₦airaland Forum

you know why some of you will hadly move forward in life?
because your thinking is poorer than the panhandler on the street.
must everything and anything be turned into an ethnic or religious bashing in Nigeria, most especially on nairaland.

Where was Ibo, Hausa or Yoruba mentioned in that aricle?

tbaba1234: I am Muslim but i think this story is false...

Islam does not need this anyway..... There is more than enough evidence for those who reflect...

And surely Allah knows best......

A stup*id muslim and an hypocritic at that.

What is your fact for saying it is false.


Read the Quran very well and see where Allah said Nothing is too big or too small for him to do.


Trust christians to have tried all effortto conceal this story, or didn't you see the parent of the child are christians.

So in less than 2hours from now, Wemaster will pay the debt he owes varies1.

After much "ogboju" and bone face, May 9th is here.

NIGERIANS ISN'T IT OBVIOUS EBELE JONATHAN HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OFFER NIGERIA

He just came to loot and probably beat Obasanjo's record of embezzling which he has longed achieved.

gemstone22: I get the feeling that men think they are doing women a favour by marrying them. That's nonsense. By the way, the feeling is mutual all over the world. No woman wants to be ur footstool or slippers. Women want to be treated with respect especially when they have been giving it. As you go whereever you wan go to go pick the girl wey go take ur bullshit, just remember say for there too women don wise up. WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE LOOKING FOR MEN NOT BOYS AND THEY ARE NOT GOING TO SETTLE FOR LESS!!!!!!! QUOTE ME ANYTIME !!ANYDAY!!

Maybe yes! Maybe No!
But it still remains a fact that irrespective of the Wealth, Beauty, Qualification and Status a woman Posseses, She only feels fulfilled if she gets a man she can truly call hers

ojeogu. c:
God Punish u ur re a disgrace to ur parent nonsence

Olopa, iwo wan tepe (which one concern Police and Curse)?

I feel your anger though.

vilively: This is the problem men never really want to get ride of...women shld be like this,be like that .behAve or act like this,Act like that....never caring to mention how 'they' shld behave,or what 'they' shld avoid if they want real wives...like using words like 'LovePeddler' to refer to women,or everywoman is in just 4 what in the mans pocket,or seeing us as people meant 4 making bAbies and cleaning floors and doin kitchen work only...
I Agree with u on so many levels,but I was exPecting that u will have some Advice too 4 men or will I sAy boys like 'OK/2/NV/MCVAL/190' and the others on this thread thAt think its fun to 'attack' women this way and sit bAck and in a fews years still Marry one...its just sad.

The thread for the male folks is coming soon and trust me, it will really hit hard on them. But why can't other ladies learn from corrections and ammend instead of being feminist and strong headed?

SabrinaNene: I'm sorry could you please elaborate on what you mean by "this kind of mindset"....do you mean the mind set that doesn't believe that women are subservient to men. I am highly confused...And also please explain how I am misleading "those for whom marriage is a must," by telling them that they aren't second class citizens...in my opinion it is men like you that will expect a woman to still be with a man even if he abuses her...cos after all "marriage is a must," so you better die there than actually stand up for yourself...good job!

If you had taken your time to go through that post, Month where in it was it stated that one sex should be inferior against the other so why do we always look for misunderstand and quarrel where there are not.

Now to avoid your garbbish, are you trying to tell me men should still consider and go ahead to marry a woman with the above attitude because marriage is meant to be a 50-50 thing? Of course you know that will be political suicide.

tobbyville: Big lie. I spoke to him just now. He is alive o

Just now as in aftera 2am Are we to believe you on this?

Make una no dey lie again. End Time is near.

pendo89: Ok Marriage is not a set of dos and donts.Its not a prison or school.
I think if you love and are concerned about each other's welfare everything will fall into place.
Love and care should make me get that food from the freezer,fetch water whatever without being asked or pushed.What if one is sick?
Love should make me cook that soup without grumbling cz u worked hard to provide it.
Love will make me become economical with what we have for our own sake.I think it's that simple.
Laws nope.You already made a vow so get rid of some 5 pieces of meat kind of rules.

