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every Nigerian father should get a dna and genotype test for his kids. This is not about trusting your wife or not, Kids are also being exchanged in hospitals either purposely or carlessly without the knowledge of the parents. Knowing the complete medical history of your kids is very important.

interesting read... anyone with ideas on regulations for an online escrow service in Nigeria?

aragon4realz:
it's not always about the s3x...it's all about compatibility and commitment...but the truth is I can't give up my church for her, she should be the one doing that for me

some once told me "if both of you cannot agree on a simple thing as where to worship, how re you going to agree on bigger situations in future? " it's obvious you two re not meant for each other... so take a walk.

thats why i laugh when i see people still building filling stations.....when they should be investing in charging stations

choi....to be a man is not easy.. that's why I gladly support all these feminists let them come and carry load....its not by shouting gender equality

bujebudanu1:
Lol.

Old scam.
So u fell for this scrap.
Her body is strong to drugs

Tell her u want the baby or tell her u going to report her to the authority for trying to abort

Best advice ever...

and am wondering how this made front page

rychard:
"None of the homies around you made a living off you",

Are hommies suppose to make a living out if their friends?, or make a living with them?.

Anyways, I don't like Harry song, after a show I attended in Enugu, where a young man was fighting off bouncers after Harryson took his girl from the crowd and wanted to take her away backstage. The guy was beaten by the bouncers and thrown off stage.. Anyways, one advise to guys is chase your dreams, don't chase women (unless the rich ones that can connect u and make u wealthy), the guys girl, was giggling and holding Harry on his shoulder while his boyfriend (who paid for her tickets) was being harassed and molested..

more reasons why I wake up 3very morning with the urge to grind harder... follow God and pursue excellence and others shall be added unto you..

what shall it profit a man to fly first class only to get turned back at his destination with economy.

if it drives, flies, floats or fuvks..... lease it.. Dwayne Johnson

You see a lot of guys don't know what they want. Why on earth will I want to date a girl who sleeps with the nearest Joe cos of what he can pay her. Only if I am just playing the field and looking for where to get my Cock wet. Else if am looking were to put down roots... Its definitely a real chick who knows how to hold down the Fort. BTW dont be fooled runs girls = church girls.

This is the problem I have with Nigerians.. In other counties people find a way to fix things.. In Nigeria. We are always leaving it to God to come and fix. No wonder we have so many churches and pastors.

IamLEGEND1:
That's class?
That's the bare minimum guys should be expecting in this age of 'strong' women.
no one calls a guy classy for paying for anything.

and it looks like the idiot_has bought into the 'real men' philosophy gold diggers keep peddling so they can keep fools_paying for their expenses. why would you 'drag' with someone who offers to pay for a meal you both shared?

I need to leave this planet.

Sense wee not kee. You.. Those "strong women," will not see this one and learn. Its is only to be shouting women emancipation upandan

Truth is she enjoys the attention she's getting from her roommates bf n has affection for him. If she really wants to stop him, nobody needs to tell her what to do.

Truth is a lot of people both males themselves and women don't really get the concept of what being a man is and who a man really is.... That's talk for another day however, Friendship is the key to keeping a man loyal. There is a big difference between being a friend to your man and being a girlfriend /babe/wife to you your man. If you can understand this you won't have issues keeping a man. Also you have to know if your man is ready to be kept.

thesicilian:
There's only one Ronaldo and his name is Cristiano. One day he's going to buy up Barcelona and sell off Messi to China.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you....

One day I will pay for a 100ft + superyacht and use it to explore the Caribbean

Stupid son... However, the failure of a child is a reflection of a parents poor parenting ability.

Eketem:
Sadly she has refused to see this despite male and female posters telling her, she just wants him back to avoid what people will say

She's in for a bumpy ride.

Sadgirl1281:
The last sentence Be nice to his family members and friends?? How? When they are the ones somewhat against me or according to him people around him telling him the time apart is good while others telling him to not go back, according to him. Or the same family members he has told things about me and they are disappointed?

I am focusing on myself and once in a while show a bit of affection so in the end it’s not like I did not try.

Have you tried to reach out to the said family and friends by yourself? I bet you they may be unhappy but not as bad as he is painting it. I feel he is saying all this to put you under pressure to do what he wants. You will be surprised that some of them might be pushing him to come back and mend his home. They look at you through his eyes and that of his stories, I think it's time they get to know you on a personal level and form an independent opinion of you. Try and get closer to them not just because of this issue but for future sake. If you knew how badly You need those family people in your corner you would be sending them flowers every Sunday.

