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donniemc:
"Biggest I have ever received in my life" Am sure you were not expecting the GIANT OF AFRICA to be packing any less .

What part of it was an insult?, oh you don't like that look? here try this one

Bro pls I have questions about having apps on playstore, if it's possible I will like to get in touch with you. how do I get in touch with you?

I come from a family of academics, all through my life, i was practically raised in the university and i can tell you the problem with Nigeria is her educational system. Due to the massive attention given to degree holders over the years, a lot of person s who would have been better off going for vocational training in various forms of labour are forced to go get a degree. Now when these persons apply to these universities for the courses of their choice, its either they dont do well and are denied admission or they are given a totally different course that they have no interest in to study. Therefore you have someone who would have been a talented lawyer studying Fine Art, or a talented fashion designer studying Mass Communications, someone who would have been a talented Doctor studying History, and the list goes on and on. These persons come out and become misfits because the system choose to push them into a different area rather than horne those God given potentials in them. Also the issue of curriculum where u have computer science and engineering students learning fortran rather than current programming languages and trends, Students in 2017 are still being taught the same courses using the same processes used in 1987. Even the professors most of who are living in denial do not upgrade their books. More than 80% of Nigerian Professors do not know how to use a laptop at an intermediate level. Very few can comfortably type their full CVs without asking from assistance someone else. After watching Black Panther, i realised the power of education and its potentials which we tend to overlook and disregard in this country. Education goes beyond having a degree or certificate. Unfortunately that is the only aspect we see. Hence the rush for certificates and degrees and yet it is not being translated into factories and industries. The concept of being Unemployable only arises because people are coming out of our educational system and there is no place for them to fit in. Even if all the industries needed were built today, it will collapse because the persons we are churning out of our institutions are not competent enough to handle such infrastructure because the system did not prepare them for it.

Am 6ft and am even looking for a way to get taller. anybody who doesn't need their height should pls dash me. advice on ways to get taller would also be appreciated. Am 26 btw so dont tell me to eat beans....

Olivia Pope and her boss chick walking step. love the way she attacks a challenge and contains the situation.

I heard of a woman who never liked relations coming over because the husband who is a judge was fond of spending so much on relatives that little was left to run the house and pay bills. So she became hostile to relatives and they stopped visiting. She and her husband were able to concentrate on building the family. Fast forward to now. Children have all grown up, married and well settled. estates and investments well established. She is now the most friendly relation. She is always hosting parties and ceremonies and happy to have relations spend vacations and ensures they go with bags and pockets full. All the family members that talked ill of her in times past are now calling her a wise woman. She no longer bars her husband but encourages him to help more. Things are not always what they seem.

The question should be why is she behaving in such a manner? Why doesn't she like relations coming over?
Why is she shouting and talking too much? Was she like that b4 he married her? Why is she starving him in the other room? Lastly Why does he want to divorce her?
People do things for different reasons and you can never understand their actions if you don't know the reasons for it.

Well my take is very simple, those in Nigeria to marry those in Nigeria while those in Amerika should marry those in Amerika.

Izuogu1:
Why is it called suicide door?

because you can literally get killed or seriously injured if a vehicle coming from behind runs into door while you are trying to step out from the vehicle since its hinged on the rear. Also due the air flow as the vehicle is in motion, it could accidently get opened and passengers can fall out. Hence you commit suicide if u open ur door carelessly

That's the kind of woman I would love to be with. Btw studies have shown that kids who play computer and video games are smarter and better at solving problems than kids who don't.

