Revolva: Sometimes we have to be careful with the type of lady we hang out with because many of them are evil and can lead one to jail for knowing nothing about them.
This incident happened to versatile entertainer and singer Suruche, popularly known as the number one in Africa as he narrowly escaped being trapped in a crime that he knew nothing about.
However, Suruche narrated the incident where the lady asked him to take her along on a cruise and be with him in his events movement as some of his music business partners were trying to book him for a show.
Luckily, Suruche had her along with him on the tour trips, and in the course of the journey, he left her and kept her and her phone in the care of the uber driver.
The next day, the same uber driver which Suruche had chartered privately for all his movement around town started accusing him of what he was not aware of.
He said they found a bottled substance like a hard drug in the care of the lady and she was in a coma.
Suruche was later apprehended by the police force and also the Uber driver as well, and the driver started contradicting himself, lying and dropping all the issues at hand about the girl in a coma on Suruche.
He made claims that the stuff or bottle substance found in the car was used to drug her before leaving her in his care.
Suruche denied all accusations and had to show the policemen all the payment receipts he had made to the same driver, as well as encouraging and patronizing on charter trips away whenever he needed an urgent ride.
Through the intervention of our capable Police Officer, who is hardworking and was able to detect that the Uber driver was a liar and that the lady involved had not died from a drug overdose.
Finally, the young lady's iPhone was later found in the car and Suruche had to prove with evidence in the video that the lady was alive and even had to call her his wife so as to save her from being seen as a one-night stand.
The moral of this story is that one should be careful of things and people that can implicate you at any moment in life.
Vaughanlanrewaj: At least, the coast is clear for him to face governance and finishing the hijack of the PDP from the original people who kept PDP alive in opposition years.
It remains a mystery unsolved how someone with this horrible O'level result and who failed English language , had 4 O level credits(with C6, the lowest credit) went on to gain admission in UI and even finished with a B.A in Classics NUC needs to query University of Ibadan (UI) and investigate this questionable admission o.
It seems that sme of these states are being governed by olodo anytime I see the result of HE Godwin Obasek
So you think a person’s capabilities should be based on his grades as a teenager?
He score a mere 7 in English, and yet today speaks it better than many Englishmen... In the 40+ years since his WASC, he’s obviously massively developed himself and his skills. >
moriss33: Have you heard from his wife ? Do you know what her own story would be ? Do you know if she would tell you any different ? Ur just bitter abeg...u no dey like see where women dem worship man.
I have heard from him... And the primitive misogyny came direct from the horse’s mouth! >
seanwilliam: Lying about ur finance is not a crime and it’s not a reason for being 100% responsible for your wife financially needs provided she’s working..
The op is already providing basic needs.. shey u no Dey pity atall ?? Why y’all wicked for Christ sake !!
I see that you missed (or misunderstood) the premise... It’s a decision that should be (mutually) made BEFORE marriage! The reason it’s often not made (or discussed) is usually lies/misrepresentations about finances. >
Leetika: I know her type . She is from a broke family, all her exes have always been the one providing for her, she is of the school of thought that men only are providers. If only she knew the stress men go through then she should be sensible enough to lessen that burden.
But then again you saw the red flag and you still went for it. When you were courting did she out of the goodness of her heart surprise you with gifts , I am sure the answer is No. plus you know she is not wife material that is why you refuse to tell her your salary . If you knew this why did you go ahead and marry her. Omoh forget communication is good. You shouldn’t be hiding your salary from your wife . So u have a bad foundation to begin with in your marriage. U guys better go for counselling. And may God help you and your Selfish wife, because she thinks about her self alone from what you wrote there.
Don’t be such a dumb primitive misogynist...
If he couldn’t solely provide for his family/wife, he should have made that clear BEFORE marriage... Instead, like the typical INSECURE Nigerian male, he was probably foolishly flexing (could be why he hid his salary) . SMH >
Collinsville5: There's no need beating, the woman is a selfish person, and really, you should have known. You just have to call both family elders to come into the matter.
Don’t worry, let him dare touch her... And see the Lagos Domestic Violence Response Team hurl him off to jail. SMH >
seanwilliam: I might be wrong for concluding from one side of the story, but this is an obvious fact that is obtainable in an average Nigeria marriage settings at least 90% of time z we all believe a man should bear 100% responsibility of family . is it easy ??
In this Buhari’s regime. Minimum wages is 30k yet you sit your sorry asś down there and expect someone to take your full responsibility while u bring nothing tangible to table.. nonsense!!
Isn’t that a decision you (both) should make BEFORE marriage? Of course, the problem is that many Nigerian men LIE about their finances. SMH >
okine4real: I swear I dey always wonder if guys of now a days dey close eyes before them marry. What kind of stupid talk you talking? Your wife dey do this, she dey do that, you know dey see before you marry? You guys think marriage is about pussy and dick? For marriage you go see dick and pussy, you go tire, reality would set in. What kind of women do you guys marry? Your wife is suppose to be chasing you andnt the other way round. So far your hustle tight, your wife suppose dey chase you. Guy husbands know dey outside, so for a fact that you dey even give her food, give give her roof, you suppose dey flex, if you never reach house by 8pm, she suppose dey use call dey chase you to confirm say you done dey come house know be say you dey hangout with one babe.
