₦airaland Forum

Sophyrocks:
They dnt follow culture na. Look at them ranting culture culture culture! Look at the lives they live outside Nl. Are they not the same peeps shouting Relationships are not job opportunities? ladies should be independent bla bla bla. Where did the notion that women should fend for themselves come from? isnt it from western culture? why are they following the same civilisatiion they are criticising? Hypocrites!! Some of the even come frm households where their mothers were the breadwinners for many years while their dads did nothing. Abegi. I stopped taking what Nl guys say seriously a long time ago because Nl is a fantasy island. what they want frm ladies of now is for them to spend, feed, cloth and even clean after them. Handicaps!!
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RedBenson:
Of course, a girl is meant to serve us and that must remain so. It's a tradition and you cant change it. Like it or cause fuss about it, it still stands.

K

Pinkylilly:
shatap that ur mouth. How can you say such. So u're one of them. No manners. Chai!!!

Ma'am, where did you fly out from? Kindly fly back there...

BabaOneChance:
Na brat go marry u one day o. Unless ur a lesbian

Nah... that's why there's "some" there. I've met hard working guys that cook, clean and go about their business as well. I have them as friends so it's not a fairytale...

nepp:
You weren't raised right. At all. I'm sorry

The problem with nigerian men are nigerian parents. They fail to raise their MALE kids right

A million likes for this post. Nigerian parent forget to train their male children.

Back then, it was sensible that the boys went to farm with papa while girls did the chores and cooking but when education came, some people didn't know what to do with their male kids but still ensured that the girls were trained while going to school as well.

That's why some of these brats place themselves on a pedestal and think a girl is meant to serve them.

mizzochocinco:
WWIII depended on her washing that plate o, so u didnt know?

Lmao @ your dp.

freecocoa:
Help me ask them o. Plate kwa? Nigerian women are really in trouble.

Lol. As in ehn... once the girl show, the dude will just become vegetable.

suzzy16:
even those akata women he mention re more worst than nigerian women,u must do all the house chores for them as a man to show u love them and caring

Lol. No let them go n get wives from outside. Maybe then they'll realize the grass ain't greener on the other side.

Gaidenk:
People like you should their lifehood in our culture single,you are a disgrace to the igbo culture

Can you seriously read and comprehend what you wrote/typed up there

Anyhoo... have you spoken to the ancestors lately? how are they??

WebSurfer:
What are you typing? Am Lazy? seriously?
I have spent the last complete month doing every cooking in my house as a guy without visiting fast food or eateries more than thrice and Sundays only, mind you i cook quality dishes like a family man, secondly, i am not a whorish guy as staying out of fornication has become a hobby for this same obvious reasons about girls, to the extent of giving advises to females who come my way or try to hit me up because its very common with bachelors, so what are you trying to tell me ?

I'm not trying to tell you anything... I'm only sick of the way guys talk about Nigerian girls on here and also tired of tryna convince anyone otherwise.

Creamish:
ok ..so dis part rily got me laffing "It is an he"... said wit so much confidence..

Uhm... what's that saying again? "You are what you attract"?

So first off Mr, do you have any dignity at all? This one you're already claiming girls should have "more" respect for their body which is something a loose(whorish) man will say.

Secondly, what is wrong with a man cooking and doing chores in his home? I'm sure you expect that once a girl lands, you should do nothing. Now, isn't that what a lazy man will do?

So, how will a lazy and loose man attract a girl with dignity?

Like your brother advised, leave the country and find a perfect or how did you put it again "nearest best available spinster"...

One of the mere men woulda just washed the plate.

Kini big deal...

Kolade354:
Are you the owner of that fvking language you cherish so much as if English Language guranty success.............Slaveeeeeeeeeeeee

Oh... are you the owner of the language you typed in? Are you not a slave as well?

Rude people everywhere.

Stay off my quote button.

Uhm

Looks.

Sense of style.

Eloquence.

Sense of purpose.

Manners.

Is it just me or are the guys on here girls behind male monikers I don't gerrit.

Uhm... why compare extremes @op? there are wealthy educated men and broke illiterates as well you know?

Well I have this gbagaun alarm that goes off in my head every time I hear bad grammar(even from my own mouth) I can't help it. The thought of that alarm going off every hour for the rest of my life is really scary

So to answer the question, I really doubt that I can. Being with someone that is educated and intelligent/smart(very important) is kinda a priority to me.

But then... never say never rii?

Cafeteria Christianity... new to the religion tho

Good job @op... really funny.

ccJavanian #frontpageworthy

I think the reasons I've read so far supporting and opposing are just vague and shallow...

The virginfinders will say "I don't want second hand" well, you shouldn't refer to another human as though they're things for your pleasure and what about you that have lost count of the number? What are you?
In one sentence, a girl is more than her Vag.

The "I want experience" people will say "all she'll bring is her virginity" well, what century are you living in? Who thinks that these days? Or maybe "I don't want to teach her", "I don't want to cheat on her", "she'll add sex to the three course meal" uhm... you realize that marriage is a life long thingy(tho who knows?) and your perfect sex can get boring? How many times will you reinvent before looking outside?

A cheat is gon cheat... virgin wife or not.

Now, no1 is gon flog you for whatever choice you make so why fight to defend them all the time? Have we not debated enough?

The main thing in my opinion is to marry someone you love and are willing to stay with. It's about the person as a whole and not just genitals.

Nuff said I guess...

Lol! Seriously?

kenonze:
She is not working.

She gets 50k monthly from me for her up keep.
The money here isnt the issue bc I earn average of 20k daily including weekends.
My disappointment is what I got in return.

We have been together for a yr, every other aspect of her life is cool but she has this poor spirit of giving which may not be peculiar to her but most ladies....inference their response to this post said it all.

I'm not tryna "bad belle" the girl or you but no matter what you earn, giving her that amount monthly is enabling her as opposed to support. You should push her to be better, to work and earn money. But anyway, what's my own? lol

Secondly, when you give, don't expect much. This does not apply to giving your girl but giving in general. Give what you're comfortable with and expect nothing in return. That said, you should appreciate what ever you are given.

I'm still confused, you give her 50k monthly or she earns 50k monthly?

If it's the former, I it's silly of you and if it's the latter, I still think it's silly to expect more...

temmy6996:
Switch positions n carry her bag

Don't carry her bag unless she's about to die... literally!

#souncool

Cutehector:
yeah ah knw wad u mean

Ok, so... what do I mean?

How are ya?

I think it's inappropriate to continue to imply that girls are clingy and delusional and guys are puppets in these write-ups.

If you know what I mean...

Lol @ guys tolerating and managing girls...

Why should flawless beings be with the flawed? That's so unfair, you guys should date each other and avoid all the drama na?

I'd say too much going on but it works...

I like the hints of blue here and there, the pants and shoes.

It's more of "fashion" than an everyday look.

Dbestmax:
as if its a lie...my dear if u choosing beta stop as I can c you younger cos very soon u be pleading for anyone....

Save that advise for your daughter.

IamLEGEND1:
Do u even know wat "mutual" means??

Mutual or not, one person initiated it. There's always a "dumper" n a "dumped" or on a lighter note, a "leaver" and the "left"...

It's either she doesn't want to sound like a jerk by saying she left or... you know the rest.

queencalipso:
Whether I ve lost mine or not is not the question here so I don't see wht the fuss is all about. And even if I have lost it or not it is nnot for nairalanders to know as they ve no trophy to give to me,i only asked a question so if you have a contribution make and if you don't u know what next to do

Don't let the guys on here upset you.