₦airaland Forum

Ndukings92:
fact sir, u just said it all. The problem we normally have is that we already know the truth but when the truth is not favorable to our desire, we start forcing things even when we know that we are building a time bomb. A bomb we know will eventually burst one day, a broken relationship is far better than divorce. The world don't care who the architect of d divorce is, it's already a stain in ur records

Couldn't be said any better bro.

The girl deserves her happiness just as everyone else, so it's in her best interest she quit, because no matter what, she would always be disrespected by him as she has showed she needs the relationship more. Happy New Month.

Romanoff:
Still no excuse for her to disgrace herself, her child, her family and your family on TV.

If she wants an end to the marriage, she's in her right to end it honourably.

But to throw the marriage institution into the dustbin, especially with a mop head that disrespects her ( the yeye guy told someone her vagina smells fishy), it's just really shameful.

Na you dey get the gist before anyone else.
Are you in the house ni?

Ndukings92:
U alone knows what your heart wants, no amount of advice can change it. U are already full of remorse and regret, can u be sincere to ur self and not us? U love him a lot right? u still want him, even if it true that he is secretly dating or want to date her, u don't care anymore. U just want him back cos u are seriously missing him, u seriously want him cos u seriously love him. I have been in ur shoes my dear, I broke into pieces in 2016 to d extent that I considered Suicide. I lost a lot of money trying to secure Dubai visa just to walk out of her sight at that time, my house rent expired and I closed my apartment and run back to my dad's residence. STILL I survived without running back to apologize for doing nothing. I am getting married by d grace of God by January to a lady that I don't even deserve, she is too good for me and my family so much love her even when she is not my tribe. Prayerful, a nurse, hardworking, caring and understanding. Me I love her so much but she love me more,
Babe review ur self again to know if u were a blessing or a curse to him, will he later regret it when u move on? Or he don't give a damn, u know y I asked? My ex accused her girl when they were quarreling of recent that she was d reason y I left"that she gossip about her to me" and it's not true. My life now is better than before, so check ur self and work on ur self

Wishing you a blissful home ahead bro, nowadays, na when woman love pass, na im sure pass o.....so your mind would be at peace....It is obvious the op loves the guy more, so she should avoid the guy, because no matter what she does, the guy is done with her and would keep disappointing her as they would always have issues over irrelevant things.

This is a red flag, op should disappear from the relationship and set a standard for herself.

Ritzybeauty:
The highest form of disrespect ever in a relationship

Highest form of disrespect, but children would always be children..........

US, and UK might end up regretting this. Biden claimed Troops left Afghanistan because the afghans failed to take their future into their hands and safeguard their country from talibans, only for US to be saving these same set of people by all means. If someone wants to enter these countries now, na oyinbo somone go dey speak like say na English i read from school. Biden should not create problems for coming POTUS with his poorly orchestrated evacuation/withdrawal. I love Trump evacuation plan than Biden's, this is one of the worst US oversea policies ever.

Buckeyemedia1:
But the Lands Use Act 1978, gives the Governor the power to allocate no more than 400 Hectares @ once for grazing, so which law is President Buhari breaking? Your ignorance to the provisions of the law, is always your downfall.

There was no part of the 1978 law of the land use act promulgated by obasanjo contained this obnoxious policy. Stop posting rubbish.

Beckysexy:
Nawa o

Nigerian mentality

So, because you're using iPhone means you can't be broke at some certain stages ?


But we ladies matter tire me sef. How can you be using iPhone 12 and still be asking for urgent 2K instead of urgent 20K ?

Good girl with bad habits indeed you're

TJoshy:
what's live coding test ?

To prove your competence and expertise, you would be given some word problems to solve which provide solutions to a peculiar problem, could be in JavaScript, php or python. One I took last was in Python, JavaScript and you are timed, with some conditions set, if you get past this stage, believe me, your chances are high to get to the interview stage. My case study was for an American firm precisely in New York.

Angelawhite:
God bless her.

Uber driving is another business a lot of the youth don’t even consider but it’s a secret gold mine.

