₦airaland Forum

You want to be official but LDRs aint your thing. You guys are just playing each other. Well... good luck and do update us after the visit.

BlackGirlLost:
I don't understand the question? I feel like someone needs to make an introduction otherwise I'm just some girl who he's dating

What if you are just some girl he's dating? Just saying...

Let him handle his family, it's really not your place to go around telling his peeps you're his gf.

Wanted to reply seriously till I saw your number on there... smh

All false stories to build a false case.

That's a new one... "we are not spiritually compatible"

Mr, it's totally your choice to remain friends with her or not. It's not advisable if you still love her tho coz when the pics of the new bae start rolling in, you won't find it funny.

I can't shake off the feeling that it's the sex that's making you crazy

Well I usually let people make their mistakes and learn but since you've been making the same mistake for 5 years, I do wonder when you'll learn.

I think he's also a bad boy coz what those bad niggerz do to you girl's brain ehn, I can't understand.

Well I'm just gonna say... Use your head, make a conscious step to end all communication with him. Delete him from your list in all social media and don't call or text him. If he calls pick up but don't go out with him or let him visit.

You mustn't jump into another man's bed to get over this one. Find a hubby to engage in or something.

I know you'll think he has or will change buh uhm... he didn't change for 5 years so... don't kid yourself.

Experience remains the best teacher but it mustn't be your own...

sonofananimal1:
SO WHO DO YOU WANT TO START DATING NOW


A READY MADE MAN OR SOMEONE LIKE DANGOTE

Is dangote not ready-made

ronald4lif:
There are potential husbands everywhere and when they're ready to get married they will. They keep waiting for ready-made guys whose heart belong somewhere else, prolly to a loyal lady who stood by them through thick and thin.

Except if they want to tell us those bus drivers, conductors, unemployed graduates and those earning less than 50K a month aren't good enough. Then they can as well mould a Dangote and Tony Elumelu replica for themselves.

Uhm... so the struggling guys are ready to get married? or you're saying if I date a brokie today, when he makes it tomorrow he must get married to me because I stayed through thick and thin?

I'm no gold digger(just to clear that up) but you guys should be realistic for once in your lives. Some brokies date girls for years and after they get the dough, they start chasing after flashy girls apparently the former gf will no longer be good enough for them. Some even tell the girls shiit like "if you see someone that wants to get married to you, get married oh!" because they ain't ready and this stupiid statement will come after the chick must have spent 2yrs or more with the niggur.

What's my point? Yeah some grass to grace relationships work out but some don't! That's the truth! So ya'll should stop acting the saints here just for likes and be realistic.

A girl is free to choose whoever she wants and guys are too. In the end, some people(both girls and boys) will indeed regret their choices and for certain reasons, the girls regrets are more pronounced but it doesn't give guys the right to in anyway tell girls how to live.

Live and let live... That's all I have to say.

lolaxavier:
It shows you know nothing about relationships. Don't you know what it means to be without the physical affection of your partner, husband for that matter. He comes home only once in a year. He probably would spend just a month or two before going back. Do you mean a lady in her 20s will now enjoy sex just for that period. Besides, it goes beyond sex. His presence would mean a lot to the family.

Thanks for this. It appears some men are so self-centered even for other men. Mtcheew.

Hmm...

Uhm... some girls were raped as children especially those who lived in the face me I face you houses. Even those who grew up with a silver spoon got molested one way or the other under their own roof. Should I even mention the "daddy and mummy" games?

It shouldn't come as a shock to anyone with the kind of men we have in the society...

I'll always tell parents to know where their kids are at all times.

Hmm...

The truth is, most guys on romance section are really young and very broke, I'll give you that.

But, you should know that you can do without money from even the rich n generous men. You just have to work hard. If you don't wanna be seen as a hungry chik then don't act like one, live within your means and stop begging.

Note that this is not a direct attack on the op but a general statement.

Funny how you said "should WE abort the baby"

This ain't no American movie babe, you're in this alone. The only luck you might have is if he's not a smallie and he wants to get married. Else? Hmm...

Not trying to be insensitive but missy, you messed up big time.

Oh... I gat no advice for you just if you get through this one, be careful next time.

