₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
Nice write up.

And again… The economy is damaged beyond redemption . Men should please render help if they’re in a position to help, people are really going through a lot especially, widows, single mothers and single ladies.

May God help us.

Hahahahahahahaha


Why are you not asking women for help?

Stephen2324:
What lesson have you learnt from women?

I've learnt to love them with the brain not heart.

Zxcvbnmghtr:


Lol. Nairaland boys with their obsession
aboutt the female gender.

If men have sense like women ehn. But men don't have sense at all and that's why we milk them of their hard earn money. Money dem no fit give dia mama wey born dem we go collect and dem still no go smell our pant (ubunja carelessly taught us this trick which he said he teaches his daughter because it guarantees 200% milking of men's money. CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH)

Lesson is, continue calling us 'fish brain' lol hahahaha.

You never jam the one wey go make you cry.


Just continue, you go meet them for front.

KingExalted:
spending that huge sum on vehicles for senators at this point in time is really worrisome

Am telling you, the thing is really getting me angry. In this bad economic condition where the masses are suffering from untold hardship caused by the ruling party, they still have the guts to waste such funds on non-productive stuff like SUV'S.

What a misplaced priority.

accordadoga27:
Hehehe

This is lovely

This is the kind of woman I want to marry.

Anike Agbaje-Williams née Kuforiji

Yoruba leads, others follow.

Yorùbá l'àgbà, a kì ń se egbé baba àwon ipob

Tribalism will kill you for nothing.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
That's why the United Kingdom medical authorities gave him a light punishment

Instead of a harsher one

Yeah exactly.

KillIgbohoN0W:
Yes.
And that's the only thing he is guilty of.
The hospital can fire/sanction him accordingly.

How is this rape??

I don't think is rape, the lady is lying.

press9jatv:
You never drop any hit, dem don dey hit you 🤔🤔🤔

Hahahahahahahaha

KillIgbohoN0W:
It wasn't consensual but he went to her house to Bleep her & she still returned to the hospital for more bleeps.

Where is your brain?

I think it's consensual, the patient is just lying.

KillIgbohoN0W:
Since when did it become illegal to have sex?

Having sex in your place of work is totally unprofessional.

Westerhoffe:
Some people are just born for crime when others are born for greatness.
What is this one now?

Nobody is born for crime or greatness, we all choose our part.

Life is all about choice.

Handsomejok:
I have been a victim of fake proohet which has destroyed my home in the past.

My wife and I were separated before and we have reconciled although our marriage is not the best but we are managing staying together for the sake of our children.

I have a problem bothering me that I keep dreaming about her wanting to kill me this dream is coming more often and I strongly believed she has no intention to harm me but I remember once when we were arguing I asked her why she has decided to come back to me if she doesn't want to do any effort to amend our marriage.

She said she cane back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children. When I think about what she said and also the way she treat me like her enemy I am scared and I started to think of what if she came with a plan to harm me to revenge back all the suffering I have put her through. I am confuse and I don't know what to do right now please advice me?

Why did you put her through those sufferings, it means you're the wicked one here.

ecolime:
47 years and you still dey patronize Prostitutes?

Are you kidding?

Baba, na only you fit stop am oo. This one don pass psychologist power.

Hahahahahahahaha

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

If you really care about people's family background and character traits you won't think of getting a prostitute pregnant.
The only thing I can see here is that you're addicted to that shit and you need to look for a way or go for deliverance to stop that shit you're doing. You're not getting any younger, even if you dont want to get married look for a girl that is responsible, and not as irresponsible as you and your prostitutes are then get her pregnant. And b4 you do that make sure you do proper check up, b4 you go give person daughter disease.

Samantha124:
Let me park here and see what male nairalanders are now going to say about Zimbabwean men.

But I'm sure most nairalanders know nothing about Zimbabwe, some of them might not even be aware that there's a country called Zimbabwe because this thread has been posted for a while now, but it's still dry.

But if it was about SA men, it'd have already made two pages...

Wetin Nigeria men do you abeg??

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It's still the same thing. The originality of that fabric is still Western.

It's not thesame.

Gbadugbakun:
I was discussing with a friend and I asked him this question and he told me sometimes he wears his own for 4 or 5 days before washing. So guys how long do you think a guy should wear his boxers before washing it.

Mods you can put it on the front page.

2 or 3 times is ok.

Daniel7543:
3 or 4 months.
na why I like black boxers… nobody go knw say my boxer dirty.

You get mind sha.

qwertyuioplm:
Despite paying for subsidy and not a producing nation exchange rate moved from 140-180 ,what type of magic did he perform

He employed the best brains while others after him employed looters and tribalist.

