hello house,
well, concerning the topic, i think its no problem at all. only if its not at love at first sight cos you might just be carried away by what you see. but when its in the level of friends, you do see around or even work together, there's no problem about that. come on people before that can grow in a lady's heart, she must mean it. so go on ladys, say it and free your emotions, throw the weight out.
this is what i saw on one t-shirt and its true,
take the leap of faith, love exist.
say it today and don't be amazed if you hear that in return and a "too" at the end.

Go with your feelings, he may never know how you feel till you tell him.

hi N-joy,
thank you for confirming with me on this topic. i believe it express it who knows and most time,it comes out true

Agape!

Godsgirl, that was a nice one you said, but do you think every guy who got heartbroken is all out to avenge, that's immature, the person can only wait for sometime before next move, but it doesn't matter, some people can't bear it and will need someone around who eventually will be their price won, think about that

hi seun,
thank you for your nice reply to Godsgirl's response, i stand with you not all guys are immature and are out there to avenge their past. men are lovers and go ones for that matter. they only need someone they can rely on and trust to protect their so-to-speak brokenheart.
i think ladies should spend time to understand guys other than expecting guys to always understand them.

i heard that word from my love for the first time on my birthday and that for me was the best gift for my day.

hi glory,
thats so nice to hear. i can imagine how you felt that day. but the question is would yousay the word to a guy first?

meta4:

hi glory,
thats so nice to hear. i can imagine how you felt that day. but the question is would yousay the word to a guy first?

Ya thats the koko
I know many girls wount tell a man dat cos they feel he would take them for granted

Yea, a lady can say that to a guy if she really means it
It's safe because at least you made your position clear to the guy.
If the guy should start acting funny or trying to take you for granted, then I guess he is not worth your love
If a lady tells me that, she would win my respect because of her boldness, then, things might just fall in place
So ladies, please feel free to tell the people you love what you feel. _{free your heart instead of dying in silence}

it depends on the type of realtionship u think you're in

U can tell a guy u love him and the next day his phone is out of service beacuse ur now going where he did not bargain for.

on the other hand, it can also make a relationship sweeter cus he's now secure in ur love to express his.

Attn seuniyanda:  What part of my post implied that hurt men were out to avenge their past?
Attn Meta4: What part of Seuniyanda's post made you think that when he said "immature", he was reffering to men? Please read his post again and see that Seuniyanda's comment of "immature" was towards my post, Not men.

It is quite unfortuanate that misquotations such as this take place frequently in Naira land-There is a possibility that one may be in such a hurry to get their point across that they might not even read a post in its context and entirety.

I ask myself why I keep coming back to Naira Land. It takes too much time to write a post as it comes to your heart, only to have to explain every single thing again to make things simple. It is time consuming-But I will try "again" to get my point across. I hope it works this time.

1. That post was an attempt to reach out to men that were hurt. (In order words, I was saying that it may be hard and discouraging for them to try to love again.)

2. I said I pity the woman that finds this man (this is because she has to be the one to convince the man that she will not hurt him as the others did. Also, this woman will have to peservere in order to finally gain his trust.)

3. Chances are, this man will give up in finding "true love" because of so much hurt in the past-(In order words, he may ask, "Can I trust that she will not hurt me too, like the others did?)

4. Chances are, Because of all the hurt, he may settle for less in the future (because he may not believe that he is worth better)

I sure hope this has clarified the original post. I am not quite sure how that post could have been misinterpreted. This is the best that I can do to explain, I am tired

@ lexyheart
Shady is always taken care of. No need to worry

YEAH VERY SAFE WHAT IS THERE TO TELL A MAN I LOVE YOU OR DONT YOU LOVE YOUR MAN? IF YOU DONT NO NEED TO SAY IT BUT IF YOU DO ALWAYS SAY IT OK. IT MAKE WE GUYS FEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD. HEY GIRL COME ON TELL ME YOU LOVE ME AND MAKE ME GROW WIED HAHAHAHAHA JUST JOKING DONT TELL ME OOH OR I WILL THINK YOU ARE FALLING FOR ME

i think that if the"I LOVE YOU" is no joking matter. for someone to say i love you he or she must have some kind of feeling to go with it.you can't wake up oneday and tell someone that you love him or her.
but i think it is good to express your feelings even if the person that you are telling you love doesn't appreciate you and your love.
if you don't love someone better not decieve the person by saying that you love him or her while you know very well that you are just using the person.

