₦airaland Forum

TradingGod:
women generally loves public validation


It gives them the sens of belonging

It gives them sense of belonging to the show-off gang.

Aonkuuse:
So people cannot really do without social media.... Can you just keep some things to yourself

You dey mind them.


Show off generation.

Sharpsharp00123:
I am not igbo

So I can’t b

Just make sure you go for rehab.

chokekachy:
https://dailytrust.com/kogi-election-was-rigged-but-i-wont-waste-my-time-in-court-sdp-candidate/

All I can say is our democracy has been hijacked by criminals in government, and until the masses revolt against the evil system we won't experience a good change.

BERNIMOORE:
Really waste of not only time but also resources.... I wonder how they have access to sensitive material in the first place so easily

You wonder how? Very funny question. One call to the inec chairman is enough to do the work.

Sharpsharp00123:
but democracy wasn’t in danger when Labour Party won in abia?

U igbos only see one side of life, when u are winning it’s cool n it should continue

But when u lose then it’s ojoro n everything must scatter

You're the biggest fool in the history of humanity.


Try locate your sense so you can reason properly.

immortalcrown:
Who never agree go later agree say e don cast. Naija na disgrace.

The court is no longer the hope of a common man in Nigeria.
If you are sane, what does Igbo have to do with LP in the Kogi governorship election and how did you know the commenter is an Igbo? If you reason with your brain, explain why you drag Igbo under this post.

Meanwhile, any time your opponents or enemies record the APC-kind of victory against you in anything, may you be served what you now call justice for LP. Every creature on earth, when judging your case, shall never fail to serve you that "justice". Again, may the way APC got that victory over LP be the only way you can succeed in everything you do. May you fail when you don't use the APC method. If you see this as a bad prayer, you are a hypocrite. Only a hypocrite will feel bad when wished what he or she appreciates.

A big Amen to that prayer, what's the connection between LP in abia and the election in kogi state now?


That guy is a real fool.

IamR:
He burnt coloured copies. The originals are intact.
Check the documents very well.

Is the original copy not coloured, abi you don high??

Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.

A woman like you.

Goodlady:
To butress the op, Nigerian men lacked empathy. Empathy ll place them in the position of not questioning a lady that they are dating or married about finances, gifts, sex etc.
They don't realise that relationship is responsibility. They ll say what your father can't give you, you dey ask from me.
Why you come toast me (woo)?
As I come gree, am I not entitled to your resources?
They also lacked empathy of hurting their wives or female partners deliberately with cheating. They don't put themselves in women's shoe that how ll I feel if she's the one cheating?
Abeg make I no tok talk in order not to be misquoted. 😂 😂 😂😂😂😂😂💕💕😘😘😘😘😂
The violence is needed for cleansing of the minds of the reprobate dirty boys here that can't feed themselves but talk anyhow here against females.

Can you feed yourself??

yrhuhfy113:
wow, awesome... you are right and have a strong point
A very compeling piece of idea about Nigerian men... sadly its true but wholistically its myopic.


I am not here to make a CASE for men... i acknowledge your expressed thoughts as reality but as INCOMPLETE.

SEE, MEN ARE NOT LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY... We are only LOVED BY MERIT, RAISED AS HUNTERS TO COMPETE AND PROVIDE else we are not competent.

THE THINGS YOU MENTION WE LACK ARE ACTUALLY NOT LACKING BUT SURPRESSED BY THE HARSH REALITIES OF LIFE WE HAVE LIVED THROUGH....


Let me explain... EVEN on the case of wooing or getting a LADY for sex or marriage... LADIES GENERALLY FEEL SAFER WITH A RICH DUDE, THAN A CARING, EMPATHETIC S.O.B. Whyyy because the COUNTRY IS HARD.... and Ladies think of the FUTURE ALOT.
So after being drilled by our parents to always COME FIRST IN CLASS, and being punished for not coming first or not outdoing others.... we now enter a tetiary institution where only the BEST GRADUANDS are assured of jobs or connections... so we have to compete, hustle for money and do everything possible to be among those who thrive or survive.. AFTER YEARS OF LIVING AS A SURVIVOR.... we now marry, with HOOOOOGEE responsibilities, wife and kids... most likely WIFE HAS NOTHING DOING OR EARNS LITTLE YET FEELS ENTITLED TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN.... Then we should let down our GUARD and still be as caring, as emotionally sensitive, as all that you women want us to be??
C'mon sis... YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL.