Rtk4:
I give my wife #500 everyday to cook for the house and yet she complains, it's really annoying.

Do you know that the #500 is even too much because there's everything a woman need to cook in bulk in the house. Meat, crayfish, Maggi, salt, seasonings.....

I mean everything. All she buys is things we can't buy in bulk which is tomatoes and pepper. Please guys what's your take?

Here in the north all these perishables are too cheap, she just steps out of the house and buy them from women selling just in front of our house.

Before some people start saying I'm stingy, you must also know that she doesn't lack anything. I give her pocket money and also buys her anything she needs as far as i can afford.

Try step up a little bit like 1.5 or 2k

Millimann:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/10/19/nigerian-woman-currently-danger-iraq-may-be-killed-november-family-calls-help

Of all places in the world is Iraq she decided to go to hmmmm.


The stupid Nigerian government should respond asap.

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

Who told you not to prepare yourself b4 marrying a rich man's daughter??

Somebody that cam from a rich home you're now trying to bring her level down with your average lifestyle. Am not insulting you o, but my point is that you should have known better that rich men's children behave that way whenever they get married to someone below their class.

And don't even think the family help you by talking to their daughter, they'll continue to make you feel inferior in that marriage because you're not their level. Is only your wife that can cover up for you.

Maybe they want you to help their daughter cover the marriage space. Did she even love you at all b4 you decided to married to her?

Easyincome24:
It's good one plans his/her life early enough to avoid story that touches.

Some of our parents never believed that the country will become what it is today.

My father told me how cheap lands were in the country when he was in his 20's. He regretted not investing enough due to shouldering many responsibilities especially bringing his siblings and extended families to the city. He nurtured them till they became of age. When he realized what's up, time has exceeded him as we the children have needs too.

Now, I'm asking the following question: between owning a car or house, which would you advice someone in his 20's to acquire first?

Both can yield returns as long as they can be used in the proper way for investment.

Can we have more people comment on this to help many who are still in their 20's and able to fund any of the assets?

Note: Some young folks are doing legit work earning in $$$. I have some techy guys in their 20's as software developers, Blockchain DAOs, Freelancers, Content creators, YouTube influencers, Social Media Marketers, 3D animators, AI engineer, Bitcoin minning. They evolve around tech working remotely. So, not all of these guys in their 20's are yahoo yahoo, at least these ones I can guarantee.

We engaged in a discussion where they raised the above question about which is best between owning a car or house at their ages.

One of the best investment in life is property, don't joke with it because it can go on for generations to generations. But if you're buying the car for business is still not a bad idea, but if you're buying for show off then you'll for sure fail in life.


Learn to take the right decisions in life.

Easyincome24:
You can imagine agent for house rent giving you bill like:

House rent - ₦2.5m

Service charge- ₦500k

Agreement- 10%

Commission - 10%

Damages - 10%.

Total package- ₦3,750,000.

And we think this is normal, no one is speaking against it. This is corruption itself, we the citizens are our own enemies.

What other things related to this have we all accepted to be normal?

My brother they're too many o, but I know one popular one, bribing to get job, contract or other stuff is a normal corrupt act here in Nigeria.

Nvestor02:
I remembered this werey man want to be running mate of Tinubu because he is Northern Christian. Him and Yakubu Dogara received the biggest shock when Tinubu picked Shettima.

Ever since then, this werey has been looking for all means to bring down Tinubu but anybody that God lift up cannot be brought down.

Werey join Labour party, vows to give Peter Obi the vote of all Northern Christians but fail woefully. Even Tinubu defeat Obi in Adamawa where this werey come from.

You all failed to stop a unhealthy man😂 shame on you guys.

God never lifted Tinubu but inec did.

yarimo:
have you collected yours

Shame is not far from you. When julius Berger finish that project you'll see it.

yarimo:
This is very commendable from ebonyi state hard working governor in reality, unlike social media governor of ABIA state

Keep deceiving yourself, Alex otti will put you to shame.

tommykiwi:
This is just a script movie. Why will the man be doing such evil when everywhere is bright like dis?

I believe they just did the video to generate attention, because nobody in his right senses will be doing such during the day but rather at night.

Some people do it. You never jam sha.

TUANKU:
Only a finished man will dress this way.

Hahahahahahahaha

TMKsouth:
Explain how whites turned SA gay.

Last time i checked homosexuality was banned during white rule (apartheid). Even in Nigeria you're still following colonial laws. The black SA government is the one that legalised LGBTQ rights saying everyone should be free in SA.

Hmmmm, how does LGBTQ makes one free? People deviating from the normal way of doing things to the abnormal way of doing things and you call that freedom?

babajero:
She is not a He, she is just mentally imbalance.

Hahahahahahahaha