I swear my wife dey thief my money small small, although na 1k, 500 naira etc, sometimes the money go done reach like 10k, I swear na my children and myself she dey spend am on at the day. She know dey even use am for herself. Your wife suppose dey cherish you. Na only you suppose dey her head, guys open your eyes when you won marry, marriage is not a mirage ohh, na reality. You got bills to pay, if your wife is not working, its a different ball game, but she dey make money and she know fit assist for house, guy na another person wife you marry ohh. Last week my wife go buy sandals for my children, she spend like 15k plus, she call me for work say she done go buy scandals ohh but she go tell my children say na me buy am, when I come back from work, na from door three of my children dey thank me, after I finish with my children I come go find my wife trouble, I tell am say make she know think say na she buy those scandals ohh, say make she remember say na all my money when she thief ohh, we just laugh... As a man, your wife suppose dey adore you. As someone said on nairaland the other day, ONLY YOU SUPPOSE BE YOUR WIFE FRIEND. Guys when una won marry open your eyes. Marriage is not child's play, you can go to work, stress your head, plan how make money everyday only for your wife to dey mess you up, haba now... If you be female self, you can't even come close to meself because my wife na LION. She love me more than she loves herself. We have almost a perfect marriage. Even if I keep 10M for house, for like 1 Month, highest money when go miss inside know go pass 10k, and I guarantee you,inside that 10k, I done chop 5k inside one way for the other.
The typical Nigerian misogynist.... Marriage is all about ME and everything should revolve around ME. SMH >
igwebest23: This is too much for me. I have had enough. I got married to my wife last year October 2020. I did both traditional wedding and white wedding, spent a million plus. I work with ministry of health.
My wife has been insisting that I disclose my salary to her from day 1 but I never, I just told her that am earning 100+. Before I met my wife, she already learn Fashion designing. Then while was rushing around, preparing for wedding, she was pestering me to open shop for her. I specifically told her that d money I have now is Solly for wedding and traditional rite, which cost me fortune.
Then after much pressure, her people contributed money and paid for d shop (Remember I have paid her bride price then). I have swallowed red pill. How can I open shop for a girl I have not finished marrying. Then when she opened d shop, I equally supporting her with other things like buying protector and chairs. Every day she is going to shop, I drop pocket of 1k. Some times she asks me money to buy tailor materials which I give.
Now within a space of 7 months my wife now has 14 apprentices. She collected like 30k from them. Then all the money she made in her shop, she put all in her account, she doesn't contribute anything at home. Infact decided not to apply for ATM card. Some time, I may go to. ATM to get money and d tell me no network, if I come to my wife to ask her for ordinary 1k, she will say she doesn't have it. I never asked her to help in our home finances before, and I don't really care about her money.
But now found out through her Facebook chat that she sent her male school friends 7k. She hid it from me, she said d guy needed d money to treat her father in d hospital. I was shock. Cos my wife always complained she does not have money. Now she is complaining that I don't support her in her shop. That she can do whatever she wants with her money.
This morning, she was raising her voice to the hearing our flat neighbors, that am a useless husband, I feel insulted. Am embarrased. That I don't support her. She said her shop rent has expired that I should give her d money but she have enough money in her account to pay it. While is asking me. Am d one that pays for house rent, I buy food stuff, I give her transport every day.
I have had enough. I will call her mum to come over and carry her daughter. I can never beat her. The last night I shouted at her she fainted not to talk of beating.
The typical Nigerian (Igbo?) male and money... Obviously money is the only (or most) important thing in your life.
Why did you even get married? You should have just married your money and cuddle and sleep with it. >
sucess001: Crap. Fanciful building done with taxpayers money without any purpose. Who needs a building for busses? These guys are confused. Instead of them creating alternative means of transport like water and finishing the train system they are using 14years to build...they are commisioning bus systems....
Not forgetting they are making money by auctioning people's cars to generate
About every major city (London, NYC, Paris, etc.) has bus terminals... Good public transportation is FOUNDATIONAL economic infrastructure and public service.
In Lagos, this is part of an INTEGRATED public transportation system that includes water and (ultimately) rail... Meanwhile, same Nigerians complaining about “fanciful” buildings will run and go take pics of same in Dubai or even Ghana! >
alexola20: How can a governor be commissioning a bus terminal in all the projects he could do for his state? 9ja twale!!
Is there a space station that you built that he’s forgetting to commission? Nigerians need to learn HUMILITY. He is SERVING the people by doing what’s important to them.
DEVELOPMENT IS A PROCESS, and not an event... It takes doing both the little things together with the big ones for HOLISTIC development.
