₦airaland Forum

Mindlog:
You are right.

If you visit psychiatric hospitals in Nigeria and go to the male wards, you are more likely to see married women during visiting hours with their admitted husbands but go to the female wards, very insignificant number of men visit their wives who have been admitted there. For most men, getting the wife admitted is the best they can do and visit few times and disappear from the scene, abandoning her to her birth family to take care of.

Who funds the hospital bill? I don't think any serious man with a job and bills to pay will sit down with his spouse in the hospital in the name of love or care. If men can do both, then that's very perfect. But how many men can afford the luxury of time and money? One has to give way.

The mother is evil.

Praxis758:
Lack of strict punishment for bad behaviors is the catalyst for institutionalized atrocities and corruptions in this country.

The tradition of sweeping investigations under the carpet is the major cause why Nigerians have the effrontery to perpetrate evil.

They reward bad behaviour everyday and expect the younger generations to avoid Yahoo. Lol.

Thieves become Ministers; bribe snuffing criminals become party chairmen.... and they expect the younger generations to hustle legitimately Such a funny country.

tikco:
Not really a thing..just as when fight and punches are thrown over offering

Better to throw punches in suits. There is a higher chance of survival.

Look at the religion some people want us to return to.

False

Nebes:
GREED & COVETOUSNESS.
Want to answer Mrs and still retain whatever benefit that comes from the ex. In the end the men suffer and she still suffers.

In the end, the men suffer alone for being stup!d.

Biodun556:
Let's be mindful of our social media posts.

More like "let's be mindful of tweeting the truth". "Although he built a few flyovers with monies belonging to the masses, it is OKAY for him to accept bribe in dollars." What a shameless generation of looters and lootocrats.

Men with honour do not reason like you do. They stand, live, and die for the truth.

Ministerial job will end in few months, max 4 or 8 years, so what?? Is there any honour in being a serving minister in one of the most corrupt countries in the world? Let's start with that..

Whazar:
You can see she responded with a smile at the end she actually deactivated that particular WhatsApp that’s why it didn’t double mark, she added me with her other number to apologize. We have been cool since then but I’m always ready to put her in her place again if she trespass

Ohh okay..

It's safer to keep a safe "e" distance though for the sake of your new or future relationship. You can start by deleting these conversations unless you have a genuine reason (e.g., security reasons, likelihood of false accusations, etc.) to keep them.

I've always been against this trend too. But for some, you really can't blame them. Many of the renovations you see were carried out with loans.

Let's also not forget the fact that many old people are not hyped about fancy buildings and cars. As you age, your priorities in and about life change. Some families understand this so they channel their care or money towards other areas like creating time to visit their parents, ensuring they eat good food, prioritising their health, employing a house assistant, and keeping their space clean.

The fact that you see some children renovating and painting pre-burial is not a sign of abandonment. Do what matters and what you can afford while they are alive. As long as you do what makes them happy while they were alive, what you do after their demise is completely up to you.

Whazar:
This was the same way my ex trolled before I finally put her in her place, I appreciate that she never saw me broke all the time we spent together so I just sent her screenshot of my doings for that month and below is the attaché of our last chat before I blocked her ass

But she already blocked you na. Your message did not deliver.

Curse777:
22 million citizen hahaha

Lagos State is more populous

You still don't get it, do you? How many Nigerians will go to war against Niger because of Tinubu's ego?? People who couldn't vote for him in Lagos will now risk their lives to preserve his interests??

Curse777:


Even if he uses Juju and Magic, how will 12,000 Niger ragtags defeat 230,000 Nigerian Army

12,000 Niger ragtags with support from the masses. The support is the hardest part. You cannot defeat an idea.

End of the road..

Sambai65:
na yoruba caused all nonesse for let Obi defeated BAT in Lagos ,I am not surprise because betrayers always betray them self

He will defeat him again and you can only cry..
Next time you want a Yoruba man to win presidential elections in Lagos, you will present a more competent person and the best among equals.

Isn't that what most people already do? You spend the first half of your life changing men/women and renewing relationships like Int'l Passport and the remaining with "one" partner? Since the first half left you with nothing but several heart breaks and disappointments, why do you want to carry on?

