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realist01: .

If i say people stare at me it will pain u. If i tell a story of how a random stranger girl in school kept disturbing me and said i must do something for her because "am too fine like this to go like that" (her words) or other stories of how girls compliment or act around me , u will say am trying too hard.

If i post a picture, u will refuse to admit anything but choose to be rude.

If i post a photo of how other girls from "other" social networks compliment me on that very same photo, all of a sudden "girls use cute and fine when u aint all that"

CANT U SEE THAT NOTHING I SAY OR DO WILL BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU? U HAVE A CERTAIN HATE IN YOUR HEART AND AM SORRY BUT I ONLY SHARED MY EXPERIENCE, WHY ITS EATING Y'ALL UP IS SOMETHING I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND.

calm down man! I gat no time to hate, i'm not against confident people as well, just telling you what i know! Cheers..

realist01: I dint try anything, its just unfortunate i rant here which is very childish. Are u more pretty or classy than the girls that follow me on twitter? (like this other girl) Take ur local self out of my thread

If you go about asking people they'll surely tell you 'your cute/fine' but girls use 'cute' and 'fine' when you aint 'all that'. #No offence.

Diamond bank...would have been first inland buh....

Btw @op some of these banks do not exist.

definitely no 7. Knowing God! Then peace of mind.

That's just reckless. My opinion tho.

marry the one that you love and she should love you as well. Your love should be more tho so that you'll always have a reason to stay married.

Odunharry: adaeze..

Uhm... Wanna sing 4 me?

[quote author=Ijele-igbo]You're still single, having flings and one night stands but not yet in a committed relationship..... That's about it! [/quote]Chai! Dirty dirty...
Sorry, I don't 'go down' like that. I meant single but God is with me.

Single but not alone! How about that?

Hmm. I don't think its true.

Nice voice buh what language is that? @ popowaa

Happy birthday! Eze nwanyi!

I think its just a bitchy joke. Natin serious.

Flashaldrin: i made that mistake of clicking on your profile. Damn!

Be nice man...

*****just thinking aloud*****
#Greedie might just be the dragon lady#

^^ you and "serving thighs as kola" seems you heard it from somewhere recently.

@ topic, an eye for an eye will leave the world blind!
If you don't like the way he's treating you, WALK!

For the girl in question, that action of hers was just foolish and might cost her allot in the future. Who knows, he might still be planning his own revenge.

byvan: Some girls self,see how this one want to be passing her wares around like a tray of Kolanut**talking to myselfooo***

Lol! Later she'll be the one to cry foul.

Stick your neck out! A agree with saucer, you really have nothing to lose [size=5pt]except a big chunk of pride if he says no [/size]. But you might still be disappointed if he says yes because its been a long time and you don't know what he's like now. Anyways goodluck!

10. You're the psycho. [size=5pt]no pun intended[/size] Get help!
You're just a baby on a revenge spree. You got hurt once abi? Kpele sha. Really sorry 4 you.

Sickening... #ritualist alert#

[quote author=190-the-clown]Uhmmm like say 2hrs [/quote]Those who 'talk the talk' don't always 'walk the walk'

#off topic

LastApostle: @adaeze,
God created for man an HELPMATE not EQUALMATE.

Helpmate otherwise known as a helper is a Vice, deputy, assistant, subordinate, junior et all. Do it surprise you that a woman wasn't the first human created?
What I am saying as regards the topic is that there must be certain privilege and preference the male folks MUST enjoy and it mustn't be contested whatsoever.
The duty of a woman aside other things is RESPECTING her husband wish and actions even though it comes in violation of her moral ethics. No sacrifice is too much to massage her man's Ego, pride and dominance!

Let us return to the status quo and savour what our fore fathers enjoyed.

@ bolded, that's a joke right?

As for the help mate issue you can twist it to mean whatever you like but the truth is that GOD never told man to treat a woman badly! Helping someone doesn't involve a*ss kissing! Ok? They say "beside every successful man is his wife" that's to say that for a man to reach his full potential he must have a woman beside him. Now that's the 'help mate' we wanna b n not the one of closing our eyes to every atrocity committed by a man! And if you wanna enjoy what your fathers enjoyed you can as well transport your self to the past.

Talking of ego n pride, was anyone born without those? Its the african culture that suppressed a woman's ego n pride but guess what? We r digging it out . And uhm, if men want dominance they should face the animals We're taking over our lives man. You guys should deal with it .

adabeke12: my sista i guess u can take a whole lot than i can. being nice to ppl haven't really worked for me... turning the other cheek haven't work either

Me dear, an eye for an eye will get the whole world blind .

