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rodeo0070:
It was a sad moment at Ukwulu, Dunukofia local government in Anambra state when family, friends and colleagues converged to bid farewell to a renowned Nigerian blogger, Ada Doris Kamuche is popularly known as 'AdaIgbo'.

The accomplished social media influencer passed away on the 8th of February, 2021 after a brief illness at the age of 36.

At the Burial ceremony which took place at her father's compound on Saturday, 6th March 2021, the Guild of Professional Bloggers of Nigeria, GPBN was on the ground to bid farewell to their departed colleague.

In their condolence message to the family, the Guild prayed for the repose of her soul and encouraged the family to be strong in this trying moment and look up to the Almighty.

"AdaIgbo was one of us, she was resourceful, committed and above all, loving. She is a role model for many and an epitome of love. She will be remembered for her pure heart and willingness to help others even when it's uncomfortable for her," Clinton Umeh who led the delegation of the Guild said.

Until her death, Ada Doris Kamuche was the South-East coordinator of the guild, publisher of the popular AdaIgbo blog and the Chief Executive Officer of Ndigbo and Friends, a social media group with over one million members.

SOURCE: https://brandspurng.com/2021/03/08/popular-nigerian-blogger-doris-kamuche-adalgbo-buried-amidst-tears/

RIP Sis...

But abegi which one is the Nigerian Guild of Professional Bloggers?!
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ijustdey:
https://dailytrust.com/despite-clocking-60-accountant-general-frsc-boss-still-in-office

Who cares?
Except for people waiting their “Chop-I-Chop” turn.
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garfield1:
https://www.thecable.ng/with-ngwutas-death-mary-peter-odili-to-become-scourt-no-2-but-may-never-be-cjn

Supreme Court has become basic Civil Service, where seniority is more valuable than ability...
Of course, justices are now appointed to “represent” zones instead of on the basis of intellect and capability.
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theBLOODofJESUS:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/03/stop-being-tribalistic-pope-francis-tells-nigerian-christians/

That’s why I never really pay serious attention to all the silly “divide Nigeria” drivel...
The day you divide Nigeria is the day new campaigns to “divide” the new entities begin! SMH
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ASUNDER:
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

He no longer lives there, and cannot just show up as and when he pleases...
Some people go “to the abroad” and keep acting as if they are in lawless Nigeria. SMH
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ASUNDER:
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

Please let him stay over there...
Nigeria already has too many wife-beating losers.
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matm:
And a couple is giving birth to six kids.Go to d hospitals there and see d number of babies born each day.A man dt lives in rented one room with no house at home already has 5 kids with d wife pregnant for d sixth.20 years from now when these kids we are bearing without consideration for food,land and housing will grow,and d Nigeria will see what poverty,crime and destitution is.Bur d ignorant will always say it's God's gift.

Six kids is a tiny family for many in Northern Nigeria...
Go to IDP camps and see the ones with 18 kids and 2 pregnant wives!
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duro4chang:
Come to the streets of Lagos, you will see the good, the bad and the ugly sets of people.

And we know where they came from...

EKO ONI BAJE!
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Why is a political party’s flag flying over Government House?

Governance and partisan politics are disparate...
Once in office, you are the Governor of the state, not of the party. SMH

www.nairaland.com/attachments/13235643_img20210308150957_jpegea80f9ac28e6736adfe24f2be4be920c
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Xscape047:
dammm niggarr...
Looking at the pictures they should plz remain behind the scenes as usual

Dude, you sound ugly...
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OnlyDeCapPlease:
Vanessa Amadi. She used to look after Estelle I think and I remember booking CEO Dancers through her a couple of years ago

Her dad Tony Amadi was apparently a famous show biz impresario in Lagos before our time...
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Officialgarri:
Yet they keep asking why we love President Muhammad Buhari

You love him for appointing 32 women out of thousands of political appointments? SMH
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ijustdey:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2021/03/07/32-women-serving-as-ministers-hos-advisers-in-buharis-govt-says-adesina/

7 female ministers out of a cabinet of 48 ministers....DISGRACEFUL!!!
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damiloladuke:
https://lailasnews.com/lady-narrates-how-she-found-out-her-elder-sister-is-her-mother-video/

So PROUD of this brave young sister...

Nigeria’s often sexist and misogynistic “culture” usually encourages secrecy in such matters...
Purporting to be protecting the family’s “honor” but merely shaming victims and protecting evil perpetrators.

