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Joe stated the fact, until I followed LWT and heard some HOR members speak, I became convinced that PDP are cunning and are too theatrical, daura, if only laying a siege on NASS was his offense, he would have been recalled but rather had many other sins, daura acted in best interest and was apolitical, had security operatives not gotten intelligence and drafted,by now, honourable members would have been hospitalized considering the bloodletting that would have resulted from the stand off between APC and PDP. Thank God for investigations instituted by PYO. NASS was under lock and key, that only Sergent at arms had the key and since NASS went into recess, only the NA leadership can initiate a recall, and why were only PDP members the only ones in NASS,l? So many things would sure indict PDP, PDP are so sick that they believe everything APC does is about them, it's more like them having something to hide, saraki would-be gone sooner than later. Be ambitious, it's fine, but been overly ambitious without ethics kill.

Well for those who had time to listen to the poo, good luck,...but since he claimed this is Nigeria, why then is he complaining? He should take it in good faith except he himself is a hypocrite of the song he sang! We keep blaming our leaders when even in little powers we're given, we torment our selves and didn't see fellow Nigerians as brothers except our cronies, and we blame governnent as if they're not Nigerians too that fill in this place.

Omihanifa:
Useless ranking, Lagos should be the first on that list follow by Owerri have been to both cities majority of the ladies there don't even wear pants anymore they have made a career in exposing there privates

Benin and delta should not be there sef as girls here dress relatively okay, Lagos still seems okay a bit sef, but imo, my brother they're the ones also flagging lagos, I have seen lots of IMSU girls here in Lagos, they infiltrate everywhere with their dressing.

If owerri isn't there, the list is so wrong....owerri guys can relate better and my eyes can't see enough in owerri as they're Oliver Twist.

Lorenzop:
Huh?....all that garbage....mark my words, days will come when all that are irrelevant with the speed at which AI, Robotics, Blockchain technology is taking over the world.....simply put....a valuable skill in IT/Technology is all you need....

Fact brother... An IT skill is enough, very soon, robotics ,automation would make many graduates jobless..... DevOps would send waves to Nigeria soonest in full! Employers would cut cost soonest. An invaluable skill would make u indispensable, not these common skills op listed!

The guy shouldn't have asked you out knowing how close you were and he should have use his discerning mind than come straight. I for one hates been turned down in a quest of asking someone out, or jilted in a relationship, so to massage his ego, avoid going direct in answering but Since u failed to answer him that day, say nothing about it anymore except he brings up the issue, then be mature in your response if you feel nothing for him but for one, things would never be same way again. I have this female close friend of mine too who complains of how her bf Beats her, till I told Her to quit, we were very close then, but never felt Like abusing our friendship because Good friendship doesn't always translate to good relationship!

slowbreeze:
Interesting piece..These things can be done by a disciplined person.That pad one I believe most of us r guilty of.U check if its not soaked;and keep wearing it biko.For this economy now.To be changing pad upandan regardless of whether soaked.Always pad is now 400 or so.

It's good it's changed so long it has been used, you would not really want us to jump out from the window when things are suppose to be getting better on mere thinking of it, you know the state of things down there, it's good to not make things worst. Ditch the cost!..last time my friend told me of his Cunnilingus experience, he washed his mouth with hot water and had to force him self to vomit.....he couldn't say no because he was forming stunt! After he had promised jackie chan drunken Master style..

The other ones no concern me, that number one..wash hand ke.... Are we planning on eating eba or what.. Biko, hard times call for Hard measures... Before person wash hand come back, the girl fit don change her mind say she remember one sermon for church �...let's wrap it up biko before I get served the hurtful church sermon.

wilybebsy:
She was like 'I need a break' till today the break never finish, that was morethan a year ago

Lol
..very funny and u didn't talk or chat her up since then?..... Guess people are different.....Guess we dated same category of women... Just the same way I was served too... Women ehn!.. Hope u doing better now! I expected you should be married now with a sweet better half!

babapressy:
You don't make a woman submissive, it's their God given responsibility. Forcing them will be catastrophic. If a woman will not submit naturally, she should remain unmarried. This may be the reason some ladies even in their marriageable age are still unmarried despite their prayers and fasting. God can not be mocked /deceived.

Exactly, it's their God given responsibility to be submissive....

moretime7777777:
Yes but the problem is what is the definition of treating right?who gets to determine that the treatment is right?The truth is women want to be the god of men.

Yes! The fact..... They Just want to be lord over the men.

When a girl forms hard to get, she's not really into you, another guy is either brainwashing her better or she chooses to be away from guys.That a girl is hard to get doesn't mean she's of worth while if easy, doesn't Mean she's worthless.... Anyone can cheat, whether Hard or easy..... But if your bae starts putting up a strange attitude, less attention, just know one guy somewhere is psyching her better, it's time you move ahead. Ladies!better trust them less, or else, you would be greatly disappointed, always filled with surprises.

kandi006:
I used to believe in putting all ur eggs in one basket and giving in 100%.. I even criticised girls that keep back up boyfriend until I learnt my lessons in a hard way.