@byvan, I'm also glad that women can now say 'NO!' As well. We r all humans with emotions! And there is NO reason why a woman's emotions should be ignored...

#off topic.
I'm no feminist as well. And I'm against do me I do you. But its time for women to live a better life!

I know to some of you wife material=a*ss kisser. I'm sorry but you're in the wrong era

@ last apostle, men have misused their 'authority' allot. They've stepped on women and transformed them to 2nd class citizens. Should women continue to watch them? MBANU!!! We have to fight for our right! And talking about how God made things, I've never heard or seen it in the bible that women are slaves or 2nd class citizens but if you have, pls enlighten me .

My dear, read all my posts again. I NEVER said what the woman did was right, I also didn't say he should suck it up since he started it! Whatever comes out of this is their own cross.

I'm only using this thread to let you guys know that the same way the man feels right now is how women feel when they find out their man cheated! Cheating is never ok! Whether you're a man or woman! And that's calling a spade a spade!

If a wise woman builds her home, what should a wise man do? Shatter the home? :-|

Now that we are busy assuming why the woman cheated can I also assume that this man cheated because he wanted to try 'new waters'? How selfish is that? Pls, guys should stop being sentimental and myopic! If its not pleasing to know that your wife cheated then you must also acknowledge the fact that it will not please a woman to know that her husband cheated. Doesn't matter who did it first, they were both wrong. So y'all should stop trying to justify the man n crucify the woman. That's my point...

And uhm, what if it was a woman that posted this? And the case was reversed? As in she cheated and begged and he forgave then went back to cheat? I know all the guys here will still blame the woman! Or ​am I wrong?

@crown prince
dont get me wrong I don't support evil for evil...

The op didn't give us details on how he begged his wife but you've included that, he never told us what made his wife cheat and yet you concluded that she did it to even the score. Lol! Do you see what you're trying to do? You're still trying to paint the woman black while the man retains his color!

All we know is that they both cheated! So, what's wrong with painting both of them black?

byvan: @Adaeze.

People really can be so biased,men should be truthful for ones. You have said it all.

If only they could call a spade a spade...

^^ oga! I hope you understand that no one is forced into marriage? At least not any more! If you must get married. You should stick to the terms and conditions!

Going through the bible, did you EVER see where men were commanded to go forth and be unfaithful to their wives? Did you see where it was clearly stated that men have high libido than women? Or that women should eat sh*t all the time from their husbands? Or that a woman is a man's property? Pls tell me!

Yes! It said women should submit but it also said men should LOVE their wives! What part of cheating signifies love? Pls tell me!

Look at it from any angle you wanna look at it, it is WRONG for anyone(man or woman) to cheat!

NB: I'm not in anyway saying that the woman is right. But you guys should condemn them both or leave em alone! They committed the same crime! DO NOT justify one person and crucify the other! EOD

If I aint happy then what's the point

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Men ruling the world today is the reason women need to rule tomorrow.

Men don't know shit and sucks at everything including sex![/quote]Loooooool!
Op live your life sha, don't mind what they say! That saying is just meaningless to me. No man can use that to intimidate me! Thank God for self esteem, confidence and the right mind set. I blame it on the 'not so meaningful' tradition.

^^ the guys spewing shit here, are they not future fathers? Don't they need to be good examples as well? When did being a responsible adult become a feminine thing?

CuntEater: All the female potential cheats are very angry...smh

Nope!! The anger there is that men don't see cheating as wrong when they cheat! it is wrong!!! Be you male or female!!! The fact that he cheated is no excuse for her to cheat but she did it anyway so what now? I'm sure he felt like a king after cheating and now, he can't even see his wife as a human!

I'm not in support of cheating but I'm glad he got a taste of his own medicine! Guys get this: [size=15pt]it 4kn hurts[/size] to find out that your partner(male or female) cheated!

For the one that asked who pays the bride price. I ask, Why would you go through all that trouble to get married to a girl if you aint ready to be faithful? It makes no sense!
And uhm women aint nobody's property. Paying bride price is just tradition.

For the one that said men are polygamous by nature, do you mean that women are attracted to only one man? Men only take advantage of this 'superiority' thing given to them by this 'not-so-meaningful' african culture! If we all decide to be stwpid eh, this world would be down side up!

For the one that said he can't imagine a married woman with kids cheating, so you can imagine a married man with kids cheat and its completely ok by you abi? All these myopic peeps sef! You all forget that its a two way street. SMH

I say he should forgive her but I can't tell him what to do about his marriage, that's completely his decision! But to all these dudes typing trash here "do unto others what you want them to do unto you"... Nuff said jor (make I no too fex)

"And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye unto them likewise" LK 6:31

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