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Samantha124:
Will marriage prevent other men from looking at me?🤔🤔🤔

I mean you should consider marrying him since you said he's a good looking transgender guy. You sef na fine girl too.

BIZNess123:


The whites will never try such..

On the seventh day while God rested.. Angels rushed and created black men..


I might change my skin to white

Hahahahahahahaha

Samantha124:
Damn! He's not bad looking at all...

Maybe you should consider marrying since you're fine too.

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

I just hope you're not the problem here, but if she is then put close eye and investigate her secretly to know what's wrong.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/enrol-your-children-in-schools-or-go-to-jail-senate-bill/

Watch how aboki will start shouting because they want almajiri system to continue.

Easyincome24:
Believe this, everyone has that one unique thing that sets him/her apart from another person. Technically, everyone has either an inane ability or acquired ability that makes one unique or stand you out from the rest of us.

Though this may be looked down upon based on the part of the world we found ourselves but always occur when you go for a job interview. No matter how secretive one wants to be, in no matter of time, it reveals itself in you. It's what makes you unique, that's who you are.

This qualities are what recruiters look out for in you. It also could be what the opposite sex long for in you during relationship.

The fact that some of these habits may not tow positive ways like others do not necessarily make them bad or to be termed negative. Everyone can't be a conformists thats why liberal society exists.

For you, what's that thing that makes you unique from the other person?

If this can get to the front page, it will allow us to get more comments on such a good question.

I hardly break trust, and I can sacrifice for people very dear to me.

greencard:
People will say my fear of marriage is marrying the wrong person, so what is your definition of a wrong person?

What if you are the wrong person, How will you know ?

Somebody you're not compatible with is the wrong person. And if you're the wrong person work on yourself and change your character.


Simple.

kettykin:
This is really funny,is God answering the prayers of least praying countries and ignoring the prayers of most praying countries

Hahahahahahahaha, the thing sef tire me o.

Calsis:
you never tire abi?

Leave the idiot

Okirinwankwa76:
https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2023/10/15/iran-warns-israel-of-regional-escalation-if-gaza-ground-offensive-launched

This country is in a big mess. We need right-thinking leaders to pilot the affairs of our nation.

How can a government that claim to support the citizens and revive the economy will borrow 1.2 billion dollars to buy SUV's for law makers, when they are suppose to channel that money into something productive so we can have a good and lasting result in our economy.

We are not just ready to grow as a nation. The last election already says it all.

MrOjay1:
I can't still believe this is happening. I am CCTV installation apprentice. Last month, my oga got a job in another state that will take a month to complete. He called me and told me to pack up a few of my things so I can go with him for the work.

I packed up and we both travelled. Few days later, a Friend called me and explained to me that he had some one who was in my area and was stranded. He was pleading if I could accommodate him in my one room apartment for 2 weeks so he can find his feet. I told my friend that I wasn't in town but I left my key with my neighbour.

I asked him if he knows this person that is stranded very well to be sure of his character. He said yes. I told him to give the guy my number. The guy called me and was begging. I asked for video call so I can see his face. We did video call, he looked responsible. He should be in his mid twenties so he is definitely older than me. I connected him with my neighbour with my key and he thanked me.

Fast forward to after two weeks, he left and handed over key to my neighbour. He sent me a text that he had left.

On Wednesday, I came back to meet my gas cooker and my pots gone. My bed sheet gone. He took my good curtains someone dashed me and left the curtain torn in many places for me. My wall hanger I nailed on the wall for hanging my clothes is gone and my standing fan spoilt beyond repair.

Hei God. This is a room I am managing. I called the guy. He wasn't picking my calls. Shortly after, he blocked my number. I called my friend and was mad at him. He promised to call the guy and retrieve the items but till today it is story upon story.

See how I brought problem upon myself.

Nairalanders please avoid bringing people in to your homes. I am seriously pained right now.

That's a lesson to you, next time don't give your room to someone you don't know.

Thegamingorca:
It's making no sense to you because you are not proficient in the art of comprehension. Your understanding of the subject matter is a farce to the point that you even think I am being sentimental based on some logic laid bare by the "donuts" flipping in your skull that you've been deceived to call brains.

