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As a father, you have to learn how to instill discipline in your home, you condone lots of things in your home, reason you are looked down on by your wife, better understand that loving someone doesn't mean you would be belittled. Train your children the way they should grow. As you're laughing with them, teach them the way of the Lord, teach them to be good wives, teach them what godly wives do with scriptural backing. Your home is far from the Lord, marry women whose hearts draw closer to the Lord, pray together, do devotion together, share scripture together, and teach the children together. As a man, take charge of your home as been a loving, caring father isn't enough, you have to lead your home in all spheres of life. That your children disobey you means you're not in charge, and you have not taught them well. Bringing a child up involves both parties so as to make the training balanced, and both should train them in the way of Lord. You both should have a church you attend where you take marriage counseling, so contact your church pastor or someone she respects, but big time, you've passed much of the buck of your fatherly role to your wife. You're leading from back while your wife Is in charge. Husbands and wives should learn to understand their place in the homes.

benjanny:
I was in Owerri then and she reside in Lagos.She always complain that the distance is much she can no longer cope with it.Recently she got a new boyfriend who reside in Canada and was even posting on his timeline that the distance will never separate them from each other. I now understand that there is a difference between international and local distance.

had it been now, she cannot even try it, she would have had no choice than be loyal to you, covid19 effect.

i have never been cheated on, no time to check messages, too busy for that, head and shoulder high always. Oluwamae can testify

I would shed little light like earlier posters did extensively, girls are everywhere, needing a relationship, so go for a good one and wear protection. Masturbation is a healthy, normal sexual activity, and won't cause blindness, hairy palms, impotence later in life, erectile dysfunction, penis shrinkage, penis curvature, low sperm count, infertility, mental illness,, physical weakness. Good side of it are, reduce stress, release tension, enhance sleep quality, boost concentration, elevate mood, relieve menstrual cramps, alleviate pain, improve sex, prevent prostate cancer. When masturbation start affecting your overall energy levels, and encroaches on your daily life and activities, you should be worried. Excessive masturbation may cause damage to the nerves that allow for the ejaculation leading to premature ejaculation when you start doing the do. Excess of anything is bad, but once you go the extra mile and feel discomfort, stop!!! And return to normal. Not all girls are expensive, even the high class girls don't mind a cool guy with plans, they could help make your dream come to fruition earlier than expected.

I expected to see a substantiated claim than to just be seeing an empty post with no basis. Do you think everyone is on nairaland?

Ban flights to and fro from china, anyone with history within the last 14 to 20 days to nations with pending COVID-19 case should be barred too except they're our citizens, but persons' on such flight should be placed in isolation till incubation days when we can tell if any has the virus or not. What's hard in that one? Na naija govt i blame, Premium should be placed on lives because generally, with all these health measures, if Nigeria dare lose guards and it became pandemic, many lives would be lost,, because generally, when it comes to cleanliness, we're as a nation far behind.

After his comments on twitter, had to google whether what he said about heathrow airport was true, there's just no corroboration. He got to know about that of Nigeria because he's connected or the imaging screen is at a noticeable area. Heathrow airport goes as far as disinfecting their rails, seats, and Nigeria with our claimed preparedness couldn't restrict travels like other countries did to affected countries. We don't even have a center that can manage 10 people safely, there are shortages of masks, sanitizers, school children to undergraduates lack even the basic education on it, even market women haven't been educated and we say we're ready. School children who should have masks,sanitizers distributed free to them can't even find one, market women who uses their body to touch everything don't even know covid19 talk more of prevention. How can TI and even thermometer screening detect the virus considering the incubation days, reason the Italian escaped at the airport. Some airports even have separate gate entry for those from affected countries while some said if you've been to China, italy, iran, some others in past 14 to 28 days, don't come to our country. US is even offering level 4 travel advisory to their citizens going to China. Again, we're not ready! We should just never have a pandemic situation, there you would know our readiness is like iran and italy! Not like even China the source! I trust WHO to come to our aid..we literally beg for everything as a nation,again, all airports have standards ever since the outbreak, so long you're as a nation a member of WHO. Comparing UK airports to Nigeria's, one of the busiest airport in the world isn't prepared and yet covid19 never kill them finish for the airport, abegiii!!!

I have a feeling if this virus is to break first in Nigeria, it would start from Lagos.

Nigeria should place a travel restrictions
In relation to countries mostly hit with the virus,any one with travel history in recent times to infected country should be properly quarantined on arrival to Nigeria. Prevention is better as an outbreak would be epidemic. imagine we don't have protective gears and drug supplies despite all these months we've been reading of the virus but they have money for purchase of new cars...
Biko..dey shouldn't try me o....

When i followed CGTN yesterday, I would rather advise they remain there because we do not even have the financial powerhouse to manage any outbreak if it happens as this might even exterminate majority of Nigerians. China has spent so much billion of dollars since the outbreak, robots have been designed and in use, 3D goggles have been made and in use, small houses in hundreds that can house two infected individuals have been made and in use, health workers in hundreds have been deployed as some are volunteers, the infected are prevented from even going out to make contact, health centers place calls to peoples' homes advising them on health tips, they even call the infected to not go out, even the non-infected preferred online shopping and work from home but in Nigeria, you cannot even tell any infected person to not go out, he would jappa and look for a way to spread the disease, we do not even have a concise database accessible to police, health centers, etc. We cannot even afford to build a quarantine center well managed. Egypt last time called WHO for help. If china with high level alert in the disease still fights it, with high tech development, does their best to contain it, Nigeria with poor health system can not survive an outbreak in a state as it would spread to all other states in just one week. Airlifting them is unwise, better they follow up the health advise in wuhan there or relocate to other places.

