Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 2:06am On Jul 01, 2022 |
grandstar: Currentblog
Illiteracy or very poor level of education is the prime problem.
Next to it is the environment. If your peers are having several kids, you too would likely do the same. But if the opposite, you will have few kids
Thats why in Nigeria, the poor may have many, but if these same Nigerians were living overseas, they would choose to have few kids. The most any have is 3. If it was in Naija, it would be 5 or 6. In the UK, the most white families have is 2.
There are many adults without kids and are fine with it. Remember Theresa May or Angela Meckel? Bill Clinton only had a daughter. It is the same with the poor over there as well. Very few kids If they are poor in Nigeria, they likely wouldn’t be living overseas… > |
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Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 10:58pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
mediclife1987: Poor man sees sex as a consolation to his financial woes... Only for the resultant children to multiply his financial woes… > |
Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 10:57pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 10:56pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Cousin9999: How about we appreciate "poor" people for having more babies, so the population doesn't shrink and cause problems. We no longer live in the Middle Ages… When a huge population was needed as manual labor for a thriving society.
Population is a 2-edged sword… With proper education and healthcare it propels society forward, without it drags us down the pit of Boko Haram hell!
The way some (mostly Northern) Nigerian officials virtually “brag” about Nigeria’s future population projections… It’s alarming to realize they’re CLUELESS re the potential economic, sociological and environmental TIME-BOMB it could be!> |
Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 10:47pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
> Of course a big part of it is ILLITERACY and a lack of educational opportunities… Women who stay in school longer are better aware of family planning options, tend to start a family later and thus have less kids!
#TakePersonalResponsibility > |
Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 10:39pm On Jun 30, 2022*. Modified: 11:01pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Originalsly: The poor man can't afford to buy condoms for birth control .... he can't afford a side chick .....he can't afford to visit brothels.... women in the community know he is struggling ... may like him.. but can't take the chance of sleeping with him and becoming pregnant.... morning after pill he can't afford... much less abortion... and worse ... to support her... and the child... so what options he has left?... no TV ... no play station... no smartphone or no data... no wifi .... no porn to watch but he has a wife laying half naked in the cramped living space conserving on washing... she too with nothing to do.... so what else can they do?... but do the do?.. do you really think at those moments either one be thinking about pregnancy?... let alone another child? .. or having another child who may be the one to blow? They happen to have many children... and the children almost always manage to grow to adults .... and contribute more to society than the few children of the rich that do more harm to society. Even the poorest men can still afford the “pull out” birth control method that has worked for many people all their lives… > |
Family › Re: Why Do Poor Parents Have More Children Than Rich Parents? (pictures) by 9jaRealist: 10:35pm On Jun 30, 2022*. Modified: 2:01am On Jul 01, 2022 |
Currentblog:

How will a poor family have '6' childrens While an average rich families has '2' children respectively.
I dont know. Is poverty linked to fertility in women or its high sex drive in men..
What do you think about this nairalanders..
“why do poor parents have more children than rich parents". First, there’s virtually NO CONSEQUENCES for not taking care of your children… In the North (where some poor men have over 20+ kids), they simply become Almajiri.
Further, it’s the CULTURAL STUPIDITY that, even when you cannot take care of them, all kids are a “blessing”… Aligned to the STUPIDITY that if you have gazillion children, one of them will miraculously lift the family out of poverty.
#TakePersonalResponsibility> |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 7:43pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
tarantino1: You are an utter fool who refused to simply mind his business. I came online, read an article and decided to make a little joke only for a retardéd know-it-all to quote me with false assumptions when I've deeply read multiple articles that are over twice the length of this one.
If you don't want to be insulted next time, ensure to mind your business. Still refuse to degenerate into the gutter of personal insults with you… Because I was obviously raised better and you obviously have more experience in the gutter. 
Meanwhile, your “joke” fell flat, as it was based on a faulty presumption…  And thing with PUBLIC DISCUSSION forums is the PUBLIC is free to DISCUSS any posted comments!> |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 6:34pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
tarantino1: Another idiot on the loose on Nairaland.
Don't quote me to spew bullshit again. What made you think I didn't read past the headline, omniknowest? I will ignore the juvenile personal insult… Merely betrays the lack of a substantive argument, and probably a crude personal upbringing.  Meanwhile, if you actually read past the headline and still came up with the drivel you did… Then it is perhaps understandable to see why you need to resort to the crutch of personal insults and invective after all.  > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 6:24pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Brushstrokes20: Bullocks! Comprehension may be your problem, not mine  I read every dammmmmmmmnnnn thing and I firmly stand by my earlier assertion! The lifeless, bloodthirsty scammer adores and pampers anything BOKOHARM irrespective of nationality, crime, geographical location et.al  Buhari is Nigeria's WORST BLUNDER!. You’re RIGHT about the Dullard of Aso Rock…  But you were WRONG in your precipitous presumptions that those SA nationals were his “brothers”! It’s not mutually exclusive to be right about one thing and be WRONG about another thing… And if you insist that you’re not WRONG, despite evidence to the contrary, then you’d be as obstinate as Buhari!  > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 6:11pm On Jun 30, 2022*. Modified: 7:37pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 6:00pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: That still leaves the following questions unanswered.
