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Dbestmax:
A man's virginity doesn't mata...besides its only d man and God DAT knows if he's a virgin or not...but d gal's its very obvious
and in our world women don't marry men...men marry women...we make our choices among dem...gals normally don't stand a choosing right....days y u see Osho getting married to Iara

Bullshit....

I think you like the chick. If you do, just tell the said friend and see what happens next.

If he's really interested, you let go. If not, tell her about it. But not so that she will like you, coz the chick fit no send you after everything.

Anyhoo... good luck.

I read part of the article buh... I think the world has evolved past the "I want a bimbo" stage. I mean, at some point, I was advised(by a dude) to be interested in politics as to have something other than "how was your day?" to talk about with the partner or should I say the "bae".lol

But even if your logic holds true, I doubt I'll act dumb just to be desired ... I mean, that's just... dumb

Anyhoo, what are we to do with this information?

Romantic...

One can NEVER be too careful when it comes to marriage issues... some girls will disagree but a bad marriage is worse than staying single. I mean, this is someone you want to wake up to everyday or at least, have children with.

Just take it slow, don't mind the guys on here, they can be very biased when it's in favor of the man . Get to know him before courtship sef. Only time will tell how genuine he is.

bruno419:
then the get fu*cked...




I rest my pen

And what was your case b4

bruno419:
guys going abt with condoms Bleep around....so do girls go abt with cd so as to Bleep around?

The question has changed now? You go tey 4 there...

Btw, what if they do

bruno419:
by all...wat else

Just wanted to clear that up... so... is it generally accepted for a guy to carry condoms around?

Therein lies the answer...

adconline:
we must not confuse pucci stinginess with virginity.. Dont force a guy to pay for ur style while withholding pucci.. Don't demand for gifts and special treatment if sex is off the table!!!

Uhm... ya'll guys on here be shouting don't demand, what do you even have? Lol.

Oh well, I didn't state anything contrary to your opinion so?

bruno419:
I am not talking abt her..I mean is it generally accepted?

Generally accepted by who

Lol... barawo...

All the guys screaming "I value girls with experience" "bleep me or I walk" "the no-sex policy is a sham" bla bla bla bla bla are still the ones that will freak out when the bae has slept with 10 men like them. Then you'll hear shii like "must she sleep with all men to get experience?" "she's a ho" and bla bla bla.

What's my point?! My point is, no one should live based on what the other thinks. I'm still shocked that some black women have refused to understand this. Like all they wanna do is please a man

Make your own rules and live by them! If you're Christian or Muslim or whaever and you don't want sex, stick with it. If you wanna explore, stick with it. No regrets later on. Stop living based on what people think, that's why you have a mind of your own.


Nuff said.

Oh puleese.... what are you all saying? klaus stronger than mikael? Come on, didn't you guys see the first encounter where mikael killed klaus like a child? If not for divina's chant? Wasn't long ago and I made a comment on that.

And for Elijah, yes klaus is stronger but it shouldn't be with much. It should be a fair fight not adult-baby fight.

And yes klaus was vengeful but so was Elijah.

MsBliss:
I love u already for this (nohomo)
100000 kisses Lol

MsBliss:
He stated clearly that he won't mind sleeping around with the non virgins so in other words,his self respect is limited to virgins only .

Lol! Guys are just the biggest hypocrites... I guess he'll wait for that virgin to fall from the sky after all...

I think it's absolutely silly for everyone to think and act the same way. So,suggesting one path for all is uhm... silly as well.

My friend posted a picture of the wedding yesterday with a tag "men just make money, leave girls" or something like that and I thought to ask him why he's not towing the same line? The same dude has a girlfriend and they seem happy together so what point is he tryna pass along? Then he replied with a "lol".

In reality, to each his own! No matter how much you nairaland guys try to paint Nigerian girls as dumb and materialistic, you know that's not true, you know they're girls that are different. Well if you don't, you better know it now.

Let me just ask, how will you feel say in 15 years when you strike gold, have a mansion with cars and you realize that the damsel you wake up to everyday is only there coz of what you are and not necessarily who you are? If you wouldn't mind then by all means... pursue money alone.

Now, this is not to say you should run after various gals or focus your resources on a gal. That's just silly as well. Just live with an open mind, if love comes, you nurse it and grow with your partner or at least, that's what i'd do.

All in all... to each, his own.

Youngpo413:
they are some few ladies who respects themselves and keep their virginity till marriage,the few are what we want,as for the other cheap ones who slept around were not forced by any guy,they made their own choices,so guys were just helping their ministry to grow.

If I disvirgin a girl,I must make sure I marry her,so ladies should go and marry the guy that disvirgined them period,not taking the overused pusy to another man who will now settle with the crumbs...

As for me,I will marry a virgin,if she likes,let her fall from the sky!

Hope you also respect yourself and don't sleep around as well?

I thought this was gon be an ironic thread(was rubbing my hands to call out guys and their utter confusion ) but you're really whining... lol

Why do you care what guys want? Why do you care if they think you're forming hard to get or a ho?

Your last sentence is just hilarious "until you guys know what you want, the world won't be a better place" . Jeez! Let me just assume you were tryna be all madeaphilosophical and not actually serious.

All in all, like someone said, the question is, what do YOU want? When you find out, do just that...

ellab:
as my birthday wish,I wanna thank you guys for making dis thread one of d best ever.

Happy birthday darl... wish you long life and prosperity...

