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doggedfighter:
Superstition and religious idiocy have finished


this one.


You are using a vehicle that's badly in need of repairs to carry someone's daughter.

Babe, don't be so sure o.. What if it's not a mere coincidence but it's what it is as he claimed.

Dark, chocolate or brown skin girl.. 2 or 3.. All these light in complexion..... Wahala too much......

Born2conquer:
And some of us look younger than our age, humans are insatiable.

You look older, use it to your advantage and also make money

Money stops every form of low self esteem

Is there anything money doesn't stop?

Cheap or not, I love BMWs.... Just as I love Benz, Ford, and audi... They intimidate on the road. Nigerian used BMW, what do you expect ... Me no like Toyota jare... That thing too common for road....

doggedfighter:


How are you doing?

The dogged woman... I'm fine jare... And do have a lovely day.

doggedfighter:
The confused clown above isn't worthy of being called a vegetable.



Policemen are beasts.

Chai.. This your mouth ehn.... You never change ...

Mechanical Engineering is a better option, as petroleum engineering graduate myself, we're streamlined to completions, production, drilling, geology and the reservoir, but diversifying to OI, pipeline, subsea engineering, safety, process is the real deal. Basically, building connections, network, attending SPE conferences, and presenting technical papers would surely go a long a way. Oil industry is a nice place everyone wants to work in. Lastly, the oil industry is shifting towards AI and digital engineering.

Just visit the recipient's bank, it's no big deal, I have many times received wrong funds before even more than twice, and I transferred back to the sender with a clear warning of never to repeat it again. The girl thank me tire, that we even became good friends sef. The only time wrong funds entered my account and I wasn't happy the bank collected the money was when I was in the university, I saw 6k or so in my wema account, I thought good Samaritan blessed me, so I left the money there, only for Friday to come and I saw debit alert. I enter bank that same Friday go complain of fraud in my account before the banker tell me say she mistakenly credited me and during end of the week balancing, then they started looking for missing money until they traced my account, I just annoyingly went out after they won't let me enjoy the weekend .

E b like say Messi no dey watch ball, na to play the game he is in for. How on earth could he have mentioned united ahead of Liverpool!!? ..Baba should know Liverpool can bring them to their knees in a situation where united would even capitulate.

Being a virgin does not guarantee a good home which should ultimately be the priority.

People should just be careful, companies with no website or a verifiable address on the internet should be a turn off to everyone.

These guys are wicked, heartless and inhumane. They deserve no kind penalty. How can you maltreat fellow human being like that?

First and foremost, been big is relative. Ordinarily for me, If it's not monetary, couples should never have issues, if they're with listening ears and very understanding. While you're eating, playing with your partner, gisting over life generally, chip in important things that can grow your marriage. She was a virgin prior to marriage, so what's big to her might be small to another since she never had any body count. You need to ask if it pains her, either at entry or end point, again, positions also matter too, If she doesn't find a position comfortable, change style, try different ones that favors her. Eat good food that boosts urges. If she complains you last too long, no over do, lasting too long is also relative, try out few mins first, but always let her understand you're meant to please each other, she shouldn't be stiff sexually. Again, only you can fix your home, involve no third party if she has listening ears, let her understand how she's making you feel. There are many churches that talks on intimacy for married couples, buy her good church books for couples that focus on intimacy and help her. Never ever look outside, never compare her with another, just find a way to walk through your challenges and get the best out of her. Change is constant, so I believe you can get your best out of her. I like when women are open, selfless, free, non rigid and conversational, those can be so explicit, that they advice on what to do to help like in this case, even if it possibly fails in the end, at least they were intentional.

If i were in his shoes, i would never leave my family for any other, no way. Again, he goofed for having extra marital affair, and also, that you chose to allow sex with no protection, in this jet and age, were you expecting something different? and you would claim to be enlightened!. Lastly, pre marital sex is a sin, you both are all shades of wrong, and should be ashamed of yourselves. You both have sinned greatly and need forgiveness. I would never be in support of abortion, so keep the baby, and use your brain to live a glorifying life, one God and your parents would be proud of.

MMXX:
This UBA app is never reliable, sometimes it won't open or login no matter how much u try

Sms alert, email notification gives you instant account transaction updates. You can opt for email notification than sms alert to save money. No bank can charge me for stupid sms alert, I've entirely gone electronic.

Frankly, understanding is the key. Some men don't pray their wives earn than them, because they know the kind of wives they have. For me, no big deal in it depending on the relationship with your woman, but no man should be in this shoe. There is so much respect to the man if he foots the bills in the house with ease, the wife can just be a support.

It's quite not easy for some men, even when some are hungry and have little left with them, they would still place their family first, what the wife and kids at home would eat would be the front burner in his plan. May God keep blessing us.

Some women married to soldiers are really nice, my encounter with one whose husband is one of the ogas at ikeja cantonment close to Maryland was fine too. Even in her disappointment, she was very happy and friendly.

My friends who took theirs and felt cold later made me shiver at some points, though they're all fine now. Should have my first jab this week.

Mr100Dollars:
As a married man don't keep a mistresses, just have sex with a random girl without any emotional attachment, move on. Respect your wife and your peace of mind....

So doing this mean you still respect your wife?

Whatever you do and you cannot hit your chest and tell your partner with confidence that it is for our best interest baby, and the partner telling you baby I LOVE YOU FOR THIS..it is obvious your conscience would tell you, you did wrong which indirectly means you have disrespected your wife.

