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The "table" at the centre of the room is not necessary sha. The chair? Too hefty, needless arm rest.


Good space, if well arranged with a minimalist design in mind.

Lol the message has already been passed

lordm:
But they are equivalent na

Is Nigeria a joke to you?

IconicR:
Why the thing come vex you sef? It's not like she even condemned light skinned guys but you subtly attacked her and I had to call you out.
We are not trying to make you feel bad for your light skinn but just stating the fact.

How old are you again? You reason like a teenager.

Light skin, dark skin, yellow skin, bla bla. I really hope I have not wasted my Monday chatting with a 200 level mass comm student.

IconicR:
You don't even need to reveal anything about your skin colour, your first response already revealed it.
You be corridor man 100% . I'll ask my nairaland friend to play your tape for me. You all are just using this faceless forum for coverups.

My first response is the reason for the incessant probing. I understand that trying to decode a mystery can be extremely tedious. Pele, dear.

Does it not bother you that since we started this discussion, I have never made any effort to know how you look, your skin colour, or anything? You know why?

IconicR:
kikiki he can't even deny the corridor work 😂😂😂😂😂 men sha.
We are not asking you to be accountable for anything but only telling you about the preferences of most ladies.
Eiya let me not make you jealous of dark skinned guys, being fair skinned is also good but you must avoid potbelly as a fair skinned guy. Imagine potbelly ontop fair skin again ahn ahn 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀

I already told you to stop probing. If I won't reveal my skin colour or age, why do you think I would talk about intimacy? lol

Jealous of wetin? Your probing game is weak.

Does it not bother you that since we started this discussion, I have never made any effort to know how you look, your skin colour, or anything? You know why?

IconicR:
How old are that you are feeling this old? Even if you are married, can you swear that you do corridor work? Roles eyes 👀👀👀👀

How did we get here again? You are moving from skin colour to corridor work?

I am old enough to not allow myself to be held accountable for other people's insecurities and preferences

IconicR:
Like say marriage Dy hold men these days roles eyes 👀👀👀👀. Married men do the worse sef or do want deny this fact. Irrespective of skin color every man will get married but we are talking of attraction here. Dark skinned guys are more sexually attractive that's all we are saying.

I get your point, but these types of discussions should be reserved for 14-year old teenagers going through their crush phase. At my age, I couldn't care less about what the majority of women want. Even pleasing one woman can be challenging; why should anyone be concerned about what the majority of men or women finds attractive? Abeg oo.

IconicR:
Your monika gives this dark chocolate skinned vibes but here you are proving otherwise. I must stop assuming things on this faceless forum.

Lol. Stop probing. I won't answer your question, not today, not tomorrow.

The only vibe I want my monika to give is someone who opposes injustice. Boya ko keep your fetish to yourself.

All the light skin men I know are married so you should not cry more than the "bereaved." The toddlers among them are getting admirations left, right, and centre by women like you who pretend to hate what they want and love what they hate.

IconicR:
Amen. So you be yellow bobo

LMAO This woman, why the obsession with my skin colour?? You want to use my words to validate your fetish?

IconicR:
And here I am thinking a monika with the acidosis tag is one black or chocolate hunk. Oh God forgive my imaginations, imaginations wee not Kee me sha

May imaginations not finish you.

IconicR:
Don't deceive yourself softie, fair guys are not sexually attractive. Ask around

And who told you I care about your likes and dislikes?

I did not come to this world to validate your preferences, madam.

Your girlfriend is possessed with the spirit of jealousy.... Has little or nothing to do with your skin colour. But do women feel insecure around handsome (not fair) guys? Well yes. Some women love attention and feel threatened being with a guy that attracts women's attention.

They will like to make you feel like you're the problem. Just go about your life as you are not the cause of anyone's insecurity. Go about your life and have fun.

This charlatan still dey find appointment.

You should be remanded in a mental health facility, and after three months, transferred to Panti Police Station.

Tatiana4u:
Is it only Elites that are dragging laycon?
Abeg rest!

Key word "especially"

Drag Laycon all you want. I don't care. But you people should dead the tribal narrative.

Laycon's favourite housemate in that house is Ilebaye (Ebira girl from Kogi state). If he wants to play the tribal card like you all do, he'll stan another.

davodyguy:
Twitter go soon catch fire.

Tweet Oracle, the f00lish Beverly woman from South Africa, and every other animal pushing the tribal narrative and division in Nigeria (especially the everly pained Ho-erica fans on Twitter) are extremely stu*!d.

How does Laycon saving his friend shows tribalism? Everyone votes with sentiments, including the voters.

There are at least 10 Igbo men and women on this show against 4 or 5 Yoruba people but these e-diots only remember tribalism when things don't work according to their predictions.

Yuneehk:
Ahn ahn. I didn't read what you wrote. I'm just happy to see your name. Longest time!!

My dear, Yuneehk. Longestttt time for real.

Yuneehk:
Jury thing was a bad idea.

This jury are humans with feelings. They know most of these people in the house.

Imagine Venita or Neo in the bottom and Vee has to vote. Definitely, she'll vote them out. So we can't fully blame these humans. If you were in their shoes, you won't vote out your friend na.

