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I think a lot of parents want to flog and beat their child as a retaliation for how their own parents treated them. It's a subconscious Spiral. Those of us that went to boarding school will attest to the fact that one of the reasons we all looked forward to becoming seniors was so that we can punish and deal with junior students and give them the same treatment we got as juniors. If a child is stubborn or naughty it's a reflection of the parents parenting attitude. Most parents are lazy and go ahead to heap tasks that are beyond the child and expect them to perform wonders. Most parents heap insults on the child without minding the effects on his or her self esteem. it's no wonder a lot of children can't wait to leave home.

pcguru1:
This is it

this looks like a monster

Damn flesh and blood did not real these tips to you

iLegendd:
One of the ways of blocking this syndrome most Naija women have is: during the initial stage of the relationship:

You: One thing I like about you is, you don't demand like other girls.
You: I really like how you respect yourself. If it were some girls, they would've started saying, "Please can you send me card? It's urgent or buy me food."
You: I really respect you for respecting yourself.
Her: Wow! Thank you very much. I'm not that kind of girl who requests card or food from men.

Hurray! You have just psychologically killed her demanding syndrome. Now, other men who haven't blocked it will suffer it. You're now free from leeching. You can use your sweet mouth to keep the relationship fun.

At this stage, you can take her out and spend on her. When she needs card, she'll remember the compliment you gave her and will never message you for such because you see it as being cheap and she agrees not to be one of those cheap girls.

Now, she'll call Femi, the nice guy, and demand for the card.

Chikita66:
In a relationship with a Libra woman, you can expect
anything, for as long as it is well “packed”. She will be caring
and deep, but also be prepared to show her selfish,
manipulative side, wrapped in candy paper. It can be hard to
understand her position, because she will rarely show her
uncontrolled emotions and passions, so the right partner
needs to know her deeply and intimately, including the things
she doesn’t want to show. In general, when she decides to
be with someone, she will be committed and loyal. Even
though she can often be too worried about other people’s
opinions, she will stick to her choices even if they are not
good for her.

In general, Libra woman is faithful, but she doesn’t always
say what she means. Her emotions are often hidden because
she feels they are unproductive or shameful, and she won’t
have a real outburst of emotions even when she would
gladly explode. She cares more about the way she acts than
about the way she actually feels, and this can leave her in a
pretty bad place for a long time. If you understand her deeply
enough you will be able to trust her, but only if you feel her
emotions.

well am a libra guy, sun is libra, moon sign virgo. I have dated 3 libra women consecutively and I can say this they all have jealous and anger management issues, flirt around easily , very possessive and loud. They can be nice and caring but they are also selfish. While I am reserved and hardly get upset. I keep wondering why I keep attracting libra women. They are beautiful creatures tho. As for me I am on a path to self discovery, trying to find my self and my purpose in life.

unfiltered addiction to Full female african ass...

The good lord knows that should any husband lay hands on any of my sister's, I won't beat him but I ll get my koboko and flog the living daylights outta his bare buttocks

How using the AS man's sperm to fertilize an AA female donor eggs and injecting it into the AS woman's womb for cconception, Will that work?

Maybe the guy is like me...there are more important things to worry about than a cheating spouse. Eventually you realise that true love can't be forced Same with loyalty. Marriage is work, at some point you are bound to get distracted by other concerns. It's high time people understand that staying faithful to one partner for life is a feat only very few persons can achieve. I don't expect her to remain faithful for life, she shouldnt expect that from me also. the most important thing is, in all that is to be done family comes first.

truth is love is a beautiful thing but the realities are not. its rare to see a woman who is ready to give her all in a relationship. its rare to see a woman who is ready to build a future from scratch with a not yet made guy. Most of them are looking for scholarship

Thegeneralqueen:
so you're in support of men beating women the lady didn't beat him she just touche him nah she didn't beat him

Any form of physical assault is wrong. people should learn to table their grievance in a civil and humane manner. Nobody should be tortured for any reason

Thegeneralqueen:
Choi I love this

I hope you will also love it if it was a lady who was beaten like this by her sugar daddy because she was making out with some other guy?

According to doctors prescription. .three times daily

Well i have B.Eng in petroleum engineering , MSC in Info & Telecoms Engineering and want to pursue an MBA in Lagos Business School. someday I might just be on the list of top CEOs

Rhemy2013:
If dere is misunderstanding btw i nd my hubby..he will carry his laptop Nd start playing music aloud,he will say "Rhemy pass me d wine".Omo I go ves hiss nd leave him alone .... atimes I will join him to listen to d music (from dere we don't settle d matter) ...No marriage is perfect and again patient is needed in every marriage.

wow. music therapy....quite a delightful remedy

uniquetreasure:
Just keep quite and don't respond to her. Just ignore her.