Extra Marital affairs should never be condoned under any coloration.

It has led many to meeting the wrong women who tied them down and eventually led some to their early graves.

kokanepyramid:
For me it’s this latest trend of multi-talented girls.
You meet a lady and ask what she does next is she’s a PR, she does personal errands, she promotes brands, she does home cooking, she sells bags, boxers and singlets online.

One person all the above.

I will not even call you afterwards, cos I already know what you do.

The bolded seems common everywhere, and they live a lifestyle they themselves can't even afford.

Kempinski:
Okay, this should work though

No, it could wreck the home. It's better to send the woman an anonymous message warning her to desist, that even if she takes her game to a hotel, you would know.

Let her know you are full knowing of her extra marital affairs, that if from this moment onward she doesn't desist, her husband would be the next person receiving this message with full videos of her escapade.

You won't know when she would change and retrace her foolish steps.

Nothing is more important than a genuine godly home that is close to christ.

Gaddafi1:
My brother, the best time to marry is between the age of 30 and 35. My grand father told me that a child should not be trained with pension money. Your first child will be 20 years when you are 60, not sure you plan to die young because of stress of school fees.

I waited for my wife for 7 years but when I turned 32, told her that I wont wait again. She agreed and I married her at 33 years.

Since she is good, passionately and prayerfully explain these challenges to her and hopefully she will listen. If not, go for a more matured girl and trust God for the best.

All these una analysis, if God blesses a man, you would pay the school fees with ease at any stage. Senator Chris ngige, buhari, Ned nwoko, and so many pay school fees at their current age which is above 50. So, people should marry when they're ready and not because they would be paying school fees at 50 or 60. There's a popular young girl called small mummy, even at her so young age, she makes money even adults aren't making and she even makes money to feed her parents, just at her young age. So bro, it's not a crime to train a child at 60, when you have the resources to do that with ease, then it won't be a problem. Giving birth to child or getting married is not a competition biko.

Them go call man now, this one go come out call himself man...odiegwu!!!!

purples25.........oya come and write let us share the 1m....

Well, when a woman has decided to leave you, don't force it, nothing you do changes her mind especially when she's insistent. Look at 2baba now, na women dey fight on top am. Just have money and clean up, you won't even care about one of many who leaves you because you have many better choices to make from. The One my friend did, he did 100k contribution, has two slots while his fiancee had one slot and that was what they used to finance their wedding after one year. Just request to have your contribution money back and all others, and move ahead. Change is constant, anyone can change anytime for reasons best known to them, that shouldn't stop you two from been friends, and hopefully this makes you a better man from the position of strength.

purples25:
I prefer a relationship where there is a goal and a time frame. This time frame wouldn't be so short that she changes guys like boxers. But neither will it be so long that she will spend all her young days on one man who hasn't married her.

For example, a couple negotiates: What do we want? Okay, we want to see if we are compatible for marriage. If by so and so time, it doesn't work, we can demote this relationship back to friendship stage so that the female here can look for other options before she is too old.

And concerning what you said about body counts, the fact that it doesn't work, does not mean that she should be going up and down jumping into relationships. A woman can wait and really make sure before moving into the next one. Relationship failed doesn't mean that it's an opportunity to get involved with multiple men.

I hate it if this makes me seem too 'perfect', as I am not. It's just how I believe things are supposed to be... Even if the world is not actually like that.

Well, change is constant, and no relationship is a guarantee of marriage, everyone just one just do their best. whether you wait o not, boys would still break the heart, na normal thing. Nothing is certain, that is why we all take risk, women can quit the best of relationships just as men too, relationship is a risk we all take, if you are not ready for risk, join seminary.

Some have had the best of relationships, while some had had worst experiences, yet they still did not give up on love and had sweet marriages in the end, like i said, no one way to good union. If something does not work according to define timeline, sit each other down, talk on the challenges, how to rise together, than return back to friendship and, in the end the girl is thinking she is wise, and the youthful age you are even clamoring for would even pass her by.

Ndukings92:
such is life bro, we human are unpredictable u know?(rhetorical question thou) but we have to be prayerful and keep working to improve our selves and not to impress others. What am saying is this sir, if she rush into a new relationship with the impression that the new guy is buoyant pass her ex then it may backfire. If she rush into a new relationship just for empathy (closing vacuum) it may also backfire. She need time, peace of mind, prayers and counsel to put her life back in track then she hope and pray for God's intervention bro

I agree in totality

purples25:
To me it's wrong. A woman's youth is valuable to her. Wasting those years is an expensive mistake for the woman.

There's no one way to a successful relationship, some takes time, some happens immediately, what is most important is the happiness and they are able to see their relationship lead somewhere. It doesn't matter how long it takes. So you prefer the type that jumps from one boy to another amassing different body counts...

purples25:
Why date a woman for five years.

Is there anyway it's decreed that such is wrong?

Oya come, queenserah26, let us go together.....

Ndukings92:
I wish u d best brother. The problem with her type is that any relationship she venture into with this pathetic state of her will be a disaster, the new guy will suffer because he will be at the receiving end. She will show d guy pepper and the relationship will not be enjoyable, either d guy keep enduring or he will leave for a better lady. Then this same girl will start writing again ALL MEN ARE THE SAME

But for one, why would the guy keep doing what his girlfriend doesn't like?