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Do this, do that, be this way, be that way... blah blah blah...

You don't see any girl tryna tell guys shiit like this so do same and keep your advise to yourself... no offense...

Marry early... marry late... no husband... how is it your business?

IamOdin:
so u can't even read?

Ok... you've been noticed...

Run along now...

IamOdin:
when u've come of age u'll learn,if at all u will..shallow brained ass wipes.

Uhm... excuse me

What's all that you typed for?

Don't know what to say about the last episode...

Team Elijah always and forever but he was really dumb to put klaus down... no matter what....

Excited for divina's prospects tho.

Let go of a relationship because he kissed another girl? Hmm if it's the first time, just act mad or stay mad(depending on the story) like really mad and forgive...

Anyway, that's my opinion.

And missy, if it's not about you, don't tell your girl to forgive or give another chance... just mind your business or refer her to a married friend. coz when gbege bursts... you'll be shocked how she'll turn on you for ruining her union or for making her stay n get hurt.

Tnycee:
Your boyfriend needs medical attention...suffering from hydro-phobia.


B.S Next time dont generalize your boo's condition

Oh my goodness... hydrophobia? seriously?! Do you know what that is associated to?

Just today I saw somewhere a girl used coulomb's law to explain attraction of positive n negative charges(or in this case, humans). Now, one who doesn't like to shower is "suffering from hydrophobia"...

Can you guys just stop and think about what you're about to type before you do?

Hmm... Ian really wanted to settle down.

Well HML to em.

TO by 2mao... dancing

I'm only concerned with the fact that you used white people as "fine" and blacks as "ugly"...

If you aint white then I guess the white folks really did a number on us... smh...

Funny all the things these dudes expect from one human... like they possess 1/3 of it...

When you guys come back from lala land, you'll see the girls that are available and just pick one...

Or better still, mould one with clay

And they accuse us of wanting it all...

Ya'll advocating independence of women... hmm...

I'm an advocate as well but it's really not in the best interest of the typical Nigerian man... careful what you wish for...

Yet, they can't stay single...

Guys often claim that girls are some cross/curse... one would wonder y they can't do without girls?

Even the dude calling marriage a prison will tomorrow pay some girl's bride price.

If you really like doing all these things than spend time with your girl you're really immature/your girl is immature or you should stay single and enjoy these things to the greatest height, no?

The chick that did this is most likely short

^^ they are also spontaneous compared to the tallz....

Toks2008:
Your latter paragraph suggests that that man never loved that lady.

Im fairly advanced in age and as a 40ur old man i can tell you frankly that the beauty and the beast story is not 100% fictional

If a man truly loves you and is crazy about you i bet you will b srprised how deeply u will fall in love with him in a short while.

Women are very emotional and tend to react to wat they hear and how they are treated but not really visual as some think.

That tall dark rich handsome dude will look like a monster to you after he trreats u like poo while that short ugly pot belly illiterate will be as cute as.. when he continuosly shows u how special you are.

trust me,if a woman marries a man who is vrazy aver her and she is not in love with him,with time she will realize how blessed she is but if a woman marries a man she is crazy anout but does not feel same way,she is finished.

I will stop here

Oh... m just in my 20z but i've met a couple of guys who were so in love(not lust.. tested n proven love) with me but I just couldn't get myself to love them just coz they loved me n even when I did, it didn't last.

You might be older than I am but one thing you're not? You aint a woman so you can't speak for us. That's just wrong.

"Women are so emotional"... am I the only one tired of that crappy(no offense to you pls) statement?

Toks2008:
Noted but let me give you this taught provoking opinionated stands..

Women are endegeared species in this cruel world of men and while i believe to a large xtent that the feelings of the lady matters,it is imperative to ndstnd that it is better for a lady to marry a man that loves her rather than for her to marry a man she loves who does not love her..

women are wired to love a man who truly loves them overtime even if they felt nothing at first.

of wat use is lovng a man who is not crazy over u? and trust me mny guys liptalk love but only few truly love.

Uhm... world of men? I've heard of that place but not sure where it is. Care to share the longitude n lat?

Oh... back to what I was saying... being loved is as important as loving someone.

I wonder why it doesn't trouble guys that the girl they want to spend the rest of their lives with don't love them? It's really silly in my opinion... it's one of the reason the women involved tend to shift all focus to the kids and neglet the said hubby... that's just a recipe for frustration in my opinion.

You hear women make comments like "i'm still here for the kids" N m like wth?

Toks2008:
This is one mystery i will forever find hard to decode.

