Girl9999: I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
When it comes to relationship, every man or woman has got stories to tell. Your case is just that you have been unlucky with the men you have been dating. It's not that all men are the same. You have to keep trying forgetting your past and moving on with your life. The man that cares and truly loves will someday come your way. Suicide is never an option. Remember, a person who cannot be disappointed in life is a person who does not relate with anybody on earth but himself or herself. I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE
Has Davido run DNA test on Ifeanyi and the result comes out negative? What has happened between the two overhyped lover birds now that they are not seen together again these days?
So, because we want to eat cow meat we must begin to call cow brother? Should we fold our arms and watch your kinsmen destroy our farmland, kidnap our people for ransom, rape our women and kill our people all on the alter of eating cows, using cosmetics and leather belts? To hell with you and your cows!
You disappointed yourself for killing yourself over allegation from these days pastor who I'm sure is a ritualist himself. These days pastors' words are countless and as such people should take them with levity
fergie001: You are covering up killing of #EndSARS protesters - AI
In a release to mark 100 days of the Lekki Toll Gate incident, Amnesty International (AI) Nigeria, a global campaign movement fighting for a safe, fair and equal world where human rights are enjoyed by all, alleged that Nigerian authorities were covering up in bringing the perpetrators of the purported killings to book.
ebukajay184: A wife on Saturday, in Ugbuwangue, Warri, Delta State, hit her husband with the heel of her shoe over allegation of infidelity, killing him in the process, IgbereTV reports.
The mother-of-two struck her husband, Sylvester Etsebanghanro Ighomi, at the back of his head with the shoe.
IgbereTV gathered that the couple had engaged in a misunderstanding over alleged infidelity on the part of the deceased.
It was learnt that the woman had approached her husband where he sat and struck him with her shoe heel in the back of his head from behind. He fainted and began to foam from his mouth and died before he could reach the hospital.
It is in doubt if the deceased was legally married to the woman or fulfilled all the marriage rites on her. But the deceased had lived with her and the children, a community source said.
The suspect has been detained by the police as at the time of this report.
Meanwhile, friends of the deceased have taken to Facebook to mourn him.
Abdulazeez99: How Man Ended In Jail After He Caught His Wife With The Landlord — Lawyer Narrates
A lawyer has narrated how a man ended up in jail for acting out of anger when he caught his wife sleeping with the landlord, Igbere TV reports.
The lawyer explained that the husband took a stool and hit his landlord on the head when he caught him with his wife.
The landlord died instantly and the man was arraigned for murder.
While in court after 5 years of trial, he confided in his lawyer that he regrets killing his landlord because it has occurred to him just how many men the same wife he was fighting to keep must have slept while he's away in jail.
The man came out of jail after spending 10 years in prison only to discover that his wife already has two sons and a daughter with a neighbour.
The lawyer went on to advice people not to kill themselves over a cheating partner.
Are these amotekun guys mad? Why would they treat kids like this just because they imitate an artiste? Most of these guys are illiterates and as such, they are prone to do unprecedentedly unimaginable stupid things.
Funlag: Igboho brought this on himself...why will u make an order wen u are not the governor
You're having mouth odour. Go and brush your stinking teeth. Where was the coward called governor when people were complaining of being kidnapped, raped and killed in their own land by the terrorists called Fulanis?
Fahdiga: He should be given Kanu treatment. We the Yorubas prefers to live with peaceful Fulani herdsmen than terrorists IPOB. Sunday Igboho is on his own
Women and infidelity are like Siamese twins and any man that wants to date or marry any woman should always take that into consideration, accept that fact and prepare for eventuality.
NOTE:- As a man, no matter who you are, what you are and whatever good you can do for women, the bitter fact is that they are insatiable. Just do your best and allow them live their insatiable life. Remember, no life is worth being taken over INFIDELITY.
Sctests: Prof. Akintoye you are wrong, we yoruba muslim believe that buhari is the best ruler in the whole wide world. Ipob is the problem not the beloved and peaceful fulani people. There is nothing wrong with fulanis raping our mothers and wives in yorubaland. They are simply transfering their 'semen of power' into the uterus of our yoruba women, in readiness for our 2023 presidency.
This writer must be suffering from acute Covid19 walahi talahi
sapphiere: A group of Nigerian men was seen wearing baby pampers while waiting to cash out at an ATM stand in Lagos state, Nigeria. WonderTV media reports. Watch the video below:
Canadianelenu: Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.
My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.
Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.
However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.
Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................
Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?
What is wrong in your woman surrendering her body to the robbers so as to live to take care of you and her children? We sometimes attribute so much importance to sex than it really is. If your wife was not married a virgin, have you thought of how many men must have slept with her and how many times before you met her? If you don't give a damn about that just because you love her, the same thing should be applied to this situation if God forbids it happens. After all, a woman could sleep with over ten different men in a particular day and still sleep with her husband on getting home without her husband knowing about it.
NOTE:- Women genitals are a mystery which will never be unravelled till Christ come. Show me a man who has lived long in life and I will show you a man who has always remained calm even in the face of his wife's infidelity.