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Me and my friend were flagged down at flag staff house around MUSON Center by LASTMA officials that there was no social distance in the car, because we had three people at the back which were females and our friends. We didn't allow them deflate the tire, drove the car to their office at sura, dropped the three ladies at point we were flagged, then we were asked to either pay a fine or be referred to Court. Cheapest fine we could he handed was 20k, like what the hell!? When I ensured we all used nose mask, even brt that had no social distance, plus no nose mask didn't get flagged down. When ever police or army is in a car, corona laws are flouted, so it's me they would eat my money like that. So we remembered an army oga at same flag staff house who did well to send his boy down, but who he sent was too gentle and not a stubborn officer that can wreck havoc. We made frantic calls to oshodi LASTMA office to speak with their oga there, which was successful because we used many contacts we've always had, but they said they've referred the case,so nothing can be done anymore, and the army man that came who I think can show Force was even so diplomatic. What baffled me most, the offense stated in my slip was we disobeyed traffic officials, I was surprised, where did we do that? We just angrily drove the car off after payment and time wastage. The law in this country is one sided.

As much as you invaded her privacy which you even agreed, and as we all know everyone is responsible for his or her action, but it would be unfair now that you know the destructive path she's going and not caution her. I don't care about any privacy if you can save her from her self. She's on self destruct, sooner or later, she might end her life if depression sets in later for her misdeeds. I've seen employers take life advancing positive roles in advising their employee, how can employees experiencing unbalanced lives deliver well on their jobs? Advise her, let her know consequences of her actions, from unprotected sex, to abortion, to keeping multiple partners, to engaging in pre marital sex and the dangers that lie ahead. It's youthful exuberance and been irresponsible, advise her, it's then left for her to choose her life. The choice to choose life or death is with individual but let them know the differences and what they get into when they choose any.

Justice cannot be served by angry mob doing injustice, looting people's shops and vandalizing people's properties, Trump's words were straight and direct, he's spoken with floyd's family but the injustice in America by the police, even by some citizens in high places always go unreported, many feel this is the time to vent their anger. Fox News has given this coverage a full deserving Media attention, some groups are coming out to speak and act against protestors destroying Properties, and that's quite good. With the event of how things are going in Washington DC, to deployment of national guard, to how anonymous is revealing all Minneapolis police force email and password, with Trump's phone number in the open, and some calling him paedophile with an accusation hanging on his neck, there's more to expect in coming days if things go unabated.

Good, we knew the guy was on a loose to carry along people called anywhere belle face, quick to follow a trend because majority followed it and it is satisfying to their selfish desires. It is never a scam and can never be, but who are we to criticize the other, we just have to say the truth, it is left for people to do what they like. Life no be force.

So with your analogy, imagine you dated 7 persons, you would have had sex with seven different people, and yet, none of them wife the person. Nonsense!! So me go come marry that person.. ... Sex is meant to be between married partners, stop misleading people, it's for a purpose of copulation to raise offspring and deepen the bond,affection between couples. Even without scriptures, following the time of our parents and grandparents, it's a thing of pride getting married as virgins, but now, civilization has turned things upside down, immorality is the norm of the society. People just have to live their lives the way they like. You won't die if you stay till marriage before your first sex, and if you still didn't, you won't still die.

As much as the man's act is Condemnable, the woman went overboard. It's obvious the woman is the man in the house, the man here is just a figure head and with the way she went about the slapping, it's not the first time she beats the man. The woman knows her husband, not all men are this cool outside even when they're wrong.. U go still collect! And still pack out. Agidi, violence solves nothing, if you can't cope, file a divorce.

Don't miss an opportunity when it comes, you might not get it again, nothing stops you from requesting her number the first time, you either get a yes to your request or no. This would save you this stress over a woman that could be tripping for another man instead. There are fine women everywhere, as they say, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

it is good we are downplaying this covid 19 thing in Nigeria because it appears to have not had so much negative impact on us individually other than the economic toll, unlike what is obtainable in America and other European countries, but that does not take away the fact that the virus is real and we should try our best to stay safe.

TheGladiator:
I make bold the prediction that Madam Abike will be relieved of her position in the not to distant future.

I have been to the presidency on more than one occasion with Abike present. I’ve seen how loyalties and power play out. Abike is very diplomatic and knows how to play to the power that be. Oga this, Oga sir that. It would have taken a lot of her to resort to such uncharacteristic outburst. Whilst not being overly fond of her myself, I believe her. The hon minister is a bigot!

But it’s what it is. This administration is painfully feudal and won’t tolerate wanton outspokenness from a woman. The Islamic leanings of the power that be is there for all to see. In the broader power scheme, madam Abike is much more expendable and will be eased out, gradually.

