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So you're saying India - Nigeria never happened?

Greatest tale of all time!

You can try entrepreneurship... build your niche and employ people instead of looking for a job.

It's not easy tho, if you don't have the drive and vision don't bother.

That apart, try to get your masters degree if you can afford it.

Apply for jobs sha but don't while away your time as you wait, learn a skill or something.

Niklausa:
So you have the right to come here to post this thrash when you just broke one of your biblical laws by lying to and deceiving the entire nairaland populace with your thread title.

So the spirit of God also commanded that you should lie and deceive people ?

Please take your isssh to the religion section.

He didn't say "photo" or "pics" did he?

He started with a phrase and later explained himself. Nothing wrong with that.

But Mr op, it's all about choice... nothing wrong in dating flashy people.

I don't get the pic sha but my friends think it's funny...

Oh well...

Lol... where did everyone pop out from? @Joywendy we need a verdict.

You even find people suggesting fornication to gays

Both are culturally and religiously wrong so why not treat them the same way?

Dare I say fornication causes even more harm

Any Nigerian that has a problem with what this man said is the problem of Nigeria.

davevor:
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Seun,

Why do you allow porn on this site? I am not comfortable with things like what this guy put up and I think it's really inappropriate.

Just saying.

Eze2000:
Describe my type? On an open Nairaland thread already attracting criticism liks everybody's business? Not so fast Lady however I'll say this much I'm after a light skinned, working class lady of big build who knows worshiping God truly means.
Again I'm not a rich guy, not yet at least, so why would I want a trophy wife that would cost me 100k and above daily? But u are right in a way though. I got plans and lofty ambition in life and i guess I'm looking for a woman that fill such position easily in the near future.
if you want more info then i assume u have something good in mind. PM me and I'll respond. (but pls warn me of the mail so I loo for it )

Good luck with your search...

You might be the impotent one if you've been cheating for more than 3 weeks.

Secretary saw you had a need and might have gone out of her way to get it done.

If it's your child, good luck... I sincerely have no advice.

Eze2000:
Ewooooooo!
Actually I do, but a small one in a sparsely populated area of Lagos. I prefer thing that way for now. There are a few single ladies there of course but none come even close to being my type.

Describe "your type"?

I'm just not comfortable with this thread. It seems you're just looking for a trophy wife.

So... you don't go to any church?

The best judgment is the one we give ourselves...

Hmm...

Op didn't see this coming...

Like I'll always say, a girl is more than free to "package" herself the way she wants.

We're different people with different personalities, we can't all look and dress the same.

Thankfully, my dad taught me...

But like you, I still use the fork as a spoon and then then switch to fork n knife mode for the chicken...

Hehehehehehehehehehe....

girls are funny... "you can put only the tip" "ayamu still a firgin"

Smh

16 years sounds like man slaughter(if my law and order SVU is right )

Why will my "man" commit such a heinous crime in the first place

You'll serve your time OYO jor... can't risk my future pedicure(see what I did there?)...

Pheals:
Op she wasn't married...so o put your mind at rests...................................she's for everybody na

Lmao... wicked.

For the sole reason that if you were male, the hypocrites will tell you not to tell the bae I say...

Don't tell him ...

I think the story is fake tho... seen it before.

MrsPhyno:
Imo babes are troublesome! Una get mouth die. I think it's that beauty that's going to you people's head

Any anambra millionaires who are also fine boys dont need an education to approach me. Don't worry I will be educated enough for both of us sha bring money

If we no like money wetin we go like again? I call that business sense

I'm relatively quiet tho... till you piss me off

Lmao @ "educated enough for the two of us" I tells you...

Lol... To think I was feeling myself reading the imo part.. then I got to the last part

I like the Anambra hustlers actually, been reading about a few of them. They prove time after time that western education is not what "makes" a man(or woman).


You forgot the most common "igbo girls love money" [size=4pt]which is not too far from the truth [/size]

2nd day it'll increase to four shirts

I'll politely tell him no... we're all polite

This post is just another attempt to push the woman under the rug...

Well, I guess if your only goal in life is to get married then the advise is for you.

Now Mr op, for how long are the women meant not care? 2-10years maybe? Or if God gives her say 50 more years, she's just meant to stay there and answer "Mrs" as her only achievement

Hope you know there's more to life than marriage? You're right in saying a woman's happiness should not be hung on a cheating husband but let me add that it should not be hung on the marriage either.

Now, I believe in the institution of marriage and will never advise anyone to get a divorce(before someone will blame you for their unhappiness). But then, no one is worth the headache because there is no way on this earth you won't know when your spouse is cheating and there is NO WAY you WON'T CARE. Even those who claim they're in an "open marriage".

Men have feelings, women do too, like I said in some thread, we don't have special coolants in our brains that helps us forgive. The same way you hurt when you know your wife cheated is same way she would too.

So,as a Christian, fear God, love your wife and respect your home.

Toks2008:
Now let me blow the mind of you and everyone reading this.

I belive we all can see how quick people bring in the bible to buttress funny point.THERE WAS NO WHERE THE BIBLE ASKED A WOMAN TO DIVORCE HER HUSBAND BASED ON SEXUAL INFIDELITY.

Many people say Bible is usually bi gender in the use of he and when he is used it also applies to she but in this very passage where Jesus himself gave instructions, he was gender specific so let read it together.

Mathew 5:31-32
"It was said, 'WHOEVER SENDS HIS WIFE AWAY, LET HIM GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE'; 32but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

Please quote one place in the bible that instructs women to divorce their husbands based on sexual unfaithfulness and we will take it from there.

Obviously you never read the write up very well else you wont even mention divorce except you want to remain celibate for life because no guaranty that the next m,an wont also cheat on you that is if you dont end up committing same adultery with a married man who are readily available for female divorcees.

Men will be men oh... and see only part of the bible that suits them

Mark 10:10-12 New International Version (NIV)

10 When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this. 11 He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”

Lol...

I don't get... they lost their dignity for using cheap android phones? or taking pictures of the drinks? Or taking selfies?

Or there's more to the story

You'll feel the pressure... just give it time, like gurgle said, ours just comes first.

Toks2008:
Nice question and i am happy that fer the first time im seeing a story from the aged that corroborates with the exact biblical injunction that bride price are only for virgins.

Lol... you again

I guess rabbits slept with the girls...

presh247:
celebrities have the highest number of divorce rate...cos both parties are rich and no one would bow for the other

Why would anyone want anyone to bow for them? That's messed up.

Celebrities get divorced because they're in over their heads(what ever that means). They're stuck living the fake life. Just live them out of it.

How do you explain kids both from rich homes staying married?