creamdream:

because they are sex starved, satisfied?now Go to bed!! your mates for fowl don sleep.well just kidding, no hard and fast rule bout why andhow, same reason you don't know how to spell counterpart!!

Oga o wetin the boy do una now?
See the guy has now done a runner now cause of the responses u are giving here.

Abeg Jimiyke where are you?
Come and rephrase the question.

Yes o am the last born of iya Buki and baba Buki but u know those men sha u never know.

But officially sha i am the last born.

If i were a man, it would be the most difficult thing but it will take alot to forgive and definitely to forget as well.
But if i were to think about what she brings to ma life, what joy she adds to ma life and the kinda good mother she is and good spouse, then i will surely think about it sha.

We are humans and we err.

I would definitely marry a single parent cause i am one.
The thing is that he cant be a father that has multiple baby mamas cause that to me just smells of irresponsibility.

Like its been said, i am not looking for a father for ma baby she has one already - what just makes ma baby special is that she is being treated for sickle cell anemia. So she is a special baby, people say 'baggages' but i say at least she isnt an excess baggage.

I want a relationship for me, someone that will be there for me, that will love me and take care of me. By the grace of God, i can fend for her and i have been doing so since she was born - so i understand when men say they cant marry a woman with kids. I put maself in ma boyfriend's shoes as well and i discussed it with him especially when she is not so well.

So i would marry one but with certain conditions.

Maybe they just want someone with some extra flesh.

'Older guys smell'?
Oga o, egba mi!

And smell of benjay? Na wa o - i can assure u that my guy is ten yrs older than i am and he sure doesnt smell like benjay and he for sure isnt decaying.
Rather he smells has the Calvin Klein smell.

Lord_Reed:

In your haste to reply don't over look my previous replies.
To recap some:
I mentioned her tone of voice.
I DO WASH THE DISHES.
The discussion is about what should be the outlook in such matters in a relationship.
Thanks.

Ok sorry.
I understand what u mean now - but u said u looked at her with a tone as well and she understood.
I dont think it will happen again.

Oga o this nairaland people, i just bow for una o.
Man cannot even make mistake in this place sha.

Na wa gan o u people have even chased the boy away gan.

Its cause she feels awkward around u thats all.

If ma friend toasts me, i would feel awkward around him sha and that would make me avoid him.

I dont know about bad luck.
But i would say its for a surprise so that he will see her in something new that he has never seen.

Faitymine:

No, it's just that he's trying to know maybe you loved him or you feel for him!

By sending this kinda text?
Come on now.

I think what they do is use the money from the sale of the albums to make the videos.
Thats why it takes so long to get the videos out.

I would have to say Jackie - Gen needs to eat some food sha she looks like she is getting too skinny.

Jackie on the other hand is representing those ladies with some flesh.

Oga o.
They should not kill him sha thats all we know.

I will ave to say Sean 'the' Paul.

Yes i would love ma husband to be there.
But if it will be real stressful for him, then he is excused cause i dont want him being traumatized for life cause i dont want him going off sex - cause i like ma thing too much.

Oga o.

Why are u seeing wahala now and running after it?
From what u are saying - i would marry the Namibian girl sha, i wont even date her i would marry her straight.

But follow ur heart and ur common sense.

Omo u need to thank God for exposing that ewu to u.

Dont even let him try and wriggle himself out of this.

See u at the alter?
Are u sure he didnt say hell?

Oga o.
Why dont u ask him what he meant by that?

opuro:

mimi,
no mind them o
tell your friend abi na you? make e gree o jare

Na wao o. lol

I love showing public affection.
I am the queen of public affection.
Not ina bad way though but in a good way.

Na today?

I know guys that keep multiple girls that just go around collecting money from them. Thats how they survive.

I dont see a problem with spending my money on ma man when i can - it took alot of work but its a good thing to practice.

Lord_Reed:

I don't ask her to do stuff for me like that. Even though this sounds like am blowin my own trumpet am very romantic when it comes to askin for stuff like that. D other day we were in the kitchen together cooking a meal.
As for song n dance this is a[b] forum[/b] if I may remind u where we[b] discuss[/b] issues.

Thats what we are doing now, we are discussing.
U make it sound like its a taboo that she asked u to wash the plate.

Oga o.
How this story brings back memories.

Girl, there are guys like that , they cruise in and out when they like - am sure he has a girl and she was outta town so u were the next best thing.
There isnt anything as worse as that - u just feel like beating urself up.
I am sure that the other guy u were dating was a good guy and u let him go for a shadow - at least now u have the experience.

Its hard sha.
But u know him and you know what kinda person he is, maybe it was just a one off or he is a true seed spreader.

Girl think very well cause u shouldnt let a good man go (thats assuming he is) just cause of a mistake.

If u do let him back into ur life, then wat u need to do is take control of that situation - let her go through u when she needs anything for the baby dont let him back with her otherwise they will have another one.

That was then girl - i think guys are now looking for assets and not liabilities.
Your parents are thinking like it was some years ago.

I think they see sex which is something that is supposed to be sacred as an assault on their body.
So in turn i dont think they enjoy sex afterwards.

But he isnt only the ex - he is a married ex.

But is he looking for her friendship or relationship?

The stupid guy has seen that the marriage to his tribe person isnt as good as the relationship he had with ur pal.
He wants to have his cake and eat it - tell her to delete his number jare and tell him off when he calls her.

I really dont understand the question for real.
Jimiyke maybe u should reframe the question.

Dont ever make the mistake of being with someone u dont really feel that tang for.

What i have found out is that no matter how long u think its taking - it will always work out.
But the solution is to have someone that can know the intents of men and thats God, have him on ur side and it always works out.

Guys will never outrightly tell u that they are ready to settle down so what u need to do is have fun with the guy you like.

I tell u what, that happened to me too - even though at 28 i was thinkin i was getting old to not try and settle down. I met a guy, not that interesting and ma heart was so not with him - well we were introduced.

Like eight months later, i met a guy that i really liked. But it took like a few months down the line to meet him.

Girl, have fun with the guy that u like, dont think about settling down - just date first.