Glad that the filthy paedophile and rapist has been locked away. Hoping he doesn’t get raped in prison.
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onoms4luv:
Your father was later arrested and jailed and you're happy.

He made a mistake fine...

It was kept a secret, fine

Now you went back and open the said old wound.

Are you okay?

He is your father and let him be.

Here comes another disgusting and primitive one...
Raping your 10-year-old daughter is “a mistake”?

I hope you don’t have any children (or young neighbors)...
Because society should be really worried about their safety. SMDH
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Henix:
Can a decent lady wear those things she is wearing on her nose? I tire for some of
these slay queens

Edited:
For those who are attacking me for saying that the lady doesn't look decent, abeg the weather is too hot for argument. If the lady likes, let her also go and pierce her lips. It's obvious that she is not just an indecent lady, but also from an indecent family. Imagine a father impregnating her daughter, what a family!

YOU ARE PRIMITIVE DISGUSTING. DISGRACEFUL AND DESPICABLE MISOGYNIST!
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Vickym1:
So someone can't have laptop anymore in this con3

Quit defending criminals...
Unless you are one of them.
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AdesewaAde:
So recently, I’ve been having this feeling that my fiancé is a cheat, I’m not a type of woman who do choke my partner or check his phones cause I respect his privacy, even though he has always been checking my phone, going through my social media accounts and all other things, sometimes he will use my fingers to unlock my phone while sleeping just to go through it.

We’ve been dating since 2018, we became best of friends and our families are cool together, he is caring and jovial, he doesn’t hide things from me most especially financial issues, our social lives are almost the same, in short we are good together. We planned to do our engagement last year December but due to the way things were last year we postponed it and decided to pick another date, though I now spend half of my days at his place.

Fast forward to January this year, I started seeing some red signs that he is a cheat, many times I took his phone to unlock and go through since I know his passwords but I will drop it again cause there is no way I will check his phone without seeing things that will tamper with my peace of mind, since then, I’ve decided to open my eyes and ears more wider.

Later on , I discovered that anytime I am around, his phones were always on airplane mode, he only works on system, my heart started asking me different questions but I kept calm and I continued with my quest to catch him red handed, though I confronted him that he is cheating but he laughed at me and said 95% of men do cheat but he is among the remaining 5% that doesn’t.

Last month, we both decided to go on vacation, it was then I saw that I was actually in a relationship with a dog like person. There was a particular number that kept calling him, maybe he forgot to put the phone on airplane mode, at first I overlooked it but the number kept on calling about 59 times, it was then that I decided to pick it up and I heard a female voice, she said “you asshole, so you decided not to pick my calls because she is around, come online, I left you a message there” my heart skipped, who was she referring to as “she”? It was then I decided to unlock his phone for the first time and I just wish I didn’t do that, my eyes were heavy with tears as I was reading all sorts of conversations between him and different girls, not one, not two, not three, about ten of them, some even sent him nude pictures, he already bleeped some, some are still under format, two of them are new preys. I cried, many of them even know me, one even referred to me as his witch, I wept bitterly, I was on this weeping when he entered the room and saw me crying, all he could say was that how will I touch his phone in the first place.

He later apologised, after the much argument, I started parking my things to come back to out state, I told him I am done with the relationship, he started laughing at me and started shouting at the top of his voice “ babe you must be crazy, you are definitely out of your mind, how on earth must you think you can leave the relationship that I summoned up so much courage to ask you out? Listen woman, even if I cheat everyday, I can’t leave you, the truth is I will always cheat, I will apologise if been caught but I can’t ever place any woman above you,vI met our pastor in the hotel with another babe the last time I went to hotel for quickie with one chick, if pastors do cheat, who am I not to. At least you have the key to everything I have, if my parents can’t reach me, they will deliver the message to you, are you hungry? Are you looking rough? Do you want sex and I denied you? So what else should be your problem with me cheating “

I was short of words, he wasn’t even remorseful, I left there angrily and he kept calling, later he called his parents to explain the issues to them and they called me and pleaded, to make the situation worse his mom also said all men cheat. He has been threatening me that he won’t allow me to marry any other person, guys I’m really confused, please what can I do now, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with a man who doesn’t have taste.

Why are you “confused”?

He’s told he will ALWAYS cheat...
It’s up to you to accept it or not.
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Ikeast:
Enugu is always in the news, For a wrong reasons......

