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The African tradition was made to suppress a woman's potential. This is a sure thing!

Feminism does not lead to divorce! But rather the fact that man have placed themselves high and cannot afford to loose that position. But the funny thing is that women are not interested in bringing them down but rather getting close to that level. Only the weak, insecure and egocentric men view feminism as a treat. If you must tie down a woman to have peace in your marriage then you're not a man (IMO).

Men need to understand that marriage is a partnership. The partners involved should put hands together to achieve their individual dreams and build a family as well if they must have a happy marriage.

^^ true that!

[quote author=star*]A bad girl/boy in one persons eyes is a good girl/boy in someone else's.[/quote]This, I disagree with...

LesbianBoy: Nah.......its the other way round bro! 190 just popularises anything i post (and makes it look as if he started it) becos he is always online and am not! i started saying that first! Ya dig?

Whaever

LesbianBoy: OP, If the stubborn girl in question is NIGERIAN, strangling her won't be a bad idea!

190 wanna be...

The real version is the one you described about the priest who celebrated marriages against the rulers wish and was sentenced to death. That's the true st valentine story. Why they decided to celebrate it on 14th of feb beats me. another pegan feast converted.

sexybash: @ all that responded to my comment that women can be bought was it because i mentioned money? okay i want you all to know today that

Everybody has a PRICE TAG you can buy a woman with money (which is common) or words or action what every you do to get the attention

of a man or woman is the price you have to pay, and for all of you saying you cannot be bought remember never say never . until you are

priced and you refused to be bought for that price then keep shut

Don't be silly girl, the comment you made was "all ladies can be bought it depends on the cash involved" n u said we should quote you anywhere. Now you're changing the tune to sound reasonable. Lemme make something clear to you! The fact that you can be bought does not make everybody a commodity! If for argument sake you're right and your price is 750 recharge card is it then safe to call you cheap?

Gonna reserve my logical comment on this one. Things concerning 'love' are not black and white. Eg kate dated William for more than 8 years and people called her names but now they're eating their words! Same way some of the so called 'wise girls' would jump around and date a hundred guys at once but won't still get married to their 'dream man'. Yea life is weird like that. Girls should just be careful sha and pray as well (if you're a believer). That's all I can say.

sexybash: every woman is buyable it depends on the cash involve (quote me anywhere)

Generalizing is an unforgivable crime my dear. You tryna say you're some kind of item that can be bought? Do you even realize the weight of that statement? Abi you just typed whatever popped into your brain at the moment?

Old gist...

Life has no manual. Can't say what my priority will be at 33 I can only hope its 'GOD's will'

My dad thinks so too... So enjoy your super fried chicken

Late to the party. I've got allot but I'll share one.
Met a friend listening to music with his ear phone and asked him to play a song for me. He put the ear phone in my ears and played 'just the way you are' by Bruno mars. How cute.

I must have missed smtn... No correlation btwn the topic n most of the comments. Y the heck is every one bitter na?

Flashaldrin: Yet to see a girl taller than me

I doubt that.

^^ I know. Was just referring to the topic of the thread.

@ mynd 44
you can say that. Most people these days aint in a relationship bcoz of love, they're in it for what they gain. So most girls don't 'enjoy being disrespected' they're just scared of missing out. But on the contrary, if a gurl loves to be disrespected, she's either insecure or she has a problem.

2sexy: The OP didnt present his point rightly but I know what he is saying.

They will always deny it especially in a public faceless forum like this. They will stick to the one that treats them like crap over the one that shows too much affection. There are just a very few exception to this, very few which are rare.

There are so many reasons y a girl would stick around wt sm1 who treats her like crap. What I'm tryna say is that they must be gaining something. For eg a girl refused to leave a man that beats her because of intimate satisfaction. Hard to believe? Well its true! Some might be gaining money for fees or to keep up with society and so on. Just very few hang on bcoz of luv and that's the truth. Gurls aint so stwpid.

@ mynd, you're right.