So Biggie should just leave it as before, let fans vote for their most preferred housemates.

The jury thing is a great idea. The aim is to get people to vote. BBNaija fans will vote rubbish and expect others to save the drama queens and king of contents.

If Uriel was that important to BBNaija fans, she won't close with 2%. She and anyone else in bottom 2-4 deserve to leave.

Nothing is compulsory in a relationship but be ready to be manipulated into doing the things you don't want (e.g., sex).

Just one thing: A sense of fulfilment.


Pay attention to the first word "a sense." It means that only you can create what truly makes you happy. The fact that you need others to validate your achievements at 40 could mean that you have achieved nothing that truly matters to you.

#3 ✔️✔️✔️💯

SenatePresdo:
the harder it is to lay her, the more fun it becomes.
It's all psychology.

What do you tell men that enjoys pre-intimacy? They should go and lick runs girl public toilet puxxy?

You're a product of women manipulation. Your line of thought is the reason men cheat, but you don't even know. People who love the thrills and "difficult to get sex" can never be satisfied with one partner.

How would you cope when that "difficult" and "playing hard to get" woman begins to walk around the house naked 3 days after your wedding? What do you do when the thrills fade? Or do you think she'll continue to play hard to get after you have knacked? LMAO 😂 At some point, na you go dey beg her to wear bra and cover up. 🤣🤣🤣

Emancipate yourself from mental manipulation, bruv. Forget relationship sef, there is only one formula for marriage. A very simple formula. When it becomes too hard to get, na coercion, harassment, or sheer pretence.

A clear evidence of innate brilliance. Some people were born with a higher retentive capacity.

copyrites:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Relationship kills? Mr acid 🤣🤣🤣

Well, emotionally, it kills.

To be emotionally drained with expectations and fake life, start a relationship. To be yourself, start thinking marriage.

BRATISLAVA:
And men, the sorts of boys who post about the economic value of women who they will date, they don't assess the women too?

Is it that greed is not in men because men are saints when going into relationships? Or men aren't human enough to have the emotions that women do? They don't evaluate women in any form?

Evaluating a potential partner is good. However, ideal evaluations should be based on realistic and rational criteria.

A woman who prioritizes the thought of "how much can this man spend on me?" is essentially setting herself up for failure. Knowing an ideal man isn't primarily about "you" (the woman and her needs) but rather about "him" (the man and his life choices). The former depicts greed, the latter can be anything but greed.

Some women emphasize their own needs too much and mistakenly assume that a man who meets these needs must also be doing well personally.

Sad but common. It's even more prevalent because some women have a way of evaluating a man's worth without factual evidence. I mean, they look at the shoes and the car and mentally estimate a salary (all in the head).

In an era where everyone is a tech and AI juggernaut, more people will be scammed, unfortunately.

Not to encourage hookup but, frankly, relationships can be extremely draining. Not worth it in most cases. I mean you spend so much time (and, of course, money) chasing somebody's daughter (a human you probably wouldn't marry). At the end of the day, you will look back and start counting the number of exes you've had while your mates are counting established businesses.

As soon as you convincingly meet and know the woman you want to be with, please go ahead and marry. Marriage doesn't come with those unnecessary expectations and pressure. In marriage, you're not going to waste your life trying to impress anyone because you will be living your realities together as one entity. Your wife can leave the house all day and you wouldn't even be worried about her whereabouts. Without dialing her number every 30 minutes (of course, out of insecurity), you can most likely tell her exact location because you KNOW her.

No unnecessary headaches. No rivals or competition. It's just you, your wife, and kids (when you're ready).

Whatever you eat and can afford, everyone else eats. You wouldn't have to take her out to an expensive restaurant while you go back home faking it with "garri" because of your f00lishness. Marriage is an open book. It is see finish, the perfect recipe for any healthy relationship.

Marriage with the right person will make your life and journey easier with little or zero emotional and mental torture. Relationships will KILL you.

MT:
You don't need to say "lie here and there". It was my experience, respect it. Just like I respect yours.

It is an open fact that in the olden days Yoruba warriors chanted incantations in wars. Not fighting like Romans with swords.

Yourbas didnt have arena like Spartacus where they fight.

Go and watch "the woman king" - they tried to copy that movie and it turned bad.

Viewers will get carried away with the wacky storyline because of the visual effect. It's not a well thought out my movie.

That's my experience. You have yours and I respect it.

As for me, Anikulapo remains far Number 1

They tried to copy Woman King ke?

Woman King is a horrible movie (though this might not be the case for those unfamiliar with the actual history of Dahomey). Besides, the movie reeks of lame scenes. There is nothing to compare.

trueking:
That is nothing, people must yarn rubbish, even Jesus Christ was accused of using demonic powers.
A man In your position must be ready to hear all manner of nonsense, and the painful part is some will come from so called men of God.

That is very true. But can we also agree that late TB Joshua was unfairly crucified? Even after he died, nobody has been able to provide clear evidence.

People typically condemn what they don't understand. It's human nature.

You finished yourself.

The people who voted for Tinubu are a constant problem we have to keep dealing with even beyond 2027.

Well, I agree. They are addicted to voting the worst of the very worst.