"Fvck the humanitarian crisis," you say. Do you realize that The same Israel you are supporting was once butchered from pillar to post across Europe during the Holocaust?! They suffered a fate so bad and unknown to any race before that era. Where it not for the humanitarian aid by nations around the world to stem the tide of the humanitarian crisis they suffered, do you think there will be an Israel today?
You must be an elk to make that callous statement.

The same Israel that was once kicked out of Europe has now turned around to oppress a people made to live in modern day auswitchz camp called a Gaza strip by the Israelites.

I can't believe you didn't even know that the hamas terrorists are the governing body of the Palestinians in the Gaza strip. No wonder you have just been typing all manner of nonsense that came to your mind about this war. How will the government of the ppl of Gaza protest the acts done by the hamas group, when they are one and the same?! How and why therefore is it justified that the Israelites punish the whole of the Gazans in the Gaza strip because of their leaders or hamas group?!

Are you sure you have eaten today? Cos it is astounding that you have failed to see the picture the world is painting up till now.

For every action Israel does by murdering parents, their children will grow up to enlist in another group like hamas, which is a reaction as you say.

Am much more comprehensive than you're bro, and is because you're blinded by sentiments that's why you can't see the right and clear picture of this issue.


Do have a nice day.

Thegamingorca:
Your post reeks of stark ignorance. The same way Russia will pay for crimes in the international criminal court for slaughtering innocent men, women and children in Ukraine in the Hague, is also how these Israelites will pay with their blood for each hair of innocent Palestinians lost in their fruitless exercise.

What you have failed to understand is just like Isis in Afghanistan, hamas do not include the innocent children of Palestine under 18, under 10. Hamas represents less than 1% of the ppl living in the Gaza strip.

Despite the decades Americans spent in Afghanistan, is isil and the Taliban not ruling the Asian country again? This Israeli-led assault will trigger even hamas like rebels to spring up from even the west bank.

Are you so clueless to deny that Palestinians in hospitals receiving critical treatment, surgeries, cancer therapy could risk facing certain death from the logistic challenge of haven to be moved to another hospital?!

Same Hospitals in the southern Gaza strip that are filled to capacity and overwhelmed just because Israel wants to come into the northern Gaza.

Do you know the amount of innocent civilian ppl whose homes have been destroyed and are left homeless, penniless on the streets of southern Gaza just because Israel wants to come in?

Do you even understand the scale of the misery and outright horror these Palestinians are made to embrace?! Do you understand that this is a humanitarian crisis at all?!

Your bias statement is not making any sense to me.

Fvck the humanitarian crisis, if the Palestinians really care about their wellbeing and are fully aware of the negative consequences the retaliatory attack of Israel caused by the terrorist Gazans/hamas will have on them and the entire Palestinian civilians they wouldn't have allowed those terrorist to hid within them in order to carry out those deadly attacks. The Palestinian government was in support of it, infact they planned it together, that's why they kept quiet when the whole thing started, now you're telling me
the Israeli government is killing Palestinian civilians when you know they're the one's that hid within their own civilians to carry out those attacks against Israeli civilians and soldiers. Now Israel is out for revenge and they're now crying and shouting, using civilians as shield to restrain Israeli government from attacking them. For every very action there's a reaction, and that's exactly what's happening now.


Lastly, learn to judge without sentiments.

Thegamingorca:
Should a more advanced democracy, decide to stoop low to Draconian holocaust tactics in order to defend itself? Did the United States of America eventually infiltrate and destroy all of Pakistan whilst wasting a decade of time in Afghanistan when dey were looking for Osama bin Laden whom was chilling in Pakistan the whole time?!

First of all Is there any international law that states how a government should defend herself?


Secondly, the Osama bin laden/911 situation is totally different from what's happening between Israel and Gaza. This are close by neighbours, and rivals for decades, they're enemies and they hate each other for long.

Learn to compare wisely.

ponziponzi:
It's just like saying it is okay for the Nigerian army to wipe out the whole Anambra state because IPOB killed some Yoruba or Hausa traders. It doesn't make sense.

The death toll of Israelis as of friday is around 1200 plus casualties, and you open your mouth to call that just?