I'm sure she's white... black brothers will kiss up to white arses while they're in another man's arss... literally.

Love my arse...

LWKMD!!!

But op sef! You touched a girl's pant Like her PANT! Or do you mean pants like trousers?

If it's the inner wear ehn! You get mind abeg.

Bollinger:
You are not far from the truth. The main reason is women in the past were pretty much properties to be owned. It was no different than owning a slave. Communication was not key. Of course in that kind of scenario the marriage would last forever. Since the woman was bound to the man, willingly or otherwise. Since the advent of women rights, women have become more independent and very willful. The average Nigerian man, who is intellectually docile, finds it difficult to subjugate or communicate without using force. The economy does not help either. The husband is supposed to be the traditional bread winner, but that role has diminished considerably over time. In summary; times have changed and the inability of the male/female species to change with it is the root cause divorces.

Are you a guy??

Lol @ intellectually docile.

kingston247:
Girls like these end up single...

K.

kandiikane:
Reply to those mentioning women:
Because women now know their worth and the men are intimidated?
Because women are not doing suffer heads anymore?
Because women now know they are equally as human as their male counterparts?
Because they do not want to be oppressed anymore?
Because they are now open about their sexuality and want to be pleased exactly how men want to be pleased?
Because women want to achieve more in life than just being a Mrs?
Because women know marriage is not a do or die affair?






@topic, I don't know go ask your forefathers.

People who believe marriage lasted don't know nada. Divorces were not documented then and you were not around during that time. Assumptions. Check your history and you will find that many of your foreparents separated from their spouses. (Probably not as much, probably killed before they could walk away)

Preach! Sis or bro Lol...
Anyone who feels it was better back then can build a time machine n go back!

For those who want to stay? Stop whining! That one persons marriage didn't work doesn't mean yours won't! You have to work on your marriage and not just yourself!

You can't expect that today's independent woman will let herself be cheated on without divorcing yo behind or worse, doing same to you.

You all don't want liabilities no more, you want her to work, do all the chores, raise your children and then... what do you say again? "Be your ho" oh... and you don't want a maid in your home one question, are you high?

you can't expect to oppress, be abusive or worse, unemotional or what do you say again? "I no longer find her attractive" and then you want her to stay there "for the kids"... is marriage for the kids? did she marry you for the kids? Or for you?

Work on your home and stop whining, times have changed and things changed with it. If you don't wanna work then pick a naive girl from the villa. It's really that simple.

EagleScribes:
Life was much simpler back then for the men you mean....

Wives had utmost respects for their husbands and will do everything to please them.

This... every other thing is just blah...

Life has evolved past the stage where a man is a woman's "all". So, I suggest the men should get with the program...

Then of course we have delusional and lazy men who think they can get away with half the things their ancestors could. Well... we all know where that ends.

gregzone:
Who says they aint disturbed
Go to churches and see things for yourself.

Still, I don't see how it's you guys' problem

How about the one you love that loves you?

And hope you're not carried away by lust or the pretty face and big boobz/butt?

Seems guys are more disturbed for unmarried women than the women themselves...

Odd...

I think the writers have lost it bringing Elijah back to Klaus! I mean, come on! He needs a life. Mtcheew!

Oh... and is it just me or the only weapon that can be used to kill an original is gone for good? kul!

"Looks like we're officially orphans"= quote of the season!

icedbeatz:
well Ada this is not my first time of witnessing a scoundrel, imp, deranged marmoset like you hop online and type crap while placing your porous brained self on any class you deem fit. BTW that was my opinion, you should have given yours and move on than quote me.

1. no one uses "angel of my life " on a girl anymore ?! what of I love u? no one uses that too?! or don't the still have effects on u girls?! Hahahahahaha Lil one it all depends on HOW A GUY SAYS IT so stop trying so hard to seem so smart only dummies do that and btw a sleek player will still use the word on u just with a Lil twist to the line and u girls will still fall for it so quit fronting know.

2. get a gang to beat the girl up? I think you have been watching so much TV honey hit the off button, this is life not some script. OK let's not make it seem like ur brain dead she can run her mouth yeah but the punk should do the needful when she starts her drama. she gives him shii Cos he's a wimp who takes shii.

3. You want the BOY to be in a relationship because he's SCARED?!??!! not may be that he can tolerate her but scared, you are unbelievable.

Girls treat you the way you let them treat u, once again the dude is a punk and the worst is that he's STILL A PUNK. no pun intended.

So you had to type up a storm coz I asked you a question? Smh.

Whoz gon read all that?

He probably didn't recognize you for real

But I think your friend deserves the truth IF they were dating at the time of the incident. If not, no need.

icedbeatz:
don't get rid of her yet, leave her to wallow in her wonderland that you are her maga but get yourself a sweet beautiful girl with Nice shape n em assets when I mean asset I mean ASS'ET and inspiring boobz ,may b one day she might visit you while the new chick is there, use kola to hold her maybe a drink or something then introduce her as a "casual pal" like that ,that use to come around to ur chick and introduce ur new chick as ur queen and angel of ur life to her. Be yourself and show much love and affection to ur new babe while she watches don't make it obvious just be soooooo loving to ur new chick play joke make ur new chick laugh and act like she isn't there at all.

I'm sorry but are you underage? Like 17? If yes, don't bother n if no?
What happens when she decides to get a gang to beat up the said "angel of your life"(btw, no1 says that anymore) or does something worse? Like you didn't see the part where he said she's arrogant(which I think he meant aggressive).