Olasyke:

Something at 40 is something forever.

Hezzyluv:


Yeah....
I gat u now sha.

Even 40years not 2bad sha. It depends on one's midset.

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

Olasyke:
Five more years to go.

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

okoroemeka:
sometimes I wonder how some men can relax so much and reach such years with nothing,is it laziness,lack of seeing opportunities,lack of proactive thinking,procrastination ,or simply accepting mediocre living standards?before I was 25 yrs I already have a car,wife,two children and a small two bedroom bungalow,it is sad that not everyone can pull him or herself out of poverty and that reinforced my belief that success is tied to state of mind,there is a proverb in igboland that says,e ejigi mkpacha nsi egbe agba adaka ozo,which means you cannot use scrap leftover gunpowder to shot a gorilla.

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

Merry100:

Lol, you are judging a total stranger and comparing yourself to him. The fact that the guy in question has not achieved as much as you have achieved doesn't automatically imply that he is lazy. Mr. man, if you can't help others, let them be; don't contribute to their problem. Sometimes, words can be sharper than swords. Must you comment, he said his friend is on the verge of giving up, and you wrote this. Where is your conscience?

dokkyelele:


I understand that it can be incredibly challenging to find yourself in a situation where you feel like you have no job, no skills, and no partner. It's important to remember that you are not alone and that there is always a way forward.

Firstly, take a deep breath and give yourself some compassion. It's important not to be too hard on yourself during these challenging times. Many people go through periods of career uncertainty and feel a lack of progress in their personal lives. Remember that setbacks are a normal part of life, and they don't define your worth or potential.

Start by assessing your skills and interests. Take some time to reflect on what you enjoy doing and what you're good at. Identify any transferable skills you may have acquired from previous experiences, even if they weren't in a traditional job setting. Consider seeking out a career counselor or coach who can help you explore your options and guide you towards potential career paths that align with your strengths and interests.

In terms of finding a job, start small. Look for entry-level positions or internships in industries that interest you. Consider expanding your skills through online courses or vocational training programs if necessary. Remember that it's okay to start at the bottom and work your way up. Each step counts towards building a stronger future.

Regarding relationships, it's important to focus on self-improvement and self-love first. Spend time investing in yourself and building your confidence. Engage in activities that make you happy and allow you to meet new people who share your interests. Remember, a healthy and fulfilling relationship is built on mutual respect and love for oneself and the other person. Don't rush into a relationship just for the sake of having one; let it happen naturally when the right person comes along.
WhatsApp chat to me on 0803 481 2261 and also remember, there is a way out of any difficult life situation. Stay positive, keep an open mind, and take small steps towards building a brighter future for yourself.
Stay bless

Olasyke:
Five more years to go.

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

okoroemeka:
sometimes I wonder how some men can relax so much and reach such years with nothing,is it laziness,lack of seeing opportunities,lack of proactive thinking,procrastination ,or simply accepting mediocre living standards?before I was 25 yrs I already have a car,wife,two children and a small two bedroom bungalow,it is sad that not everyone can pull him or herself out of poverty and that reinforced my belief that success is tied to state of mind,there is a proverb in igboland that says,e ejigi mkpacha nsi egbe agba adaka ozo,which means you cannot use scrap leftover gunpowder to shot a gorilla.

Hezzyluv:


To go where

Modified.
At op, tell him to go and learn welding if he has the passion for it. Within one years, he should be able to get the basic. Down to the next 2to3 years, he would become oga of his own.

Fedrick100:


I can’t choose Freelancing because am not a good writer

What about web design,can it fetch money also?

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

samwillyco1:


Welding is good but at his age it will affect his eye sight soon.

Merry100:

Lol, you are judging a total stranger and comparing yourself to him. The fact that the guy in question has not achieved as much as you have achieved doesn't automatically imply that he is lazy. Mr. man, if you can't help others, let them be; don't contribute to their problem. Sometimes, words can be sharper than swords. Must you comment, he said his friend is on the verge of giving up, and you wrote this. Where is your conscience?

Merry100:

Lol, you are judging a total stranger and comparing yourself to him. The fact that the guy in question has not achieved as much as you have achieved doesn't automatically imply that he is lazy. Mr. man, if you can't help others, let them be; don't contribute to their problem. Sometimes, words can be sharper than swords. Must you comment, he said his friend is on the verge of giving up, and you wrote this. Where is your conscience?

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him