Am not in support of the war and Israel , but you need to understand that for every actoon there's a reaction. The terrorists Gaza started it, now is Israel's turn. When they're tired they'll stop.

dappydozzy:
Hamas attacked Isreal but the response is not equivalent, moreso Hamas has not being hit directly, what Isreal has being hitting is the civilians not Hamas.

First of all which international law states that a response or retaliation must be equivalent to a previous attack?

Secondly, is it not hamas that started killing Israeli civilians first? Are you still blinded or you just want to ask questions foolishly?

sheeda995:
I am writing this because of a post I saw on Frontpage where a woman said she married as a virgin and she lived chaste but unfortunately she is not enjoying her marriage

If anyone reads the comments,you will see how the men were bashing the lady and saying virginity means nothing. This same males would be the one to comment on other posts that only virgins should be married, they will say "young, virgin" etc
This contradiction shows that a woman should never listen to what a man wants or what the society wants, it should be what do I want and what do I need to succeed in life

Being a virgin or being chaste or a good girl will not result in anything other than you not contracting STDs.

Women should also know that marrying young is a ticket to suffering if you are from a struggling family. Don't marry until you are well educated,and with the ability to fend for yourself, that should be the yardstick and not age.

I have learned that life is a game, success is a game you have to play to win,it doesn't mean you should be bad but you must be wise.

All the girls that seems unserious would be more successful than you if you are living a holy life and you are segregating yourself andclaiming some girls are bad. You need to mingle with everyone,good or bad,learn from them, remember to be wise and NEVER LISTEN TO THE SOCIETY

If you want to be a millionaire, you need to have variety of friends to learn from including prostitutes.
You need to look your best all the time, you need to have CLASS, buy yourself a CAR at a young age,wear hills, play games with those men disturbing you, don't yield but don't thrash them either.
If you have a class, low class will not even ask you out, be friendly with everyone.

Never insult anyone,have as many casual friends as possible but never let them in your privacy. Do not bring them home or tell them your secrets(both men and women), learn to smile, never argue or fight with anyone.
When you are in a conversation and it's getting hot, smile and agree with the other person even if they don't make any sense.

Dating and Marriage

Never show a man you can take care of responsibilities, or you are hardworking. Show men you are lazy and spoilt, don't ever do housechores unless they ask/beg you. Spoil yourself always with gifts,cars,clothes.

Remember if you decide to do all chores in the house in Marriage,you will become poor why the man will grow because to make money you need time. Time to plan, time to do your business, if you waste all that time cleaning and cooking, while he uses his own time to think of strategies to make money, thesame him will say he's hustling for money while you don't bring in income to the family. Learn to share house chores with the man or make him hire a cook,nanny,maids.
This is possible if you have shown him from the beginning that you are lazy, you can even fake sickness when you do many chores.
All men can wash dishes, sweep and cook. The best cook in the world is a male.

If you are a young girl,learn to tell men that you are attracted to men that can cook. This is what I did personally, mine is true though as I love men that can cook and all through my life till now, men usually offer to cook for me, including those we never dated, just my friends. When they cook nice foods, praise them and say you hv never tasted foods as good as this,appreciate their hardwork.

Im not saying be a parasite as I also help people in return, I am rich enough to borrow people money,drive them during emergencies, be emotionally supportive as I am a therapist.

If you can utilize these advice, you will make it in life and have good happy home and everyone would like you, those that hate you out of envy won't be able to harm you
I wish I could mentor girls but too busy but hopefully,one day I will have that time

First of all, I have high respect for virgin women, its not easy to keep your virginity intact in this morally bankrupt world we live in, so if other men talk down on them me I won't, and that's because I respect for them.

Secondly, you need to know that You're a bad influence to people out there, and I pity those that will take your advice.

kernniejay:
The truth is that many of them are only looking for either poverty alleviation program or someone to rescue them from shame or family pressure.

Exactly......

Jeon:
So funny.
We still have traditional ladies good for modern guys.


I won't lie, those in marriage are regretting. This is what I always heard whenever I turned around.

Is that why you're afraid of marriage?

libertyfather:
unessesary , married ones sef looking for a way out...see them praying as hell when they get the man next is frustrate his peaceful life

You dey mind them. Very confused women.

libertyfather:
unessesary , married ones sef looking for a way out...see them praying as hell when they get the man next is frustrate his peaceful life

You dey mind them. Very confused women.