The truth is that Nigerian guys are very selfish, they expect and encourage you to be 100% faithful and not talk to any other guy while they keep 3 or 4 backup girls for emergencies. The moment you guys break up, they switch over in seconds without hesitating.

My advice to ladies is this:

While you 're dating that your Prince charming that has promised you heaven on earth, please keep male friends, go out on dates, hangout with ur female friends, don't push anybody away. The truth is that not even an engagement ring will make a man stay so until you walk down the aisle, you are still very single!

With your Nigerian guys statement, I'm sure I'm not included, because I'm always 500% faithful and never cheated , back up? I wonder how people do that? Maybe you can explain. Even when a lady is married, It doesn't Mean both partners can't be strangers in the end. In all, whatever you do, always give your 100% in your relationship, it would count for good someday, but when you start having back up, even your back up boyfriend could be a set up from your Real boy friend, people like you can Sweet to deceive,chop, clean mouth, scatter the relationship and go separate ways

Even at that, there's a woman for every man, but sometimes, there's a never a man for every woman. Back up or not, no boy would not marry except he choses otherwise but for some ladies even with the back up, they might be the Third wife.

You gave your wife so much freewill and didn't act like the head you're suppose to be. You're suppose to lead the family, spiritually, financially, emotionally, all rounds while your wife supports! But rather, your marriage lacked the cohesion and direction because you failed to lead. I've learnt Women like men not boy boy or Toy that can be pushed here and there and easily swindled even in the relationship because he's a maga. Most of these ladies forming holier than thou attitude always tend to see themselves so righteous that they get into bumps easily. A decent lady should always protect what concerns her partner be it in relationship but your wife, she's just too full of church than the word of God, those are the people who go to church but learns absolutely nothing.

Mobile App development is bae man... That is the future! Good to be able to develop the two but Android programming would still be preferable because of the larger market it would still carry along some years to come.

U can't trail me, forget it, u would never meet me. I remember when I spat on a driver, he turned and started following me at night, I love my mirrors, I mark everything behind me, I noticed I turned and a car followed me, turned again....i didn't bother use main road again.... I started entering corners, he lost me in the end as he Couldn't meet up. Naturally at night when I drive with my friends, we drive Like we're been followed esp around ikeja.

Good son of his father, why attach so much importance to first date, when eventually you two might not be attracted to each other, so whatever happens, use your brain, painful the girl still won in the end, spending the 5k sef was too much, and ordering the 7k for her friends, o boy, na d girl go pay my Own sef join be that then. If she wants to test patience, she should locate her father and test his patience.

She might not be the president, but my partner(who knows herself) would go great places and exploit Sweet vast lands filled with milk and honey to the glory of the family and the blessings of the Lord.

Stupid bank, you can't carry out a transaction on your mobile app without first acquiring a pin which would cost nothing less than #1400, coupled with unnecessary deductions made in one's account.

Well, despite that mistakes are bound to happen, these are avoidable mistakes, if u said wrong amount, understandable but do people still transfer to wrong bank these days despite the validation always requested for both account name in correspondence with account number using mobile app or she used ATM instead? Anyway, since it's a self inflicted foolishness, Just go to your bank, the money can't be withdrawn as the account number can never exist in another bank except your friend foolishly again sent to another person's account number existing in that same wrong bank for you to have been told the account is dormant, Infact, reversal should have been automatical had it Been it happened the way u said it. Just ask your friend more questions as she doesn't even know what her errors are and visit your bank in the long run.

Putin and Kim Jong un are better Presidents than Trump, Infact, buhari is better Trump, trump Just met a working system. First was in chequers where he accused CNN of fake news, hence wasn't going to call them to ask him questions and now in Finland, he took his retrogression Like buhari further by disparaging the FBI, if only PMB said all these away from home, he would feel the backlash like the lazy Nigerian youths comment. Putin is way ahead of his counterparts and rivals.

Olabestonic001:
Did you read her addendum? She has perfectly used a woman's script for you and you bought it.

I have a feeling that the man didn't 'share' money with her as she's painting it. She said the man used it to treat his father (her father-in-law) of terminal illness and she agreed and most likely supported such. I even imagined her calling often to see that the man is in good health. I envisaged the man being so happy that his wife is like-other-one. How great to find out she's bought a land for the family with what remained? The man must be so happy he had find a 'reliable' wife!

But, she was obviously scheming to protect her own interest (and we can't fault her for that). I only imagined that the hubby never saw that at all! She probably CAN NEVER SAY she singlehandedly built that house. That man could have 'sunk' hundreds of thousands on 'their' property. But now, she showed the card! The man has trusted and toiled in vain.