@ pauli, not vexed o. Just that someone did the same thing yesterday ie drawing conclusions about me from what I wrote. Just leave the argument on nl and we're fine coz most times I just give my GENERAL view on the topic.

[quote author=Mynd_44]When did decency become a sexual thing? You people need to change your thinking some virgins might just be as evil as the devil underneath[/quote]I see..

Paulipopor: don't get it twisted dear, to be virgin is good but stop making your only virtue by 'carrying' it on your head. Telling every tom that you're one and feeling like the best tin in the world. Men value other tinzs much more than virginity.

Lol! Why is it itching you na? Show me one post on this thread where anyone called herself a virgin let alone me Smh for all these dudes on nl who love making a mountain out of a mole hill by turning a statement into a conclusion all in a bid to look smart. And who gives 2 fks about what guys care about? You think the world revolves around guys? Well guess what? Most girls don't make decisions based on what guys think!

Badt guys full you class sha.

@mynd, forget all these virgins that are forced to take virginity tests every year. REAL virgins are decent.

^^ I agree!

Lmao @ op feeling like Bill Gates. A guy tells me that and EVERY shred of respect I have for him is GONE.

Good one!

He beats you green white green, rains insults on you and comes back to say 'I did it because I luv you' #if that is love, I wander what hate/indifference is#

NB: there are exceptions to the above.

Jeez onila! Where did you get this from?

silvertuke: @Adaeze003 take is easy now, nor be fight

lol! Aint gat no beef o. Dude just wont let me be

honeric01: you do not have to spell it out before i know where you're going to. You're what you say. Making excuses for what you do not practise is weird. Like not smoking but giving reasons for people to smoke. This is another interpretation to your post. All in all, lets agree to disagree.

What exactly is the problem? I gave excuses yes! But the excuses are for why its not so EASY but never said its impossible. So where did you get your conclusion from?. The post states at the ENDING 'it is DEFINITLY possible. Depends on those involved' or didn't you see that part? Shake my head for some people.

Btw its MY view/opinion so just let me be ok?

Samegirl: @mynd 44 and Adaeze, dere is notin 2 it, I rili don't like d way u view dis tin, I only ask 4 advice 4rm u.

#No pun intended.
My advice? Well I agree with Nnekacherry. "If you love him,set him free. If he returns he's yours and if he doesn't he never was!"

^^ someone read my post to the end.

Flytefalls: Pff don't explain yourself to him, I know what you meant . The world today is shaped to ruin us if we don't fight to remain autonomous.

Yea!

[quote author=Mynd_44]I am more interested in knowing what he was doing with used condoms in the house.[/quote]I find that disturbing as well.

honeric01: Meaning if i was to date you now, we definitely would end up having it since you have excuses up your sleeves.

my post is very short so I wander why you didn't read it till the end. Lemme rephrase 'it isn't easy but its possible.' And uhm I never talked about myself.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Well he might be her BF but mollested her then asks for forgiveness claiming to be drunk or possesed. It happens a lot[/quote]

freecocoa: It is very much possible just like mynd has pointed out.

Men r*pe their wives talk more of ordinary bf and gf, I strongly believe the OP is the guy in question and I think we all know the kind of person he is from his posts.

Lol @ possessed. O well, I see your points, just reminded me of a story I heard . That's a different angle. Guess my post only applies if they 'both' decided to be reckless...
And uhm I know the opz 'nuts' aint complete.hehe

@ubong560 I wander what you call wisdom

dmcdad: Sex of course... I guess he would also be discussing sex with his kids too... Abi no be so @190?

Lol!
@ topic
It was easier in the days of our fathers coz they courted only when it was time for marriage but these days, girls start dating @ 13 so its a diff story. Plus all the media and physical pressure it isn't so easy. But its definitely possible. Just depends on those involved.

^lol.
@topic
In every relationship there's a 'pleaser', the one who would do anything(even lie) to please the other while the other person just doesn't care much. So it depends on who the 'pleaser' is.
Also, if cheating is involved, the cheat tells more lies. Wouldn't attach it to a particular gender.