What is terrorism? Is it a crime or a law abiding activity?
is there anything we wrote about bokoharam in Nigeria that is not true?
If the south African govt can give a "criminal gang" a combined sentence of more than 300years, what is the sentencing and punishment given to Boko Haram members in Nigeria? Crickets… [ignore button activated ]> |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:57pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: That still leaves the following questions unanswered.
What is terrorism? Is it a crime or a law abiding activity?
is there anything we wrote about bokoharam in Nigeria that is not true?
If the south African govt can give a "criminal gang" a combined sentence of more than 300years, what is the sentencing and punishment given to Boko Haram members in Nigeria? Is Queen Elizabeth II, English?!  Abegi, quit driveling on about the obvious… Most of those posts were going on about ”if this was in Nigeria…blah,blah,blah”Are you saying that regular criminals in Nigeria are not ROUTINELY prosecuted in Nigeria? In fact, unlike these armed robbers in SA, Nigerian armed robbers are REGULARLY executed or hanged! Just move on… This insistence on meaningless OBFUSCATION merely belittles you. > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:46pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: Still doesn't answer the simple questions.
What is terrorism? Is it a crime or a law abiding activity?
is there anything we wrote about bokoharam in Nigeria not true?
If the south African govt can give a "criminal gang" a combined sentence of more than 300years, what is the sentencing and punishment given to Boko Haram members in Nigeria? What are babbling on about? The ONLY point I made is that so many folks failed to read past the headline - including YOU! > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:42pm On Jun 30, 2022*. Modified: 6:06pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Memeni: South Africa is giving Boko Haram terrorists jail terms while the ZOO integrates them into the army. Arabaincubus: They will rehabilitate and redirect them to banditry in Nigeria. Oxala: Nigeria's biggest export to the world  Deeprooted: Federal government will not like this! Subsea101: That's right, show Nigeria how it is done... over here, they are treated like kings, all in white shining like diamond, when all they do is to leave sorrow and wailing in the lives of people. This people deserve 1000 years in jail with hard labor. Brushstrokes20: Buhari is about to be engaged in a diplomatic ROW with South Africa!... His bloodthirsty brothers has been wrongfully imprisoned. cerebralniggie1: Buhari will grant them amnesty Voiceofthestree: Sorry in Nigeria we give boko Harram scholarship we give them money take care of their family give them cloth and housing food nah even cow FG deh kill for them daily and when they want to go hurting we give them helicopters you go the wrong direction next time know where you are loved naijaebay: While the Nigeria Government is busy operating a catch and release program with 'repent' boko haram members,South Africa has shown they are not joking around with those blood sucking demons maxzzo1: If is naija na from back door dem go free dem.....if na lie how BH boys abi na men Naija govt don sentence ?? kponkedenge: In Nigeria Buhari would have given them amnesty and a couple of millions of naira to start life all over.
And you wonder why insecurity in Nigeria is out of control.
Remember how OBJ and Yar'adua handled Boko Haram?
Everything shouldn't be tribalism.... Now our security agencies have been also corrupted by tribal bigots carrying guns.
I was on YouTube, and I almost cried while watching Nigeria '99 under 21 football tournament when the likes of Iniesta, Ronaldinho, Xavi etc came to Nigeria to play.
Now, FIFA can't even dream of giving Nigeria any tournament because of the level of insecurity.
Nigeria has to get back to its old glory days when insecurity, nepotism and tribalism were relegated because all zones were properly represented. More Nairalanders who didn’t bother to read past the headline…  > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:38pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: What is terrorism? Is it a crime or a law abiding activity?
is there anything we wrote about bokoharam in Nigeria not true?
If the south African govt can give a "criminal gang" a combined sentence of more than 300years, what is the sentencing and punishment given to Boko Haram members in Nigeria? Why do you think most Nigerians wanted bandits labeled as “terrorists” instead of “criminals”?  Terrorism is not just a semantic variant, but actually is a substantively and legally DISPARATE definition.> |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:34pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: What is terrorism? Is it a crime or a law abiding activity?
is there anything we wrote about bokoharam in Nigeria not true?
If the south African govt can give a "criminal gang" a combined sentence of more than 300years, what is the sentencing and punishment given to Boko Haram members in Nigeria? I try not to belabor the obvious… Just admit you were mistaken and move on. It doesn’t make you less… But obdurately persisting with fallacy does. > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:32pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
jojothaiv: You can check my comment again. Good. See you’ve modified it…NP > |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:19pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: Is bokoharam in Nigeria not a criminal gang and is there anything we wrote about bokoharam in Nigeria not true?
If the south African govt can give a "criminal gang" a combined sentence of more than 300years, what is the sentencing and punishment given to Boko Haram members in Nigeria? Nope! It is not… Boko Haram is a TERRORIST group and an insurgency.
Terrorists use terror for POLITICAL purposes… While an insurgency actually seeks to occupy TERRITORY!