Querty:
I love Medicine any day any time.. am passionate for it..
plse I need ur advice.....

I have had my first degree already in BiologiCal sciences graduated with 2:1 CPPA of 4.27 even though I have nurtured Medicine in my mind all dis while

I have already applied tru DE. plse do u tink I should pick up d admission if given considering age factor?

What age factor? Go for what you want unless you consider it a waste of time.

2people:
When am being nice i'm not doing it for the woman or people to praise me but i'm being nice becus there is a BOSS up there that sees all the works of men and rewards every one according to his work.I'm confident that i wil get my reward

This!!!

I can't even appreciate the outfit coz I can't see it. The fur coat is just a mess. Looks more messy with the hair.

The boots look like rain boots but it's not so bad sha, I think short peeps can totally rock knee high boots too.

Her bag is nice(duh...).

Overall, it's a miss.

Looks like she was bending so that the pic will be full... lehehehe...

Not worth it at all...

Whynotthetruth:
Keep sermonizing and don't become a realist...Hope you booked a seat early enough in a divorce panel unless you marry non-African or slowpoke

Lehehehe... how about you worry about your own household huh?

Typical of "African men" to be all aggressive when they have nothing meaningful to say ...

Cutehector:
Whr d picture na

What do you want to see?

But op, this post is useless without pictures.

Whynotthetruth:
Are you feminist because you sound like one

I shared their views even before I knew about the movement.

But I wouldn't use the term "feminist" to describe myself.

Speaking of the army, can any of you truthfully tell me that a woman will be taken seriously in the army in Nigeria? Won't they end up in the desks? Like some pot bellied oldie will take orders from a "woman". Plus, you all have heard how women in the force are seen as sex objects and when they refuse to comply, they are "punished". It's all part of the movement.

Those jobs are dominated by men because they want it so and women are uninterested because of unfavorable conditions plus, men are generally physically stronger than women.

And should I mention choice? Or are all men involved in the fight for bokoharam?

If you think you're doing the lady a favour marrying her then you should stay single.

MrsChima:
You said that you are a realist so be real. Not every husband is a good man and not every wife is a devil spawn.

There are some homes where woman is NOT a feminist and still are UNHAPPY with trifling husbands.

Tell them...

Freemanan:
Not necessarily love.
you see, the legalization of gay marriage in America is justice served for homosexuals but imagine the hurt the parents of these gays will feel knowing that their country has allowed a union to their own type. So you see, Justice and equity is not happiness.

I think Feminism in Africa should focus more on things that will bring happiness to women rather than fighting a lost course for equity in gender. I might sound Chauvinistic but That's the realistic truth.

What matters is that the gays are happy and not parents or other people. The fight is for individual happiness. I mean, if some day we have as much female ministers, senators and so on, as the male, if someday women are given as much opportunities and are paid as much, given due respect/recognition and all that, it'll yield happiness for the women involved. No one cares if the chauvinists are happy or not.

Even in the west, people like you taught fighting for equity was a lost cause as well, I guess they're eating their words. Don't worry mr chauvinist, one day, you'll have your words for breakfast with a glass of milk .

On the side, I wonder why men always think they know what will make a woman happy.

Freemanan:
it's not a waste of time Mate... In fact, it's a needed movement to checkmate the Men. The problem is they have misplaced priorities. They are more interested in Justice and equity than in happiness.

I guess justice and equity gives birth to happiness...

Symphony007:
typical ignorant black man things supporting a cause means you are part of it, well I don't care, Africans can keep up the hypocrisy! Can't you see where our "morality" has kept us? We are doing splendidly well as a continent, meanwhile see how the west with all their gay nonsense is suffering in penury and sqalour.

I guess what you're saying is, if we approve of gays and gay marriage all our problems as a country and a Continent will just fade away?

We have problems no doubt but homosexuality us not one of them and it isn't a solution either.

Queen... muah!!!

See how they're feeling themselves... We all know it's a virtual list so it's allowed.

It can pain...

myboy2010:
yeah....my p..my p..this thing wey u drag go later spit on ur.....pomo

In yo dreams.... you sure it works?

myboy2010:
*drag her bra and breast 2geda* am I not old enough to suck ur punna

*grabs his pen1s n drags him across the room on his knees*