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czarina:
I love you I seriously wish we all remember this any time it feels like Pompeii around us. Thanks for sharing this.

Sense wee not kill you A lot of folks keep trying to save obsolete, turn the hands of time and change the past rather than focus on what they can control.....i love you too..)

I just learnt a lesson from this...at times an opportunity we have gets closed, we get kicked out or abandoned after giving our all. But rather than focus on the next upcoming opportunity. we start crying over a bad opportunity/situation that would have or has been detrimental to us. We begin to brood over spoilt milk that was spilled. Growth is pain and pain is growth. You get the desirable when you let go of the undesired. When a door is closed, a bigger door might just be opening. But you will not see it if you keep banging and wailing on the closed door. Pick up the broken pieces, dust yourself up, stay positive and in no time you will have better opportunities and more reasons to be grateful.

This is so sad. In saner climes the action of this man is enough to start a revolution. But here we see it as a joke.

See my idea o....choi. While the broke dream, the rich wake up and turn it to reality. I bet he cant even read a line of code.

*I have checked out the app, they tried but am not impressed. I will still go ahead with my app.

Harryfrosh:
dis word seems aggressive to me....ignorantly.....can't you make your point peacefully?....how will you feel if I also reply with something abusive.....about the application you're talking about....I just subscribe to the phone this morning and all the application I downloaded is just whatsapp and puffing browser....

oga there is nothing abusive or agressive about his comment, the problems u made mention of are issues that resonate with a lot of free apps. You didn't indicate that u only installed whatsapp and puffing In ur earlier comment. Hence it's easy to assume that u ignorantly installed an app that is running ads on your device. (Which I also believe is the problem).

ANy ideas when MI Max 3 will be released? getting tired of waiting....

Op the truth is she ll never change if you keep complaining. See her as you want her to be and not as she is...treat her as you want her to treat you. With time she ll catch up

Nice

Another excuse for laziness. Madam go to the gym and do urself a favour. Being overweight has never been healthy

beautycrush24:
All those birds in one cage? isn't it dangerous for the Senegal?

if there is any threat in that cage from what I have observed it's the older senegalese. I noticed he occasionally beaks the African grey when she gets too close.

Blackbelly:
This just brought back sweet memories.Make sure to shield the cage from direct sunlight and cold. How do they get along? Don't they fight each other? Nice birds by the way

Just went through your thread, sorry about your bird bro..They actually do get along quite well. Better than I expected.

themodernman:
So their wickedness should be forgiven despite beimg a good and humble person to them right? They should get away with eroding my self-esteem, no thanks to their disgustingly bossy attitude right?

You kuku said you don't pity people like me simply because I decide to pay back my enemies in their own coin....so screw you too!

How many people have you honestly forgiven in your hypocritical and deluded life?

Empty barrel.

Even if u shoot them all with a gun. The pain u feel inside will never go away. The forgiveness is not for them. It's for you. You have to set urself free bro. There is much more to life than waiting to pay back. The pay back opprtunity you are waiting for may never come and you will have lived your life under oppression. You have to let things go. With your experience you can change the lives of so many persons going through the same situation you faced.

Going through this thread made me realise I have great parents and so much to be thankful and grateful for. My mum and dad are amazing couples. They have there shortcomings but they always do therein best. But now I would ensure I believe in my kids. I ll train and mentor them on the art of strategy, how to court a lady, how to run a business, how to save and invest. I ll show them the magic of hardwork, focus consistency and discipline. I ll ensure that they follow their dreams and passions and not decide for them. When a decision is to be made , education, Marriage, I ll ask them these two questions, what do you think, and what do you want. I won't I assume I know the best for them without wanting to hear them out. I ll instill self confidence in them from a very tender age . I ll make them belive that all things are possible. I ll apologise when am wrong. I ll let them go out and make friends. I ll encourage them to try out those ideas, fail and make mistakes. I won't force them to sit at the sidelines while I do everything myself because I don't want them to mess things up.

Baroba:
E pain you sorry bro, share some pix abeg..how much was the African grey??

e pain me no be small. I got everything from a friend for 50k including the cage. I plant to get a bigger cage for them and possibly another African grey.

So i just got an african grey (6 months) and two senegalese (1 year and 8 months respectively). i have got bitten twice..thankfully i wore gloves the second time. you don't want to get bitten by the senegalese trust me.

gentle007:
Don't you think prenuptial will handle this issue of property sharing during divorce?