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You might claim to be visiting the state House, but unfortunately, you don't know the president and from your assertion, I can't boldly say it to your face, you have no understanding of our president. Till whatever you think, abike would see out her term, you don't seem to understand the role she holds, and it's daring to the presidency, just as Onyeama's. We all have friends in the presidency, it's not new! Many are in aso rock, working there since God knows when, they don't even have access to the president talk more of predicting his next move.

That's a bro code, quit!! never accept back a woman who cheats. Forgive and let go, count your losses and move ahead to serious ladies.

WHO seems to be enjoying from this pandemic that has claimed millions, they're quick to condemn Madagascar cure, this clinical trial you're about about doing, you're about slowing down because of fear of safety concerns. Dr. Tedros is a renowned public health, infectious disease expert, he knows well the risk at play, can't forget his works in Ethiopian health reform. A cure is needed asap and they should not discourage countries doing their best to solve the menace they allowed china spread to others because they over pampered china.

You married a materialistic woman, and there would always be people who do better than you, as your Best even if you were a millionaire is the least of another. Don't beat yourself, just do your own, make more money, you would always remind your so called wife her words later when things get better for you. I wonder the kind of women we have nowadays, when it's not as if someone put gun on your head to say I do. She, meant to give you strength might have sucked the little with her careless words but work smart with plans, better days ahead. Not sure she would even support you in anything, Na only where Rosy she go dey find.

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oluwamae:
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All these people that use to have confidence to threaten their partner's lover, where do they find such confidence? One day water go pass garri, and monkey go go market, e go over am, instead of you to caution your partner by Either breaking up or accept your partner for the cheat they're, you would be threatening brimstone on the wrong person. U never see who go even beat you on top your own thing before... Nonsense, Kill him and rot in jail while your wife continues her flirting around with swag.

We have been down same lane, engineering students are very intelligent, if she makes it to her finals, very good of her. I remember my engineering days too in the university, studying fluid mechanics, thermodynamics, design, process, flow etc aren't child's play, we compete with medical students then and law counterparts in doing yanga for jacking and forming phonetics, but we're rugged. It's normal for engineering girls to be skinny, do u think carrying board easy ni!? Just leave the young girl alone, don't confirm anything, let her face her book biko.

Quitting marriage should never be anyone's plan except when violence, physical abuse is involved. Issues that bother you in your marriage are best discussed with your better half, talk to her, she's pregnant and deserves all your help, remember this is your first child, she might have a bad trait, but she needs all your help now, hold no grudges against her for now till when things normalizes for her. Again, talk to her, money is essential in marriage, but that's not all about marriages, couples should know how to support each other to navigate through hard times with genuine and sincere work out plans with actions. I have seen a woman who helped her husband become great when things were really down, extremely down for the man, it's not as if she is a big madam, just help here and there, and boom, she met the right person ready to help. Talk to your wife, tell her your expectations, it might not be easy for her, but always ensure your communication at home is great. A marriage purpose is defeated if you can't share with your wife what pains you the most in your marriage, two of you should be best of friends and should submit to each other, same way you help each other. Make her see things this way, the right way, the Bible way and share God's words in your home, pray together, have time for intimacy discussion, tell her what she does wrong, say it to her face when the mood is calm most especially after sharing God's words, and hopefully you find your feet to lead your home right.

Scold your mother for a girlfriend? That's a wrong thing to do, you really need to apologize to your mom. Discuss things with your babe, when you're sharing a nice time, tell her about her anger, how you can help her, and see a way you can manage her when ever she's angry. If things don't get better, bro, just leave her, she would meet who can match her anger for anger, I have some friends like that, they don't take shit, both people in a relationship should be responsible, ready to compromise for peace sake, no one is to take unnecessary shit because of Love, that's where maturity comes in. You and your girlfriend aren't ready for a serious relationship. You scolded your mother, and you have a babe with anger issue, don't be unfortunate in choices biko, it's not just the anger that's the issue, words are golden, if she can't control her tongue, it would burn you and her together sooner or later.

Well as a sensible driver, i check to see the road is clear before over taking, see far and wide, and i do that sharply . Ordinarily, white lines indicate it should be a one way traffic while yellow is a two way traffic, so this setting is wrong. This is a two way traffic and should have yellow lines, and when lines are not broken, maintain your lane and direction, don't change lanes. so for Nigeria, 1 and 4 are in their lanes, 2 is doing safe, while 3 is so wrong, but one person stupidity can make all of them accident casualties.

Like I discuss with my colleague with access, staff who suffer from pay cut or lay off should have at the back of their minds that their employers had been looking for ways to achieve this purpose long before now, they just saw an avenue to perfect it. People who earn peanut, you still slash their salary, when cost of things are on the increase every day.