I have never asked a girl out, don't need to cos they do the asking. It has always been like that. they come off as sweet little angels at first but when they are turned down they become ur worst enemy. They start hating u for no reason. Back in the days one went as far as going to meet my folks while I was in uni and telling them I was spending hundreds of thousands on a school chick. Just to get me in trouble with my folks. Another one started stalking my then gf and threatened to embarrass her publicly. So now whenever they ask, I say yes and then switch to arsehole mode and the sensible ones eventually get tired and walk away on their own. Hell hath no fury than a turned down chick,
Another thing I noticed is that whenever a girl asks you out she will never believe that you also did genuinely like her. Whenever you have an argument she will start saying "it's because I asked u out that's why u re behaving like this" even when she is at fault. Discovered it's also used as a ploy to manipulate and make u give in. But like someone said earlier. It's fun to see them die inside and if u just dangle a little bait for them, they will burst open like a volcano.

Finally!!! The chariot of Olympus

Nothing o, absolutely nothing.

its funny how women never take responsibility for their wrongdoing and find ways to blame it on the guy whenever they screw up. this woman cheated because she is a cheat and will continue to be a cheat. my heart goes out to the husband because he married a cheat. The trip the man went for was for him to be able to put food on the table and afford the nice things of life for her to enjoy and yet see how she pays him back. i don't care how sorry or how many crocodile tears she sheds it cant undo the fact that she is disloyal and dishonest. if the tables were turned you will see statements like "Men are scum". a man is expected to be loyal to his wife when shes having her menses, when she is pregnant, when she is nursing kids, when she is having a rough day etc, he should not seek solace outside even when he is in need of some intimacy, he should switch it off or self-service himself to death because he is a man and should be understanding, he should make sacrifices. but the same man travels for a few days and the wife is already screwing a stranger and she is blaming it on him because he travelled, forgetting that he would rather stay in the company of his new bride than spend it discussing policies and market shares. she couldnt keep herself in check, and like always the man takes the blame.

lefulefu:
u have a point sha about we nigerians and our attitude to exercise. Some will also say that they have to make a lot money first b4 they do any physical exercise. Last yr on one Sunday service i attended there was this very fat lady that suddenly just collapsed and fell heavily to the floor even b4 the church wardens/urshers and those sitting close to her could hold her. In the evening we heard that she died in the hospital b4 the doctor and nurses could do anything. they said it was heart failure. Some young ppl also die in their sleep. Nobody is immune to high blood pressure be it young or old. If one exercises at least u reducing the risk of having high blood pressure,arthritis and having an improved immune system. This na wetin some of us nigerians no know. Bro if my wife start getting fat like a hipopotamus i will nag oo and i no go let her rest until she follow me exercise. If she complain about household work taking her time i will help her with it.i will make sure she has no excuse.

well said....go easy on the nagging. Instead just show her pictures of some hot babes who hang out with you at the gym and she will be motivated enough to follow u anytime..

lefulefu:
anytime the man is trying to keep fit he can always tell his wife to join him.simple as ABC .

The problem is the attitude of most women in exercising, I have lost count of how many times my dad has practically dragged my mum to the gym yet she resents it. we don't have a culture for exercising. If you see someone jugging down the street in the evening, you automatically assume he is a footballer or sportsman or she is trying to loose weight if it's a chubby lady. But people here hardly workout for the sake of keeping fit and healthy. The culture is not there so I don't blame these women cos they are not just lazy but also stubborn.

I think a lot of parents want to flog and beat their child as a retaliation for how their own parents treated them. It's a subconscious Spiral. Those of us that went to boarding school will attest to the fact that one of the reasons we all looked forward to becoming seniors was so that we can punish and deal with junior students and give them the same treatment we got as juniors. If a child is stubborn or naughty it's a reflection of the parents parenting attitude. Most parents are lazy and go ahead to heap tasks that are beyond the child and expect them to perform wonders. Most parents heap insults on the child without minding the effects on his or her self esteem. it's no wonder a lot of children can't wait to leave home.

pcguru1:
This is it

this looks like a monster

Damn flesh and blood did not real these tips to you

iLegendd:
One of the ways of blocking this syndrome most Naija women have is: during the initial stage of the relationship:

You: One thing I like about you is, you don't demand like other girls.
You: I really like how you respect yourself. If it were some girls, they would've started saying, "Please can you send me card? It's urgent or buy me food."
You: I really respect you for respecting yourself.
Her: Wow! Thank you very much. I'm not that kind of girl who requests card or food from men.

