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Grace128:
Please guys, please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen
Acct num: Angela Ubi

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thedio:
https://www.thecable.ng/umahi-ill-speak-with-manufacturers-on-reducing-cement-prices/amp

naptu2:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/24/akpata-steps-aside-from-law-firm-to-pursue-political-ambition/

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Omicronvaccine:
Happie Boys Claim Apostle Chibuzor Raped And Impregnated 14 Year-Old Girl

As shared by GossipMill Nigeria,



https://www.instagram.com/p/CwDiFwBoqdI/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Donclaracuzo:
https://punchng.com/nbais-workers-protest-17-month-unpaid-salaries/

Puss360:
16 states makes up the North as a whole, so no single person is qualified to be the Minister of FCT You have to go all the way to the South abi?

Okay o ..
Any protest, any uprising we all will bear the unnecessary headache together....

Puss360:
If they protest then they have a good cause...
Coz it's ethically wrong for someone who isn't an Indigene of Abuja or someone who isn't from any of the state that was cutout to make Abuja...

Minister of FCT is almost like governor of the state..

So now which reason do the president wants to give to justify the appointment of a southerner to head FCT?

Little gestures we make that might seem harmless can throw a full society into chaos....

The earlier we begin to recognise legitimate tribes in our society, the better for us....

We can't kill or wipe out an entire tribe , no matter how small, but we can accept a representative from them to make them feel included and among....

That's what democracy talks about

Taylor90:
Judas of Obio Akpor


Sold over 15million Rivers people future for a mere FCT minister not even petroleum minister

God will judge you

fergie001:
SOURCE

nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/NGRPresident/status/1691554942471827793?t=bQNeZ33jDXsG16cdgfe_lw&s=08[/quote]What an ineffective condolences.

What I expected from the message is to give a words of threats to the bandits that they will dealt with and defeated (even if such is not achieved eventually), but at least the bandits will be put on their toes with such audacious warning coming from president.

Luckysbab:
Monthly charge?

Foodqueen:
What's your financial status.

YouandiAllofus:
Maybe you have started to see your wife in a certain way not in conformity with your thought on preference and your feelings are drifting away. The way we think of something have an influence over the way our feelings is reshaped and reformed over it. You can improve your feelings for her by initiating thought of your wife as sexy, beautiful and how she is just the way you prefer it. Do this often and as many times you can everyday

Luckysbab:
What of short lets? A client needs to be in Abuja for a month. Needs a conducive space, but not too expensive and hotel accommodation might not cut it

YouandiAllofus:
And I bet the rent doesn't come cheap?

YouandiAllofus:
Abuja, lagos rivers, delta, enugu etc... The situation is almost thesame in city areas.
Country hard, no work anywhere, property owers/ landlords are increasing rents like they are increasing volume!

ahnie:
The cheap egusi soup I prepared this noon with chikini money.
Ingredients
Meat
Stockfish
Bitter leaf(unugbu)
Oil
Maggi
Salt
Fish
Ogiri.

So, with all am seeing here, this is cheap.? Be proud of what you have got to eat bo

Doris4ever:
Beautiful day to all investors here on nairaland.

If you have a car parked, you are not driving it. Why not allow the car to make you and I money.

Investor/partner who is ready to buy a car and put it on rental or HP depending on the investors preference is welcome.

I will handle the car with utmost care, I have basic background knowledge in vehicle maintenance.

I am ready to pay N35,000 or more weekly depending on our agreement.

I will provide verifiable guarantor as needed.

I live in a gated compound, car security is guaranteed.

Location is Lagos

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richiemcgold:
I wonder what a 45year old woman was doing in her ex's house. Even the guy is probably younger than the woman because a 45+ man is way too old to be called a footballer.

Islie:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/tinubus-cabinet-swaga-expresses-displeasure-over-exclusion-of-its-members/

MichaelSokoto:
are u lecturing me on Edo politics?

Edo I reside?
Afemai land dat Oshiomhole & Shaiubu & I are from?

tinsel:
I like this. Good for him.

Vixlot:
Philip Shaibu, Edo Deputy Gov Wants Court to Halt Impeachment Against Him

Bluearrow:
Not only your woman
95% of women are like your woman.

YinkaOlusesi16:
Most men like to show they are financially stable all the time but Why do they find it difficult to ask their women for money when they are broke?💞😍💘💔💓❤️💋