You should also ask questions.
Say he says something u dont know what it means, then just ask questions.
I usually do when ma man is yapping all this big big grammer - dont be ashamed to aske for help when u need it.

Here here.
I totally agree with ya poster - some people who post their issues here are honestly looking for answers and when we just ridicule the whole thing, its bad.

If u dont have anything good to post and if u arent ready to advise th eperson like u would advise ur good friend, then just leave it.

No no no.
My own love doesnt reach there sha.

He goes to take a dump himself, wipe himself, spray the place and open the window - in fact i dont even wanna hear of his trip to the bathroom.

See now as a female - the question u are asking is one that u must never answer.
How many boyfriends have u had? Thats just obsurd - why u wanna kill urself with hypertension?

I remember even 'nearly dating' this fool and he asked me for the amount of people i had dated and their names?
What a wascko - well i told him i only dated the one guy and that was that - its true in a way they were all guys that i dated so they are all classified as one guy.

Man if u cant live with the fact that she aint telling u, maybe u should just forget the whole thing cause u only gonna upset urself.

I used to think they wore a cup or something.
Yes its true, it can be very very distracting.

But i do miss ma man Michael Johnson on that track sha.

Congratulations.
When i first saw ma baby, it was the best thing in the world - unfortunately, she did look too much like her papa.

She came out looking and twisting her mouth like her father does - it was terrible though.

Maybe she is just uncomfortable with the way u were.
Thats why she asked u to put some clothes on.

At least that shows u that she aint in any way attracted to u.

Well, i had a guy that i dated once.
I really liked this guy and we clicked straight away- i truly liked this brother and he had always acted strange (no house phone, wouldnt speak at certain times, his fone never had reception at certain times) but i didnt seem to mind cause i really liked him.

He went to nija for a few days and when he returned, i didnt hear from him again.
Thats how the whole story ended o.

Just turn ur face when he is approaching and thats that.

I have met some friends and liars on nairaland.
It has definately changed ma life.

I have learnt so much sha and its amazing, i have laughed and cried and laughed some more.

iice, as the moderator, is this kinda mess allowed?

I feel whoever broke up the engagement doesnt deserve the ring.
I suppose the honorable thing to do is that the provider of the ring should keep it.

That is a part of ur past - leave it all behind and move ahead.

But sometimes, there are issues that the girl needs to think about.
She needs to weigh her options etc.

Maybe she is loaning u the cash, when u get it back, then pay her back - thats that.

The fact of the matter is that there was never real love between u.
It is very hard to handle especially when the fact of the matter is that u have suffered many rejections.

What i believe is that as a child of God, i believe that there is someone out there for me and when the time is right, u will surely hook up.
Just say to urself 'he left me cause he was never really mine'.

If he is urs, he will surely stay with u (see it as the many frogs u will kiss till u get ur prince charming )

I would say all this over the waters love is a long thing.
If the other guy is cool, then give him a shot - if he is talking marriage, then tell him its not yet time for u.
Let him just give u a chance to decide what u want.

The fact is that i went to a wedding just recently and it really opened my eye to the essene of low key.
They had the introduction / engagement together in the house - had a tent part afterwards with a few people.

Then the day of coming to 'bring the wife home', they just asked the Pastor of the church to come to the house and bless them - and he did. He asked them if they take each other as their beloved, and they said 'yes'.
The wedding was over and they had a small house party afterwards.

Now that was nice and simple.

Sometimes when the guy is real good to her - then she does tend to compare.
Its not a good thing sha - but people are guilty of it.

If he was maybe even bad to her - she has to compare now and see if the same traits are found in the new one.

It usually isnt a good thing cause it only leads to wahala.

For sure o.
I dont think i could even bring maself not to.

Obviously not, cause its causing an issue already.
If u can help her learn then its all good.

Oga o isnt this supposed to be the other way round?
What females should do when a male flakes on them?

Cause u know that is most likely to happen sha.

Well let bygone be bygone.
She is gone and thats that.

What kinda friendship u looking for - male, female, penpals?

Definitely no.
I would hate when he entered prison cause i would definitely not visit o.
So why start what i cant finish?

I love putting the fact out there that i am interested in a guy when i meet him and i like him.
Some of my friends have said its not a good thing - but i only do that when i see that the guy himself is interested.

Just dont appear to let the messages bother u.
Completely ignore them all - and if that fails, get your new man to leave a message on his fone or get some people to beat him down