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myboy2010:
*slaps her on the face* don't u no u r talking to a man.u lack respect

*slaps him right back twice*

Lazy writer/blogger...

Develop the story na...

Not good for the ego...

50% true...

sinestro24:
haha nice one, i will give you that.

stop being stubborn and admit i am right.

even when i was abroad, dating girls with a diff mindset, cooking for your man and fucking him is the norm.

i admit though, they aint hung up on money like naija girls are.

But you have to know that some people live above or below the "norm"...

I'm expected to be independent... I also expect him to be... that's just me, doesn't make me better than others or worse...

Spacing.... separate the points, it makes for easy reading...

Pretty sure this was copied from somewhere so add the link...

sinestro24:
typical naija girl.

hypocrite to the core.

enuff said.

(abeg i aint bashing all naija girls o, just this one.)

dont need a sexist war right now

My life is not up for discussion here but you should step out of the ghetto more... meet classy people... that ghetto lifestyle has eaten deep into your mentality

Typical naija guy... shallow (I'm not bashing all naija guys oh... just this one )

I'd like to meet the chick that gets chyked by 3 different guys min everyday all through the year... ha!

First of, no matter how guys form baddest, they are intimidated by pretty gurls and vice versa. So those extremely good looking/mamiwater like girls get less chykes than the plain janes...

Secondly, there's the assumption that they're already in relationships or that they'll be "high maintenance(whatever that means)" and let's not forget those fragile egos that can't be told "no"...

So, leave story... you are more than exaggerating here. Unless of course she's a club girl(by profession )

sinestro24:
well am i lying.

that is a stone cold fact.

if you dont, another will definitely will

You are not lying, just ignorant but that's cool since you know me not.

Secondly, I live on my own terms and really don't care if "someone else will" .

sinestro24:
take care of them??

apart from sex and cooking, which you will be doing anyway. what else?

Which I will be doing anyway? Lol that's funny...

I don't know but be yourself... I mean, if you're nice or bad just coz you want a girl then you have bigger problems than you know of(unless you are under 20 sha... then you're good )...

If the Man in question aint my dad then it's a complete NO...

Start asking for money n they start expecting you to act as the "wife" and to "take care of them"... lol... I aint yo mama, aint nobody got time for that shii ...

Hmm... good for her... minimum time wasted.

Lol...

This comparison is not fair we all know that this was a fashion moment for Lupita...

Anyhoo... i'm going with Lupita on this one although the dress looks good on Ini, her hair and makeup(is that pink eye shadow?) is not cool.

Uhm... like someone asked what are we to help out with exactly?

I think it's just to let you know so if you're in for jokes you can take a hike...

Lol...

kevinberry:
Black or white I don't care,this is me an african man..we all have our cultures,if you are white I tell you do this,you start to talk rubbish,then find your way,I can't compromise what I want,no matter the colour of your skin..get it..

Am an african man,I live my life by my culture...

Who asked you? I mentioned you in the next paragraph...

mrsmith11:
You and ladies above are saying he doesn't have right to be mad becos his just a bf

Tomorrow he marries her then ask her to remove the the double piercing becos he doesn't like it so you don't think there will be fight?

One of the things in a relationship is your partner having influence in your life whether husband or boyfriend so if you can't accept there influence then you are not ready or suppose to be relationship

Why do african men seek to control everything about the life of the African woman? Yes, african woman because some of them will literally become slaves for whites... i'm sure if the gf was white, he'll smile sheepishly at her. but I guess that's a story for another day.

Now, a man can never(yes, never) have full control of an enlightened woman. I agree with you that our partners influence our lives but it's just to an extent. The influence you have over your gf(and vice versa) increases as you step up and be her husband but until then Mr, it is VERY limited.

So let me now think of the future, what if they don't end up married? Or must every relationship lead to marriage? Then What if she marries a guy that thinks her double piercing is adorable Did you and kevinberry think about that?

Then who cares if the guy likes it or not it she is HAPPY with it? Like seriously ya'll better come off that high horse...

Segbu1:
she told me about it few months ago and i said i don't like it. felt we should have talked about before doing it instead of making it sudden.

Did she pierce your body?
Have you carried out the traditional rites?
Do you tell her about every single detail about you?
Does she get to approve everything you do?

If the answer to any of the above is no then sit down....

Misplaced priority of today's youth... 18 years!!!

donJ2:
Yesss!, way to go bro.

Lemme inspire u a little wt a little story in 2012

Som fine a.ss chick left m, cuz of som guy,

*she wz soo damn fine, I wz her 1st so it wz kinna hard to let go, but I did*

Somhw after few weeks, we got back together as friends with benefit...

The guy z now her fiance, buh I still b.ang d living hell outta her.

The good thing z dt derz no emotions attached d life we live....

...buh d bad thing z dat, evn if she settles with dat guy, she will still b coming around for it. *she confessed this*

Sometimes this life is weird, for m, I pity d dude that might b having my kid in his home

...am not proud of the whole thing shaa...

#dontjudgeme

Same way you might end up with another man's kid in your home life is weird like that.

Just here to watch guys lie to themselves...



Plus, why do I feel like this thread is meant to make naija gurls weep? Smh...

Cooking and cleaning the louvers...

I just do em coz I hate dirt n eating in sheds...

Why are men so dependent? I've noticed that grown a$$ men today can't even plan their lives in such a way that they don't need a woman that is, before marriage. Yet this same set of lazy asse$ will still open that mouth to shout "we want independent women". Mtcheew...

Anyhoo... y is the girl acting like a kid? she woulda let the 17yr old serve the both of them. Why give yourself so much headache for a boyfriend?

Btw, lol @ "I won't let another girl cook for my bf" just lol...

It's 10 things MEN should know before marriage.

But if it's meant for men and women it's almost like saying women should just jump into marriage.

Btw, the "do you see yourself with her for the next 30 years" is just... won't we all like to live till we're 100? but the truth is, we don't get to determine that. So how about you take life one day at a time? That's even the biggest cause of anxiety for men if you ask me.

Take life one day at a time and count the years when they pass by not before.

It's kinda useless to test your bf or gf coz even if he/she sails through, it proves nothing.

But, life tests each and every one of us. By the way they react to even the smallest things you can tell the kind of person you're with. Most times we just ignore the signs or hope they'll "change" coz we're blinded by lust or material things.

temmypotter:
to see such coming from a lady is really saddening to say the very least,ominous even. What happened to the cliche ''if a woman loves you,no matter what. She won't cheat'' and. What happened to Trust?. I think you are wrong..not everyone cheats.. My girlfriend in diaspora would never cheat on me. You know how I know? Because I trust her.. And that my dear,is most expedient in building a meaningful relationship otherwise there is no need building one at all.

Hope you don't cheat too? Coz funny dudes go about sowing seeds and expect no1 to sow in the girlie

DickDastardly:
He should go back to that dream and get a picture evidence or treat malaria Asap!

Lmao... you just reminded me of home... my mum will always tell me to treat malaria when I tell her of my rapture dreams ...

Anyhoo @op you should treat malaria!

Is that a "guy" coat? Coz I see myself in that I love the coat, perhaps the only exciting thing about the outfit.

Lose the hat pappie, it looks weird.

I like the shirt too but not with the rest of the outfit and Joy, I don't think you must use a plain shirt and tie with this. But that shirt is too busy tho.

Onlia... you should take a break from creating threads and just comment on others. funny enough, I don't see your posts outside your threads anymore.

But seriously even with all the bashing you still do as you like. Loving the attitude gurl