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thesicilian:
There's only one Ronaldo and his name is Cristiano. One day he's going to buy up Barcelona and sell off Messi to China.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you....

One day I will pay for a 100ft + superyacht and use it to explore the Caribbean

Stupid son... However, the failure of a child is a reflection of a parents poor parenting ability.

Eketem:
Sadly she has refused to see this despite male and female posters telling her, she just wants him back to avoid what people will say

She's in for a bumpy ride.

Sadgirl1281:
The last sentence Be nice to his family members and friends?? How? When they are the ones somewhat against me or according to him people around him telling him the time apart is good while others telling him to not go back, according to him. Or the same family members he has told things about me and they are disappointed?

I am focusing on myself and once in a while show a bit of affection so in the end it’s not like I did not try.

Have you tried to reach out to the said family and friends by yourself? I bet you they may be unhappy but not as bad as he is painting it. I feel he is saying all this to put you under pressure to do what he wants. You will be surprised that some of them might be pushing him to come back and mend his home. They look at you through his eyes and that of his stories, I think it's time they get to know you on a personal level and form an independent opinion of you. Try and get closer to them not just because of this issue but for future sake. If you knew how badly You need those family people in your corner you would be sending them flowers every Sunday.

Sadgirl1281:
That’s the pain I’m on here sharing. The way it is seen even from my own side(parents) is I pushed him, that’s violence so no matter what he said or did or when he even pushed me back, all that is by the way... Everyone around me is all on me to have to make him come back home because he is my husband, I pushed him and wouldn’t want a broken marriage, blah blah etc

He came once to visit for us to talk physically and he said he felt better now us talking but he won’t just easily come home after just one talk that I have to prove to him and show him and make him want to come back. So meeting somewhere else wouldn’t really be an option, it has to be more like him coming to the house again to talk and all or if all things maybe return.

This is a power grab... Dont fall for it or else you will regret it in future. You have a manipulative man who will use your weakness against you.. He'll even make you reveal those weaknesses and then turn around to hang you with it. Dont do anything, just be mature and objective. Focus on yourself and your work and he will come around on his own. What you don't know is this man can't stay without you. He lives off validation. Even if he wants to the peer group around him won't let him do it. He cares about what people think and that's why he is going about telling everyone his story. If you go rolling on the floor begging him to come back, guess what story that everyone will hear? Also whenever you guys have an argument guess what he will do? He wants to show the world that you want him more than he wants you and You have a chance to put
Him in place by standing your ground. Be nice to everyone including his family members and friends. Do a hostile takeover of his support group and peers by winning them to your side. When he discovers he is standing alone he will find his way home. But don't ever give up your position else you ll be begging him for the rest of your life. However learn to respect your husband no matter how pushed and frustrated you get. You don't return fire with fuel.

Greyworld:
That vacation stuff is so damn correct. Vacation in Nigeria is for the elite... as in not just rich but super rich.

The average man can go on vacation if he wants to.. Its just planning

The truth is only a man can tell why he cheats. I just laugh when I see women try to explain a man's actions when they have no idea how a man thinks in the first place. If you want to know why a man is cheating, Its simple..... ask him.

I bet he will an award for his acting skills in the movie.... Atiku issa Fraud. Atiku issa Fraud. Atiku issa Fraud. BTW Buhari still remains lifeless

Ronaldo may be the angel of soccer, but Modric is the Wizard of OZ. However in a world cup year the performance of players in the world cup are also considered not only champions league . Remember Italy winning world cup and fabio cannovaro who was the captain getting the UEFA title. Modric was spectacular in the world cup, Ronaldo was a flop in the world cup. Modric deserves it.. Case closed.

Nice app

bigtt76:
Anoda angu ...never tot of this ...will definitely try it out

Yeah could come in handy

Guys is it possible to answer calls with fingerprint on xiaomi devices?