But more importantly, it is about ACCOUNTABILITY... He’s physically showing residents the manifestation of their TAXES AT WORK! EKO O NI BAJE!! >
zudozz: All they do is to make people suffer! Now u spend 6 hours in traffic for journey that is not suppose to take more than 45 minutes. Everyday Lagos govt. dey close bridge.
So, you would rather the bridge collapse and people perish instead? >
AmotekunSW: There is definitely something wrong somewhere. Today is the 27th of May, and you are giving just a week's notice that a major transportation nerve will be closed for 10 weeks. What kind of insensitivity is that?
It is either these guys need better communicators or project managers or they need to import London-used commonsense for them to share among themselves.
The one they've been doing at Ojota, its seems they want to use 4 years to patch road. Those going to Ikorodu see Hell twice every day. The current Commissioner for transport in Lagos will just be wearing oversized suit about and be closing roads.
Sanwo-Olu needs to either fire or redeploy those in his Comms team, starting from the introverted Commissioner for Information. Those guys are a major part of the problem he's having.
What SUBSTANTIVE difference does it make? Will the alternative routes change with more notice?! >
Yes, CCTV are being deployed across the city, but what the 100 schools and 12 hospitals have been connected to is the new broadband system for which 1800km of cables have been laid (out of 3000km eventually), not the CCTV!
Toscarel: To be reopened in no time with apologies, you have forgotten how much we owe China. They own us.
Chinese loans constitute only about 3% of Nigeria’s total debt stock, and less than 10% of foreign debt... I don’t think Nigerians realize the amount of deep doodoo we’re in. Chinese debt is the least of our problems! >
leonn: We in Nigeria, last last money will exchange hands and the factory will be reopened...Note chinese don't need visa to enter Nigeria based on the loan we got from them. They can obtain visa in arrival if they wish
ANYBODY can get visa on arrival... It is NOT unique or special to the Chinese. >
kingjooo: I find the phrase "NONSENSE" in your previous quote offensive,you should have went ahead to make your points without using that word after mentioning about three of us.
You find the term “nonsense” offensive... But not the physical assault of human beings?! >
kingjooo: Please mind the way you address people on this forum,if you're sensible enough you should know that as adults we're all entitle to our various opinions. I never mentioned any one when i made my input,however my contribution is never to praise him for slapping anyone,but rather to point out that we nigerians can easily forget good deeds and quick to judge when someone goes wrong.If God can get's angry who is he?
How exactly did I “address people”?
Dude, I said nothing PERSONAL about anybody... I merely addressed their position - difference with a distinction!
Meanwhile, we should remember people’s good deeds... But should still hold them responsible for bad deeds - both are NOT mutually exclusive! >
matrixme: In our fight against monsters, we must take care so we don't become the monsters we were fighting in the first place. The moment ordinary Ahmed feels he can do whatever he likes and gets away with it because he's fighting human rights, then we need worry. Even Mother Theresa, as saintly as she is, still have some grey spots in her life that wouldn't exactly speak Christian, but nevertheless, everyone should be accountable. Nigerians won't see what's wrong here because we are mostly emotionally attached beings. Even our president has his sentiments with cows
Nbotee: Detractors have successfully yanked his show off the air. It was expected with the number of toes he was stepping on and exposure of institutional fraud and injustices
edoairways: That was what they wanted, the foolish masses gladly supported it. It is easy to criticize from the outside but difficult to bear the heat inside.
rita25: HOLYGHOST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHOEVER IS BEHIND THIS WILL BE DISGRACED OUT OF OFFICE FOR FIGHTING THE ONLY NIGERIAN MAN WHO FIGHTS FOR THE PLIGHT OF THE ORDINARY NIGERIAN IN A VERY CORRUPT COUNTRY.
kingjooo: Ahmed Isah! May your days on earth be long,from most of the comments i've read above,i've clearly seen that most Nigerians are ungreatfull set of people. I don't have much to say,but your reward for all humanitarian efforts single handedly carried out by you lies in heaven. May God bless you for all the lives that you've touched positively.
SoftP: Let’s forget Morals and face reality, How disgustful can u look into a woman’s face who set a Child ablaze. The lady was lucky she wasn’t lynched by Mob , obviously would’ve found her head on spike.
None seems to care about the burnt child, but the little tendered slap
PLEASE QUIT SUPPORTING NONSENSE....
What the woman did was HORRIBLE and should anger any sane person... But the difference between civilized people/nation and a PRIMITIVE ZOO is the Rule of Law!
When he took it upon himself to be judge, jury and summary executioner.... The only difference between himself and the woman became one of degree, not substance. _______________________________
PS: Btw, the woman likely has mental health issues... But these are things we do not address at all in Nigeria (or not until it’s too late). >
Celebrities › Re: Suruche Escapes Iphone Theft And Drugging A Lady False Accusations by 9jaRealist: 5:24pm On May 28, 2021
