omolola100: You better carry your body and move on with your life. what kind of love is that? he is not straight forward, just free him, Basic. he might put you in trouble, who knows if he is an IPOB.
Exactly what I wanted to advised...he might be a bandit, gunman kidnapper, IPOB etc
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PlayMaker14: Research has it that 82.54% of Nigerian women are born with killer instinct and grow up to be serial husband killers.... And Olanshile Nasirudeen who's a 4th wife happens to be one of them.
Imagine a "4th wife" getting jealous over the news of her husband getting another lady pregnant.... I wonder what the 1st, 2nd and 3rd would have done when she was dancing skelewu on his bed.
Won't be surprised if she's a loyal fan to Iyabo Ojo because they exhibit same violent traits.
Some women can be extremely violent. Women and preeq are 1&2
Bro I'm in the same shoes as you....I lost my wife three and a half years ago...it has not been easy.....but yours is a bit better because you have a maid who of course is like a daughter to you... Bro, you see these women out there especially single mothers, you have to be very careful with them.... I have seen a lot of things in the past three years...you have to protect your kids from those vultures called women...I think it is too early to into any relationship now Bro.... politely ask her to give you little space....let her know you're not sending her away... It is not easy to put aside the legacy of your late wife just like that...13 years of a happy home is no joke bro, it takes time to heal completely from the death of a dear wife.....you don't need this of stress at the moment.... Tell her you need space.... Don't develop sudden BP because of a self woman who think of herself alone. God bless you family..
Chukwute: An Uber driver unknowingly picked up a broke lady that offered him marathon sex in exchange for payment after a long trip.
He narrated his ordeal with the young lady that engaged him a serious fight after he refused to honor the request to sleep with her.
According to him, when they finally got to UNILAG through Yaba and Ojuelegba, she opted to pay with transfer which he refused.
She stepped down to use a POS to withdraw but unfortunately, it was declined because of insufficient funds. She motioned at him to enter the vehicle which he did and she began to make advances at him to sleep with her for as many times as he likes.
Dmw boss, Davido, has wished his ex fiancee and baby mama, Chioma Rowland, who turned 26 today, a happy birthday.
Any hope that there might still be chances of rebuilding the broken romantic relationship between them has been quenched after he referred to her as 'Mama Ify' instead of the usual 'Wifey' or 'Assurance.
Sadly, there seems to be no more assurance as she is now “Mama Ify”
Sharing one of Chioma's birthday photos on his Insta story, Davido wished Chef Chi a happy birthday saying:
"All God's blessings on your birthday today, make it a great one Mama Ify".
marvelck: Why is it that lots of Naija girls are now insisting on no sex before marriage?
What is usually the reason behind it? Is there anything they are hiding?
You know most Naija girls are naturally secretive. Imagine a girl who used to enjoy pre marital sex, suddenly insisting on no sex before marriage, then there is something she'not telling us
If she says no sex before marriage, just know that somebody is knacking her somewhere....
Lifeisnotfair: I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.
About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.
We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.
She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?
Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.
Update: I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.
First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.
I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.
You should be thankful she's been truthful....ask any Nigerian girl that question, you'll be shocked if she would honest as this white babe. If a Nigerian girl said she has dated 10 guys in the, just include she has dated 30...