PoliteActivist:
They're fighting tiny, tiny Gaza

When tiny tiny Gaza kill your family sit back and tell them thank you.

PoliteActivist:
Well there are different kinds of war fronts.
When Tinubu was young he was selling drugs on the streets of Chicago. That's also a war front

Hahahahahahahaha

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
If they're killing Hamas, nobody will complain. But bombing hospital, killing civilians, kids, blocking access to humanitarian & medical aid, that is war crimes & not military victory.

When hamas started killing Israeli civilians what did you say, or where you blinded?

turmacs:
Shut up, lazy idiot... Unto more than 220M Naira wey you dey collect every week, nonsense and ingredients...

Free Palestine and Let the jews return back the lands they stole from them using false claims from a book of fictitious stories

When Nelson Mandela was fighting against these wicked European Occupiers, they also called him a "terrorist" and jailed him.

I still find it hard to believe anyone from Africa will be siding with Britain and her western offshoot countries.

There was nothing like Israel until 1948.. The Jews got to where they are now (Palestinian lands) Which they now call Israel, as refugees from Europe and there are numerous video evidence of this on YouTube.

You keep saying shit all the time, what do you know about football, do you think is all about the money?


Enter field make you know how e be .

Apcsupport1:
I don't know why I hate this boy,, like his so prideful, how much does he even thinks he have compared to davido,, and Davido is too calm no matter what

Jealousy is a bad spirit avoid it.

TruthsFM:
It is wrong for a woman to respect her husband , it’s Honour that man need — Apostle Okose

Video Credit: instablog9ja

https://fb.watch/nE53HRyiK0/?mibextid=K8Wfd2


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_ufEHJOwYY

What's the difference between honor and respect?


Something is really wrong with this man.

SapaProMax:
People on steady salary are hardly keeping body and soul. For those who are unemployed and without wages, be honest, how are you surviving?

Surviving by the grace of God.

Vinnie2000:
I saw an IJAW Girl Recently, who came from her VILLAGE to Warri in 2020,
Got Pregnant for an Urhobo Boy whose Mother is IJAW.

She Gave Birth to a Girl and Fast-forward to 2023, I discover that that She and her IJAW Mother-in-law was speaking English to her Daughter! 😯😒😕

I Painfully Asked Her 'You when be Thick IJAW Girl dey Speak English to your daughter?'.
She now Replied 'I want my Daughter to Sabi Speak Correct English o.
For their School, Any Wrong English, Dem go FLOG you'.

I was WEAK Instantly!

See how PRIVATE Schools are Unknowingly DESTROYING and OBLITERATING our Local Languages in Nigeria!😒


By 2040,2050, ALL NIGERIAN LANGUAGES will go EXTINCT, plus the ever Popular Yoruba Language.

Now, Every Nigerian PARENTS is Teaching their Children 'Correct English'
Because they wants to IMPRESS the Schools their Children Attend.🙁

PRIVATE Schools too, Put Pressure on Children to speak 'Correct English' and even Phonetics to IMPRESS PARENTS!

TWO GROUPS Trying to Impress Eachother, to the Detriment of our LOCAL LANGUAGES.


So I ask, IS THIS TREND GOOD THING?

IS THERE ANY BENEFITS IN BECOMING EXPERT ENGLISH SPEAKERS,
WHILE ABANDONING OUR NATIVE LANGUAGES? 🤔🤨

The official language in Nigeria is English, and the school is there to teach you that, while you're suppose to learn your native language from your parent or family members.

So don't blame the school blame the women. I was a victim of that too.

ojun50:
You dey blame the woman

If you go Nigeria EMBASSY na your language Them dey speak ?

If you go Aso rock na yr language them dey speak ?

If you fill form na which language you they use?

How you want make government approves the school if the school no speak English?

By bro no blame the woman Nigeria is complicated.

I think that's the fault of the women not the school.

24brains:
I always get confused and don't know what to reply when people greet me and ask "How family?". the question is usually thrown as a mode of greeting to know of the wellbeing of a married man's wife and children. How do you respond as an unmarried man?

I still respond fine.

Am not married doesn't mean I don't have a family I came from.