₦airaland Forum

alizma:
Don't be too fast to see it as good gesture, those riffraff may come for the money later but then, asking for it in new notes.

God bless you

Dikegodspower:
Wao
That's commendable

Na wah for you people. You dont waste time to praise. Why didn't dey share the money since. Now that they know they cant deposit it demselves they r sharing out. Money they will still collect back one way or the other

heat. it will run its course and wont show up again

satelliteDISH:
Any Pastor, Reverend or church leaders who meant well for his members should round up church service before 9am to allow members to go and change their old naira notes in the bank. This is due to the fact that the closing date for changing of the old naira notes is 31st January, 2023.

What of offices, they are not meant to be open na so that workers can also change their money tomorrow. Mtchew. They said deposit yr money not come and change. You can always do that at any pos stand.

Padolski:
In this abia state that I live APC doesn’t have any single mouth.... if they talk about PDP then I would say that’s the people that would be competing with LP for vote

Pls tell them. They don't know. APC no get mouth for any eastern state.

Let me reveal a secret to you guys. The only presidential candidate in the east is Obi. Even PDP during campaign in the east tells their people to vote LP for President them PDP for the rest. APC no even get leg for any eastern state.

Penguin2:
Stop writing trash on Nairaland.

And moderators, stop pushing this guy’s trashes to front page.

If LP and PDP should be worried because of Tinubu rally in Abia, then Tinubu should commit suicide because LP’s unprecedented rallies in Kaduna.

Onye ala!

Don't mind them.

worldTina:
AbIa State is a state that the people work with one mind,they also don't go around to disgrace themselves.

Sure they welcomed APC , that's normal because they reason maturely.

But APC will not get even a single vote from them that's the fact.

I do project writing, power point presentation, thesis, proposal and even your plagiarism check using Turnitin.
Every work is negotiable, kindly check my signature and contact me

You are very correct. It's funny how people who dont live in the east think dey know all about d east. The. Whole east is obedient.

ElPayaso:
Na only you don yarn reasonable thing... One thing I've learnt in business, there is no blood or friends... I learnt this the hard way... The OP bro is getting greedy and it's because he knew his brother got the contract through him

OP if your bro quotation is too much than others, patronise others... Do a wonderful job.. all this bullshit of "don't use today to spoil tomorrow" no dey work for business... If you do a good job, you'll be recommended for a better one by the company


He'll sell the materials high, still collect his share of the contract and yet that is not seen as greed?? If the OP brother had given the job to an outsider, he can't be acting like this

Adviser

kenedyx:
As in that's just my take bro.. it's business and very straightforward.

Just know u wont get any more contract from your brother after this.

Stanweezy:
All i can smell here is greediness


OP if u patronize ur bro and still have gain, go ahead and buy from him


I can only suggest u go else where if at all the plus and minus nothing is left for u



As a business man, no be everyday I dey chop, some days i waste my own money on client but the day i go chop the client i go add all the money i wasted doing Mr. Good on his or her head and they will still come back to thank me for been a good man

You be correct person

kenedyx:
So he's not greedy for raising his prices on his own brother..I'm the greedy one now right? That's just great bro!

If he had give the contract to someone else, u wouldn't have the opportunity you have now and he would still get his cut from that person.

kenedyx:
He sells the materials. There was no prior agreement of sorts ..just that naturally it's expected that I buy from him since he sells it.

But the honest truth is that I got a hold of his supplier and even other suppliers too.. the difference is just too much to ignore.

@ bolded
I get that, but should I be cheated by my own bro?

How did you get the contract? Your answer should determine wat you do. Be careful cos of next time

Boysnightout:
This happened during the festive period while we travelled to our country home for christmas celebrations.

I met this sweet chick in the village and after bewitching her with my charm and smile , she agreed to visit me.

I purposely scheduled her visit to a day when almost no one would be at home. I had already intimated my sister of my plan to bring home a chick so she could act as cover. The chick came around and I received her well. We chatted for a while before I began flirting with her and running my fingers on her laps. I leaned in for a kiss and she returned it. She was just moaning wildly .

I lifted her, took her to my room and removed her panties with my teeth. I .....

