tommyex:

been single is cool o,as Adeboo said its needed at times when u need a bearing.Exactly such has happened to me before.
The lack of calls n sms is hard n lack of kisses 2,but al2geda i guess its needed if it gets pass 1year u may fall ill o,

True.
Just dont stay outta reach, put yourself out there where u could meet other people.
And just use what u have learnt while in the relationship, just make it better.

shortman:

Just getting over a six year relationship which really took alot out of me.i've been single for 6 months now and d perks of being single ve faded away.nobody just me.no calls or sms 2 check on u.no pre-intimacy.its psychological torture. There is nothing 2 b happy about being single trust me

No pre-intimacy? What has that to do with anything?

But being single isnt an illness - if u are recently single, it just gives u a bit of time to get ur bearings.
To know what is the next step u wanna take with ur life.
Being single after 6 years must be hard but what can u do, u win some and u loose some.

ifyalways:

for the guys that even have a conscience. some don't care !

Thats true girl.
AT least if he didnt care, he wont be posting here.
And tell me about the dead beat dads - i know about them too well.

If thats the case, do what u can cause there are baby mothers that have lots of drama.

Do the best u can for the child, pay maintenance, see the child on the day that u have arranged together etc and if the mother still behaves like a drama queen, then at least u know u have done ur bit.

Ok.

Just think about the reason why you have gone without it for so long and then that should give u the will power you need.
Just think about your girl finding out, she would be hurt but thats just how it should be since u are in a relationship.

Its hard but if thats ur stand, then make sure you stand by it.

Why must we fight, why cant we all just get along?

I just like the Aghogo guy cause he looks very different from other Ghanians sha - not his muscles or anything, he just looks different - and that shirt he took off was the highlight of ma otherwise miserable day.

@Topic - Why do men sleep around - is one girl's gravel pit different from the other?

d_oracle:

There is no measure to the pain one feels when his or her pals cannot visit their home because daddy or mummy does not like it. A friend of mine narrated her ordeal when she went with her friend to assist her carry some refreshment items for a picnic. The friend's mother embarrassed her to the extent of asking her if she knew where the garri she was eating came from and why is she pestering her only daughter.
As for me, I am afriad because my dad can fly into a rage without caring if you or your friend will be hurt. And he loves doing that everytime he sees a visitor in the house. Is it normal or what could be the reason behind this action.
If this is an issue you feel too, just drop your thought.

Sorry sha thats what happens when u are still living at home under ur mother and father's roof.
So u need to move out cause they arent gonna change.

Are u saying now that u wanna bring ur sister into the country and she doesnt wanna come?
Am sorry i dont really understand.

@adeboo:
Elvis Presley? Let's call it the way it was on that one, shall we? I have no reason to doubt that Mr. Presley loved Priscilla. However, anybody who engages in the kinds of self-destructive behaviours he was known to do (his diet was a nutritional nightmare and his "recreational" use of drugs was a categorical compromise to his body, as well as an insult to his legion of fans) has issues far more serious than a "broken heart."
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I know that but what am saying is that it was a major factor.
Cause they said that he really didnt get over her leaving.

But for sure you are right to think about this.
Even most Pastors ask u if u and ur partner have ever had any fights or arguments during your courtship (when u go for pre marriage counseling).

For sure it sounds too perfect.
She doesnt have to be rude, but u need someone who can see things objectively sha - not one that will agree with everything.

I ddont really know sha.

Maybe Saucekid he sounds interesting, Opuro cause he is just a joker.
Lawyer cause he is a trouble maker, etc

The list is just endless.

My one and only Olamilami.
He knows himself, he is the total package.

Nice
Patient
Mature
God fearing
Smells nice
Looks nice
Fine

the list is on going.
Thank God for him.

iceblue:

i can't believe people are taking this guy seriously.
totally agree.

@ poster

we will be patient and wait (it might take a good number of years but it will happen) when u will be ready to go on your knees for some 'RoosterDrinker' to accept your hand in marriage

TESTIFY!!

Sweetie come on now.
You are a ready made man - what more would a girl want?

She wanted you to give her the come on, but you didnt so she did it for u.

I think she is just amazed that you ddnt give her the come on that she was just turned on and she wanted u the more and it helped that u had two cars, a nice job and a driver!

outlawcum4:

bring it on adeboo, but u know im saying the truth, ladies are good for nothing cock suckerz, lol

But am good for other things than sucking 'whatevers'.

hotfunmi:

82-years-old Black Stars fan offers Agogo wife

AN 82-year-old fan of Ghanaian striker, Manuel Junior Agogo, has offered his "very beautiful grand-daughter" to Agogo in appreciation of his role in the Black Stars' Nations Cup performance.


Agogo scored the only goal of the match when Ghana beat Namibia at the group stage of the competition and scored the winning goal against Nigeria in Sunday's 2-1 victory of the Stars.

The old man, who only gave his name as Nana, told Agogo, "I came here last night with my very beautiful grand-daughter to introduce her to you.

"She is not here with me now because she wanted to pick something from town Son, when she comes, she is all yours," he added.

Amazed at the comments of the old man, Agogo laughed loud and remarked, "Thank you very much, I appreciate that and I am waiting to see her.

http://odili.net/news/source/2008/feb/6/7.html

Why couldnt it be me?
Where is my granny at this time when i need her most?

I think there is a difference between being alone and loneliness.

Well does this guy have the same feeling you have for him too?
Cause it would be pointless u doing all this without your man not having the same feelings.

I dont think u are being materialistic cause there are some times at a certain stage in a girl's life that she wants to date someone who is secured in certain areas of their life, i would do the same.

Girl, maybe u should give this the test of time, am sure it would fall into place.

@Hotfunmi thats true sha i didnt care much for Ghanian men until i saw that Ghanian player, Ogogho or whatever his name is.

Even though i was weeping that Ghana scored but when that man took off his shirt, i was real happy.
Aside from Van Vicker, i have never seen a Ghanian man that cute sha.

@Topic - Why do men sleep around, are not a gravel pits the same?
And Are some gravel pitts sweeter than the other?

Oga o.
Nothing to offer shey?

But they had sex to offer u though and after that nothing?

With statements like these on this site, you know you are really asking for trouble sha.
But i know that i have loads more to offer sha.

Oga o Poster you are really on the defensive sha.
You did want people's opinions thats why u posted the topic here.

But i think i understnd that u didnt like ur girl's tone of voice- maybe just discuss that with her.

In school, the nun said it was from a seed that was planted in the woman's stomach so we all thought it was a fruit seed or something.

@Ghengis, am just calling it as i see it.
White guys dont do that but lots of Nija men do it -

But we women we really have to be on the look out, God will help us.
There are times during their courtship that he would have shown his true colour that she probably just ignored.

@Poster, if he treats you like a Queen that u are - then whats the problem?
If he wanted a woman that spoke his language, cooked the food, then he would have married one.

4Him:

you and YVSKC are not in the same boat. she is married to an igbo man you are married to an igbo beast. Huge gulf there.

Lol
Oh my days.

Yes they do.
Just think of how u feel when someone u really love breaks your heart, then u just feel like dying.

Apparently, Elvis Prestley died of a broken heart (when his wife left him, everything just went down hill from there).

lol.
Oga o you people on nairaland no dey forget sha.

But for real let me just close my mouth before i get accused of being racist cause omo i know whats happening here.
I have seen too many of it before - make i just shut up.