Listen men, if a woman ever becomes worry of a man, it's because he's serving a purpose. This man still has a lot of purpose to serve and that why this woman still want this marriage. However, that man needs to search for wisdom. Who's lying to him that the next woman isn't worst off? He does not need a new woman but just managing this one properly. He needs to help her unwind her desire to be selfish and that can only be done by him being selfless. I'll be happy to rapport with him.

I Just read her addendum now, I like post duly completed and shared once so as to make informed decision, but knowing what the man used his for, Means it wasn't for selfish interest and the woman needs to understand too from the position of the man and been the first son, responsibilities lie on him majorly To Help his dying father and complete their home. It's no doubt that the man must have invested heavily to see the completion of their new home became a success even probably beyond the woman's input which could have warranted him feeling like he needed have his name alone on the documents as the owner, but that the woman birthed the idea for the family, she should not be relegated, it takes nothing in a place where there's love for couples to share joint account, joint companies, joint ownership of properties as it gives both parties better sense of belonging and intimacy. No one knows the major misunderstanding that could have warranted him asking the wife to leave, I know our women can go overboard sometimes, but the man should never have asked her to leave, Infact, he got more angered realizing his name isn't on the document as the owner which I feel, he felt cheated considering his immense input.Funny enough, I didn't blame the woman for that, she knew her hubby and what he could be capable of, he could be a hot tempered man, considering the decision asking the woman to leave, imagine the woman had the man's name as the owner, how do u want her and the kids to fair now having been ejected? I won't blame the woman, she saw the end from the beginning, it might be wrong but the end justifies the mean. The man need to soft pedal and realize he's on a self destruct mission, he needs to think of his kids. If your wife is loyal, respects you, doesn't maltreat you or disregard you, at this point, he should not disagree to having joint names but I feel that huge misunderstanding the woman is not telling us must have really bruised him alot. Fear these our women when they speak, they sometimes do that with both sides of their mouth.

awwfar:
Awww!! Oya sorry my bad,stop crying ehn! ...see your ur phussy is not smelling like rotten fish, God I meant to say rotten egg..
Send me your accnt number, let me send u little something for the emotional distress I caused u

Correct nigga.... At least you gave pocohantas a try, I won't be surprised you guys get married some years to come... It happened on twitter, it can happen on nairaland. Just that she dey talk sha, but I know you can tame her unlike the op using slap instead.

Luxuryconsult:
you dey mind the useless op. Forming king kong on top another man pikin face. Slap my daughter and die, e no concern me. Nothing like second chance where i come from

That he could boldly type it shows he's proud to have done it sef, on top of the slap,he even dragged Her out of his house, Chai, I'm not sure she's One of these present day girls because these girls of nowadays, you slap them once, they grab your shirt, we go die here together!

You gave your girlfriend three hot slaps and she's still begging you. Chai..... You want to miss your Messiah be that o.... Come what May, never hit a woman, it's a sign of a weakling, moreover, she's not your wife yet and whatever she does, you should only counsel her, beg her to desist from things that would hurt you two if you truly love her. That you hit her once believe me, you would still hit her again many more times for disobeying you, seems Like it's in your blood.

The man is just like a chameleon with hidden agenda, why the fuss when you agreed to sharing the name on the property between you two. I'm sure he's probably seeing someone outside, because when you love your home, you would be willing to do anything to save it, ego would be needless. Come what may, don't ever let him be the only one whose name appears on the property because when you succumb to his selfish demand, another woman would Just chop and clean mouth on top your sweat! When he finally asks you to leave.

Not one favor done when a girl dates a guy while still hustling, it's not as if the girl fed him or paid his house rent, while the going was rough as not one situation last forever no matter how hard especially for a never giving up soul. Infact, we owe no one anything, that we pay good for evil or evil for Good is choice, and we are entitled to whatever we believe but forcing one's idea on the throat of another is even dumbest. An eagle only leave it's nest when it's capable of flight!

mankand:
Well she died at 28 years,. Today makes it exactly one year she left

Ohhhh!
May her soul keep resting in perfect peace. Thanks for the info.

When I visited akanu ibiam airport in enugu, I was amazed it was an international airport, that airport is well below standard and under utilized.

mankand:
The wife I never married was the best love of my life, she was a sickle cell patient and despite that, I loved her till the end. Sickle cell defeated her last year and she lost her life.

I still miss you linda and the only gift I can give to remember you is naming my daughter after you.

Bye linda till we meet again

Eh yah, sorry for the loss, may her soul rest in peace, but if I may ask, how old was she before her death? I thought they said anyone above 21yrs is as good as fine and won't be affected with petty issues anymore.

Politics is not for the chicken hearted, I would surely enter the picture someday.