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We have been inundated with stories of men hitting their wives and almost every man involved will tell tales of how they were forced to literally take matters into their hands due to nagging, verbal abuse, and hostility from the woman. At times one can be so provoked that takes more than the spirit of God to restrain from going physical. Some men take a walk out of the environment and return when things are calm. But in instances that you cant leave your house at that moment, what do you do? So I want to urge men who have successfully mastered the act of not laying hands on their women no matter how bad they are provoked to give us their secret tips on what to do and how to diffuse such hostile nagging and verbal attack conditions and return the peace in the home.
Also Women who have gone through such experiences are welcome to share a thing or two, we are all here to learn

verydark:
bmw is a shitty car.drink too much petrol.

beemers are not like benz and range that even a learner can drive. You have to know what you are doing to drive and maintain one. If you have a problem with the fuel consumption then it's definitely not for you. Am not a beemer fan but I appreciate good stock when I see one.

abes:
It's not a straight 8 hour drift, there's some rests in between. That's my point. Check out the making of the video on YouTube.

it's a complete 8 hour drift with no rest else why on earth will they refuel while the vehicle was in motion? Besides there are driving tests that last as long as 24 hours and mores so 8 hours drifting is possible. The only reason to stop was to refuel which was done in motion.

BMW is the definition of performance

Guys with binance and bittrex no longer accepting new sign ups, I need an equivalent reputable world class platform. Any suggestions?

Guys with binance and bittrex no longer accepting new sign ups, I need an equivalent reputable world class platform. Any suggestions?

Lots of ignorant hypocritical folks on this thread. Marijuana has been sold over the counter in amsterdam for years, how many people have ran mad? why isn't the drug related crime rates burning the roof? Instead the country is experiencing lower crime rates and massive revenues from sales and y'all are here spitting nonsense.

Op is very correct. 2006 camry. The indicator is on the right but the the arrow points to the left where the fuel tank is.

Am a Mel-San and recently hooked up with a Mel-Chol. Tho we haven't known each other quite well but I think we have a great chemistry. I am just concerned about her having anger issues even though I haven't seen her get angry yet..

lovely..with a small budget of 3m, one can have a good time here for a while..

Northernonyenku:
Dats what happens when u live far away n ur parents insist on getting a decent village wife for u..� for me I will simply bundle her back b4 she decides d electronics r dirty n needs to be washed

kukuma kill me....

Hozier:
90% of boys driving cars are thieves and scammers, little wonder they are the ones at the forefront of recent spate of attacks on the SARS operatives.
95% of boys going around with laptops, especially those wearing ugly tact less tattoos are big time 419ners and theives, they deserve whatever punishment they get for soiling the image of this country in the mud.
4 in every 5 girl dressing indecently is either a prostitute or a member of robbery syndicate terrorizing this country.

We all should rally around our heroes working day and night to rid us of these snakes & scourges terrorizing our beloved country.

this is the first time I would tell anybody this on NL. It's either ur brain is leaking brain juice or u are completely insane. May SARS officers and injustice locate you and your family members wherever u are and give u the same treatment given to thousands of nigerians let's see if u will have some sense. SARS is a big disgrace to the Police and Nigerians at large. SARS that can't even compete with SWAT and other elite security agencies Over the world is what u term heroes. you think arresting and picking up young boys makes you a big man. Young people who work hard to survive despite the harsh economic situation yet criminals disguised as law enforcement illegally detain harass, rape,steal and kill them. That's what you say we should support. In this era of technological advancement and Internet age when u can easily make a good profit from a wide variety of online ventures ranging from social media marketing to cryptocurrency to forex trading and you term anybody with a laptop or successfully buys a car from the proceeds of his hard work a criminal. You must mad.

This is the funniest thread I have come across in NL recently. I painstakingly went from page 1 to 31 to see the developments in all regions. However Ndigbo have successfully proved that they are the masters of urban development. I was looking for where to spend this Xmas. Never knew Igboland has such beautiful scenery. And to think that it's all done by individuals without govt interventions speaks volumes of what these people can do if they had a free system to operate in. kudos to Ndigbo let's continue to build and develop our own.

cruchenutii:
One thing you should note, Make sure you have guys over, Incase fight starts. This will not end well. It may even end of Picking up bottles and stabbing each other.

You have to prepare for the worst in these Scenario.

No need for other guys, bringing in strange faces will most likely lead to a fallout, cos the guy will be in survival mode immediately he sees external forces and his resistance level will be higher. it has to be just the three of them seated together, it shows that op can handle things himself without involving external bodies, Op needs two things Loyalty from his bae and respect from this guy. Now even if the guy tries to fight him, he will just be revealing his animalistic nature to Op's babe also and she gets to see him for who he really is. I doubt she will want to have anything to do with the guy after such display of unwarranted aggression. Op should never respond to aggression cos doing so will reduce him to the guys level, rather he should praise the guy first, talk about some good things the guy has done in the past before landing him the accusation. this will put the guy at ease and he wont even realise what hit him till its all over. guys like that love to show off and will only respect you when they know you have caught them red handed, but you let them save face a little rather than outright humiliation.

@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

Do the right thing.Leave the money and walk away.

OMG see gruesome tools used on human beings. These are horrible ways to die

For my mama, I will take anything takeable.

Sincerely guys these guys are just mad men. I have decided to always shift my car and give way to any convoy as long as the road is free. Truly speaking it's not worth it. These police men can't boast of one single spare tire talkless of a car. They are just broke and hungry that's why they parade the streets begging and harassing people. Just allow them pass and take their madness along with them. It's no use stooping so low to drag and fight with these guys. Just make your dough and hire them to follow u up and down that's the only thing they are good for.

hanassholesolo:
You definitely look like a dude in my sec school called Mayowa or something

lol...I am definitely not your guy. yeah a lot of persons look like me...check out mayorall on NL. He may be your guy.

hanassholesolo:
Your name starts with "M" and ends with "A"

No Sir...

Lambert...

this is beyond gold digging. This is gold picking..Why stress yourself to dig when you can just stroll and pick...#justsaying

comshots:
How is John fashanu a billionaire?

guess who is a big shareholder in DSTV and SPAR Nigeria?

greatnaija01:
If you truly LOVE HER, then help her boobs RISE AGAIN..... there are food suplements, pills, creams that will do this and remove stretch marks.... YOU NEED TO WORK IT AND OWN IT... so she sees that you are committed and responsible..... DONT QUIT... I was in the same shoes and I had to have a HARD TALK and did lots of breast augumentative procedures and today my Lady's boobs stands like National Anthem.... but it took a total of 4 months to achieve... If you love her put in the work... SHE WILL FOREVER REMAIN YOURS.

Na Wash...if e no be small stout, e no fit be small stout.

kinguwem:
Ford is a British vehicle

I need the weed you took this morning. It's highly effective. .

ubunja:
Its always women who are yapping on about "intelligence". Men want a pretty face and a nice body. Women on the other hand seek for intelligence ,coz intelligence=good grades=good qualifications=good job=good salary=good lifestyle="what all women want".
To see women don't give a crap about the "intelligence" they claim to seek,u must see how a gal who looks for an intelligent guy will never spend even 1 sentence asking the guy about The Theory of Relativity or How Electrons work.
They want intelligent men coz that's where the dollars will come from. Its an investment.

nailed it!!!!
Intelligence = better prospects = more cheddas. It's all about the cheddas....

I just love trump....The guy is bold, fearless and off course a billionaire He doesn't care what anyone thinks of him, he walks his talk. That's a real g right there.