Enugu is a wrong reason...
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TWoods:
Nigeria has tons of doctors, scattered all over the world - a result of a corrupt society. Building more teaching hospitals isn't the answer, we'd just be training more doctors for the UK NHS, Canada etc. What we need to do is EQUIP existing hospitals, PAY the doctors their due and on time. Easy.

This!
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Nigeria remains a stark example of the saying that every country deserves its leaders...
The only difference between many Nigerians and their thieving leaders is OPPORTUNITY!
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Permesso:
I fear the integrity of this flyover will be poor like that of Aroma flyover and kwata flyover Awka that are cracking now, i saw them doing some patches on it. Why didn't he use Setraco or Arab contractors as usual. The contractors that built Umahi's flyovers wouldn't be bad. You mean Enugu state dosen't have a flyover, maybe they don't see the need because of low traffic.

Originalsly:
So flyover is now a major achievement and something for residents to brag about. Is this flyover necessary?... can someone post a photo let us see the gridlock in the area?.... how much these projects cost they never say... and residents never want to know.... this speaks a whole lot about the locals.

Of course, Enugu traffic hardly justifies a flyover....
But Nigerian governors have learnt that they can distract GULLIBLE citizens with flyovers.

Reality is that on cost-benefit analysis, very few states can justify flyovers...
Even the ones being built in Kano are mainly being plied by bicycles, Okada and Keke. SMH
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OEPHIUS:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1390764931267068&id=100010007227700

Nigerian governors and flyovers of distraction...
That’s why Africans were sold into slavery for trinkets. SMH
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BOOOMNAIJA:
DAILY INSPIRATION:

if u think whatever u are doing is useless, just remember that Liverpool trains everyday.

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ijaw1stson:
Na wa o

But matches are ongoing in Europe na.

ShackWes:
Afrika, don't know who do us this thing

kenzysmith:
lol joke of a continent. corona virus is now an excuse for a country incompetent to host d torney. corona no dey Africa . if Europe can host football matches who is Africa

Kittex7:
But they can always change the host country..

FIFA has canceled the U17 WC for this year....
South Americans have postponed their WCQs.
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slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....
Some dey fit dey cope.....

But I can't say same for women not circumcised

Women not circumcised always have the great urge for sex anyday anytime twice on their ovulation period....

Talking from experience.....have banged circumcised and uncircumcised female....they are different when it comes to sexual urge...although the uncircumcised ones enjoy sex more....and get to peak of excitement easily than the circumcised ones

This is the sort of IGNORANT drivel used to justify Female Genital Mutilation...SMH
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RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?

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joey150:
You made sense....but only to a small extent.

True, despite having achieved a great feat, she is the anomaly and not the norm.

Our education system is nothing to write home about, and for every genius there are a thousand academically poor students.

However, don't rain on the girl's parade by alleging that other competitors didn't come with their best contestants.

She won because she was the best of the rest.

Congratulations to her for doing Nigeria proud.

Do both of you have any idea how incredibly few “geniuses” there are?
The US, with the world’s largest highest education system, turns out tons of AVERAGE students and a minuscule amount of geniuses.
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KingAzubuike:
Just watch how because of this lonewolf incidence, Nigerians will come out to say Nigerians are the most intelligent in the world.. We too like hyping ourselves. I can't forget an argument I had with someone claiming Nigeria has the best army in the world.. I was like wtf!. Where do these clowns get their misinformation from.

I remember some years back, a school in the north (name withheld) invited the university of cape Town for a competition. Capetown sent anyhow students just to at least fulfil all righteousness and not disappoint. They got defeated. Next thing, the northern students started bragging on social media that they are a far better school than cape Town lol.

Back to the topic, competitions like these, you don't expect premium attendance. Those Ivy league schools don't get time for such and even if they do, they just send some of their less serious students to attend. Nigerians on the other hands will send the best of the best to compete and at the end of the day start beating their chest over mediocrity.

The LOW SELF-ESTEEM underlying this comment is just sad...SMH

PS: Btw, you seem confused about what the “Ivy League” is.
Perhaps you need to get out more or expand your circle of obviously limited acquaintances.
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naijaamebo:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/police-raid-anambra-homosexuals-hotel-party-arrest-scores/%3famp=1

Illiterate Nigerians and even worse police....SMH

“Being” gay by itself is not a crime, even under Nigeria’s primitive law...
Unless they were engaged in acts, they’ve committed NO crime under Nigerian law!
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