Am saying hello to all ladies in da room i dont care may be u black, multicoloured,green or white al i just need is a lady to treat me right like lexy heart has done to my friend Johnnygan shady cos am really getin jealous already

"THERE IS MORE HUNGER IN THE WORLD FOR LOVE AND APPRECIATION THAN FOR BREAD", MOTHER THERESA

@ Topic
IT MIGHT NOT BE SAFE
I got a text from a girl last night who had been a casual friend of mine confessing that she had fallen in love with me since three months ago when we first met and just had to let it out now. i was shocked! it was just  then i remembered this thread again. The problem now is ill be leaving the country next in 2 weeks  for school  in UK and wont come back to nAIJA for a long time. this she doesnt know yet
Though i realised i seemed to have mutual feelings i couldnt admit it anymore, cos ill be building emmotions and heartful burdens when i leave
so i decided not to make her know my heart, because i dont see it working due to distance. i want to go start my life anew

Now i understand why some guys may not be able to reply those words in  the affirmitive. Do u think i did wrong?

swiftycool:

@ Topic
IT MIGHT NOT BE SAFE
I got a text from a girl last night who had been a casual friend of mine confessing that she had fallen in love with me since three months ago when we first met and just had to let it out now. i was shocked! it was just then i remembered this thread again. The problem now is ill be leaving the country next in 2 weeks for school in UK and wont come back to nAIJA for a long time. this she doesnt know yet
Though i realised i seemed to have mutual feelings i couldnt admit it anymore, because ill be building emmotions and heartful burdens when i leave
so i decided not to make her know my heart, because i don't see it working due to distance. i want to go start my life anew

Now i understand why some guys may not be able to reply those words in the affirmitive. Do u think i did wrong?

ummmm!!
y do i get the feeling this girl is trying to play u.think she somehow got to know u will be travelling soon and decided to play a trump card.
though there aint enuf background info but methinks a girl making that kind of a move is both dangerous and calculated. u better be careful b4 u waka enta pit.just like u said keep things easy and no strings attached,in fact no network connection too.

@ Seun001
im verry positive of the fact that she is not in the know about my leaving
and besides does it make sense to claim u are in love with a guy just because he's about to leave the country
i mean do girls do that?
Because nothing can make me change my mind , cos my fees are paid up, tickets booked and all dat

@OLAY

LOL

I WILL GIVE U MY YOUNG SISTER IF U WANT

@ JOHNYGAN

IF U SAY SO .I WON'T WORRY

Its alright 2say you love someone if you really do. Dont lie about it. Always be honest it pays always

@ olay
I think you should start seekin a relationship of your own on a neutral ground and not announcing other peeps relationships.
No make me fight you oooo!
"word"

@ Godsgirl

Now you're talkin , u see why those words could come out true, and get a negative reply, or none at all.
if u love me and i know our love aint possible.  Its best i stop u b4 u start planting a mighty foundation
and dedicate all your life towards it.

if i let her on and make her wait, i know i'll become the standard 4 any other of her relationships and she just might not be able to love again , cos she's got me in mind. right?    im not wrong 

swiftycool:

@ Seun001
im verry positive of the fact that she is not in the know about my leaving
and besides does it make sense to claim u are in love with a guy just because he's about to leave the country
i mean do girls do that?
Because nothing can make me change my mind , because my fees are paid up, tickets booked and all that

its ok if you think so,but like i always say u never know what motivates people

about if its happened before,i can confirm it has n to my friend,will b very brief

my guy has been chasing this girl for like more than 2 years.if i have ever believe in love my guy has shown it to this girl,he has been frustrated,lost weight ,gained weight,done badly at academics,recouped what was lost,given up hope,found hope,in short this girl almost killed my guy ooo!funniest part is that we ,his friends, believed he does deserve the girl,there were more beautiful girls dying to have him but my guy was so strong willed.during all this time this girl had other BF,not even her friends took pity on my guy to tell him not to kill himself.meanwhile he's been processing visa for years,but the girl doesnt really know the stage he was in the visa process.only for my guy to get a 5 year visa and the girl starts behaving and coming up with stories like 'i was testing you'.remember i didnt do u do or that,u can imagine how we,his friends felt about this.but my friend still in love believed all of this.couldnt leave for US for a couple of months,so the relationship was like husband and wife until he left.while in the US,my guy kept calling and took care of her very well,if you know what i mean but then the girl decided to show her tru colour by humilating my guy by going up and down with other guys.this caused fights between his half sister and GF,and so before it got out of hand,his sista called him and blew the whistle.didnt bother to ask him how far because i already vowed on to interfere
so right now they are blown apart.am blaming my guy for all this period.

@olay

lol i will talk to her.we look similar.

infect she is my twin sister so am afraid if u get her.u will fight w shady because u won't be able to identfy your girl .because we look damn similar.people don even know who is who wn we r together.

so my dear i don want to because any fight ooooooooooooooooooo