That must take a lot of self control. Also most persons hate to be ignored and could respond with more hostility when ignored or given a silent treatment by their partners

We have been inundated with stories of men hitting their wives and almost every man involved will tell tales of how they were forced to literally take matters into their hands due to nagging, verbal abuse, and hostility from the woman. At times one can be so provoked that takes more than the spirit of God to restrain from going physical. Some men take a walk out of the environment and return when things are calm. But in instances that you cant leave your house at that moment, what do you do? So I want to urge men who have successfully mastered the act of not laying hands on their women no matter how bad they are provoked to give us their secret tips on what to do and how to diffuse such hostile nagging and verbal attack conditions and return the peace in the home.
Also Women who have gone through such experiences are welcome to share a thing or two, we are all here to learn

verydark:
bmw is a shitty car.drink too much petrol.

beemers are not like benz and range that even a learner can drive. You have to know what you are doing to drive and maintain one. If you have a problem with the fuel consumption then it's definitely not for you. Am not a beemer fan but I appreciate good stock when I see one.

abes:
It's not a straight 8 hour drift, there's some rests in between. That's my point. Check out the making of the video on YouTube.

it's a complete 8 hour drift with no rest else why on earth will they refuel while the vehicle was in motion? Besides there are driving tests that last as long as 24 hours and mores so 8 hours drifting is possible. The only reason to stop was to refuel which was done in motion.

BMW is the definition of performance

Guys with binance and bittrex no longer accepting new sign ups, I need an equivalent reputable world class platform. Any suggestions?

Guys with binance and bittrex no longer accepting new sign ups, I need an equivalent reputable world class platform. Any suggestions?

Lots of ignorant hypocritical folks on this thread. Marijuana has been sold over the counter in amsterdam for years, how many people have ran mad? why isn't the drug related crime rates burning the roof? Instead the country is experiencing lower crime rates and massive revenues from sales and y'all are here spitting nonsense.

Op is very correct. 2006 camry. The indicator is on the right but the the arrow points to the left where the fuel tank is.

Am a Mel-San and recently hooked up with a Mel-Chol. Tho we haven't known each other quite well but I think we have a great chemistry. I am just concerned about her having anger issues even though I haven't seen her get angry yet..

lovely..with a small budget of 3m, one can have a good time here for a while..

Northernonyenku:
Dats what happens when u live far away n ur parents insist on getting a decent village wife for u..� for me I will simply bundle her back b4 she decides d electronics r dirty n needs to be washed

kukuma kill me....

Hozier:
90% of boys driving cars are thieves and scammers, little wonder they are the ones at the forefront of recent spate of attacks on the SARS operatives.
95% of boys going around with laptops, especially those wearing ugly tact less tattoos are big time 419ners and theives, they deserve whatever punishment they get for soiling the image of this country in the mud.
4 in every 5 girl dressing indecently is either a prostitute or a member of robbery syndicate terrorizing this country.

We all should rally around our heroes working day and night to rid us of these snakes & scourges terrorizing our beloved country.

this is the first time I would tell anybody this on NL. It's either ur brain is leaking brain juice or u are completely insane. May SARS officers and injustice locate you and your family members wherever u are and give u the same treatment given to thousands of nigerians let's see if u will have some sense. SARS is a big disgrace to the Police and Nigerians at large. SARS that can't even compete with SWAT and other elite security agencies Over the world is what u term heroes. you think arresting and picking up young boys makes you a big man. Young people who work hard to survive despite the harsh economic situation yet criminals disguised as law enforcement illegally detain harass, rape,steal and kill them. That's what you say we should support. In this era of technological advancement and Internet age when u can easily make a good profit from a wide variety of online ventures ranging from social media marketing to cryptocurrency to forex trading and you term anybody with a laptop or successfully buys a car from the proceeds of his hard work a criminal. You must mad.

This is the funniest thread I have come across in NL recently. I painstakingly went from page 1 to 31 to see the developments in all regions. However Ndigbo have successfully proved that they are the masters of urban development. I was looking for where to spend this Xmas. Never knew Igboland has such beautiful scenery. And to think that it's all done by individuals without govt interventions speaks volumes of what these people can do if they had a free system to operate in. kudos to Ndigbo let's continue to build and develop our own.

cruchenutii:
One thing you should note, Make sure you have guys over, Incase fight starts. This will not end well. It may even end of Picking up bottles and stabbing each other.

You have to prepare for the worst in these Scenario.

No need for other guys, bringing in strange faces will most likely lead to a fallout, cos the guy will be in survival mode immediately he sees external forces and his resistance level will be higher. it has to be just the three of them seated together, it shows that op can handle things himself without involving external bodies, Op needs two things Loyalty from his bae and respect from this guy. Now even if the guy tries to fight him, he will just be revealing his animalistic nature to Op's babe also and she gets to see him for who he really is. I doubt she will want to have anything to do with the guy after such display of unwarranted aggression. Op should never respond to aggression cos doing so will reduce him to the guys level, rather he should praise the guy first, talk about some good things the guy has done in the past before landing him the accusation. this will put the guy at ease and he wont even realise what hit him till its all over. guys like that love to show off and will only respect you when they know you have caught them red handed, but you let them save face a little rather than outright humiliation.