Marry unambitious men from other countries who are not living in the same terrible conditions we have had in NIGERIA... they have emotions to spare, because THEIR FINANCIAL SYSTEM WORKS and is DEPENDABLE... not here. So you can't come here and GENERALIZE, when majority of your GENDER.... WILL CHOOSE SIX CARS OVER SIX PACKS. Pls... have some balance.

Little wonder why MEN are no longer interested in MARRIAGE... because it has become like an orphanage, so baby mama is now what many opt for, so as to retain their freedom. Ladies wanting EVERYTHING yet offering so little JUST BECAUSE THEY EXIST, is the highest form of lowkey witchcraft ever.

ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME..... MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE..... BUT MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO ALL.

Well said bro.


I just hope she reads and understands.

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

You're really confused. You said men lack the brain to discern love, empathy, kindness and self care and are also trained to believe financial responsibility is all there's to marriage or relationship. But you fail to understand that we are human beings with different characters, and inasmuch as we relate With each other we will continue to influence each others behaviour, be it good or bad. The reason I said this is because of how your gender has prioritized finance/ wealth in a relationship or marriage than the love, self care, kindness, empathy and emotional connection you're crying about here. Your gender here in Nigeria only believe and listen to the love language of money and wealth, they only see a loving and caring man if he's capable of spending extravagantly on them. They even go as far as despising men who love them genuinely but are not financially strong. That is the new order in today's love world, money equates everything for you women, if you dont possess it as a man you dont have the right to talk about marriage to me.

But when they meet a rich man who they only agreed to get married to because of his money or influence, but has robotic character as you said and doesn't give a damn about emotional connection, kindness, empathy and self care as you said your gender will start crying about him not been loving and respecting you women.


You can not sow corn and expect to reap mango at the end of the day. In otherwords, blame your gender for influencing the character of today's men all because of material things. All you people care about is money money and money, but you fail to understand that money doesn't equate love, it's something that is perceived in the heart. And money alone can not cover that space in the heart.

voltron14:
Your head no correct.

Hahahahahahahaha


Abeg tell the confused woman again.

Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔. Na true talk ooo

“Why I Won’t Allow My Brother To Bring A Wife From Nigeria”- Woman Voices [Video]

Nigerian woman has caused a clash of opinions online after she explained why she won’t support her brother if he wants to get married to a lady based in Nigeria and take her overseas.

According to her, she doesn’t want her brother to end up in a mental institution as a result of heartbreak, as many of those women based in Nigeria and lucky to land ‘abroad husbands’ —according to the poster— are heartless.


The angry narrator
The angry lady went on to advise men to strive to sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot with their prospective wives.

“Marriage is now a business”, she said.

Many Nigerians didn’t agree with the Nigerian woman, who claimed to have put herself in the shoes of a typical Nigerian man.

“Then marry your brother, matchew”, a Nigerian, Ido Ekong slammed the lady.

“Everybody have different experiences sha”, another netizen, De Bishop explained, waving away the poster’s explanation as a personal opinion —which it is.


https://sabiradio.com/why-i-wont-allow-my-brother-to-bring-a-wife-from-nigeria-woman-voices-video/

I agree with her 100%. Many men have suffered from this shit.

HelpfulBro:
I'm a young man and still living with my parents and sisters. I earn some good amount of money and I'm doing okay for myself, I try as much as I can to help my family out with food stuff for example I've helped with 100k for food stuff from now till December and did a little things too like support my mom and help my dad but I'm very unhappy with my sisters and mom.


My sisters always verbally abuse me by insulting me when I don't do something for them and try to make feel guilty for not giving them what they ask for, when I try to set boundaries like what I don't like they tell me to shut up that I'm the junior that I'm talking rubbish

Just this Morning while I was still getting up with sleep in my eyes and praying they started banging my door that light meter has finished and I should come and pay but I was confused so I just didn't respond till I finished praying and came out. Before I did she was already shouting that they should leave me since I don't want to answer and she'll put #200 naira own if that what I want.

She injured her leg from the door while she was going out side to do it and now she's blaming me that I'm the reason why it happened to her, saying I'm still her junior and I don't have sense that why would I not answer her. I'm shocked and I told her how I'm I the problem and I just literally woke up, I just told them that I hate them and now she's insulting me more

I don't respond but I'm getting very angry at this and I'm looking for a way to leave the house and relocate, they are my older sisters and they don't even work or do anything but I don't say it to their faces but I don't see why they don't give me mutual respect at all

One hot dirty slap will solve the problem. Wen a woman does what you don't like and you're keeping quiet it means you're giving them the chance to do more. And they love it wen you don't act.