Hurray! You have just psychologically killed her demanding syndrome. Now, other men who haven't blocked it will suffer it. You're now free from leeching. You can use your sweet mouth to keep the relationship fun.

At this stage, you can take her out and spend on her. When she needs card, she'll remember the compliment you gave her and will never message you for such because you see it as being cheap and she agrees not to be one of those cheap girls.

Now, she'll call Femi, the nice guy, and demand for the card.

Chikita66:
In a relationship with a Libra woman, you can expect
anything, for as long as it is well “packed”. She will be caring
and deep, but also be prepared to show her selfish,
manipulative side, wrapped in candy paper. It can be hard to
understand her position, because she will rarely show her
uncontrolled emotions and passions, so the right partner
needs to know her deeply and intimately, including the things
she doesn’t want to show. In general, when she decides to
be with someone, she will be committed and loyal. Even
though she can often be too worried about other people’s
opinions, she will stick to her choices even if they are not
good for her.

In general, Libra woman is faithful, but she doesn’t always
say what she means. Her emotions are often hidden because
she feels they are unproductive or shameful, and she won’t
have a real outburst of emotions even when she would
gladly explode. She cares more about the way she acts than
about the way she actually feels, and this can leave her in a
pretty bad place for a long time. If you understand her deeply
enough you will be able to trust her, but only if you feel her
emotions.

well am a libra guy, sun is libra, moon sign virgo. I have dated 3 libra women consecutively and I can say this they all have jealous and anger management issues, flirt around easily , very possessive and loud. They can be nice and caring but they are also selfish. While I am reserved and hardly get upset. I keep wondering why I keep attracting libra women. They are beautiful creatures tho. As for me I am on a path to self discovery, trying to find my self and my purpose in life.

unfiltered addiction to Full female african ass...

The good lord knows that should any husband lay hands on any of my sister's, I won't beat him but I ll get my koboko and flog the living daylights outta his bare buttocks

How using the AS man's sperm to fertilize an AA female donor eggs and injecting it into the AS woman's womb for cconception, Will that work?

Maybe the guy is like me...there are more important things to worry about than a cheating spouse. Eventually you realise that true love can't be forced Same with loyalty. Marriage is work, at some point you are bound to get distracted by other concerns. It's high time people understand that staying faithful to one partner for life is a feat only very few persons can achieve. I don't expect her to remain faithful for life, she shouldnt expect that from me also. the most important thing is, in all that is to be done family comes first.

truth is love is a beautiful thing but the realities are not. its rare to see a woman who is ready to give her all in a relationship. its rare to see a woman who is ready to build a future from scratch with a not yet made guy. Most of them are looking for scholarship

Thegeneralqueen:
so you're in support of men beating women the lady didn't beat him she just touche him nah she didn't beat him

Any form of physical assault is wrong. people should learn to table their grievance in a civil and humane manner. Nobody should be tortured for any reason

Thegeneralqueen:
Choi I love this

I hope you will also love it if it was a lady who was beaten like this by her sugar daddy because she was making out with some other guy?

According to doctors prescription. .three times daily

Well i have B.Eng in petroleum engineering , MSC in Info & Telecoms Engineering and want to pursue an MBA in Lagos Business School. someday I might just be on the list of top CEOs

Rhemy2013:
If dere is misunderstanding btw i nd my hubby..he will carry his laptop Nd start playing music aloud,he will say "Rhemy pass me d wine".Omo I go ves hiss nd leave him alone .... atimes I will join him to listen to d music (from dere we don't settle d matter) ...No marriage is perfect and again patient is needed in every marriage.

wow. music therapy....quite a delightful remedy

uniquetreasure:
Just keep quite and don't respond to her. Just ignore her.

That must take a lot of self control. Also most persons hate to be ignored and could respond with more hostility when ignored or given a silent treatment by their partners