*confused*

SabrinaNene: I was rolling on the floor when I read this post. Are you serious?...I'm sorry what century do you live in. Maybe cos I grew up with different parents, but I'm not getting married to be some guy's foot stool. Also this perception of "ahh women you better do this or you won't get married" is rather degrading. Last time I checked people come into the world alone and they die alone, yes marriage might be something good to have along the way, but I'd rather be happy and alone *or even in a civil partnership, than be with some guy that tries to treat me like a 2nd class citizen. In my opinion any guy that feels threatened or emasculated by a woman because she asks him to get water for her to wash HIS clothes, needs to check himself. Its called SELF-esteem, esteem of your damn self, and if having to go get water would really hurt your ego that much...then maybe you aren't really a man...ever though of that...#just saying.
Yall need to stop blaming
women for everything....

this is the kind of mindset our beautiful ladies need to do away with.

from your above statement, marriage is an option. then while mislead those who for them Marriage is a Must?

gemstone22: You have some great points but it works both ways for both sexes. Most guys these days tend to be controlling freaks who want their wives/girlfriends to jump up and down when they say so. Hello, wats wrong if a guy has to get the soup out of the refrigerator ? What's wrong if he has to get water so I can wash his clothes? It is why its called marriage. Its a partnership. He gives and she gives. She's gonna spend nine months to carrying a baby, push it out and that's really hard and then nurture it. What's wrong with doing a little fetching of this or that for her once in a while? By the way,contrary to popular beliefs, women are not single because men are not marrying them but because they are waiting for the guy who fits in nicely and there are so so few of them.

Nice words and vey intelligent at that.
Marrige we know is all about sacrifices (give and take), but some women will say or do somethings on the ground that "it is a condition". I.e; "if you don't bring out the soup from the freezer then you won't have dinner".


Men (most) are very caring in nature. But the fear of starting to him in house chores and then the woman take advantage of it is what keeps them away from assisting most times.

DailyNews: Nice words of wisdom...I respect you for this thread...it is now left for the wise to learn. No man, no matter how wealthy he is, love his sweat to be wasted...either by his employees, siblings, parents, relatives, friends, children, grandchildren, girlfriend, wive or wives! If you doubt this, ask Aliko Dangote or Warren Buffet. It is only men that steal, loot, or earn money through one illegal or unworthy means or the other that likes to throw money around, and even while they do, they dislike the people that hail them to keep throwing or those that help them to squander their wealth, cos deep down their hearts, they know that you are just a jolly good friend or wife. good luck.

lets pray they listen.
they always never see beyond the pocket of a man

ovo4u: So where is the foolish moderator and why didn't he move this to sexuality forum? If it mine he or she woundn't hesitate.

it is that lowlife moda4cker called JAYBEE

i hope you ladies arent just reading but also learning.
if you follow these rules, most of you single ladies that are still yet to marry will get married by this time next year.


i need people to share their experiences on how they lost their partner due to the above reasons

OK/2/NV:
OP u failed misreably in your post by not mentioning that these whores should try to stick to one joystick and hang on for the ride for once in their c u n t-bleeding lives!

No! YOU FAILED miserably because you were too eager to see a female bashing thread and didn't notice the "...to be continued" statement.

Moreover men cheat far more than women, so why make it amongst the mostimportant characters to avoid when men are equally guilty.

190:
Diallin 080 -Boko -ASO-ROCK

Hello, please can i speak with Goodluck Jona
Yes please hold up
Hello Jona- Acidtalk say Nija babes dey wasteful and as such
no men 4 them, na true

Jona- Yes bros na so we see am, no men go ever marry dem with this attitude of theirs
99.9% of them are wasteful and unresourceful - such a pity


Una don hear una president, Nigerian girls keep been un resourceful - ur headache not that of the men

190, Why now? Make dem no go say na "women bashing thread be this again oh"

Let's advice them well and hope they listen. We really and truly want to marry them but their attitude isn't just helping issues.

There are so many mistake Women (and Men) make and this has caused many of them to still remain single. Those that managed to hook a partner with such behavior are either divorced or miserable in their marriage.

Women should take precaution and avoid the following grave errors.

DO NOT BE :

* Quarrelsome : some ladies are just too aggressive you will almost think they were made from fire. They could argue and even sometimes fight over both trivial and no too important issues.

* Curses : this is a very serious issue. NO man! And I repeat NO man!! Wants a woman (girl friend or wife) who uses the slightest of curse words either while just joking or during anger. The average African doesn't take curse in any form likely. Every man wants a woman who if she doesn't pray for his success will just rather keep her mouth short.