It was while she was riding me cowgirl that my dad bumped into us. I didn't even see him at first because my view was blocked by her boobs in my face and mouth.

She saw him first, screamed and jumped down from my erect dick to search for her clothes. I tried to calm her down. Apparently, my dad was in his room sleeping and I thought he had gone out with our kinsmen.

Why will my dad barge into my privacy like that?

Your privacy ke is the house yours?

OGwales:
And yet, Anambra can't stand near Oyo or Ogun state, not to mention Lagos in all ramifications.

OP please allow madam Dora Rest in peace. Abeg, before you will tell us what Ojukwu also said

I live in Lagos. I have been to both states u mentioned. But am very sure u haven't been to Anambra state.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Your past nko?

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian , I will encourage we Christians to emulate our Muslim brothers and sisters by abstaining from that filthy animal called pig. The bible warns we Christian to abstain from consumption of pig in Deuteronomy 14:8. Any Christian that consumes pork meat will end up in Hell

Wetin dey do this wan?

gidgiddy:
Remind us again, why are you carrying insecurity in the South East on your head like basket of Cassava when you are not from the place?

The people who only remember there is insecurity in Nigeria only if it happens in the South East

But if they hear that Boko harsn, killer herdsmen or ISWAP killed 50 people, they will bo no where to be seen

Dont mind them
The whole northern villages are empty cos of insurgency. All the villagers have either been killed of fled their homes. But when they hear one bad news from the east they carry it on their head as if they have never heard bad news before. Forgetting that the north is and has been the problem of this country

Roboto11:
Always scared to admit it is IPOB.

Always calling IPOB who told you that IPOB are assassins. Maybe its IPOB attacking people in the north also.

He is getting ready

naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service

…But seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos. … coupled with other gigs … I was in money.

After service I met a lady and we kicked off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough, well the relationship lasted four months.

After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year.

2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, I was back to square one…

Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us.

But from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..

Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship…


But will I be single for life … I’m just lost.

. Abi you get spiritual wife?

Googledotcom:
All allegations mounted on him were without evidence.

Are you aware a certain governor under the ruling party was caught on camera hiding dollars ? Can you remind me his name ?

Gandollars lol

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

No need to ask. You know the answer already

Help needed.
I am about to change the engine of my sienna 06 and i was told that the engine for 02 can also work on it how true is that. Cos i have an 02 tokunbo engine sent from the US.

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

you are a man God bless you. you will live long. pls send that woman away with her twins. cos next thing she might ask you to send other 3 away. if she cant live with and respect the other children then she shouldnt be there, cos she could be a threat to you children's lives

sisisioge:
Another way I would do it is.....I would come to Nigeria unannounced with some company. Stalk the family until they send the boy to go and sell pure water, then take him straight to the airport and straight to SA. I hope he has a passport. They stole him, I steal him back. Infact, I steal him back shortly after his father's demise a long time ago.

As simple as ABC.

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

Your english no too let me understand this story. But from the little i understand she needs to go get her child by fire or force.

gaby:
See this asswipe...

Get tha eff off my mentions you senseless unintelligent prick.

Yenyenyen....

How much you get?

Dumbo

Na wah oo u dey vex oo

ShaqFu:
choi. Shouldn't he be detained immediately? I mean depositing that such amount doesn't translate to money laundering or what exactly?

detained for having money. when did having lots of money become a crime

Alusiizizi:
It's close to there. Here are the terms of employment.

Daily wage: #200

Duties:
Pound yam and fufu
Wash plates
Sweeping and cleaning
Stir garri in big pot.

Hours: 5am to 9pm

Are you up to it?

this is suffering oo. and i put up an ad for 25k sales rep job 9am to 5pm for school cert holders they wanted to kill me that the money is too small.

Corrinthians:
I don't see why such a man shouldn't taken in for questioning.

why should he be? dont you know people are rich?

Mide70:
Please I need your opinion on this issue.

Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday (only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone.

At times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act.

Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that

I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?

Am married happily for 12yrs now, i speak to my mum sometimes 2 times a day. What has dat go to do with my marriage. Oga focus on making yr home comfortable, nothing concern u with the no of times yr wife talks to her family.