I think every man should insist on prenuptial agreement if the wife to be talks up marriage registry.
In fact, prenuptial should be done before marriage. This is the only way love can be separated from marriage scam.

prenups can't do shii if the assets the man acquired were gotten after he got married to her. Or if he took money from her to invest in the business or property even if he had it before he got married to her or if she works in the business or has represented the business in any way. Or if he used family money to invest in it or she and kids had to endure some cutbacks while the asset was being developed....as long as her lawyers are good and can prove it in court. That business and assets will be seen as joint/marital assets and she can get it from you in whole or part. even if its your grandfathers business/property that you inherited. Ask Mark Zuckerberg why he did his Facebook IPO few days before his wedding. Besides a judge can also declare a prenup invalid if it's one sided and doesn't project fairness to both parties. The best way out is not to marry, the next best is to have a prenup before wedding and you can have a clause in ur prenup were both man and woman are liable to loose some rights to joint assets if found culpable to infidelity, physical abuse, neglect of duties...etc Ensure you list all your assets in your prenup and she does so as well and keep her happy. That's the only way to avoid a divorce.

No African azz ...a woman wey no get full azz, that one na woman?

Ups01:
Honestly, i feel like giving you a very dirty slap.

What exactly did you contribute to building his asset??

But hey, you know what? I don't blame you, I blame the western legal system tilted in favour of women

it's not like the man already had those assets before he got married to her. She too must have made sacrifices abd contributed to the development and success in his acquisition of those assets. So she deserves to be duly and fully compensated. It's very wrong for a woman who has been married for years to one man and one morning he decides to send her packing empty hand with the phrase "leave my house" not putting into consideration the effort and sacrifices the lady has made, no matter how little or big She deserves to be compensated.

i am currently using a samsung galaxy note 3 neo which have served me well since 2014 when i got it. i wanted to upgrade to samsung galaxy A8+ but someone told me to try xiaomi redmi 5 plus or mi max 2. So i need opinions from people who have used both devices.

visijo:
non of them tickle my fancy.. My bike is still superior to these china scraps

what bike do u ride sir*

Oct. 5. from southeast, reside in PHC.

@op. It's your wife, it's ur food, it's ur life. I really wonder why people tend to focus on little insignificant things rather than the important ones. If you really don't like them dishing from your pot. It's simple, man up and tell them straight to their face. No need beating around the bush. And they ll get the message clearly.

Remember when i first told my dad i wanted to leave the house at 26, he started acting as if i was about to abandon him and my family for life. Even resulted to emotional blackmail.

Date the man, dump ur bf and end ur relationship, use the money u get to make ur life better.and ur child better.Forget the bf cos ur re better off without him. A real man would rather die than sell out the mother of his kid.

Depends on the offense, the level of connection btw both of u and what u re trying to achieve . There will be no need to resort to any of these if u let her know how u feel about her misdeeds and she is sensible enough to apologise and retrace her steps. However if u really want to punish someone, you hit them where it hurts them( not literally). For most women it's attention, if u deprive them of the usual attention you give tgem and focus it on something or someone else. Or embarrass/fall her hand in public they will get hurt however be sure you want to go down that road be embarking on it cos u could get hit in the crossfire.

laribari:
Don't make me laff! Who go deal with that Ogbanje? That one go insult her boss ooo with her mood swing and later apologize when her eyes clear.

apologise fire. That chick will rather face sack than apologise and she will say they re not up to her intelligence level That's why they can't stand her. There is a difference btw arrogance and confidence.

if e no be natural, e no fit be like natural..

martineverest:
let's assume the lie is truth

which of the youths are u talking about?.. those that are hedonistic? those only spent their time in voting for bbnaija contestants but can't come out to vote during elections? those that are educated but with no sense of reasoning? those that doesn't know anything beyond drugs and sex? those that support criminals in govt?

our youths aren't ready

mazi have you given the youths a chance to prove that they are not ready. Your reasons are not only archaic and unfounded but also the same stake talk these oldies use in cooking up reasons why they should hold power till they die. How dare you compare voting on bbn to voting in elections when the organisers of bbn have embraced electronic and social media voting, which is easier, safer and more transparent compared to the deadly voting conditions we face in these country. These same old crop of leaders, who do not know know how to check an email will come out and tell us why we should settle for a slice when we can get the full pie. I refuse to be stupid.