A man loves a lady deeply and sincerely but same lady does not but she is deeply in love wwith another man who does not feel a thing for her or fair still does not feel same way towards her.

Women are the first wonder of the world.

In other words, all that matters is that a guy loves a girl... ta hell with the girl's love...

The reason girls love guys that don't love em is the same reason guys love girls that don't love em... get my drift?

In the end, loving someone is as important as being loved in return... it's not a one way street.

Olucheye:
I personally do not belive in Public Proposition.
If my woman, can't accept my marriage proposition at a private dinner date WITHOUT me kneeling, then she never was worth my lifetime with her.

She can throw whatever we have out the window.

I don't do. .

Uhm what if she stands to give you the drink during the trad marriage instead of bending or kneeling(if you're Nigerian n culture permits)?

Hope you'll be alright...

rokiatu:
I thought the same....one cure one person....suddenly now two people can take one cure.

Let's see what they're tryna do.

Tot the cure only works for one person at a time?? What could be the plan?

Damon can't be the same again jor that's what love does to ya

Not a fan of delena but I no longer see stelena so they can "have at it" *in klaus' voice*

I think putting klaus down is part of elijah's grand scheme... it better be

Klaus is paranoid but they have to trust that he really wants to save his child... he wasn't even a threat to them sef, what were they concerned about? Mtcheew

Anyhoo tvd predictions...

Caroline gets to turn it back on.

Kai is still alive.

The vamp witches will get screen time but not sure they'll come out yet.

Uhm... a delena scene doing the only thing the know.

Ehm... Stefan whining about something like a puppy...

Lol... i'll be back to tick the ones I got right

rokiatu:
wouldn't't be possible without you guys. This is literally my fav thread on nairaland. You guys really contribute a lot manh.

We wouldn't be on the thread without you

200 pages people!!!!

Happy anniversary!!!

Oahray:
I didn't miss it. Look at it this way. How many parents can love a stranger's child the exact same way they love their own? Give me examples of such parents, if you know.

If there aren't, isn't it clear that something makes one's own child different, a natural recipient of such love? That something is a condition, a condition that a stranger's child would fail to meet.

The condition is that they're their kids Or what else? Coz no matter what, a loving parent will be a loving parent even when pushed to the wall.

I don't think it's about the V status in this case but the lie man... the lie...

Two types of big heads tho, the square and the round

Now, the square big heads?
Btw, I aint talking of back head aka ogoo here

pbs4real:
so wich category i fall?

Definitely a midbie...

Oldie- 07-09

Midbie- 10-12

Newbie- 13-15

Earlier than 07?... hmm grandie...

Battle of the oldies n newbies
Where do we midbies stand

Lol... ya'll need to get over yourselves in here.

Midehi:
fallacy...

well if thats your opinion, you have to wake up from your megamicro brain...cos i see no human wishing he/herself poor.

have you ever heard of little beginning?

all you said is vacuity(emptiness), keep it to your world alone...dont discourage people from sticking to their man in time of difficulties.

Megamicro what now? Brain? lol uhm... ok.


Well then, I guess you have a working brain? And you can read? If yes, kindly read my post again... you might learn a thing or two

crowns2:
Well said. Its not everyone who is poor now that will be rich tomorrow. I know a relative who allowed a man to move into a single room in her father's house. This couple have been married for over 30 years and all through their years in marriage uptil this moment they are still living in that single room with grown children. Bottomline is accepting a guy who has clear visions, clear goals and he is on the path to achieving them.
For example a guy living in face me i slap you but he is writing ICAN, investing into professional courses and anything that will make him to achieve his clear set goals. Not some lazy chap wasting his youth with bad friends or in a drinking bar.

Now that's a relief.... someone agrees... some girls can't take the truth...

xynerise:
@Adaeze003. Thanks for reminding me about the debate. I love debates. I remember partaking in a debate on family section together with TV1, EfemenXy and some others. It was so educative. I think we had few debates some years back and we all enjoyed it. We should bring that back.

I agree...

U

Toks2008:
The point is about availability of funds.

If the guy has money for a duplex n can sustain the rent fine n good but not that the lady must insist on getting a bigger apartmnt at all cost expecially when the children have not started coming in.

life is about planning and yes i agree that a lady who will not mind staying in even a room face me i face you is a potential home maker.

And any girl who minds is not a homemaker? That's just a fallacy coz even those who don't mind might just be desperate to get married and give you a headache in your self con

So that assumption is a lil bit myopic. No offense...