A lot of the unemployed youth won’t give Uber driving a thought but will rather choose to apply and lobby for government jobs or attend church services to pray for a miraculous job

Uber is good if you run it yourself, or you give it to someone trustworthy, the one my friend did when he gave out his Hyundai, na fight we take collect the car from the daredevil, he almost damaged my guy's car and remittance was even lowest of the lowest.

That is true op, some of my guys with Andela work remote with some American firms but ultimately leaving Nigeria should be everyone's priority as a programmer. If one gets past the live coding test, then one is 60% sure of nailing the job if he/she puts in more efforts. Working as an expatriate can be so sweet, hopefully our button clicks.

Nice one travelwaka, but are you the same with the travelwaka that got married this past weekend to my female friend?

I have this friend whose pregnancy didn't really affect her much while I have another, from the beginning till the end, na from one complain till the other, but unfortunately, her husband is abroad. Me no like too much stress o .. Make wifey pity us

Bola146:
Let me sit here and enjoy the comments....

Make I bring pop corn

Ghani deserves some slaps, how I wish the talibans Captured him and dealt him some blows, after his failed government looped in corruption, wasted lives of more than 60000 Afghan soldiers and police, more than 2000 American active service men, only to disappear to an unknown location. Such a bloody coward, good the US pulled out, shows ghani is bereft of ideas how to settle the crisis in his country. You are aware the US is pulling out, your soldiers are tired of you and even the war, but only agree to disappear when the talibans closed in on the capital, act of a self centered human. This is modern era, it would be hard for the talibans to rule for long because no country can be an island, there must sales, you must stabilize your currency, economy need to run afloat. Very soon, the talibans would announce their democratic educated face that can strike a balance between Islam and civilization, the women would not need be afraid, it can not be as bad as twenty years ago, things and times have changed. It's just the beginning, a new era, the talibans would be flexible with time, if international community pressure them collectively, but Russia, China, and turkey, I don't trust them, it's like they a point to prove to US, they might end up supporting the talibans.

I'm not averse to both parties wearing, even me can but if she makes no issues out of me not wearing, then she wears it alone.

How you people fall in love with married women baffles me when there are more than a thousand and one single girls out there.... Married women, baby mama, can never take my wink. You guys should have class biko

After breastfeeding the new born babies, the grown up real owner must be breastfed too . There are many other relevant issues affecting Gender, leave this to health ministry.

If this is true, who would have thought Ramos and Messi would ever play together after their fierce rivalry dated many years back in Laliga, it's always good to be good, we can meet anywhere tomorrow. Considering the relationship Messi and barca enjoyed over the many years back, one would have thought Messi would take a pay cut, but he knows best.

arkonpoint:
Yes. Married with two kids. One thing we men get wrong is trying to treat our women like a princess from a fairytale movie. I wish I had read more about the redpiller forum a long time ago, most of what's happening now would've been prevented.

It is good to treat our wives as princesses, because that is who they are, but they should sure be ready to treat us as princes too. Well, aside childbirth, and marital abuse suffered by some women, that sometime leads to death, i wonder where OP carried out his statistics to affirm this. When you marry a woman who genuinely watches over you and sees you as a priority, you would have peace of mind, and peace of mind would genuinely give you good health and working system except one has medical issues. The man can die first when he overstresses himself, overthinks, takes his health unseriously, but with a good woman who genuinely loves him and treats him as a prince, those would never weigh him down as he has a support to rely on. Marrying a wrong partner or having a loveless/lifeless marriage after a starting spark is what anyone would never pray for.

djon78:
But in marriage
The man is the captain

The main issue is that many ladies no dey gree nowadays
And men too are becoming much hardened

So the marriage don already get k leg

She no dey gree, then she remains single nah, me that can't cede my leadership for anything, we would always be having issues no matter how often we settle.

jaxxy:
U didn’t do due diligence. U should know 50% of gals are ingrates, liars or pretenders.

Reduce that to 40%, those ones want to reap where they didn't sow....

i quite remember when i met her at federal palace hotel during a function, she is damn beautiful, and tall......