Truths9ja:
INEC and the security operatives will do their work diligently on the Election Day now

Hahahahahahahaha, That's how they diligently did their work during the Feb 2023 election by changing figures in front of those security men at the state collation centres .

MS2471:
Yes I am

Are you comfortable with news from South East

You sure say you don chop?

MCentral:
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2023-11-07/south-african-transport-minister-is-robbed-in-highway-ambush

Make him sef enjoy the transport system e create.

Manigie:
Oh no, this is so sad ..... May her soul rest in peace....

Truth is Nigerians are going through a lot, you see someone smiling on the outside but on the inside, its........

Just make sure if you can't put a smile on someone's face, then don't be the reason for that person's sadness .......

Exactly.


People are going through a lot.

Truths9ja:
Good one from them. Adequate security in Kogi State and IMO State in this Saturday governorship election. Also NSCDC operatives should work well on the Election Day too. No loss of lives and properties on the Election Day.

It still won't change anything o. Tinubu and inec already told them what to do, then later supreme court will finish the work.

SALLYBERRY01:
This year 2023, will be coming to an end in less than 2months , what are the things you are grateful for?

Let me start with myself.

Firstly, I’m grateful for life, and good health.

Secondly, I did my convocation this year, I finished my NYSC this year, and also started a small business.

However, it has not been easy but regardless I’m grateful.

I say a very big thank you to my creator, despite all the challenges encountered this year, I’m still standing strong .

Am Grateful to God for life and progress.

Sunmolar:
People treats you how you make them feel about you. If a lady dress decently, she will attract decent men that will treat her like a queen.

On the contrary, when a lady dresses seductively and suggestively, she will attract men that are polluted with sex In their brains and they see her as sex object ready for fulfilments of their lust and sexual desire.

Be careful how you dress. So that you wouldn't be one of the ladies saying all men are the same.

Simple truth.

EFCC1:
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Good old days. Chai.

mariahAngel:
I love everything about food.

Wow, I guess we are on thesame track.


Are you single?

Bobloco:
But you have the power and strength to support, encourage and defend a notorious narcotics drug trafficker, a certified certificate forger who was the guinea pig student of government college lagos used to test run the school four years before it was founded

Don't mind the idiot.

Am sure he doesn't know when his next meal will come.

whitejs:
What should I do to break out?

I can't give a speech in public.

I blank out at times when trying to express myself.

Also rapid heartbeat...

I feel more relaxed when alone.

I was like you b4, but I started building my self-confidence by reading books, engaging in intelligent discuss like politics, football and how to succeed in life with my friends and other people.

But while engaging in discussion dont be in a hurry to talk, settle down and give your own opinion. But think b4 you talk dont just talk anyhow.

You'll get out of it, it's just time. Just work it out out gradually.

superCleanworks:
i did.
I am concerned about what happens after all this online pledge. Online loyalist, OFFLINE HOE

😂😂

mariahAngel:
Why do you ask?

The reason is because you always post about food.

Secondly, I love a woman that knows how to prepare varieties of food.

pdppower:
He is full of Godly wisdom because he supports killing of innocent children, women and defenceless Palestinians.
If Boko Haram throws bomb into America, the next thing is for America to destroy the whole of Northern Nigeria, abi.


Ironically the Jews you support against the Palestinians actually hate you Christians.

That's not the point, and as far as am concern am not supporting anybody in this war. But you need to understand that for every action that takes place there's a reaction. This hamas terrorist has been planning this attack on Israel since 2021, and there's no way you'll tell me that the Palestinian government doesn't know about it.

Secondly they first attacked Israeli civilians, leaving hundreds of both Children, fathers and mothers dead. And I know you didn't say anything when they started the massacre on Israeli civilians. Now the Israeli government is out for revenge people are now criticising them.


You talked about the arab world being silent about the whole issue. Yes they're silent because the stupid Palestinians started the trouble.

Politicstoday:
Rufai Oseni builds library and development center in his village, shares photo.

That's a good development from rufai my guy🤝💯👍

Politicstoday:
Rufai Oseni builds library and development center in his village, shares photo.

That's a good development from rufai my guy🤝💯👍

Daniel7543:
Jennyclay
Siofra
Pocochants
Ukaface
Jeon
Make una come learn something.

Hahahahahahahaha