This is condemn-able, and unwarranted. Never plan evil of anyone, if hurt in any situation, just walk out and delete the memories by engaging positive things that grows you. By now, people should know anger if not controlled leads to that one would nurture the wound eternally. I always stay happy, positive and never get angry.

Futurejoy:
1. I can’t date a guy that is fair in complexion
2. I can’t date a guy who is less concerned about his family
3. I can’t date a guy that do not appreciate me and respect me
4. I can’t date a guy that can’t do domestic chores cos he most definitely will have hygiene issues and if you have hygiene issues I won’t love you at the expense of contacting germs from you .
5. I can’t date a disorganized guy.....And please don’t tell me I can change him.
6. It doesn’t matter if he is broke or not, if he isn’t goal oriented , smart and hardworking...I cant

Nice qualities to really watch out for

I know trump didn't take timely decisive action enough to stop the spread and deaths in US, but it won't take the fact away that china and WHO are more culpable in the outbreak of this virus globally and killing so many people world wide.

Indecent/revealing dressing, uncensored vidoes, immoral discussion and thoughts are what can endanger the well being of decent folks if caution isn't taken. Blaming another for one's wrong doing is the highest of irresponsibility. We see people who dress loosely like they're sent from hell, but that shouldn't be a Yardstick to be lured to sin. I use to hear people advise their wards to be careful of drinks and women, so their days can be long. When we choose to live right, we know what to do, but blaming the society is a no no. Focus on what enlarges you positively and ignore distractions. sexual immorality or not, just do what pleases you, people are accountable to their creator.

Just be careful and take the right steps, your union should draw closer to God, marry a woman who share your beliefs, and understand you well. Sex as important as it may be, is not all about marriage because when all chips are down, sex on its own cannot carry a marriage to success. There is no certainty she is not meeting her needs elsewhere, she is just extreme, in her sex desire. Go for a woman who has modesty in all her ways, and understand your condition to never use it against you as threat, making you feel a need to go the extra mile over things patience and understanding can solve. I wish you well.

This DG was expected to Handle this catastrophe with caution, care, of which he failed to rather believing the figures emanating from china. He handled china with care at the detriment of lives of others in the world. Despite the virus having no cure, he still couldn't wade in to ascertain how far the Chinese had gone to decimate the spread and protect other countries signatory to WHO. he failed big time and letting the World down in a time the World needed a leader to save it from a pandemic to stay around for the nothing less than 2years. The Chinese has contributed monetarily in huge sum to the WHO and to other countries in this period, reminding of Greek Gift.

Nepa didn't provide me light insisting neighborhood didn't want to comply in paying light bills, when they finally do appear in my street, people couldn't wait to sort out their light bills, me inclusive, as they said, pay any amount you have, it's unfair beating people who have no say than obey orders than get sacked or demoted. If any light users feel aggrieved, they can match to their office in displeasure. They would cut out supply to their region while their light bill kept increasing and they would still pay las las because government didn't order free light during this time.

How could a sensible husband said his wife went to gossip with her friends, that's demeaning of your spouse, your better half, meaning you gossip too. And how come you nurse feelings for your wife's sister claiming she is enticing you, better rebuke devil before you claim the usual ringtone, it's the devil's handwork when things boomerang.

When the right woman comes, he would love you for who you're, Compliment you, advise you on steps to improve your finances legitimately, and you shouldn't give up on your dreams to spice up your job with innovations so as to be the best. Amongst the least thing to bother you now is rejection from women, so long God didn't reject you, just keep looking attractive, pray and seek ways to improve your finances the right way, ladies would come begging you to date them.

I like my cars having a good balance on the road, cover a chunk of the road, like a van, truck, with good relaxing mode in the driver seat to spread arms, plus back seat dvd players for kids, plus cameras for reversing, with lane diversion sensibility, with ability to cover high distance on start up, keyless entry and ignition. I like my Dashboard placed at the middle like some of these latest toyota products. There's nothing I won't look out for

you can't just be locking people down with absolute or no security plus no aggressive massive testing. At a point everyone would become vulnerable, by now, we should have achieved great improvement or success with the lockdown. The leaders are so clueless in tackling the menace they allowed come in, they still had the audacity to gather to bid farewell to former CoS. If you're locking down, have plans with targets. Frankly, this lockdown hasn't achieved anything because government themselves are flouting the orders the made coupled with many states been incapacitated In tackling the pandemic not to talk of slow testing rate with little people been tested on daily basis.

The doctors are very unprofessional, as much as government is worst, we complicate things, the Corona they're running from, they would still attend to same patients last last. Even with PPE, doctors are still contracting it, these docs just wanted to be unfortunate. Getting a makeshift surgical nose masks and gloves to understudy her situation shouldn't be a big deal but the docs made a mountain out of a molehill. Many would still lose their lives over other sicknesses requiring emergency, but fear of covid-19 would make them be neglected and Rejected