ZIMDRILL:
your are missing the big picture you are still a boy

1st its how nigerians 2i assume you are" too misuse the words Upkeep/allowance to wife

2nd your wife shouldnt be given money for upkeep or allowance as you say but should have money monthly "if possible" to buy things like earrings perfume, bras, pants, shoes, clothes new hair ourfit etc things that even if she wasnt married had money she would buy those regardless being married or not

3rd so you aint paying her salary as think or see but the money is to buy new stuff for herself eg a sexy dress etc things that make her look beautiful a nice dress etc sure you wouldnt want your wife to be known to wear the same outfit for the whole year

4th remember this money applies to both men and women as man you need money for beer if you drink, money for a new season jersey for your fav team etc this money is from that covers personal needs after paying main expenses and also if your monthly income can afford that

If you read my post well you will realise that I have already empowered her to buy any thing she wants by getting her a well paying job. I believe a woman who is married should be cared for and pampered by her husband. I believe he should buy her nice things and give her funds when he can. But it should not be on a monthly basis and she should have her own role and contribution to the home front. I grew up in a family where my dad and mum are both earning and while my mum uses her money to run the home and buy foodstuffs, clothes for kids etc. My dad took care of the capital expenses like building projects, school fees, cars, travel, during holidays he would take us shopping, as we grew older he started giving us money for upkeep esp during Christmas season and other festive periods, he will also buy bags and cans of foodstuffs some to give out and the rest for the home.. My dad has never come home to hear that there is no garri, or money for soup no de. Cos feeding and clothing (herself and her daughters ) is primarily my mum's responsibility. It doesn't mean he doesn't buy her gifts or gives her money when he wants to. They have their system and have peacefully and successfully run it for years. Bearing the whole responsibility alone as a man will only run you down and Wear you out. For all those quoting Bible saying it's a man's responsibility to provide for his house I absolutely agree but I will also remind them that most women in the Bible were primarily house wive's who didn't work and relied on the husband for everything. Now most women re working and have to play a role in the home. Lord knows I ll run mad if my wife keeps asking me for monthly money for home upkeep when she's earning. Monthly money is only for house wives.

I ain't giving no wifey a dime, the best I can do is to get a well paying job for her and she can use the money from there to take care of the home upkeep, while I focus on capital expenses. I cannot come and kill myself. Imagine paying my wife salary... For what na? I no be bursary or scholarship board. It doesn't mean I can't occasionally buy foodstuffs, give her money or get things for her and family. But it's solely on my discretion and definitely not on a monthly basis.

Wisdom of the crowd. If you know, you know

Atiku that has never won an election not eve local government chairman. he can only get on the bus as a running mate.

2buffagain:
Again, what if he doesn’t have people in Nigeria?
Both bride and grooms parents are in yankee, but Igbo folk still insist on this massively expensive trip to their village for a wedding that pragmatism dictates should just be done here.

I don't think this is correct. You will only see them come back if the bride is from igbo land, has a large family and most of them re in Nigeria including her parents. But if her parents are with her abroad the rites can be performed there.. Most igbo guys that marry foreigners do not come home to perform marriage rites

olanreyman:
Noob that's your business. Seek for knowledge if you don't have one

Thanks....but um some yeye knowledge is not worth seeking. Those that have found it should keep it to themselves..

olanreyman:
Mehn i have really graduated from noob level. Enjoying gcam without root and still able to install regular OTA updates without issues whatsoever.

Believing this is as good as walking into flames believing that you wont get burnt..

Ladiesdream:
I checked my fiancees phone and I saw her send her nude picture to a man, I want to involve her parents and my parents. So they can advise accordingly... Will post the chats and picture soon. Let me hear from nairaland first, she has been begging. This is not the first time. Seun Lalasticala

She is begging because she was caught. It won't stop her from doing it and worse in future and then everybody will ask you why you saw the signs and ignored it. One thing you should know is old habits die hard and people hardly change. They may pretend to be different on the surface but deep down they really still the same.

panafrican:
The only problem with those pictures is we see no crowded streets., the big streets are 99.9% empty. Almost no car. People are kind of too quiet and walking like ghosts, no joyful crowds

absolutley, No pictures of streets, no cars, no rowdy busy monday morning rush...the pictures look like they re staged.

jinbility:
just becos u saw 70k on jumia u wan spoil business for ur fellow man ? upon say he still bought u a new phone. i order from nobody early april 95k (express shipping)and still paid 3k for waybill. have u heard any body had issue with nobody concerning business ?
biko calm down. jua oyi na custom no b him fault.

