Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Wait and get more irrefutable evidence then yell your friend.. She is already banging the guy..

incandescentena:
Hmm Op, What makes you more righteous than your friend's wife?

Mtcheeee!

This shows you support adulterous behavior and that you'll engage in it.

Blow the whistle, a friend in need is a friend indeed.

killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo

true
I don tell myself say I no go worry myself over woman matter

Joezinho:
If a friend of mine knew that my wife was having a close relationship with someone and I found out later that he knew and did not tell me, that would be the end of our friendship. Your friend has a right to know what is going on in his marriage/life.

Telling him could be saving him from lots of problems further down the road of life..Make sure that you are absolutely certain before letting him know. We guys need to know the truth about these lying, good for nothing , self centered ladies.

Something needs to be done early. The marriage is rather fresh.

Discovering your children might are not yours in 15 years time will be a death sentence.

I watch "paternity court" on YouTube and you find out how crushed adult children are by the revelation that their dad who brought them up wasn't their real dad.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Let him know.

Your friend need to know what's going on behind his back, maybe you can create a fake facebook account connect with your friend and his wife, try to find out something from the wife concerning her companion of late, you can pretend to be her old school mate and pretend you saw her with her husband on so date at so time, her response to ur statement should tell you if she hiding the identity of the person or not and if you discovered anything suspicious from her response, let the husband know what's going on while you still keep your identity top secret

Don't be so quick, you didn't catch them having sex so you just cannot conclude

You certainly do not know the entire extended family of your friend or his wife. Unless you catch them in an uncompromising situation, you cannot tell if she is cheating.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Face your lane and mind your biz whacks.

You can stay anonymous.

You need to let your friend know..
If my friend knew my wife was cheating and didn't tell then I found out, that day we stop being friends because he knew what could kill me and didn't say nothing.


But here's the thing,.you better find out more, try know who he is, if you can't, then your friend should do that .
It's best to be chill till he comes back so he can handle it face to Face

Sending the pictures When he's far away will destabilise him, reduce his productivity and may even cause him problems at work and he may approach it wrongly and not get the truth .

But if he's around, it becomes easier.


Also if you itch to send the pictures but don't want get in the middle of it.
Since his wife hasn't seen you when she's with the man ..

Use a different whatsapp and text your friend the pictures as Anon and that's it

What God has joined together, let no man put asunder!! So back off their marriage!! God has a way of setting them up!

killmods:

Please help ur friend

killmods:

If u had done so without insulting me first I wouldn't have insulted u. But u are obviously a bastard sonofabitch. U should have done the right thing first

Since you understood I wasn't refering to you, your pea sized brain should tell you the insult wasn't for you.

You didn't disappoint your parents, they didn't attend to their duties well enough, so a mistake of a person like you is well expected in a space like this.

Lies.

Send the picture from a different number.

Get only d man's photographs and show it 2 ur friend, ask him if he knows d man. Don't spill d beans untill u r sure ur friend doesn't know him or he's not related 2 either of them.

If u r sure d idiot isn't related 2 them, spill it and save ur friend. But what type of friendship with opposite sex? What if d woman defend herself that it's d same friendship like u both?

killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. the problem is Na wah oo

The problem is husbands .wives are human too.they sometimes want a change .a temporal change.do men ever give them chance to even discuss a change,a break.

When life gets too suffocating can we ask the wife to take a vacation.

That'swhy the society is rotten and full of evil deeds.Minding one'sbusiness?

okunwaye:
AFONJA woman mind your business

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

You are lonely and bored at the same time to post this shit here. You better make friends, so this your idleness and loneliness doesn't turn you into a psychiatric patient

Before now, I used to be a team of "mind your business" on issue like this, but not anymore.

If your friend is like a brother to you, tell him to save his ass. Whatever he does with the info, whether he believes or not, is no longer your business

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Yes please tell the husband since you don't know how to mind your business and the husband will confront his wife with the allegations, then the wife will use the women cunning ways to get herself out of the allegations and she will then prepare a very good delicacy that will let you defecate your intestines out whenever you visit them.

Hope you are not planing a coup in your "friend" house. Otherwise confront and advise your "friend" wife . You are a woman like her.

Don't try it as it will mark the beginning of the end of your relationship with him
1 the loving mind doesn't reason
2 the same way you are his friend for 11 good years is the same way the guy is her friend too
3 the lady in question is closer to her husband than you which shows she will have enough time to buckle her point while you will have to talk with your tongue in-check.
pls don't try it keep on watching

killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo

You are the same with them, all men and women are the same, know this and save yourself hopelessness. Ask white people what marriage is, black people have no clue

I know the man. He is an expert in tumbling married women. Seriously, Send a note and the pictures anonimously to your friend or be guilty of betraying his friendship with you. Same will happen to you too.

How come you know all her family members, cousins, etc, to know that he's not a family member?

This one you keep seeing them, I hope you are not into your male friend and tailing his wife so that you can find faults to report to him.

In essence, just mind your business. If she's doing something bad, it won't be long...she will be exposed.

Islandlady:
I will surely go through every comments on here today and take the ones that is best!

I appreciate y'all for your contributions & supports, even those that insulted me I forgive you!!!

Don't be hasty in talking to the man, a little investigation and patience will help.

Goalnaldo:
Why are putting full stop after the smiley/emoji. You think it would roll away? it's okay.

. You're hilarious o.

Raychee:


Type coherent words if you want to mention me please. So i know the kind of reply to give you. What's a hoaker? I don't remember claiming to be better than anybody. So if your spouse is cheating and someone close to you becomes aware of that fact, you would prefer they keep it away from you abi? Hypocrite much!

..the real reason why we are in deep sheet in this country is because we always mind our business...