These dudes are just regular run-of-the-mill criminals.> |
Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 5:15pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Three Boko Haram Members Handed 128 Years Jail Term Each In South Africa by 9jaRealist: 4:50pm On Jun 30, 2022*. Modified: 5:27pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Commissions Newly Built Vetland School In Agege, Lagos (Video, Pics) by 9jaRealist: 4:47pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
leksite120: Imagine being some of the beneficiaries of stuffs like these in Tinubu's regime. Now they're supporting him on becoming the president cos they believe he's the right person and some people from the other side start cursing and blackmailing them. It can never work Problem is there’s little or no “beneficiaries of stuffs(sic) like these in Tinubu’s regime”… Since Tinubu only managed to build a grand total of 4 (four) schools in his 8 years as Governor. SMH > |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Commissions Newly Built Vetland School In Agege, Lagos (Video, Pics) by 9jaRealist: 4:42pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
emerged01: I can't applaud Lagos state for this. Commissioning of this kind of project is a disgrace. Normally,this is how all public schools should look like. “Normally”, in Nigeria or in America?!
The other day, Favor Ashe ran 9.99 to win 100m at the Nigerian Championships… I guess we shouldn’t applaud him because Usian Bolt ran the same 100 in 9.58 secs. SMH> |
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MansoryMX: If this franchise gets to Nigeria and is managed by Whites then I will apply for if it’s being managed by Nigerians forget it! A sad mentality…  > |
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Nairaland General › Re: No Reply Or I don't have.... Which Do You Prefer? by 9jaRealist: 11:05pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
YoudeyVexme: When asking for help from someone been monetary assistance....if you don't have to give or don't want to...I prefer been ignored. no need writing me back.
just read and ignore.
trust me I respect you more.
But writing me back to tell me lies you don't have, when you and I know you do is painful and annoying.
So tell me guys which do you prefer? A BEGGAR HAS NO CHOICE… 
While I believe EVERY person deserves due respect… Perhaps you need to “respect” yourself and your relationships by not putting other people on the spot.
It’s often worsened by the ENTITLEMENT mentality of many Nigerians who believe others “owe” them philanthropy… Nonetheless, people who choose to tell “stories” (as you put it) are NOT doing it out of malice, but merely trying to be civil.
Your reaction frankly says more about YOU than it does of them!> |
Family › Re: Paternity Fraud At Its Peak! by 9jaRealist: 10:49pm On Jun 29, 2022*. Modified: 4:12pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Maverick777: Top of the Morning Y'all!
It was yesternight after work, I decided to stop by a grocery shop to stock up as usual. On coming out, driving through my estate back gate, boom! A cluster of people gathered, some at different sides of the road, others at the scene, I looked closer it was a lady and a guy fighting, and others were just watching not separating them, I pulled over immediately (best decision I ever took). If it was any other scenario I wouldn't have even looked twice, but you see man beating/fighting woman, I detest it!
Before I could come out and asked what's happening, the lady already burst the guy's head open with a stone, he had blood all over his head/face, ah! then joined in another guy slapping her and pulling her hair (she kept shouting OMONIGHO!), I was like what the f***, what if her husband or brother shows up?
Just before I wanted to go and separate them, I just said lemme confirm what's happening... I finally asked, -wetin dey happen?
'Bros, this lady husband just catch her with man dy comot for hotel so, he call secretariat boys to drag her and the man go, na wetin she dey fight so, say she nr wan go'. -were the husband so? 'see am for there'.
Woah! the husband stood behind a highlander jeep on his phone, now it made sense why she kept shouting OMONIGHO!!! Further findings showed that, they've been married for 5years, he has asked her time and time again, their child is always falling sick(he's SS), and the man is (AA) ,she always downplayed the fact... Now, rumor had been going on that's she's cheating, but since he is a bonkery(oil people) worker, he's mostly out of town. From what he said, he said the child looks exactly like the man he caught the wife with now...
Boom! off they drove to secretariat, younger me would've driven along the convoy to see the end... but for my sanity sake, I chose not to.
Now, what's happening with women nowadays? if you see the husband and the man she's cheating with, they're world's apart oh (husband dust am in every facet) is it money, attention, sex, high-libido, urge-to-explore or what exactly??
Some say women don't marry who they love, but who's ready, even at that, you should know you're married and respect the union! Do you know what it means for a man to marry you, provide for you and end up to be training another man's child?
Why do MARRIED women cheat? The men sleeping with the married women are useless oh, no doubt, but you can make a case that some of them don't even know the ladies are married..
I'm getting scared every passing day about keeping an undercover slut at home.. You people pity us(MEN) nah. Most women no longer have shame.. Sodom and Gomorah babes no do reach this one oh.
What do these women actually want?! DUMB PRIMITIVE MISOGYNISTIC NIGERIAN MEN…
If your wife cheats and you want to break up, go to court… Hiring thugs to physically beat her up is PRIMITIVE AND DISGRACEFUL!Meanwhile, if they’re beating every cheating Nigerian spouse… There will not be enough stick in the world to beat Nigerian men with. SMH > |
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