Jodha:
I don't think there's a specific number....when my spirit cannot can again....i move...

See my run away woman.....

Amotolongbo:
[s][/s]verbose of absolute thrash

You clearly are bereft of ideas to validate your vague points, enjoy your low standing.

Amotolongbo:
Which power does Buhari has outside Nigeria?

Does a Nigerian President have a power over another sovereign nation?

Obasanjo’s influence will always be felt in many part of the world

You keep writing trash right from front page, one would have expected you to tame your exuberance, but it keeps getting a better part of you, maybe because you're either shying away from the truth or you're just been economical with the truth. Some people with your mindset are the ones looting in SA, when their lord, Jacob Zuma was arraigned in court which he feels he is greater than, found guilty of the charges he is accused of, and then reprimanded in prison. some of their citizens nearly set their country ablaze because they believed their god is greater than SA, and even the government, hence should not answer to any crime just the way no one can hold our present and past leaders accountable to any offense. Obasanjo does not wield any power/influence more than Buhari, and stop writing like who did not enter the four walls of a school. No one in Nigeria is greater/more influential than the government, except the government wants to tow the path of peace for security of others and many. It all boils down to the Beninoise Government accepting to extradite him or not, but buhari and Pratice Talon are good friends and share common ties. The Government of Benin might want to take their pound of flesh for the border closure, but Buhari's limits start where Obasanjo's end.

TheUndercover:
Of course, there are lot of ways to know if a girl truly loves you through her actions, I will be talking about a few.

She spends and invest a lot in the relationship:

Generally, most women are stingy when it comes down to money. They believe it's your duty to keep providing for them, a girl who truly loves you will spend for you and also do things most typical girls won't. I once had a girl that continues to do and buy expensive things for me even after breaking up with her with the reasoning I might later reconsider her, LOL! No.

She breaks rules for you:

A girl that truly loves you will break her moral principles to satisfy you. She might not be like this to anyone else.

She stays with you even with many other options available for her:

A girl that truly loves won't easily detach herself from you. If you break up with a girl and she moves on easily, she wasn't in love you, she was using you.

There are lot of ways to verify if the love she has for you is real by making her pass series of tests and challenges. But in all, never trust a woman completely. Trust but verify.

The Love doctor himself....

dmbb:
Some people are hypocrites if they have the money they will marry as much as they like, but because they don't have money they are now insulting him because of envy. Ahmed Musa congratulations go and enjoy your life

Exactly, you cannot know the true nature of a man unless he has money, that is when our true nature comes out. Money makes you do lots of things you never could imagine possible while struggling. Frankly, been a Muslim, he is entitled to it, and in Nigerian setting, a man can marry more than one wife, but for me, i detest such nature. One sef na work talk more of two, i hail those people, i just can never try this.

Of course, for me agreeing to marry a woman, she must have met all my checks and expectations to a minimum of 95% comfortably with a room for improvement. So, I would do a joint account with my partner, the joint account would be towards projects, goals, and not for frivolities which would be well spelt out.

RIP Young chap. Reminds me of my undergraduate days in UNIBEN, we can't count lives lost those days to hit and run vehicles. Seidu can't ever forget how his fine looking chubby face was disfigured, thank God for he came from a buoyant home, that guy's live would have been lost to reckless drivers who drive at night with no headlamp.

Sorry for the little experience, poor anyway. Ordinarily, once a woman starts blocking you, just know she's using you to her advantage and nothing more than a leech who's after her own self centerd goal. She should not even unblock you, we were once in same shoes. If you need to go out with a woman with your earning, go with one who adds value to you and blesses your hustle. Never allow a woman disrespect you with this pettiness because you won't be the Man you're suppose to be. She blocks you, you too ghost her, let her look for who she can carpet, be the Man!

Quelme:
I paid 20k just to facilitate things. Not funny bro... on top the 15k remitta... All because of international passport. 35k altogether.... In 10 working days it was corrected and rectified.. Lagos precisely..

I guess the extra 20k paid was because of express, ordinarily, it costs 15k.