make dem Go marry who make dem single mom . |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by silifat11(m): 5:04pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
That kind of situation hard oo. When a woman had the same problem with two different Problem, she becoming a problem herself... It's better to understand your own perspective on Time, so you won't end up giving her another kid to cater for |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by Kobicove(m): 5:05pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
PS573: Two kids from two different men, that's quite a handful. It's commendable that she was honest enough to let you know before you made a commitment! |
Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by omooba969(m): 5:05pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
oshorstan: I will marry all of them - just refer them to my HQ. On a serious note, it's unfair to put all baby mamaz in the same bracket coz NOT all of them made that life choice. |
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