Sir, you re not the one who provided the money for the young man to acquire his device. The onus lies on the seller who promised to deliver to ensure that the buyer is carried along every step of the way until the products get to him as advertised. Nobody prays for misfortune when ordering any product. The buyer could as well buy from any other person or even decide not to buy a xiaomi phone until the company is launched in Nigeria He wont die, there are other good and better devices but he chose to patronise a particular seller and deserves to be satisfied as well as you who has partonised the gentleman in the past and can attest for him. Even if the product is costing him 1k, he still needs to be treated well. i am very sure that if he was satisfied with the service he was getting, he would come here to testify and announce his arrival into the xiaomi crew like most excited and satisfied buyers.

is it me or the bride has a big head/face...

MIKOLOWISKA:
yeah
Real men just sit there and endure suspicion and venom till they snap and commit murder. Dumbasss

Well sluggards would rather prefer to live in denial and adhere to stupid rantings of insecure, misogynist, men with over bloated egos. A real man would obtain valid proof of his wives adulterous affairs and not acting on childish impulses. I have seen women who have the worst tongues on the planet, who literally spit fire but you would not believe how gentle and submissive they are when their husbands who are real men are around, because real men treat their women right. Its only an insecure fool that would drag properties with his wife and sees her as a competition because he comes from a poor background and she's well off. And after slaving for the family all she gets in return is to be thrown out empty handed while the alofrate runs around town with scores of women, Unfortunately for him the plan backfired.This is what happens when women get married to little boys who think they can now keep a family after sighting the first strand of pubic hair. But you wouldn't know that would you?

ExtraExtra:
Women are the backbone of the family, they make or mar the home, since they help bring life to the world suffice it to say they sum up what we call family, 99% of successful, longlasting home or family is the ability of the woman to hold the "forte".

My attention was drawn to this forum and this topic https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 and it is sad that most people drew conclusion on a one sided story though i wouldnt blame those involved because they judged based on what was said and the individual involved needed public validation for her wrong doing, a public display i dont approve of but since external persons and relations are already involved i'd like to clear some details.

"I wont divorce her because i dont believe in that, once i move with the kids she can come along if she wants but right now we are seperated. I wanted a partner, she displayed stupidity not smartness, what the future holds i dont know, she made her bed she should lay on it.

Sorry to say this but you re shameless, spineless and a complete disappointment to manhood. You re lucky to have the kind kind of wife you do, Some women will divorce you after kicking you out and ask you to do your worst. See how you shamelessly asked her to leave your house..because you thought you have all the cards. The Joke is on you bro.

Stone coffin filled with sewage liquid with 3 bodies in it....evidently there is a story here. Its possible the occupants were under some kind of possession, disease or part of a sect or were buried alive as punishment. Else why bury three persons together in a sealed stone coffin. They should have left it the way it was o...as if we haven't seen enough strange things in this lifetime.

Has anyone here gotten the max 3 yet? i wan see reviews before i buy o..where is noobody and co..

Gidilagoon:
Oh wow. Thank you so much. I was extremely provoked, that’s why I did that and I’m so much in love with her and letting go is so fucking hard, so that’s why I overreacted, but thanks,NOTED

The blunt truth is PEOPLE DONT CHANGE! !! They may pretend to behave well for a while but the old fox always comes knocking. You two probably deserve each other. You re not only insecure and a control freak but also abusive and a wife beater, you knew she has dated so many guys and the fact that you cant move past it tells a lot about you.Come to think of ityou didn't tell us that you were celibate after you two broke up the first time. And she is a lying, whoring b*tch. Who is ready to sell herself for a plate of moi moi. If you think she is not going to get screwed, fvck*d, drilled to stupor by a couple of big and small gods aside you then you re in for a shocker. Thank your lucky stars her family is begging probably because you have good financial or career prospects cos trust me you ll be in the net of SARS or worse if the tables were turned or when she finds a guy with better prospects. Marriage is a revealer, this is just the beginning. She can cry out blood today but won't stop her from eating the forbidden fruit 2mao, so take her back and the next time she says hi to a guy knock her teeth out and tell us how you were provoked and couldn't control yourself.

Dexmars:
Be inspired.

Pancho!

Wow lovely. Pls how did you get your bird to trust you. I am always met with screams and bites whenever I try to touch my bird. Coming close to the cage alone sets her off like an antitheft alarm

Bosses..pls I heard that max 2 global version is usually black in colour while the gold is chinese version is 5 his true?Guys help me understand this global version vs global rom ish...