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agnes7:
Na wao.
Any where you are right.
Someone said that when you are not successful,that is when women will tell you that they cannot approach you first because her honour will be at stake.
That is when women will tell you that it is against her pride and honour to approach you first.
Also most women do not approach men because they fear rejection.
But such honour,pride and fear has no place when you are very successful in life.
They are like even if he rejects me that is not the end of life.I will just move on.
If he accepts me,I am the one that will gain.
Most times,the men that are following a lady are all these jobless/low income street men.
The lady will have no option but to hunt for successful men.
So there is nothing to lose in terms of honour or pride if you approach a very successful man.
The fear is in terms of being rejected which does not even matter.

Chii59:
Unfortunately it is hard to tell a guy who's mature enough not to be intimidated by a woman who propositions him first.
I've done that and got my fingers burnt.

engrMikemd:
Thanks so much bro for this info.
I pray I see the credentials cos I actually lost all my certificates from pry school cert to MSC cert.
And I am actually broke right now.

engrMikemd:
I am so sorry for your loss bro.
How did you get the certified true copies of your certificates in case I need to get if I don't see mine.

engrMikemd:
How did you lose it?

Neo12:
it means at first instance

Neo12:
29th July, 2020
Dear Esteem Members,
I met with the Bursar this morning and interacted with him on the information ventilating on the social media that our members may not be paid July, 2020 salary. He confirmed that only members that enrolled with the IPPIS Ab initio are in the IPPIS payment platform for this month salary. He added that the IPPIS office could not explain the reason for the omission.
In the light of the foregoing, members of the Branch are advised to wisely and cautiously spend their savings while awaiting necessary measures to be taken by the Union National Secretariat.


Struggle continue,

Comrade Yahaya A. Mohammed
ASUU-FUDMA Chairperson

toivar:
Not yet oh. It seems it may delay till next week. My thoughts though

Fkj202004:
FTIs means Federal Tertiary Institutions

Rahym001:
abeg am not understanding ooo,
.

are you working in a tertiary institution

Is it July salary

if yes

then run to ur school bursary


payslip is now been printed in the various Institutions

Fkj202004:
FTIs were paid salary after salah last time

Olumyyde:
Guess that's why they paid MDA staff on the 24th.

Fkj202004:
Does the fg care about their employees? BIG NO. The FTIs did the first sallah without salary, I think they want to do this one too without salary.

It seems this government have an hidden war with FTIs. They are winning now but they should know they won't be there forever. God is watching

Youston:
Are you sure, because most sectors have not received yet oo.

SafariBoy:
7victor i sent you a mail.

SafariBoy:
7victor i sent you a mail.

vikithor:
Ladies proposing to us,as in my case has helped the burden of shy shy people like me.Makes it faster, am happy and grateful she proposed to me.Ndi inferiority complex ladies will say the guy will use it against the ladies,I tell them keep your marital diary for yourself and mentees alone.If everyone plays his/her parts there will be nothing to regret nor complain about

agnes7:
The simple explanation is that:YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HER.

It is a sign that you love her so much.


Immediately you saw her pictures,you fell in love with her.

Also because both of you studied the same course,it endears her to you,aside from her confidence.

Hence the thoughts about her.

I have experience something like that before.So i know.

It is not anything spiritual,just love.

Walk:
I won't wait till he slaps her, i'll do it myself. That's really disrespectful to my man. Most girls never respect themselves in public. No girl will disrespect my man.

beauty7:
The truth is that as a lady,I protect males whenever a woman tries to victimize them.

Women do so also.

A woman cannot stand and see a fellow woman causing pain to a man.

She would protect him.

I cannot stand and see a fellow woman victimizing a man.

I will surely feel the need to protect him.

I believe the same thing happens with men:They tend to protect women against men victimization.

In fact,the truth and nothing but the truth is that every body tends to protect the opposite gender against victimization by her/his own gender

I believe most of the organizers in the wedding were males that is why the lady had the upper hand in the fight.

The reverse would have been the case if most people that matter in the wedding were female.

I believe that this desire to protect the opposite gender is unconsciously dedicated to the assumption that the opposite gender is weak.

Forget about the usual stereotyping, women see males as the weaker gender just as every man sees us as a weak gender.

Women recognizes so much weakness in males which males do not know.

just as so many women are always wondering why men say that women are weak.

It is because men easily recognize our weakness which we do not know and we do not even admit that it is a weakness.