Words like; your are mad, you are crazy, oloshi, olorigburuku, oyianrah, bastard, damboranbaka and so many others might be considered as a mere joke to you, but the average African man holds them against you.

*Wasteful : women should know that it is NOT cute at all to be wasteful in any form. Be it throwing left over meals away, going to the fast food when there is food at home, using bottle water to cook, packing 5 pieces of meat at once, insisting you can't eat with meat and lots more are what a man notices and even if he doesn't tell you, he will hold it against you.

In this present Economy situation all over the world, the last thing a man needs is a woman that doesn't know how to manage. Every man wants a woman who would insist on him increasing his wealth than helping him to squander it.


* Superstitouos : study your friends and people around you very well before uttering somethings on your personal believe and fate. Imagine telling an extremely religious Muslim or Christian who calls on God only that you know very well some people are behind your problems and as such you will go to one native doctor or the other to seek help. You have just pushed a prospective suitor away. Always keep your personal spiritual believes to yourself as making another man see things from your point of view might only spell disaster.

* Respect : women of Nowadays have watched too many of Oprah Winfrey show that they now think 'Women are now above Men'. Africa tradition most especially on Marital life will remain no matter the amount of civilization we try to inject into our tradition.

A situation when a woman says the only condition she can wash her husbands cloths is that the man should go and fetch the water, or if he knows he want her to cook dinner he should go and bring out the soup from the freezer. Some of these examples sound ridiculous but they happen everyday in our society today.

No matter how rich and executive you might be, go back and copy the old tradition to how women respected and treated men. Only then will you find the true love a man has for you. Respecting and obeying your husband will Never make you less of a woman.


......To be Continued.

190:
Same tin i noticed here -
The once quiet Illama b[i]e[/i]ast, is now forming titan on N
tins girls would do these days just to have S[i]e[/i]xkillz co[i]r[/i]k inbetween their legs

smh

Is she underage? *confused*
Because sexkillz only does underaged girls and gay men.

slimyem: and is that supposed to call for a thread?
Huh?

...Must your Octopus fingers like on every single thread?

Onyianrah!

@Poster,

If it is really your car, you won't have to stand outside and start snapping through the window of the car.

You will readily provide interiors, engine and give full car details.


What's the need for selling the car at that price and what are the issues the car has? Post it here. Don't tell me to send you a mail or call as I won't.

People be very careful so you don't buy a stolen car.

deshclones: Which bleeding bed?? Niggah breaths and litterally lives on NL..he has no other life apart from NL

That means to say, he folds up and wraps himself like a migget and sleep on his phone.

Mr..Cork:
REALITY. bro aint you gots g.a.y conferece to attend? you still the nicest g.a.y dude in nairaland according to poll

*Laugh make me commot nairaland from internet, put am for head dey dance*

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Like i said earlier and will repeat, the only time you'll make me stop is if you can stop your father from being gay. . . [/color]

The way you are jumping from one thread to another like a mad man which you are, I bet you will soon get stroke.

Give your empty skull a little rest and try relax those gayyish finsgers of yours.

190: smh!!

Nairaland is indeed finished!

its really lost its value

smh!!

acidtalk in as much as you are trying 2 pass a point here
I can 100% bet that killer isnt jayboogyman nor that other counterfeit product you are
trying to pass across, that point is invalid although your other points stands out doe as valid

190, Nairaland is finished because people like this Bast*ard called sexkillz exist in it.

My ONLY issue with this nitwit is why insult every single person (male) that post in this section.

People got scared and even discouraged from posting just because he will attack them.

I want to clearly show him I can make out time to get his a5s wipped out as well.

Once he minds his poverty stricken business, this place will be peaceful and return the once joyous section in this forum.

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Yeah. . . That's the smartest thing you've said on this thread. . . But you are still a what? A FOOL!

Scratch that. . . A SMART FOOL![/color]

See the Irony of Life, it was actually the smart fool of nairaland that discovered your scam of using Jaybee (moderator), Sexkillz (the fuc*king lun*t*ic), idowuogbo (the freaking LovePeddler). A whole you 3 different unsuspected id's kwa? You are going to spend the rest of your life in kirikiri maximum prison just like your dad for this great deceit.

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Haha. . . where are you running to? Display the unedited version here already you fool. That is the purpose of this thread [/color]

You are so busy typing with killz Id that you are too tired to login with idowuogb I'd to support you.

Low life bas*tard!