How you people get too attracted to other women, to the extent of sexual intent while married baffles me, thought marriage comes with lots of high morals, self control and commitment.

What a lovely couple, and the girl is beautiful, that her smile, it's deep. A very thoughtful act, cut your coat to your size. Wishing them a happy married life.

Jodha:
Take am sis ....

Na that one dem go see u...see yhur head

What else do bbn supporters enjoy before if not this, it's not even open enough, let her go nude, or wear transparent clothes, her wahala with her followers and the supporters of bbn.

You're only reaping the fruit of your labour, no big deal, if he calls off the wedding plans, fine, at least you told him what he would still know in the end. I can't take it if i were in his shoes, pre marital sex is a sin, and if you're gonna commit it, never lose guard because those negative thoughts that try over power the positive thoughts won't rest until they win. You're mature enough to be responsible for your actions, deal with it. Never hide anything from your partner, especially a past that is reappearing, it might lead to blackmail if not careful managed.

I remember taking the guy to the cleaners, last time he called the indimi's out, he was surprised at the numbers of likes i got on his thread. Reno can't stand a constructive argument without responding like a pig, he's just someone living on many opportunities plus the connection he has that average nigerians lack, more reason he became successful.

sammysmiles:
China is improving daily with their technology,,, see wat 1 baba is doing and people are baffled..

Nigeria is improving immensely too, you probably don't know beyond you're informed, many young nigerians have taken technology to a whole new level locally that they can interface with counterparts abroad. We don't expect technology to only be infrastructure or power, so don't abuse efforts of some of us nigerians doing their best to make a difference even with government lacklustre efforts.

Ayomarcel:
Someone who is in their eighties is an inspiration to youths How??!?

You clearly have little understanding of the person of daura, as much as many don't like him for claiming to be forming a cabal with a stranglehold on the presidency, he is an inspiration to those who had personal contact with him even before been in presidency.

Davebio:
served at ANSU, igbariam campus...don't wish to leave omunya for my ppa. Anambra babes are fire. Plenty love

There's nothing extra ordinary about anambra girls beauty wise, there are beautiful girls everywhere, it's just what the beauty is made of we can't tell.

makavelli80:
that umunya camp was eyesore

Serious eyesore, one person who sells in mami market then was even lost, Corpers started having skin infections because of a fly that had bit them, using the toilet at day time was scary, i always try to bathe early enough before dawn. The lit things there still are the events, like hold your partner's waist, i just leave my male friend in my front and be in a better position ..

This site was long overdue, obiano promised its completion in his time, thank God he saw it through. Endurance trek was becoming endurance trouble at umunya, one fly won't just let us rest then at that umunya, at least toilet shouldn't be a problem in this new one. Good one the face squeezing governor.

Amuatulu:
Useless urchins!




Let me see if they have public key encryption cryptography or Python to decrypt my files during stop and search.



Awon weyrey

Been a lady, you may have no issues, but were you a guy, believe it, you would even explain in a higher level language, and last last, they would not understand and you part with some cheese. They dare not see my systems, so many gibberish to them, because even in hacking, there are white hat hackers, penetration testers, but the advance security codes would compound explanation.

Curiosity kills the cat, i wanted to know the dx behind every dy considering the future of human robotics engagement, i can't but love it the more.

Amuatulu:


Good one.
At least one can order uber from matogun to third mainland bridge.

you're in ghana, how did you now know matogbun?

How that match was played and hazard didn't get to register a goal still baffles me despite the rain of goals on the field.

her dream man with 16 packs would propose someday, let her keep waiting, who chases ladies these days? is she money? she gives you demeaning attitude, bro jappa, even delete the number sef, obirin yappa wey go even take you on vacation, this life is too sweet to be begging for attention of who you won't even gain anything from.

And my friend just came in from china having completed his masters with scholarship, even knotted the tie some weeks back, guess china isn't bad for masters afterall.

Jgoldie:
You wan beat me...iyalaya anybody on this forum....my toto wey dey smell like orange squash...ask seun...he swears by it....I m not Linda ikeji ooo...next time..learn to read n pass...you be man.

U ehn, no body go fit beat you even beyond this forum, iku yaato sorun, anyway you're here for the bashing, happy bashing julie, i know you're up to measure, every man to his own measure in return.

I use to think yorubas are chicken hearted while igbos match their words with actions, guess the narratives have changed, while one ran in the face of fire, the other stood back as a yoruba man, face d the enemies undeterred picking friends from foes. Sowore the legend! He would come back better and stronger, this is how true activists are known. A true nigeria's cause can only be advanced from the inside,this made the wise ones take the bull by the horn.

DonDaniDee:
All these are just noise making because they happened to take Ekweremadu off guard. Like Umahi stated earlier, where will they see a governor if he travels oversea let alone the president of a country.
The only sad thing is that the Ipob leader is somewhere hiding and using other people to commit his crimes all in the name of fighting for biafra.
For how long will he remain a fugitive because it's very obvious the only time he can step foot into Nigeria is only if an igbo becomes president but with all this actions, it's already in another decade that might be possible.

Frankly, they caught him off guard, again, they caught the police unaware, else,those renegade would have been arrested,tried and deported. No country would ever allow non citizens use their country to foment trouble, actualize a cause while disrupting the peace in the native country. That outlawed group seem not to know they are foreigners abroad guided by laws of native country.

Abstinence is the surest bet, zip up, no time for yamayama disease come top am with hiv, olorun maje......till wedding night biko

Akitan oko ilekile, adeola o ko omokomo, reminds me of my secondary school, Adeola Odutola College shared with Great bayo kuku, the amiable and adorable monarch , the Awujale of Ijebu land, Ogbagba the second. Ojude Oba day is a sweet, jolly day to the ijebus, wishing the ijebus a joyous celebration.