Sadgirl1281:
That’s the pain I’m on here sharing. The way it is seen even from my own side(parents) is I pushed him, that’s violence so no matter what he said or did or when he even pushed me back, all that is by the way... Everyone around me is all on me to have to make him come back home because he is my husband, I pushed him and wouldn’t want a broken marriage, blah blah etc

He came once to visit for us to talk physically and he said he felt better now us talking but he won’t just easily come home after just one talk that I have to prove to him and show him and make him want to come back. So meeting somewhere else wouldn’t really be an option, it has to be more like him coming to the house again to talk and all or if all things maybe return.

This is a power grab... Dont fall for it or else you will regret it in future. You have a manipulative man who will use your weakness against you.. He'll even make you reveal those weaknesses and then turn around to hang you with it. Dont do anything, just be mature and objective. Focus on yourself and your work and he will come around on his own. What you don't know is this man can't stay without you. He lives off validation. Even if he wants to the peer group around him won't let him do it. He cares about what people think and that's why he is going about telling everyone his story. If you go rolling on the floor begging him to come back, guess what story that everyone will hear? Also whenever you guys have an argument guess what he will do? He wants to show the world that you want him more than he wants you and You have a chance to put
Him in place by standing your ground. Be nice to everyone including his family members and friends. Do a hostile takeover of his support group and peers by winning them to your side. When he discovers he is standing alone he will find his way home. But don't ever give up your position else you ll be begging him for the rest of your life. However learn to respect your husband no matter how pushed and frustrated you get. You don't return fire with fuel.

Greyworld:
That vacation stuff is so damn correct. Vacation in Nigeria is for the elite... as in not just rich but super rich.

The average man can go on vacation if he wants to.. Its just planning

The truth is only a man can tell why he cheats. I just laugh when I see women try to explain a man's actions when they have no idea how a man thinks in the first place. If you want to know why a man is cheating, Its simple..... ask him.

I bet he will an award for his acting skills in the movie.... Atiku issa Fraud. Atiku issa Fraud. Atiku issa Fraud. BTW Buhari still remains lifeless

Ronaldo may be the angel of soccer, but Modric is the Wizard of OZ. However in a world cup year the performance of players in the world cup are also considered not only champions league . Remember Italy winning world cup and fabio cannovaro who was the captain getting the UEFA title. Modric was spectacular in the world cup, Ronaldo was a flop in the world cup. Modric deserves it.. Case closed.

Nice app

bigtt76:
Anoda angu ...never tot of this ...will definitely try it out

Yeah could come in handy

Guys is it possible to answer calls with fingerprint on xiaomi devices?

ZIMDRILL:
your are missing the big picture you are still a boy

1st its how nigerians 2i assume you are" too misuse the words Upkeep/allowance to wife

2nd your wife shouldnt be given money for upkeep or allowance as you say but should have money monthly "if possible" to buy things like earrings perfume, bras, pants, shoes, clothes new hair ourfit etc things that even if she wasnt married had money she would buy those regardless being married or not

3rd so you aint paying her salary as think or see but the money is to buy new stuff for herself eg a sexy dress etc things that make her look beautiful a nice dress etc sure you wouldnt want your wife to be known to wear the same outfit for the whole year

4th remember this money applies to both men and women as man you need money for beer if you drink, money for a new season jersey for your fav team etc this money is from that covers personal needs after paying main expenses and also if your monthly income can afford that

If you read my post well you will realise that I have already empowered her to buy any thing she wants by getting her a well paying job. I believe a woman who is married should be cared for and pampered by her husband. I believe he should buy her nice things and give her funds when he can. But it should not be on a monthly basis and she should have her own role and contribution to the home front. I grew up in a family where my dad and mum are both earning and while my mum uses her money to run the home and buy foodstuffs, clothes for kids etc. My dad took care of the capital expenses like building projects, school fees, cars, travel, during holidays he would take us shopping, as we grew older he started giving us money for upkeep esp during Christmas season and other festive periods, he will also buy bags and cans of foodstuffs some to give out and the rest for the home.. My dad has never come home to hear that there is no garri, or money for soup no de. Cos feeding and clothing (herself and her daughters ) is primarily my mum's responsibility. It doesn't mean he doesn't buy her gifts or gives her money when he wants to. They have their system and have peacefully and successfully run it for years. Bearing the whole responsibility alone as a man will only run you down and Wear you out. For all those quoting Bible saying it's a man's responsibility to provide for his house I absolutely agree but I will also remind them that most women in the Bible were primarily house wive's who didn't work and relied on the husband for everything. Now most women re working and have to play a role in the home. Lord knows I ll run mad if my wife keeps asking me for monthly money for home upkeep when she's earning. Monthly money is only for house wives.

I ain't giving no wifey a dime, the best I can do is to get a well paying job for her and she can use the money from there to take care of the home upkeep, while I focus on capital expenses. I cannot come and kill myself. Imagine paying my wife salary... For what na? I no be bursary or scholarship board. It doesn't mean I can't occasionally buy foodstuffs, give her money or get things for her and family. But it's solely on my discretion and definitely not on a monthly basis.