FreeStuffsNG:
Please check your map of Benin again. It seems you did not take geography. The Northern part of Benin shares border with Niger and are culturally related. There are Hausa there and other Northern muslims in Benin like Northern Nigeria.

Ecowas will not fight any war with Niger. Niger can't even function without Ecowas. Ordinary sea import, electricity, banks etc, they cannot run on their own as a nation. Anyone expecting anyone to go to war with a country in abject poverty like Niger does not mean well for Niger.

There will more likely be no war yet the coupists will be sacked. Either a counter coup or arrest of the man. Niger does not have an army and in fact, Nigeria is the one that dashes them military hardwares.

Niger can't function without ECOWAS, the country is poor, Nigeria supplies the country with military hardwares, bla bla bla. Yet, you want this same country to remain in the hands of democratic criminals against the people's wish??

Typical agbado eater "we are dying but let's continue to worship our killers "

Edipet:
chai., You don voice out Truth., But around 2020-2021, people who jump into sewing was too Much, no the skill is near saturation. Farming remain the best

People who jump into sewing? Men or women? Well the whole point is to commit himself to a business he can do until retirement. I have seen too many "young ballers" suffer at old age.

Everyone is taking advantage of the old man. It is common knowledge that old people act child-like due to their deteriorating mental health, loss of memory, poor control and cognition.


It's just unfortunate that many citizens are somewhat re<ta.rded and possess a poor sense of judgment.

BOSSkesh:
“Righteousness and holiness” lol😂😂

Yes, that's why they're still standing 50 years after.

Learn a skill, e.g. sewing (men's bestoke t-shirts, suit, or boxers).


Men are increasingly abandoning hands-on skills for digital skills and "fast money" businesses. Don't fall for that trap.

FairlyUSEDpussy:
So what will??

Read.

Abolodje:
Op use coded runs at least you make up to 50k per hookup with a client and if you ride well, you make up to 150k in two nights. You can make double that amount during orgies overnight.
But whatever you do just avoid Tinders cos it’s broke ass niggas like you that patronize hookup babes for as low as 5-10k per session.

50K per client in Benue state? Dey play

Of all the jobs in the world, na prostitution dey your mind? Go ahead.

What did you do though? AI delivered 98% of the result so what do you want us to review? Your "graphic design skill"? You don't have one yet. In fact, the use of AI will make it impossible for you to learn the skill.

Sijo01:
This is so me. And I con be woman

To cook go dey vex you

Exmilitant:
If she qualifies for this and she resides in Rivers state.

Did you read this memo before uploading?

jackmrandy:
Na your friend abi na you.. Lagos way work full any how... Let her know she has to start from somewhere. I think she is among those rejecting 100k job for a start even without experience. Lagos I know have alot of opportunities and you have to be willing to learn. You can not come and be bargaining salary of a 10 years expert in the field and your experience is just zero..

You're very funny. How many companies in Lagos "mainland" pay this 100k?

Absolutely. Marriage is not an escape from your [own] reality.

Interestingly, I would say none, although I prefer cleaning (sweeping* on your list). I'd rather spend 15 hours of my time cleaning a two-bedroom apartment than spend an hour cooking. One is a chore; the other is therapeutic

You are a liar. Sadiya paid NPower participants even after the one-year programme ended. Keep in mind that more than 80% of the people on the NPower payroll did not do any work. NPower was a rare privilege for many participants to earn a token, not a civil service job. Your friend's passing was a result of life's challenges, not NPower.

bigadler:
By all means, first class is not an easy grade to achieve in any university, it also depends on the department, but you must be ready to stay consistent.

If Nigeria used the Indian grading system, graduates with 4.0 CGPA and above would would have a 'first class'. We have 2 different second class grades (i.e. upper and lower), while India has 2 different first class grades (1st class with distinction & 1st class). I think it has really helped their citizens get jobs abroad cos most HR and companies don't know this.

Beyond getting jobs, the grading system also helps them mentally.

The second class thing sounds like "slavery". Imagine someone saying that you're a second class citizen and you carry that certificate (mentality) everywhere you go.

Then imagine defining a 3.49 CGPA as "second class" "LOWER". The degree will mess with your mentality at some point. Is it even fair? 3.49/5.00 is 69%. So a man who scores a cumulative 69% at the end of a four year programme is a second class lower citizen of the university? Pathetic!